AboutKindred Beisinger Expertise I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
Experience I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
Expert: Kindred Beisinger Date: 6/22/2008 Subject: i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend
Question hi, im stuck about what to do, ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, lived with him for the majority of that time but i have started to have doubts between us within the past 6 months. i love him and sometimes it is really good but most times i feel like we're lacking something. im only young (18) and i feel im missing out on my youth. we never go out anymore, im always staying in playing the part of the perfect housewife. hes also cheated on me twice and ive never done it to him, but i have found myself recently tempted. hes changed allot over the past 6 months, he drinks alot, he's stopped me doing implied topless modelling and being a dancer in a club (not stripping, just dancing) because he is so possessive and jealous. i feel suffocated by all this and i dont know what to do. ive tried talking to him about his drinking and possessiveness but he either brushes it off or gets his own way (he stopped me dancing because he said he would kick me out) is all this worth it?
Answer Dear Rikki,
If you are just now 18 and you've been living with this guy for most of the past 3 years, you have missed a great deal of your youth. What about school? What about a future career? If he drinks and he's cheated, then chances are, that's what the future holds for the woman that chooses to be in his life. I think you should move on and get back to getting an education and find someone that will treat you right.
Kind Regards,
Kindred
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