Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 9/24/2007

Question
QUESTION: Dear

I am 16 years young boy and doing my schooling. One lady of around 35 takes personal tuition for me at her home. Initially she used to hug me and kiss me when I perform well in my tests. Whenever I go for tuition she wears revealing dress and sometimes she touches my private parts.  Somehow started getting intimate and once she performed oral sex with me and first time I ejaculated on excitement. Later we also had sexual intercourse a couple of times. Initially my penis got swollen and I was worried. Later I started the act very much. She confided to me that she do not get sexual satisfaction from her husband who is having a pretty hectic business schedule. She wants me to continue this and she so loves caring and beautiful too. Every day she wants at least oral sex with me or wants me to lick her breasts. I understand that I have lost my virginity. I also feel guilty sometimes though she makes me feel comfortable all the time. One good thing is that I could regain my wavering interest in my studies which I had earlier phases. Now I am steady and enjoy the times with her. Should I continue or not? I also do not want to take away the pleasure from her all the more since I also enjoy it now. What could be the larger implications of this kind of relationship? Please advise and help.

Sincerely yours

Paul

ANSWER: Hello
What you are doing is illegal and this woman is taking advantage of you. You are old enough to accept responsibility for this and to understand the consequences. I think you should not continue this. You are young and this woman is an adult and can find someone else easily. Date girls your own age and leave this whole thing alone.
Melissa

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QUESTION: But I think I am attached and carried away. Will Try to end but i find it difficult. I am depressed

ANSWER: Hello
i understand that you are attached but you should try to move on from this until you are older and have more experience with other women. I know it's difficult but this relationship is not something u should be involved in. Good luck and try to cheer up... it's really for the best.
Melissa

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QUESTION: Dear Melissa,

Thank you very much for all the valuable advises and support. I and am trying very much to end this.It will take a while to stop tution there. I have to tell my parents also as to why I am changing the tution. I will find another teacher for the same and then decide on this. In the meantime one of my school mate was very much interested to have my company since a year but I have never shown any liking towards her mainly because of the other relation I had all through. These days finding me in an off mood she has been with me to give company and we had ice cream together this weekend and it was fun to be with her. I told her that I am not liking my tution and she suggeted me to join her tution and I am seriously considering it. I really value yor suggestion of dating with girls of my age and it seems really working.

Once again thank you very much

Paul

Answer
Hello
I'm very glad if I was able to help in any way and I'm glad that you've been spending time with a girl you actually like! I think this is a step in the right direction cause I think it would be really beneficial if you just dated girls your own age and you'll probably end up meeting some great people and making new friends in the process! This girl also seems very nice by keeping you company when you are going through a bit of a difficult time! I think you are doing the right thing and you will realize that soon enough! Good luck and if you ever get the chance, update me in the future!
Melissa