| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Inattentiveness/ADD -- processing problems? | 10/10/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Our 9yr son (4th gr) struggles with what appears to be inattentive ADD. Following is a quick ...
A: The problem with the professionals is that they promote the false idea that all children should be ...
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| Giving an ex a second chance after a really bad mistake | 10/8/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 29 I was in a relationship with this amazing girl (27) for 2 and half years, we have been ...
A: The problem with this girl is she doesn't know her own mind and is too swayed by others opinions. ...
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| Confussed | 10/8/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have been dating my bf for ten months now and things seem to be slipping a bit. I understand that ...
A: Your boyfriend might be worried about "losing it" with your children and if he can really handle ...
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| dating | 10/8/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: it's me again, I have another question about the same subject. I haven't spoke to my friend since ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't suggest calling him and asking him why he didn't call back. The reason: you don't ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds to me that the two of you may be looking at this relationship differently. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: It sounds to me that this is not an exclusive relationship yet. You hadn't dated in four months. ...
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| dealing with the past in a complicated relationship | 10/7/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I was with the father of my children for 7 years. Our relationship fell apart when I got a new job ...
A: Take him by the hand and tell him how much you love him and that you are sorry that there were so ...
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| Still together after breaking up | 10/7/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I'm 27, my bf is 28, we've been seriously together for 4 years. In my view, we fit perfectly ...
A: When you beg, whine, pin them down, talk, talk, talk, you have already lost your power. You put ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Talk to him. Ask him what gives? Are you two just dating? Are you exclusive? What happens when you ...
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| Distrust | 10/6/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: Your guy has a severe sexual and mental problem and I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole. I ...
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| distrust | 10/6/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: The simple answer is to get away from him. That's it. You two need time apart. You've been together ...
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| Not Happy with my relationship anymore | 10/6/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have been with this great guy for 2 in a half years and we both say we love each other and i know ...
A: You ask how you can make him see that this relationship is really important to you and believe me, ...
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| BREAK | 10/6/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. Until about four months ago ...
A: It's incredibly common for couples to find themselves in a relationship rut between 6 and 18 months ...
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| HELP !! | 10/5/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Does she appear to be sexually aroused when she is pleasing you? Did she enjoy sexual ...
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| reply to "staying together email" | 10/5/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I just had a quick question in regards to your reply to my relationship concerns. I would really ...
A: What I was trying to say is that it is important to have clear understandings of what you want in a ...
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| my brother | 10/5/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: My problem is my brother and his wife.They have been married for 6 years now and they have a 5 year ...
A: The best thing for him to do is stay focused and strong for his daughter. He needs to keep his eye ...
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| Boyfriend's job loss | 10/3/2008 | Kindred Beisinger |
Q: We have been dating for a year. We live 100 miles away and he has a 14 year old son from a previous ...
A: Deborah, I can only tell you what I would do. I would not pay his bills. PERIOD. You're getting ...
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| HELP !! | 10/2/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Have you spoken about this yet? Does she give you any reason for why she feels this ...
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| Money and responsibility/finance | 9/30/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: My partner has recently decided not to drink alcohol for a year as he was drinking very heavily, ...
A: I would write to him and say something like: "When I tell you how scared I am about our future and ...
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| rethinking our relationship | 9/30/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Leon! My name is Elizabeth and I have a very loving boyfriend named Chris. We have been dating for a ...
A: It sounds like you are dating a great guy, but, at least right now, he doesn't sound like he may be ...
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| Distance | 9/29/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 23 years old, and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for almost 3 years now, and living ...
A: This happens a lot with couples that move in before marriage. There is no real commitment, even ...
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| Money and responsibility/finance | 9/28/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: My partner has recently decided not to drink alcohol for a year as he was drinking very heavily, ...
A: You called him partner in one sentence and husband in another so If you are not married don't marry ...
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| I don't know how to act in this relationship anymore | 9/28/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am in a relationship with a guy now for nearly 3 years now. He is my first major boyfriend. I ...
A: CJ, This relationship is not right and you are trying to force it to be ok. That is not possible. ...
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| She wants a break | 9/28/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: Im 22 years old, and my girlfriend is 21 My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months ...
A: Your girlfriend is obviously pulling away from you but for what reason, neither of us do not know ...
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| 2 Years. | 9/27/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: my girlfriend (Diana) and I will have been dating for 2 years on Oct. 2nd. I am 22, she is 20. We ...
A: What you two are going through is so common, yet not so commonly spoken of. Of all the questions I ...
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| Being the 3rd party | 9/26/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have to start by providing you with a background on my relationship with my boyfriend. I met him 5 ...
A: Oh my gosh, you are not serious about wanting him. He is a liar and a cheat. Lose him? You never ...
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| need some serious help | 9/25/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: Alexandra, How did you find out? Did she explain why this happened? Did it happen more than once? ...
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| unresolved issue | 9/25/2008 | Olga Sheean |
Q: I am 49 and have been dating a 53 year old man about 8 months. We get along great, enjoy alot of ...
A: I understand your frustration and the challenges you’re facing but my approach to resolving this ...
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| my gf isnt talking to me bout much | 9/24/2008 | Olga Sheean |
Q: i have a girlfriend and she and i are only 15years of age, we are so connected, but i feel she ...
A: Just be there for her, with no demands. Let her come to you if she wants to talk about something. ...
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| Letting my boyfriend help with kids and around the house | 9/23/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, I have 3 children (20, 17, & 7) he has 2 (12 & 10). We ...
A: For heavens sakes, let him help you. Most women complain their man won't lift a finger to help. ...
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| my relationship | 9/23/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I have had a rocky past and have know my girlfriend my whole life well just recently i got into a ...
A: Without much details I can only give you some general advice. You may need to show her that you mean ...
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| husband issue | 9/23/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I have some points to tell as well. See according to me , there can be no smoke without fire. What I ...
A: If you are stuck in the marriage and can't do anything about it then I am not sure what you can do, ...
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| my gf isnt talking to me bout much | 9/23/2008 | Olga Sheean |
Q: i have a girlfriend and she and i are only 15years of age, we are so connected, but i feel she ...
A: Talking about your feelings can be difficult for some people, especially if they haven’t been ...
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| husband issue | 9/22/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: I am 26 yr old gal married since past 9 months. Ours is an arranged marriage (as we being Indian). ...
A: Do every thing you can do to develop more self-confidence. Can you take classes so that you can ...
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| myboyfriend in irag gets mad at me easily | 9/22/2008 | Sharon Crandall |
Q: am 19 and my army boyfriend is 24 av been going out with him for 3 months and he was so ...
A: Three months is not long enough to know someone or to be in love. As to wanting toothpaste, etc. I ...
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| Long distance love | 9/21/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Leon I am planning on visiting my girlfriend in Ukraine next month. She is having a minor back ...
A: Long-distance relationships are tough. There's no two ways about it. So, if you can manage and ...
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| What Should i do? | 9/20/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: I even asked her why our relationship feels so much different. She said she thinks that we lost our ...
A: Well, what you are experiencing is very common. Most young people (and many who are older) are ...
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| need some serious help | 9/19/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: If I'm reading this right, this is not so much about her promiscuity early on or that she gets hit ...
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| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/16/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ...
A: It's obvious to me that he's still not quite over her. that doesn't necessarily mean that he wants ...
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| does she want me | 9/16/2008 | Leon Scott Baxter |
Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ...
A: CC, I'm glad to hear things sound like they are starting to work out better. Be patient and the ...
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