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About Kate
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I can answer all questions relating to staying a virgin. Although I am now not one myself I was a late starter. I know how hard it is to resist temptations and peer pressure. I also know how hard it is to keep a relationship strong while still staying a virgin. I know that sometimes it feels like you’re the only person alive not having sex but you are not alone. I want to help you feel secure in your beliefs whatever they may be. Whether it be religion or your own morals.

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I am only 23 but from the age of 13 I have had extreme pressure on me to lose my virginity. I have been friends with very sexual people who have been involved in some strange, strange situations. I eventually lost my virginity when I was 19, to a man that I had been with for 2 years and am still with now. It was under my terms and was a great experience.

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can you lose your virginity this way?11/17/2009
  Q: Im 17 my girlfriend is 20 and I am still a virgin, and I want it to stay that way till im ...
  A: No you cannot lose your virginity this way, you will still be a virgin even if you give or receive ...
virgin or not virgin.9/16/2009
  Q: okay. I'm only 14 and i have a way older boyfriend who is 16 and he convinced me to try to have sex ...
  A: No, you are not a virgin. The loss of virginity happens when a penis enters your vagina. This ...
I've been so sheltered, I have lots of questions8/23/2009
  Q: I am a virgin (girl). I have never been fingered, masturbated, or used a tampon, nobody has ever ...
  A: Alot of people have the same fears as you. Vaginas vary drastically in their appearance, i am sure ...
virgin7/31/2009
  Q: im a boy and im 16 years old,im a virgin and I feel really bad because almost all of my friends ...
  A: I know that it seems like losing your virginity is very important right now but trust me when i say ...
letting go7/29/2009
  Q: I'm 16 years old. me and my boyfriend has been going out for about 5 months. although it seems like ...
  A: Firstly, you cannot ask someone why they love you. People don't know why they love someone else. ...
letting go7/29/2009
  Q: I'm 16 years old. me and my boyfriend has been going out for about 5 months. although it seems like ...
  A: Unfortunately, everybody has a past and some people have the kind of pasts that we have to deal with ...
masterbating7/24/2009
  Q: im a 13 goin on 14 year old and i am really close to my friends so we talk about masterbating ...
  A: Please do not be scared! You cannot lose your virginity during masturbation. Virginity is only ...
i dont know how far to go??!7/24/2009
  Q: I'm really confused about how far to go with my boyfriend..im 15 and have a loving boyfriend..we ...
  A: I am pleased to see your in a loving relationship and are thinking very seriously about these ...
hymen and water7/22/2009
  Q: once when i was a kid i was washing myself after going to the bathroom and water was too strong ...
  A: No, you cannot lose your virginity to water. Virginity is only lost when a penis enters your ...
don't know if i'm a virgin7/12/2009
  Q: I have had sex before but i don't know if I'm still a virgin though when i had sex, had this creamy ...
  A: No you are not a virgin. Not everyone bleeds on there first time. But you have had sex so no your ...
Non virgin want to stay abstinent till marriage7/2/2009
  Q: im not a virgin. I'm 24 years old male. A year before i lost my virginity, with my girlfriend. Our ...
  A: I'm afraid the only advice i can offer you is to take to your girlfriend. If she does not agree to ...
hi6/30/2009
  Q: ..me sunita.. i lose my virginity before 2 years.. now m facing a problm that my vagina get lose ...
  A: Having sex really does not change your vagina that much. The only thing it may have changed is that ...
Cybersex?6/2/2009
  Q: Well I am 13 and a girl and I haven't had intercourse or oral or anal sex or any physical sex at all ...
  A: -) You have given out a bit too much personal information but luckily not enough info for him to ...
Cybersex?6/2/2009
  Q: Well I am 13 and a girl and I haven't had intercourse or oral or anal sex or any physical sex at all ...
  A: He may seem nice but what he is doing is very wrong. You do not need to tell him anything. Just ...
Cybersex?5/30/2009
  Q: Well I am 13 and a girl and I haven't had intercourse or oral or anal sex or any physical sex at all ...
  A: No you most certainly did not lose your virginity by having cyber sex. This act is a virtual one. ...
Lonely and Confused5/18/2009
  Q: Ok..where to start!? (im 15 btw) I completely fell in love with this guy, and we were a bit ...
  A: I am pleased to hear that you like to protect yourself. That is not weird at all. It is a very ...
virginity5/14/2009
  Q: im not sure if i am still a virgin.last week my boy friend wanted to have sex but i didnt want to ...
  A: Although you are technically still a virgin you have lost your anal virginity. I am amazed that ...
virgin5/14/2009
  Q: Q.1 hello , i just want to know if a girl can get pregnant by touching my dick on her pussy not ...
  A: In answer to your questions..... 1) The chances of a girl getting pregnant by touching her vagina ...
Virgin5/10/2009
  Q: my name is Bridgette and I am fifteen years old. I'm still a virgin but most of my other friends ...
  A: I used to have exactly the same problem. I was the only one of my friends to be a virgin and at ...
no period but sex5/6/2009
  Q: okay. i have NOT started my period at all but if i chose to have sex, would i bleed during?
  A: The bleeding that sometimes occurs during your first sexual experience is nothing to do with your ...
staying a virgin4/22/2009
  Q: iam a female 24yrs and i newly use to masturbate,but i donot want to loose my virginity,i use to rub ...
  A: Virginity is not something that you can take yourself. It is not a physical change. The basic ...
all about sex4/18/2009
  Q: she said i didnt hav ney boyfrnd before me.but when we do sex first time she didnt hav ney blood ...
  A: Women do not always bleed when they have sex for the first time. Sometimes it may not even hurt. ...
What do girls think about virgin4/17/2009
  Q: My Question I am a boy 21 years old, Christian.. I want to know what a girl thinks about a boy who ...
  A: Girls have different views on virgins. Some really like the idea as no one likes competition! ...
Please help!!!4/16/2009
  Q: I'm a 18 year old virgin and i plan to stay so until i get married. 2 days ago, my boyfriend rubbed ...
  A: To be perfectly honest i am not sure that i can be of much help. firstly, I am surprised you felt ...
substitute for sex4/13/2009
  Q: I'm 15, and I broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago because he kept trying to do things ...
  A: I am very glad to hear that you are so certain on what you want and what you don't want. You would ...
NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE4/2/2009
  Q: I have been a Christian all my life and my parents are also my 2 brothers and my sister were also ...
  A: Ok... by the sounds of it, you don't want to have sex before marriage but you are feeling the ...
virgin4/1/2009
  Q: my boyfriend keeps on wanting to have sex with me and well i do want to but all my friends r still a ...
  A: For the first time it will feel a bit strange as you haven't experienced that feeling before. It ...
virgin3/30/2009
  Q: my boyfriend keeps on wanting to have sex with me and well i do want to but all my friends r still a ...
  A: The simple answer to this is, don't worry. No one knows how to have sex for the first time and more ...
love3/30/2009
  Q:
  A: Alot of people have this same problem. The problem is not with you but with the men you chose. ...
how to have sex3/27/2009
  Q: My boyfriend keeps on trying to have sex with me but i usually say im busy or i have something else ...
  A: Well the first thing i have to ask is do you want to have sex with your boyfriend? Because if not, ...
Staying a virgin3/22/2009
  Q: Ive beeen with this lad called mikey, he is rather amaziing, my friend zoey doesnt like him tho i ...
  A: I have to say, (and i apologize for sounding like your mother) 13 is an extremely young age to be ...
confused...3/20/2009
  Q: I am 16, i have been with my bf for about 6 months and he wants to have sex. I really do like him, ...
  A: As you have sent me this question it is quite obvious that you are not ready to have sex. If you ...
Faith/Sex/Relationships - it's all a big mess3/18/2009
  Q: For a couple of months now I've been going off the rails spiritually. I was in favour of the ...
  A: Although this message is very far out of my experience (as i am not a Christian myself) i just ...

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