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Expert: Sharon Crandall Date: 6/11/2008 Subject: Im pushing her away
Question Hey, Ok so recently I've been spending alot of time with this girl and she knows i love her alot but she rejected me when i asked her out but promised it wouldn't ruin are friendship and were still best friends. Now even though she broke my heart she says that she loves me alot and i don't seem to believe her cause if she loved me then why did she hurt me but i understand cause she only rejected me because she loves someone more then me. Now shes saying cause of the stuff thats happened lately that I'm pushing her away and i don't want that but how do i get her back.
Answer Dear Melissa,
I don't know. You can't force love and so sometimes people just don't click. There is no way to avoid hurt when it comes to relationships and we just have to go on with our lives and keep looking until we find that person with whom we click. She probably loves you a lot in her way. Your only choice is to keep being friendly and nice to her and see what happens. There is not magic way to make another person like or love us.
Sharon Crandall
Life is 4 Living Coach/Consultant
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