AboutKindred Beisinger Expertise I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
Experience I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
Expert: Kindred Beisinger Date: 6/25/2008 Subject: she isn't meeting my needs
Question I have a girlfriend that I am fighting tooth and nail for to keep her and her family happy. However the downside is she uses her family as the reason why she can't do anything for me in our relationship. Recently she broke up with me because I wasn't supporting her enough. I did what I could to keep the relationship alive, we worked things out on my end, but she is still not working things out on hers... help. I can give more specific info if needed.
Answer Dear Frank,
Now, I am only reading your side of this, but from what you tell me, you have a very one-sided relationship. From what you have shared, she sounds very demanding. And even if that is only your perception, it is how it feels. Only you can decide if this is what you want. By your subject line, I would say it isn't. My advice is to tell her you have tried to meet her needs, but you need something more and this just isn't working this way. Why would she break up with you??? She's the one with the excuses, let her have them. I would say there are many women out there that would love to give back to a man that tries to keep a woman happy.
Frank, I think it's time to make your needs known and hold your ground. If she's not willing to meet you where your needs are there are other women who are.
Kind Regards,
Kindred
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