| Subject | Date Asked |
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| how do i get us back on track? | 11/3/2009 |
Q: I've been with the same guy 5 years now. In the beginning everything was great, but after the big ...
A: Why are you with this guy? You tell me you don't desire him sexually; he has cheated on you, so it's ...
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| tryin to be a family again | 8/27/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost three years we have two girls together we been ...
A: When we feel hurt by something our partner does, it's very hard not to blame that person for the way ...
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| Back on Track | 8/26/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship for two and a half years. It's been kind of rocky. We have quite a few ...
A: I can understand your frustration. The challenge here is to figure out what the underlying issue is. ...
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| How to get over a betrayal | 8/19/2009 |
Q: I recently found out my husband of 14 years had been excessively texting and calling another woman. ...
A: This obviously brings up issues around trust and honest, open communication, and I'm wondering if ...
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| Stressful Online Relationship | 8/18/2009 |
Q: I have been in an online relationship for the past two years. We have had a lot of problems in ...
A: As in all relationships, though, we discover things about ourselves by seeing what happens between ...
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| Taking me for granted | 6/1/2009 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now.We moved in together right ...
A: The problem here is that you’ve given too much in the hope of being loved in return. We do this when ...
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| Husband spends and hides it | 5/31/2009 |
Q: Tonight is a typical weekend; a fight with my husband and now sleeping along while he is on the ...
A: You cannot help your husband and you should stop trying. Helping him is actually making things worse ...
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| how do i change it | 5/11/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. it is really hard to talk to him about issues ...
A: I’m assuming you mean you have issues with him or your relationship, rather than issues with ...
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| relationships | 5/2/2009 |
Q: How do I go about trying to fix my relationship after I said some hurtful things to him
A: The best approach is always heartfelt honesty. If you feel bad about some things you've said, then ...
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| trust issue | 4/25/2009 |
Q: I am a woman in her fifties that seems to drift back to the same boyfriends that offer no future. I ...
A: I can understand why it would be difficult for you to trust this man or even respect him, and you ...
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| My boyfriend has changd | 4/14/2009 |
Q: to start firstly i have known my boyfriend from 9yrs although we have been dating only from 9 months ...
A: We tend to be reactive when we don’t get the love we want, rather than making choices based on ...
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| communication problems, infrequent sex | 4/6/2009 |
Q: The status: I've been with the same woman for almost 8 and we have "severe" difficulties in ...
A: I can understand your frustration and it’s amazing that you’ve remained in the relationship for so ...
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| Frustrated and Resentful | 3/12/2009 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for the past 2 1/2 yrs (we have lived together ...
A: I understand your frustration. It’s normal to feel resentful and it’s not something to be brushed ...
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| am confused. | 3/6/2009 |
Q: I am 24 year old guy and She’s 21. We work in the same office. She’s good @ heart, very reserved and ...
A: I can certainly understand your concern. Cancer is often a sign of self-rejection so it’s likely ...
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| Is she into me | 2/26/2009 |
Q: my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 and a half years. I feel like my relationship ...
A: I’m wondering what you’re doing to liven up your relationship for yourself, not to mention your ...
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| She said relationships aren't for her. | 2/25/2009 |
Q: I am a Senior in high school and have recently become involved in a very serious friendship with a ...
A: I’m afraid there is no way to make someone like you, and this girl has made it very clear that she ...
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| Not sure it's right... | 2/19/2009 |
Q: I've been in this relationship with my boyfriend for close to a year. Going into it, I knew he had ...
A: I think the most important thing you can do is look at this in a new way. Forget about your ...
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| plz help me | 2/13/2009 |
Q: there is this girl i really like but i dont think she likes me i really want to go out with her she ...
A: The best approach is always honesty and open communication. If you don't know how this girl feels ...
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| How to control my jealous and become confident in my relationship | 1/21/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is 29 nand I am 23. He is opening a new college bar within the next month which makes ...
A: I think you already asked me this question some time ago (and I replied) or else someone else has ...
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| Is he a lost cause? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I have been dating the same guy for the last four years. WE are both really young, I am 19 and he is ...
A: Your partner is being abusive and you’re accepting it in the name of love. This is not healthy but ...
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| Is he losing interest or am I thinking too much? | 1/2/2009 |
Q: Okay.. so this guy and I have been on and off for about three years. We are both 19 and officially a ...
A: Lauren, I believe I just answered another question from you, so please refer to that. I receive many ...
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| Is he still interested in me? | 1/1/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 19. We have been together for 2 months and have been on and off for ...
A: I think your boyfriend is feeling your neediness and it’s pushing him away. You must take care of ...
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| Moving in together | 12/9/2008 |
Q: I've got a slight problem- which might not even be a problem, but thats why I've decided to ask you ...
A: I understand your dilemma and I think there are two things to consider here. Firstly, there is ...
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| Regarding my marriage | 11/26/2008 |
Q: its been 3 years of my marriage. My husband loves me a lot. But he doesnt care for me. it hurts me ...
A: You say he loves you but doesn’t care for you, and I’m wondering what the difference is. What counts ...
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| Relationship going downhill | 11/25/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and I love her and all of that but she is ...
A: How would you define your relationship? Would you say you are close, honest with each other, ...
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| keeping it together | 11/15/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend tells me that I always defend myself in a disagreement. She tells me that I should ...
A: The issue here is acceptance. When we fail to receive the acceptance (i.e. love) that we need as ...
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| love advice | 10/29/2008 |
Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ...
A: I think it’s time to break free, and to understand the message that this situation holds for you. ...
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| Should I Stay | 10/27/2008 |
Q: I've been seeing this guy for a year now, we're not officially dating yet. When I met him he nor I ...
A: What are you doing with this man? Why would you keep chasing after someone who obviously does not ...
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| lost and confused | 10/25/2008 |
Q: I've been with this guy for a while now, and I've also known for a while now that in July he is ...
A: First of all, how DO you feel about this man and about your relationship? Do you want to be with ...
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| Can people really fall out of love? | 10/24/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year now. It feels like the most emotional ...
A: I understand your dilemma and I can tell you that this is a classic case of negative subconscious ...
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| make it work | 10/23/2008 |
Q: well me and my girl have been together for 3 years now we have a baby girl 7 months of age... we ...
A: Having a baby is a wonderful thing, but it takes a lot of time and energy, as well as taking the ...
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| unresolved issue | 9/25/2008 |
Q: I am 49 and have been dating a 53 year old man about 8 months. We get along great, enjoy alot of ...
A: I understand your frustration and the challenges you’re facing but my approach to resolving this ...
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| my gf isnt talking to me bout much | 9/24/2008 |
Q: i have a girlfriend and she and i are only 15years of age, we are so connected, but i feel she ...
A: Just be there for her, with no demands. Let her come to you if she wants to talk about something. ...
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| my gf isnt talking to me bout much | 9/23/2008 |
Q: i have a girlfriend and she and i are only 15years of age, we are so connected, but i feel she ...
A: Talking about your feelings can be difficult for some people, especially if they haven’t been ...
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| What do I do? | 9/11/2008 |
Q: I am 23 years old. I have been in my current realtionship for a year and seven months. We were ...
A: Jeff, what this means is that you work on improving yourself as a person, which benefits you and ...
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| heyy. | 8/22/2008 |
Q: I have been with bryan for almost 9 months now. When we first got together he had cheated on me, i ...
A: There is obviously an issue of trust here that you need to address. It is almost impossible to have ...
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| Love and relationships | 8/13/2008 |
Q: Background info: I am 32 years old and my partner Carol is also 32. We have been together for ...
A: I feel there is a lot to be gained from this relationship, but maybe not in the way that you’d ...
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| kids and relationships | 8/11/2008 |
Q: I am 32m successful Hispanic and I have been in a relationship with a Asian female 24 who still ...
A: You’ve been honest and up front with your girlfriend and you’ve obviously got your head screwed on ...
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| am i recreating the problems I witnessed with my parents? | 8/9/2008 |
Q: I was friends with my Boyfriend for 4 years and we are now in a 6month, long-distance relationship. ...
A: I can understand your frustration. You seem very dedicated to getting things right yet you’re aware ...
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| jealousy ruining a good thing | 8/7/2008 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for three years now. I get so jealous in social situations, esp. When ...
A: You are right: jealousy is the result of low self-worth and it is really just another way of saying ...
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