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About Leon Scott Baxter
Expertise
I can answer questions about keeping love in committed relationships alive and fresh. I am not the guy to go to if you're having marital problems or if you want to know how to meet someone. (I've never been good at opening lines.) I am dedicated to keeping the romance fires burning even after the embers of a new relationship turn cold. Let me help you find ways to be excited about each other and your relationship again.

Experience
I have written two books, Out of the Doghouse , and A Labor With Love, to help keep romance alive in relationships. I give romance advice locally on radio have a regular newspaper column on relationships. I host a website, CouplesCommittedToLove.com, where I offer advice and give daily romance tips. I also have hosted the seminars, "Romance 101" and "The Valentine Prep Course".

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Santa Barbara Independent Magazine, MenStuff.com, SBParent.com, The Goleta Valley Voice, EducationNews.org

Education/Credentials
Bachelor's Degree from the University of California, Santa Barbara, as well as a teaching credential.

Awards and Honors
KLITE Community Hero and Ben & Jerry's Citizen Cool for my work with children and their focus on academic and personal improvement. Listed in Who's Who in America. Name was placed on the National Wall of Tolerance for taking a stand against hate, injustice and intolerance. In high school, voted "Most Likely To Host Saturday Night Live by 1999". Unfortunately, Lorne Michaels never called.

 
   

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Topic: How to Strengthen Your Relationship



Expert: Leon Scott Baxter
Date: 7/27/2008
Subject: not sure what to do

Question
Hi Doc, I have a beautiful girlfriend that is 17 years old, im 19 and we've been going out for about almost 2 years now. I go over to her house a lot and really enjoy it but im not sure what to do. We kiss a lot so i guess its getting kinda boring...is there anything i can do to spice up the relationship without having sex or something that far? I just want to know more tips on how to kiss better if you know i would love for you to help. I just want to to say, "where did that come from," or something like that after we kiss. Thank you

Answer
Hello Jacob,

Just for your information, I'm not a doctor (though I play one on the internet). But, feel free to call me "Doc" whenever you like, because I do play a lot of basketball and I'm rather fond of the nickname.

Now, on to more important matters. As far as kissing techniques, that's not really my specialty, but there are some fantastic resources on-line that I think you'll really appreciate.

This link (http://www.kissing.com) offers some great articles and instructions on the art of kissing, although, ultimately they wouldn't mind you purchasing one of their products.

This link (http://www.howtokiss.info/) is absolutely fantastic, from beginners to advanced techniques, books, pictures, instructions. It has it all!

These two videos offer step-by-step (and somewhat humorous) directions for kissing passionately (http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-someone-passionately), and creatively (http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-creatively-2).

Hope that these will help. Now, go study and knock her socks off the next time you smooch!


Leon Scott Baxter
"America's Romance Guru"
http://www.couplescommittedtolove.com  

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