AboutKindred Beisinger Expertise I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
Experience I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
Expert: Kindred Beisinger Date: 8/20/2008 Subject: my girlfriend and i are going thur a ruff time
Question my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 and a half years. and 2 days ago she was over my moms house and my mom told her about some bills that i had to pay and for some reason i just lost it i got pissed off and stated to yell at my mom and my girlfriend and to make a long story short i got mad for nothing because my girlfriend saed she wasn't mad she was just trying to find out how to pay the bills. ok this is the kicker. my girlfriend was mad a it me for yelling at my mom and her and told me that i loose my temper for no reason all the time like that witch i do and i don't know why. but i do. and now she thinks this is how its going to be if we get married.I need help. I don't know what to do. i get mad for no reason i want to learn to be more calm with my girlfriend so i can keep her how do i do this ?? any ideas.
and how do i ignight the fire in out relationship agn ??
Answer Dear Michael,
It does sound like you have an anger problem. Perhaps some anger management classes would be of help. I, personally, pray when I'm angry, well when I want to control my anger that is. We all have different things that tend to frustrate us or make us angry, but if this is a pattern for you, you do need to address it before you even think about marriage and children.
I'll share my webpage beneath my name. Why don't you visit there, and if you'd like to talk about your anger issues, you can contact me from there.
Kind Regards,
Kindred
www.eingedi.us
