AboutKindred Beisinger Expertise I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
Experience I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
Expert: Kindred Beisinger Date: 6/20/2008 Subject: wanna work it out
Question my boyfriend and i had a fallout reason why because he found a letter that my ex boyfriend wrote me ... my ex boyfriend is in jail he was very abusive to me... anyway the day i got the letter i was on my way to pick my boyfriend up i haven't seen my boyfriend in 6months so needless to say i was very excited during the excitement i honestly forgot to tell him about the letter so when he cleaned up my home he found it and now he wont speak to me at all which really hurts because when he left and moved across country and his roommate had to tell me instead of him telling me it hurt but i forgave him i even flew all the way out there to see him but now it seems like when its my turn he wont forgive me i do everything for him and to say i want to get back with my ex is a understatement before i got that letter i haven't heard from my ex in almost 2 yrs because he knew i was happy with someone else ... when i call my boyfriend he wont pick up the phone he even told me to stop calling him because he doesn't want to hear anything i have to say ... im a good person i never lied to him about anything nor kept anything from him even during our brief separation this is the first time i messed up but i honestly forgot about the letter please tell me what should i do i love him very much this is someone i want to marry.
Answer Dear Ukuto,
Send a letter. That's really all you can do. If he will read it, then maybe that will make a difference. If he's not willing to read it, or doesn't accept it, then better to know now.
Tell him you love him and explain the circumstances one more time. Either he will accept your explanation or this is the separation that he's been waiting for. You can't make someone else's decision, but to influence a decision, honesty is the best policy.
Kind Regards,
Kindred
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