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About Joel Kimball
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Expertise
I'm good at listening, even better at giving advice.

Virginity does matter! And no sex before marriage is possible, regardless of what your friends, family, or (worst of all) society tell you. It's a choice, like any thing else in life. Not an easy one, so that's why I'm here to help.

I'm happy to answer your questions:
- WHY you should stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW you can stay a virgin until marriage
- HOW to deal with boy or girl friends pushing you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with friends who push you to engage in sex
- HOW to deal with a family who won't support you in your choice of abstinence

Experience
If you want to know about some thing, ask an expert, right? If you're climbing a steep and dangerous mountain, who would you ask for advice about where to go? Another climber that's no further up than you, and is struggling? Or the fella who's been all the way to the top, and lived to tell about it?

The latter is me.

As to sex before marriage, "Been there, HAVEN'T done that".

In short, I made it to marriage with out having sex, in spite of many temptations, so any one can - including you.

Organizations
Eagle Scout - Boy Scouts of America
Fire Fighter - Whitman County Fire District 1 - Washington State

Education/Credentials
I have several years experience owning and managing two businesses, an Internet Access Provider (www.PalouseNet.com) and a Commercial Art Studio (www.KimballMedia.com). Every day I'm forced to make difficult decisions that will affect my life for years to come - just like the decision to not have sex before marriage will affect you.

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In Category  Staying a Virgin

SubjectDate Asked

Should I...?11/22/2009
  Q: OK, I know this is going to sound bad... I'm a thirteen year old girl, my boyfriend is fourteen. We ...
  A: Yeah, you're right, it sounds bad. You're headed for the cliff, and once you go over, there's no ...
nvr had sex11/22/2009
  Q: I noticed this morning that I was spoting and the problem is that its 2 week after my period. I ...
  A: Man, congratulations on holding on to your virginity! You are a rock! And my hero. It's not ...
19 year female VIRGIN!11/18/2009
  Q: I'm a lonely 19 year female virgin. I feel I need to lose it fast, because resently I feel incedible ...
  A: Congratulations on making it to 19 with your v card intact! Being obsessed with sex is perfectly ...
virgin11/17/2009
  Q: When some one doesn't want others to know they are a virgin, are they ashamed?
  A: You question is missing some thing, doesn't quite make sense. Did you mean "Why are they ashamed"? ...
i need help11/12/2009
  Q: I'm 16 and my boyfriend is always bugging me about having sex and i just don't want to do can U plz ...
  A: You are soooo good for not putting it out for him. That says a HUGE amount about your self respect. ...
What do I do now?11/11/2009
  Q: I've met the first guy I've ever felt anything for. I'm 19 and he's 21. I was a virgin until last ...
  A: You posted in the wrong place, I'm here to help people hold on to their virginity until they get a ...
question11/9/2009
  Q: And she still keeps on doing it with her ex's but now she has a boyfriend and they do it all the ...
  A: Your cousin is evil, stay away from her. She cares nothing about any one but her self. That said, ...
Resisting Temptation11/5/2009
  Q: My name is Katie and I am 17 years old and a virgin. I have a boyfriend and we really care about ...
  A: Well, you certainly sound more mature than the average 17 year old. And I have the deepest respect ...
Marriage vs. Sex at 1911/5/2009
  Q: Hey, I'm a nineteen year old girl and I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year. I've ...
  A: Hey Stephanie, Congratulations on keeping your virginity until 19! You are one incredible woman. ...
Kids?11/3/2009
  Q: Well what if I marry someone who doesn't want to have kids either? ANSWER: That's fine, but is this ...
  A: I don't know any married couples who don't have sex, but plenty who don't have kids, because they ...
Resisting Temptation11/3/2009
  Q: My name is Katie and I am 17 years old and a virgin. I have a boyfriend and we really care about ...
  A: Congratulations on keeping your virginity. It isn't about being Catholic, it's just the right thing ...
Question11/3/2009
  Q: Have women any kind of desire for sex...? If yes then is it more than in males....?? In which age a ...
  A: This is out side of my expertise, which is to help people stay virgins until marriage. How ever, ...
I just need some advice10/25/2009
  Q: im a 17 year old girl nd i have a boyfriend, iv known him since yr 8 we've alwyas liked eachother ...
  A: i'm joel. don't have sex with this guy. way too much stuff going on. for starters, why do you think ...
Should i lose my virginity?10/25/2009
  Q: I'm dating this guy,and he is so wonderful.i've never met anyone like him.i think i maybe falling ...
  A: Your situation sounds wonderful. Yes, you should wait. You should always wait to have sex until ...
What to do?10/24/2009
  Q: I am merely 13 years old, but have been masturbating since age twelve. Lately, I have had ...
  A: Is it Wil or Randall? Either way, don't worry about it, buddy. Your feelings and urges are ...
what should i do????10/19/2009
  Q: Ok here is the deal, I was going out with this boy and he was not a virgin, but it was ok to me ...
  A: You're welcome, Shameka. I understand your feelings, but the truth is, you already have been ...
what should i do????10/18/2009
  Q: Ok here is the deal, I was going out with this boy and he was not a virgin, but it was ok to me ...
  A: I guess my question to you is, why do you want to have sex with your new boy friend, but not marry ...
Virgin?10/18/2009
  Q: My boyfriend put the head of his penis in the opening of my vagina. No other part of him went in. I ...
  A: You've got to be kidding. You know, I took a huge bite of a hamburger at McDonalds the other day, ...
desperate10/12/2009
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl. I have a very high sex drive compared to other girls. (I started ...
  A: Hey Amanda, Well, first thing you need to do is have a best friend that's a girl, not a guy. ...
desperate10/11/2009
  Q: I am a 15 year old girl. I have a very high sex drive compared to other girls. (I started ...
  A: You sure sound mature for 15! You're grammar and sentence structure correspond more closely to a ...
Remaining a virgin10/3/2009
  Q: I was raised in a christian home. My mother waited until marriage but my father we're not sure ...
  A: Hey Brett, Well that's fantastic, you sound like you have a lot going for you already. You're tall ...
Sex: What is its Meaning and Significance?9/30/2009
  Q: I guess I'm just lost right now and don't really know where else to turn to. I am a virgin, but I ...
  A: Well, you don't sound lost to me, quite the opposite, you're on the right path, actually, which is ...
Help9/28/2009
  Q: i am a 16 yr old girl, and i am christian. i remain a virgin but sometimes i really question myself ...
  A: Hey Ally, Congratulations on still holding on to your virginity until 16! These days, that's a real ...
Do I have to say I lost my virginity?9/27/2009
  Q: I am 18 and a freshman in college. I constantly get looks of surprise when I tell boys that I am a ...
  A: Well, Brittany, this is a tough one. What makes it so sad is you made it all the way to college ...
Virgin or not?9/25/2009
  Q: I am facing what I consider a serious problem. When I was younger and didn't know much [read: ...
  A: Congratulations on your up coming marriage. I wish you all the happiness in the world, and many ...
Incest9/21/2009
  Q: my brother forced me to have incest when we was younger, he was 13 and i was 10, he was definitely a ...
  A: Oh James, I am so very sorry to hear about what happened with your brother. Stuff like that can ...
need advice9/9/2009
  Q: So here's the deal: I'm 19 years old, a virgin, and strictly planning on staying so until marriage. ...
  A: Hey Nini! Very, very impressive, 19 and still a virgin? Absolutely incredible. You are doing the ...
About virginity9/5/2009
  Q: How i know this vagina is fucked by someone ? Because my girlfriend can't bleed when i fucked her ...
  A: You'll need to stop using the words "fuck" and "fucked" when you speak to me, or I will no longer ...
staying a virgin and being HIV negative9/3/2009
  Q: am a 23 year old guy. I have never had sex. I however have a girlfriend and its only getting harder. ...
  A: OK Antony, glad to be of service to you, my friend. Sadly, the world can be pretty harsh. I wish I ...
am still a virgin and i don't wanna lose it9/3/2009
  Q: well,, i am a 19 years old virgin,, but i'v tried all sorts of sex activities with my boyfriend,, he ...
  A: Well Susan, I don't get it, you're only a technical virgin by the barest of margins now, one tiny ...
staying a virgin and being HIV negative9/2/2009
  Q: am a 23 year old guy. I have never had sex. I however have a girlfriend and its only getting harder. ...
  A: Congratulations on making it to 23 and never having sex, you are my hero! I know exactly how you ...
helpp8/31/2009
  Q: Hey Joel it's sarah. Well yeah he actually just turned 17 and i myself am 17 turning 18. Im not ...
  A: Forget about age when it comes to marriage. It's all about maturity. Who decides what age is "too ...
help8/29/2009
  Q: hey melissa i got a quick question. Can you loose your virginity if you were to get fingered? ...
  A: Hey Sarah, I am only too happy to help. I'm here for you. We'll figure this thing out together, ...
its tough8/28/2009
  Q: I am 19 years old and I have decided to save myself for marriage. It is kind of because of my ...
  A: Well, after I picked myself up off the floor from the shock... 19 and still a virgin? Never been ...
Is she virgin ?8/25/2009
  Q: I'm 24 yrs male from India. I'm very week in english. So i know i'll make many mistakes in ...
  A: Don't worry, your English is good, I understand you perfectly. But your question is in the wrong ...
About virginity8/25/2009
  Q: How i know this vagina is fucked by someone ? Because my girlfriend can't bleed when i fucked her ...
  A: I hope I can help you. Your English is good, but man to man, just wanted to let you know that "fuck" ...
Staying a virgin8/24/2009
  Q: He is the nicest guy I've met I was his first serious relationship and his first kiss. So it was ...
  A: So how old is this guy? His age will make a HUGE difference as to what happens to you two. Is he ...
still a virgin or not?8/23/2009
  Q: Is she(now 22years old) still a virgin or not? Been raped at the age of five.
  A: So sorry to hear about your friend being raped, and at such a tender age. What an ugly world this ...
virginity8/23/2009
  Q: is it necessary for every virgin to bleed after having sex for the first time?
  A: No, not every virgin bleeds after her first time. It depends largely upon her age. If she's younger ...
how to have sex for virgin guy8/21/2009
  Q: is it good to have sex medicine? if yes than what type of medicine? waiting for answer thanks manoj
  A: Congratulations on hanging in there until marriage. Good choice. Forget the worries, you have ...
Touching my boyfriend8/21/2009
  Q: I'm 15. My boyfriend is coming over tomorrow and i want to touch his penis through his pant but I ...
  A: Hard being 15 and having all those sexual urges and feelings, huh? Just here to tell you it's ...
help me8/21/2009
  Q: helo sir! im haseeb and im 16 years old teenager.sir i hav a lit bit problem with me.actualy sir ...
  A: Your English is very good! Don't worry, I understand you very well. I cannot call you, but if you ...
help8/11/2009
  Q: hey melissa i got a quick question. Can you loose your virginity if you were to get fingered? ...
  A: Yes, you lose your virginity if you get "fingered". The whole point of virginity is that you've ...
she says she is ready8/11/2009
  Q: My girlfriend and i have never met, though spoken on webcam before. I asked her once if that when we ...
  A: The majority of girls don't want to give up their virginity at 14. When usually depends on the ...
virginity of a girl8/7/2009
  Q: Iam a boy,I have a g.f n I asked her whether u r virgin or not? she replied me no.but i dnt believe ...
  A: My friend, this is a question pondered for centuries by millions of men. Sadly, there is no way to ...
want women wants8/4/2009
  Q: i hv a girlfriend . but she is not intrested in me. when me told her her plz leave me if you dont ...
  A: Remember to let her know that your feelings in no way change the relationship between you two. If ...
want women wants8/3/2009
  Q: i hv a girlfriend . but she is not intrested in me. when me told her her plz leave me if you dont ...
  A: You should tell her about your true feelings, but let her know that doesn't change any thing between ...
want women wants8/1/2009
  Q: i hv a girlfriend . but she is not intrested in me. when me told her her plz leave me if you dont ...
  A: It appears you are blessed with a friend who is honest, and doesn't want to use you or hurt your ...

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