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| My boyfriend and father of my child says he is not the marrying type. | 11/14/2009 |
Q: I got pregnant shortly after I met my boyfriend. He said that he did not want to get married right ...
A: Nichole, this sounds disheartening. It sounds like you have been holding out hope that he would ...
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| Help! | 11/13/2009 |
Q: Let me start off by saying that my boyfriend and I love each other very much and we have been ...
A: I like hearing your commitment and interest in making things better. I would ask him how he feels ...
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| My boyfriend wants his alone time | 11/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend wants his alone time and i dont know what to do we have only been dating for 2 weeks ...
A: Ok Erica. I will say that his believing that things are moving too fast is certainly a concern but ...
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| help. | 11/6/2009 |
Q: I wrote to another allexpert person about two weeks ago about my problem, hopefully I can get a ...
A: I am sorry Lisa. This sounds like so much to be dealing with. I too am confused as to what he may ...
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| Is he that wrong for me? | 11/5/2009 |
Q: This is going to sound so dumb so please bear with me. I am recently divorced after being separated ...
A: Charlene, I appreciate your reaching out during this confusing time. Clearly though, when it comes ...
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| Found out husband cheated while engaged | 11/4/2009 |
Q: I'm feeling a little lost. Two weeks AFTER my wedding I found out that my husband cheated on me ...
A: Wow S, I can only imagine what learning that information was like for you, especially since he ...
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| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 |
Q: we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ...
A: Kate, I guess the good news here is that he is being upfront with his feelings/hopes. It sounds ...
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| Dating a friend | 10/30/2009 |
Q: I met this man three months ago named John. He is a really nice guy, good to me and my grandson. ...
A: Well Kristin, the neat thing here is that everyone has been open with their wants and needs. The ...
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| moving past a bad 7 years | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Me and my husband have been married for 7 years. We married young (21) and we didn't really have a ...
A: I am glad you are reaching out. It sounds like you have been holding down the fort and doing what ...
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| No Feelings | 10/8/2009 |
Q: Kaplowitz, I am a 23 year old girl and have been in a relationship for almost 6 years with a guy of ...
A: let's put your best friend aside for a moment. From what you are sharing, you have been a ...
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| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ...
A: Dean, I can only imagine how confusing this must be as well as how a number of other feelings might ...
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| Ex-boyfriend | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ...
A: Todd, this is certainly a tough one. Like your gut, I fear the same. It had only been "days ...
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| relationship problems | 10/4/2009 |
Q: I am having trouble with my relationship. I cureently don't feel happy but i do not want to end the ...
A: I am so sorry for your struggles here. It does sound most confusing, like he is pushing you away. ...
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| regain that spark with my girlfriend | 9/28/2009 |
Q: my girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year and a half. i sometimes feel like our "spark" ...
A: Ricky, I am glad you are reaching out. I love your attitude and wanting to enhance the passion. My ...
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| reconnecting with ex | 9/27/2009 |
Q: Kaplowitz, In November, I reconnected with my ex on facebook. Both he and I have been married 16-18 ...
A: My gosh! There is so much that you are going through. I can only imagine the feelings that you are ...
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| Is it Normal to Expect an Apology | 9/26/2009 |
Q: As I stated in my earlier correspondence my spouse will not discuss the problem she has created in ...
A: Wow Kiley! There seems to be so much going on here. I can certainly appreciate your fears and ...
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| Is she scared? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I am currently involved in a long distance relationship that has gone fairly smooth. We have been ...
A: You are welcome Mike. Honestly though, in your shoes, I would indeed be concerned with the son and ...
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| Is it Normal to expect an Apology | 9/24/2009 |
Q: Following a Normal disagreement in which there was absolutely NO yelling, NO shouting, NO threats & ...
A: Wow Kiley! I am certainly confused and can imagine how you might be as well. That said, I don't ...
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| Is she scared? | 9/23/2009 |
Q: I am currently involved in a long distance relationship that has gone fairly smooth. We have been ...
A: Whether we are talking about cold-feet or her guard being up, I can imagine some things coming up. I ...
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| Getting back together with an ex | 9/21/2009 |
Q: I have sent you a question before and found your response helpful, so I am sending you another ...
A: Wait Aurelia. You are a bright and insightful person; you know what you want and it seems most ...
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| how to make him care | 9/20/2009 |
Q: how to make him care more for me and to be more passionate.like for example i call him when am out ...
A: That is a good question Reeree. We cannot make him care though. Perhaps we might want to take the ...
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| Anger and competivness | 9/17/2009 |
Q: She's the one, carries with all the traits I have ever wanted However, we've been struggling , ...
A: I need to understand this better and have a few questions here. Can you give me examples of how ...
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| Is This Normal? | 9/14/2009 |
Q: Ok, so I got my first boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Since he's my first I really didn't know how to act. ...
A: good for you in reaching out. I can imagine how it might be bittersweet to hear a friend's ...
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| What should I do? :( | 9/12/2009 |
Q: Okay, im pretty young. Im 15 years old, my boyfriend is 16. He lives 5 hours away. So we're in a ...
A: That has to be hard Mya. I can imagine being so far away and not having as many ways to see each ...
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| spending time with ex's | 9/5/2009 |
Q: I was not really sure if addressing this problem here would be the right idea but it seems that my ...
A: Jamie, I can truly appreciate what you are sharing. I also thank you for your candor and will ...
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| Missing butterflies | 9/3/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ...
A: I am curious what would happen if you shared with her what I explained in my very last paragraph ...
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| Missing butterflies | 9/2/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ...
A: Mark, I am glad you are reaching out. I think you are insightful and wonder how much of her ...
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| Boyfriend losing interest in me | 8/26/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend is 7 years older than me we have one child together she is 6 months. We stay with my ...
A: Brittany, there is so much going on here. The fact that knives are being pulled is a major concern ...
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| Crazy ex-boyfrend; should we discuss end of relationship? | 8/24/2009 |
Q: I care very much for someone who is deeply depressed. He is an ex-boyfriend of mine, and although ...
A: You are clearly most sophisticated in attempting to deal with his depression. Unfortunately, he ...
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| Crazy ex-boyfrend; should we discuss end of relationship? | 8/23/2009 |
Q: I care very much for someone who is deeply depressed. He is an ex-boyfriend of mine, and although ...
A: Wow! I am concerned here. It sounds like you really care about this guy and that he cares for you ...
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| Mending our Marriage | 8/21/2009 |
Q: I need to know how to win my wife back. I have totally destroyed our marriage. We have been married ...
A: Carlos, there are a number of issues here. First, I am concerned about her safety. When you say ...
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| I need help!!!! | 8/15/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together a little over 2 years. She is 27 and I 29. I love her so ...
A: Joe, this might be a wonderful opportunity for growth and I am glad you are open to look at yourself ...
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| Relationship break | 8/10/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for awhile. He has had a history of depression and anxiety and is on ...
A: Mary, I am glad you are reaching out. I am wondering about the depth of his depression. The ...
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| Should I take a hint? | 8/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have had a bit of a rocky 4 year relationship, we have broke up a couple times ...
A: It is indeed hard to believe that children's names would be a make or break situation for him. That ...
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| Starting a relationship Over | 8/8/2009 |
Q: I met my boyfriend in March online. I drove from OH to PA to meet him. Things went really well we ...
A: Tiffany, I am glad you are reaching out. I feel your struggle. Your words cry out angst and worry, ...
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| Am i Going to Be Hurt? | 8/5/2009 |
Q: this is my first time asking anyone for help in the department.. and i don't know i can get help.. ...
A: Amber, I can certainly appreciate your concern. The fact that your ex cheated does not help your ...
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| something is missing in my relationship | 7/29/2009 |
Q: I've been in this relationship for almost 6yrs and we have a 2yr old child together.My partner has ...
A: What is really neat here is how you recognize him being a "wonderful person, a great father".... and ...
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| Am I losing him? | 7/27/2009 |
Q: I have been stupid and jealous towards a girl who is in love with my boyfriend. I know he wouldn’t ...
A: Wow Jess! I appreciate your honesty and that must be difficult. In your shoes, I too would have ...
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| back on track | 7/24/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship for two and a half years. It's been kindof rocky. We have quite a few ...
A: I am glad you are reaching out Laurie. I would first want to learn more about that "not looking B4 ...
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| a friend with a crush | 7/22/2009 |
Q: This isn't a question about a dating relationship. I was wondering if you could help me understand ...
A: I appreciate your concern with your friend. It sounds like this has been a meaningful friendship ...
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| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/19/2009 |
Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ...
A: So Becky, what you are saying is that you know he makes time for others and could make more for you. ...
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| Lust is gone | 7/18/2009 |
Q: I have been with my partner for 4 years. We aren't engaged, and I am starting to despise him for it. ...
A: I'm sorry Hayley. That cannot be a positive feeling. Again, maybe it is how he is hearing it. He ...
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| possessive behaviour | 7/17/2009 |
Q: Well i'm 19 and i've been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months. Things are going well but i feel ...
A: Well, first let me say how positive it is that you are recognizing your behavior as a concern. Have ...
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| Inconsistencies | 7/15/2009 |
Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ...
A: Aurelia, Clearly you are pretty insightful here. Long-distance relationships have additional ...
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| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/14/2009 |
Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ...
A: Becky, it is clear to me that you care about him and are invested. We need to find a way to connect ...
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| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/11/2009 |
Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ...
A: I am sorry Becky. I hear your pain and investment. The fact that this appears to be that first ...
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| confused? | 7/10/2009 |
Q: I have been with my guy for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. He has been really mean to me ...
A: I am glad you are reaching out. He may need to as well. His behavior may be a way of attempting to ...
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| Inconsistencies | 7/9/2009 |
Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ...
A: Yes. This does sound confusing. I also share your concern that you had the feeling / need to check ...
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