| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| I don't know what to do with my relationship | 11/17/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am in a situation that I don't know what to do, my 9 months boyfriend always gave me mixed ...
A: People are very different from each other, according to their personality traits. It could be that ...
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| My ex and what he wants? | 11/16/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I'm not sure whether you will remember me or not. I sent you a fair few emails/questions July time ...
A: Alice, It seems apparent to me that he still cares for you, but care for you or not, if he's in a ...
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| Can time apart work? | 11/15/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: My girlfriend recently told me that she is feeling very confused and that we should take a break. ...
A: Women and men have different needs. I would read Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars to help ...
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| keeping it together | 11/15/2008 | Olga Sheean |
Q: My girlfriend tells me that I always defend myself in a disagreement. She tells me that I should ...
A: The issue here is acceptance. When we fail to receive the acceptance (i.e. love) that we need as ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/14/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: Diana, Great, thank you for the information. I think it just confirms what I said initially. I ...
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| marriage | 11/14/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: I have been married for 25 years, 4 children... My husband and I have been separated for 2 years. I ...
A: I'm not sure I understand the time frame, here. Did you tell him about the affair years ago or just ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/13/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: I won't necessarily tell you to let him go. But, I would like to know a few things. Have either of ...
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| I really need help! I get a mad at my girlfriend for things I don't think I should. | 11/12/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: first of all I would just like to say thank you for reading this. My girlfriend and I have been ...
A: A couple of things. I do not think it wise to date someone so exclusively until you are ready to be ...
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| how to be happy & love the man that is breaking my heart? | 11/11/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have been in a six year relationship with my boyfriend, & we have a 4 yr old son. This past spring ...
A: First of all, I do not know why you feel guilty about hitting and yelling at him. I think he is ...
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| Keeping my relationship from failing | 11/11/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am madly in love with my partner. He is great but he says he needs his own space his own time... ...
A: What you have is what you get. I get a lot of letters where one person is very committed and the ...
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| she seems to be getting more and more distant | 11/11/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: ok well me and my girlfriend have benn going out for 6 months and were doing really good but lately ...
A: I will do my best. Be creative with your dates. Be sure and call her ahead of time and do things ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, Just goes right along with what I've been telling you. His interest level doesn't match ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, The reason I think you need to wait, is because you have this fixation with a man, who ...
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| reuniting | 11/10/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I wonder whether you can give me some insight here. The mother of my 6yo child and I have been ...
A: This question is very important because a little boy is at stake here, as well as two other lives. ...
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| Marital Concerns | 11/9/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: We have been married for the past 17 years and have two children, aged 13 and 7. I am 47 years old ...
A: I recommend you read Dr. Laura's book, Bad childhood good life. This will help you to forget the ...
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| Relationship spark | 11/8/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: I am so lost right now that I do not know where to start. I have been with my girlfriend for the ...
A: I don't usually divulge my personal information, but I know exactly what you are talking about. If ...
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| How can I improve my relationship? | 11/7/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I'm 24. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. He was a friend of my family ...
A: Theresa, You made a huge mistake to have sex with someone without being sure he would make a good ...
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| dont know what to do?iv found out im pregnant. | 11/6/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: im 30,i have a 10 year old daughter,from previous relationship.i have a new partner of two years,iv ...
A: Perhaps this is your partner's opportunity to make a decision he doesn't have to feel guilty about. ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: Joann, If you feel comfortable texting, then try it down the road. If not, give him a call. But, ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: I never asked, but how old are you? I don't know if you told me how old he was. I know he's "older". ...
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| trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: my names eric and the love of my life is megan i need some help me and her are perfect together but ...
A: Trust is a crazy thing. It can take a second to lose, but so much time to get back. You've lost her ...
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| no trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: ok so my name is eric the girl i love is megan so it stated by one night i drink a little to much ...
A: Drinking one drink is still drinking so she has a right to not trust what you say. It is important ...
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| how to let it go? | 11/4/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: All our experiences are for us to learn things. I think it is important for you to speak to him ...
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| how to let it go | 11/4/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: You shouldn't feel guilty about ending this relationship. These three months you've shared were ...
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| how to let it go | 11/4/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: I think the term dating has been changed since I was dating. Keeping in touch by phone really isn't ...
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| Getting that 'spark' back | 11/4/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: and thank you in advance for your advice. My wife and I have been together for over three years now ...
A: It sounds like you two should definitely look into couple's counseling. This doesn't sound like ...
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| Phone Sex Becoming Too Frequent? | 11/4/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been very close over the last year and ...
A: Phone sex, like any other kind of sex, can become routine and tiresome. And, just like physical ...
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| Can I be a stepmom to this child? | 11/3/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: I am 25 years old and have never been married or have children. I am engaged to a wonderful 37 year ...
A: I can't answer this question for you or make your decision, but I can share a few thoughts that may ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't even push it. He knows you are interested. If he is interested, too, he will call ...
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| Lack of confidence | 11/3/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Crandall, Hi there! I REALLY hope you can help me…. I am a 29 year old female that has a serious ...
A: First of all, read Bad Childhood, Good Life by Dr. Laura. Even if your childhood was ok this book ...
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| Support my boyfriend, or take care of myself? | 11/3/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I met my boyfriend about two years ago. I thought he was funny, smart. He is known for his loyalty ...
A: Boy, have you taken on all the emotional responsibility in this relationship! You have felt his ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds like his response is telling you that he really is unsure of what he wants ...
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| day-to-day communication | 11/2/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 17 and a junior in high school. My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately 20 ...
A: Without actually talking to you both I can only use what info I have, of course. My assessment is ...
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| Reply to your previous questions | 11/2/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: You asked how the issue of him not wanting to have sex with me came up- We hadn't had sex in a while ...
A: So, if it's just a low libido, you may want to add some spice to your intimacy. A great book is ...
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| dating | 11/2/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: I think we've discussed this before just a week or two ago. Yes, there is a chance that he will call ...
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| day-to-day communication | 11/2/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 17 and a junior in high school. My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately 20 ...
A: The purpose of dating is to see if you are compatible, not to establish a permanent lifetime ...
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| does she still love me | 11/1/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: My girlfriend and I were introduced through a friend of mine. She was living with my friend and ...
A: I don't have a good feeling about this. I don't know anything about this woman except what you have ...
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| my ungrateful boyfriend | 11/1/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: oh my god...i have never felt for a guy so quickly . we started out as being each other comforter ...
A: I'm not sure this is the answer that you want, but I'm sure it's the right answer. I'll give you ...
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| am i parranoid | 11/1/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: i get really nervouse when any lass talks to my lad and i get angry when i see messages on his phone ...
A: Let me ask you some questions first. Has he ever cheated on you or a former girlfriend (that you ...
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| Trust Issues | 10/31/2008 | Todd |
Q: My boyfriend is, in my mind, sexy as a man can be, great in bed, and I do not have any desire to ...
A: It tells me that you want to work past this... It's been my experience that you need to be really ...
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