AboutManju Rakshit Expertise I can answer questions related to problems faced just after marriage, renewing the magic in an old marriage, how to stay married, and, on problems arising from interactions with in-laws. I cannot answer questions on pre-marriage problems or dating.
Experience I am happily married for the past 22 years, and the mother of a teenager. Also, I have experience in counselling my acquaintances, who have given me highly positive feedback on the solutions that I provided them.
Publications Bengali publications (magazines) and a self-help book written by me.
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts (BA), Bachelor of Education (BEd)
Awards and Honors Received numerous awards for fiction-writing and I am also a published author.
Question hello,
I am having a big dilemma my fiancee has been told that his bestfriend said that he slept with me. which is not true and no matter what unless his friend owns up to it i can't prove to him that its not. His friend was over my fiancee's family members house on two occassion stateing that he and I slept togetherbut he was drinking very heavly (drunk).. My fiancee's family wouldn't lie to him or me about what was said to them in the mean while I am stuck in this mess trying to figure out how to help my fiancee realize it isnt true. That his best friend was full of lies running off at the mouth I will do what ever i have to i have 2 children with this man we were planning on getting ,married and now their is no ring no wedding get planned. my life is falling apart i cant get his best friend to say he's lieing. I cant prove myself I am stuck i need some advice on how to fix it or make it better how to prove that it didnt happen that maybe his friends jealous of him and his lifestyle . plase something any advice
Answer Hello Annie,
The only advice I am going to give you is forget about your fiance and move on! Seriously.
If this man doesn't trust you now, he is not going to trust you even after you get married. What about when he has to go for a business trip alone after marriage for a day or two? This same friend will say he he slept with you and your husband will again create problems and in fact, this can go to the level to physical abuse.
So, please walk out of this relationship as fast as you can. If a man doesn't respect you now, he never will.
