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| Boyfriend lost his job and may be moving | 11/20/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: My boyfriend is 45 and just lost his job of 24 years. I'm a 40 year old single mom of two teens. ...
A: Well, our relationship must have not been very important to you and I would be screaming, too. The ...
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| how to get spark back in my relationship | 11/20/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Leon, I am 18 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little bit over 2 years ...
A: There are two common issues that are taking place in your relationship, causing this difficulty. the ...
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| my boyfriend said he met someone else | 11/19/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: ok me and my boyfriend just broke up again for the 5 time we have dated for 8 months he called me ...
A: One thing that people get mixed up about is love. It is not love when a man doesn't treat you very ...
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| My Relationship is heading South | 11/19/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years come Dec. 23rd. We've always been good together, and ...
A: Well, if you look at when the difficulties began, it was just about a year and a half into your ...
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| Break Up | 11/18/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: So not really sure where to begin with this but will start with what I know, I had been dating my ...
A: It would be alright to write her but your need to express yourself can hold you back. I think it is ...
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| Drifting upart | 11/18/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ...
A: Jaydee, Just from your response, it appears that he may have issues with commitment. I mean, he's ...
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| She Wants to Take a Break... | 11/17/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: ... but still be friends. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year now, but suddenly she ...
A: I thought I answered this but here goes. I advised that you not get into any relationship for awhile ...
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| Break Up | 11/17/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: So not really sure where to begin with this but will start with what I know, I had been dating my ...
A: Moving in together before marriage often ruins a relationships. It becomes old hat and loses the ...
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| Trust Complications | 11/16/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Crandall, I am 22 years old. When I was 18 I met a man who lived far away and we became ...
A: What has happened to you in your life that you would want this kind of drama in your life forever? ...
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| I don't get Him sometimes! | 11/16/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Look I don't go out and I really don't ask to I rather be a good Mother/Step and the best wife I ...
A: It sounds like you have a few issues going on here: his daughters, your son and the whole "family" ...
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| dating limits | 11/16/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have had a boyfriend for 3 months and he is cool with me going out with my friends to dinner and ...
A: That clarifies. Has he been with you to any of those parties so that he can see that they are ...
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| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
A: So, why are you afraid of rejection? He's telling you he misses you and thinks of you all the time ...
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| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
A: Listen to your family and really take a look at this. Does he just have a few quirks, or is their ...
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| does he still want me? | 11/16/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ...
A: Kath, My advice is to get out. I'm standing by that, but if you refuse to take my advice (you ...
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| dating limits | 11/15/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have had a boyfriend for 3 months and he is cool with me going out with my friends to dinner and ...
A: There are parties and then their are parties. There are parties where people socialize a bit with ...
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| Getting bored? | 11/15/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 11 months now, and this is by far the best ...
A: This is not uncommon with people in college. When someone heads off to college, they often feel as ...
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| How to keep it going.... | 11/14/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I am 28 yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. Lately, I don't were the relationship ...
A: So, it doesn't sound as if there is any profound difficulty in the relationship: cheating, annoyed ...
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| Hey goes out alot! (Alone) | 11/14/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: Hell my name is Bianca, I have a 30yr old boyfriend and we live together I've known him since i was ...
A: I have considered and reconsidered your post to me. To be perfectly honest, I haven't been sure ...
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| My boyfriend and father of my child says he is not the marrying type. | 11/14/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I got pregnant shortly after I met my boyfriend. He said that he did not want to get married right ...
A: Nichole, this sounds disheartening. It sounds like you have been holding out hope that he would ...
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| Hopeful | 11/14/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I'm 26 yrs old, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years now and of course the first years were ...
A: The question is, are your feelings justified and you are trying to ignore them, or are you just ...
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| Help! | 11/13/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: Let me start off by saying that my boyfriend and I love each other very much and we have been ...
A: I like hearing your commitment and interest in making things better. I would ask him how he feels ...
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| Drifting upart | 11/13/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ...
A: Well, I wouldn't just drop this thing. You need to have answers to your questions, have the loose ...
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| broken engagement and separation | 11/13/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: until a few months ago, I was in a 6 year relationship with a girlfriend I met in college. We had a ...
A: The problem is that you are right in that two people in a committed relationship should be able to ...
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| does he still want me? | 11/12/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ...
A: Move out! That's your first step. All of this stuff about money and lack of sex are problems, but ...
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| broken engagement and separation | 11/12/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: until a few months ago, I was in a 6 year relationship with a girlfriend I met in college. We had a ...
A: The down side of having committed relationships when so young is that almost always one partner ...
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| Break Up? | 11/11/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for only 8 months now. I feel very confused because there are so many ...
A: Unfortunately, many, many people do not understand what a healthy, mutually giving, and loving ...
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| is he losing interest or am I losing my mind? | 11/10/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I'm a 21 year old girl. I recently moved in with my boyfriend, whom I've been with a little over a ...
A: It's funny. Before I got to the end of your message, I started thinking that maybe this guy is ...
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| He avoids | 11/9/2009 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 39 and as others say beautiful, and have had many problems in my life. My family and me stayed ...
A: If we could only read someone's mind, yes? If you were from out of town he probably knew it ...
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| help me!!! | 11/9/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: i was over my boyfriend house one afternoon and a female came over looking for him and he jumps up ...
A: I never think someone is stupid for loving or forgiving. Naive, perhaps, but not stupid. I am ...
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| My boyfriend wants his alone time | 11/9/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: My boyfriend wants his alone time and i dont know what to do we have only been dating for 2 weeks ...
A: Ok Erica. I will say that his believing that things are moving too fast is certainly a concern but ...
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| help. | 11/6/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I wrote to another allexpert person about two weeks ago about my problem, hopefully I can get a ...
A: I am sorry Lisa. This sounds like so much to be dealing with. I too am confused as to what he may ...
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| Keeping my girlfriend interested | 11/5/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Me and my girlfreind have been off and on for 7 months, three times she has left me and all three ...
A: So, it sounds to me like you want to know how to be a bit stronger because you don't want her ...
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| Is he that wrong for me? | 11/5/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: This is going to sound so dumb so please bear with me. I am recently divorced after being separated ...
A: Charlene, I appreciate your reaching out during this confusing time. Clearly though, when it comes ...
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| boyfriend | 11/4/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: Been with my BF for 6yrs. We’ve drifted apart and got back together thousands of time. We are two ...
A: It really sounds, from your post, that the two of you don't really share a life direction. You ...
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| Found out husband cheated while engaged | 11/4/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I'm feeling a little lost. Two weeks AFTER my wedding I found out that my husband cheated on me ...
A: Wow S, I can only imagine what learning that information was like for you, especially since he ...
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| how do i get us back on track? | 11/3/2009 | Olga Sheean |
Q: I've been with the same guy 5 years now. In the beginning everything was great, but after the big ...
A: Why are you with this guy? You tell me you don't desire him sexually; he has cheated on you, so it's ...
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| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 | Kindred Beisinger penname K D Elizabeth Beisinger |
Q: "we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ...
A: I'm sorry. I think he sounds like a player and a creep. He was all over you and the more you ...
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| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ...
A: Kate, I guess the good news here is that he is being upfront with his feelings/hopes. It sounds ...
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| keeping it alive | 11/1/2009 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ...
A: Byron, That could be it. If that's the case, you need to stop worrying about reaching your parents' ...
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| Dating a friend | 10/30/2009 | Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT |
Q: I met this man three months ago named John. He is a really nice guy, good to me and my grandson. ...
A: Well Kristin, the neat thing here is that everyone has been open with their wants and needs. The ...
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