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| help. | 11/6/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I wrote to another allexpert person about two weeks ago about my problem, hopefully I can get a ...
A: I am sorry Lisa. This sounds like so much to be dealing with. I too am confused as to what he may ...
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| Keeping my girlfriend interested | 11/5/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Me and my girlfreind have been off and on for 7 months, three times she has left me and all three ...
A: So, it sounds to me like you want to know how to be a bit stronger because you don't want her ...
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| Is he that wrong for me? | 11/5/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: This is going to sound so dumb so please bear with me. I am recently divorced after being separated ...
A: Charlene, I appreciate your reaching out during this confusing time. Clearly though, when it comes ...
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| Found out husband cheated while engaged | 11/4/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I'm feeling a little lost. Two weeks AFTER my wedding I found out that my husband cheated on me ...
A: Wow S, I can only imagine what learning that information was like for you, especially since he ...
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| how do i get us back on track? | 11/3/2009 | Olga Sheean |
Q: I've been with the same guy 5 years now. In the beginning everything was great, but after the big ...
A: Why are you with this guy? You tell me you don't desire him sexually; he has cheated on you, so it's ...
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| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: "we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ...
A: I'm sorry. I think he sounds like a player and a creep. He was all over you and the more you ...
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| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ...
A: Kate, I guess the good news here is that he is being upfront with his feelings/hopes. It sounds ...
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| keeping it alive | 11/1/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ...
A: Byron, That could be it. If that's the case, you need to stop worrying about reaching your parents' ...
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| Dating a friend | 10/30/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I met this man three months ago named John. He is a really nice guy, good to me and my grandson. ...
A: Well Kristin, the neat thing here is that everyone has been open with their wants and needs. The ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/30/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ...
A: Byron, What I wonder, though, is why. Can you pinpoint a reason for this fear? It's not always, but ...
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| moving past a bad 7 years | 10/29/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: Me and my husband have been married for 7 years. We married young (21) and we didn't really have a ...
A: I am glad you are reaching out. It sounds like you have been holding down the fort and doing what ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/29/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Byron, You don't expect this relationship to last.. and it is. So, subconsciously (or consciously) ...
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| Getting Over Anger; Trusting Again | 10/28/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: My wife and I have been struggling tremendously for over 2 years, and are at a critical point in our ...
A: I'm sorry I didn't answer this immediately, but I've been thinking and praying about it. This isn't ...
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| Please help | 10/27/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: My girlfriend recently wanted a break from our relationship. It lasted 8 months and now we've been ...
A: This could be part of the problem. I never recommend pre-marital sex. It always lacks a commitment ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/27/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Byron, So, first, now you understand why you might have had those feelings of your relationship ...
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| He just doesn't seem like he wants to see me. | 10/26/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Okay, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17. I love him dearly and he just doesn't seem the same. He tells ...
A: This is the most common question I get. It's normal to feel that the relationship has changed, that ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/26/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Why have you two broken up? And, why have you returned? What are these black thoughts you are ...
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| what to do now | 10/26/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been in an exclusive relationship with this woman from day two of meeting her, we were ...
A: Two things come to mind. Here's the first. Could it be that she feels as though you just want her ...
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| Getting past relationship mistakes | 10/25/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: My boy friend and I have been together for about 3 years now. The first 2 and a half of it were long ...
A: First I would suggest you two learn a bit more about what "love" means to the other. If you haven't ...
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| confused | 10/25/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ...
A: Farrah, If you can be sure that it was him, without a doubt, then not only has he been deceptive ...
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| Relationship advice | 10/25/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: recently after 6 months of being in a relationship my boyfriend and I have been having real bad ...
A: First, you should know that between 6 and 18 months into a relationship, there is a drop in ...
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| Please help | 10/24/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: My girlfriend recently wanted a break from our relationship. It lasted 8 months and now we've been ...
A: The fact that your girl friend wanted a break for a lengthy period of time would understandably ...
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| My relationship is in serious trouble!http://www.couplescommittedtolove.com/ | 10/24/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we've been through a lot but now I find ...
A: There are a few issues at play here. First, you two are going through the slump all couples ...
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| confused | 10/24/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ...
A: I think that he's not ready for the serious stuff you two have talked about. He still longs for his ...
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| How do i take the step forward in my relationship? | 10/22/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: i was looking for a place where i could share my problems and get expert advice and found this great ...
A: I'm not so sure you relationship is ready for "the next step". i think it first needs to be ...
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| Insecure relationship | 10/20/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been dating this guy for a little longer than two years. I always ask him to plan stuff for ...
A: He's getting a rush going out with his friends, but he's not feeling the same way about spending ...
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| New BF too busy for me | 10/20/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Good Day - I starting dating a really great guy single father of 3 young kids....since June'09. We ...
A: He seems like a respectful man who really cares for others. He's had a lot of obstacles thrown in ...
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| Again... | 10/20/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ...
A: Ryan, Do I know what she's thinking? of course not, but from the many correspondences we've had ...
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| Don't even know what to write here | 10/19/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Here is my speel, I've dated this guy for the past six years (i'm 22 he's 24) he has been my only ...
A: To say the least, your boyfriend is homo-curious. He may be gay, but unwilling to accept it, or ...
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| Again... | 10/19/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ...
A: Ryan, Getting over a love is a very tough thing. It's painful. Some can move on faster than others. ...
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| A need for help | 10/19/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have gone out for two years, we broke up twice and got back together. We have a ...
A: Since you asked directly, I will answer, directly. It really sounds more like an obsession than a ...
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| How can I get back the man I feel in love with? | 10/18/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: For the past few months my boyfriend and I have been through some hard times. He's had the worse of ...
A: You can't fix it all. These are some big problems that do occupy a persons thoughts. He will just ...
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| how to win/get her back?? | 10/16/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: my ex and I were in a relationship for five months - now we are back to the word 'friend'. We used ...
A: If you truly are a new person, she will see that. An emotionally greedy, demanding, needy man is ...
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| Lost as to what to do? | 10/16/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I'm 20 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. A year ago my ...
A: For many guys (and women for that matter), it takes time to really be ready to fully commit. Since ...
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| always fighting | 10/13/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: my boyfriend and i love eachother very much, though as much as we do we never seem to go on without ...
A: How long have you dated? Has he ever hurt you? Has anyone else? I ask because you say he scares you. ...
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| How can I make My relationship back the way it was? | 10/12/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. When we first got together, ...
A: Yes, do not call and let him call you. Then suggest that you date as friends so that the pressure ...
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| Commitment Issues | 10/11/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been exclusively dating for 9 months now. We are both 30, never been married ...
A: You are smart, smart, smart for not moving in with him. Do not do it. You are right, it is like ...
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| How to take him back in my life. | 10/10/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Im 23 and my boyfriend is 29, we have been dating for 2 years and a half now. Our relation is a ...
A: The question you ask yourself is he willing and anxious to get counseling to work out his issues? ...
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| How to take him back in my life. | 10/10/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Im 23 and my boyfriend is 29, we have been dating for 2 years and a half now. Our relation is a ...
A: This is not a good relationship for you because this man is not stable. He is also willing to play ...
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| The Grass is Always Greener | 10/9/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 19 and my boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. We have had several fights ...
A: At your age it is very common for couples to grow apart. There is usually a difference in the level ...
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