AboutKindred Beisinger Expertise I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
Experience I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
Expert: Kindred Beisinger Date: 6/23/2008 Subject: my boyfriend changed
Question We have been together for about seven months, at first he was so attentive, polite, always helping and pleasing, now is like he barely calls, for some reason he says he wants time alone and he doesnt mean breaking up because i have tried that myself. He never has time for me anymore, and often when we make plans to go out or be together he cancels and claims that he is tired. I dont know what to do, i feel as if he is not interested in my anymore. What should i do to get back the boyfriend i had? I have asked several times if there is something wrong, he sometimes says that he doesnt know whats with him that he thinks he is going through a mid life crisis. There is also an age difference he is 32 and i am 23.
Answer Dear Kiki,
I think your boyfriend has changed his level of interest and 32 is too young for a midlife crisis. I don't know if you'll get back the guy you met or not. Usually people put their best foot forward and then get "comfortable" or worse than that, lose interest. I would suggest you quit asking him and simply do what's best for you.
Kind Regards,
Kindred
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