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How to Strengthen Your Relationship/Questions Answered by Expert Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT
| Subject | Date Asked |
| Relationship Help! | 2/7/2012 |
| Q: I have been dating my Partner for almost 2 years and we just recently became official but things ... A: I hear your concern and yet there must be a ton of things that you like about this guy that keep you ... | |
| HELP!!!! | 1/2/2012 |
| Q: I am having SEVERE problems in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years ... A: Alright Breauna, Good for you. I think the perfect place to start is to say, "you know what ... | |
| How to get him to be intersted in me once more. | 12/18/2011 |
| Q: Okay I really don't know we're to start.. Um me an my partner have been together fr four years at ... A: I am a bit confused here and perhaps am missing some information. First though, if he is being ... | |
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: Sure. Let me share some thoughts which should not be construed as counseling (as I don't have you ... | |
| Improving relationship and communication | 11/26/2011 |
| Q: I am having some issues in my relationship with my boyfriend (who I'll call "T". Recently, he up and ... A: I am a bit confused as to what he wants here. As you have shared, there seems to be a lot of ... | |
| Giving Exciting Blowjobs | 11/18/2011 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year now and our sex life is so boring! My husband ... A: So am I sitting here wondering if he appreciates you? Of course, this is not therapy but, Susana, I ... | |
| getting past the constant arguing of who is doing more in the house | 10/21/2011 |
| Q: How do you get past the point in marriage where it's a big point of contention of who is doing more ... A: I appreciate your concerns and it is good to hear you do have some efforts there in the home too. I ... | |
| Problem in relationship | 10/10/2011 |
| Q: We write as a couple, and we will try to summarize our current problem, although it is not easy to ... A: Sorry for the delay. I have been out of the office. When I hear the time you have spent together, ... | |
| what to make out of this? | 10/3/2011 |
| Q: ok so my ex boyfriend told me that he really cares about me, that im def the type of girl for him ... A: Good for you in taking some time with this. I am not exactly sure why the relationship ended in the ... | |
| HIM | 9/22/2011 |
| Q: WELL ME AND MY BOYFRIEND BEEN DATING FOR 6 MONTHS NOW, BUT WE WERE FRIENDS BEFORE WE ACTUALLY MADE ... A: My gosh Jianahlee, I am so sorry for your loss. How did you each cope with first expecting and ... | |
| Interested in everything? | 9/11/2011 |
| Q: Does he need to be interested in eveything I say? He seems to think so, and it is causing tension in ... A: I think there may be more going on here than perhaps he realizes. Obviously, his wanting to pay ... | |
| commitment phoebia | 9/5/2011 |
| Q: I date men in their 40's and 50's. I seem to have a pattern of dating men reluctant to make long ... A: You bring up an interesting ? here. Are they too scared to moved forward? It is quite possible ... | |
| she says she's bored, i dont know what to do | 9/3/2011 |
| Q: ive been seeing this girl for over 3 months now, amd lately she seems to be losing intererst and ... A: So be direct. Tell her how you feel and your hopes, including how you understand you have only been ... | |
| what shall i do | 9/2/2011 |
| Q: i'm a 23 years old girl, and my boyfriend is 26, we've been together for almost 3 and a half years, ... A: I can hear the concern in your words here and hope he truly understands your level of commitment to ... | |
| I can't lose my love | 8/30/2011 |
| Q: My name is Ryan and I'm 23 and just graduated with a Bachelors in Chem in May and have gotten a full ... A: I hear your dedication to her and want this to work. What I hear you telling me is that you have ... | |
| I dont know what to do | 8/28/2011 |
| Q: my name is kristina and i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, who is n the US army, for ... A: I like how you said she has done so much for me, because I am sitting here wondering exactly what ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: Wow Stacee. What is most clear to me is your wanting this to work and willingness to do what it ... | |
| Affection | 7/29/2011 |
| Q: Ive been with this guy for a year and some months. He is not affectionate at all. Whn I drees up he ... A: This certainly is a bit confusing Yvette. Have you sat down with him and share your hopes here? ... | |
| my boyfriend lost interest | 7/27/2011 |
| Q: I am 21 and I am dating a boy since a year .In the first few days he was very much interested in ... A: It sounds like you are discouraged. Good for you in sharing your hopes with him. It does not ... | |
| help with my relationship | 7/10/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about five years and a half. I'm 21 and he's 22. We're ... A: Goof for you in reaching out. I want to make sure we are focusing on the reality of what is ahead ... | |
| Trust and Communication breakage | 7/3/2011 |
| Q: I am a 31 yr old gay male. I have been with my partner (33) for over a year and half now. I learned ... A: I am sorry to hear that. What has stopped the idea of counseling to address the communication and ... | |
| relationship | 6/30/2011 |
| Q: i dont know what to do anymore today my boyfriend got mad because i was across the street from where ... A: Well that is frustrating Karla. I can only imagine what you are going through. Here is my idea. I ... | |
| relationship | 6/20/2011 |
| Q: i dont know what to do anymore today my boyfriend got mad because i was across the street from where ... A: Ok. I may may as confused as you are Karla. My hunch is you guys have been arguing before this. ... | |
| Advice Needed | 6/8/2011 |
| Q: My SO and I have been together a little over 2 years. We are in a LDR and the aim has always been to ... A: Good for you. It is never too early for couples counseling. Too often, I will hear the idea that ... | |
| no idea what i should do | 6/3/2011 |
| Q: I am hoping that you can help me with an issue i am facing. I (D) am 27 years old and so is my wife ... A: Did you see my answer from earlier in the week? Here it is..... Sorry Damien, If these are the ... | |
| what to do now | 6/1/2011 |
| Q: I am hoping that you can help me with an issue i am facing. I (D) am 27 years old and so is my wife ... A: Sorry Damien, If these are the exact details, I would certainly imagine your confusion as to a next ... | |
| soo confused | 5/28/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for the past year. We met at university and since then we've ... A: From what you are sharing here, I have a lot of concern. Trust is a major issue and you are not ... | |
| Losing my GF | 5/26/2011 |
| Q: I was hoping you could help me please. I have been seeing my girlfriend for nearly a year. She lives ... A: I certainly can appreciate your confusion here. I am still stuck on the idea that her family does ... | |
| Confused | 5/24/2011 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. I recently found out he has a porn addiction ... A: First, let me say congrats on your own recovery. You know, firsthand, it is not easy. Have you ... | |
| My boyfriend. | 5/16/2011 |
| Q: my name is Alexis. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year.. but we tend to fight alot. Well last ... A: Ok Alexis, What do you think about my idea in talking to him? We need to get to the bottom of the ... | |
| My boyfriend. | 5/14/2011 |
| Q: my name is Alexis. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year.. but we tend to fight alot. Well last ... A: While you do not say what he initially lied about, it sounds like he has suffered in silence about ... | |
| Friendship | 5/4/2011 |
| Q: Ok im 13. Not an adult, but I still would like some advice on what happened between me and one of my ... A: Sorry Kady, That does not sounds like a good situation to be in. I am not sure Jill has been a ... | |
| Older boyfriend not showing affection | 5/3/2011 |
| Q: I love this man...his lifestyle, his ethics, his personality, his looks... We got together in quite ... A: Good for you in reaching out. I think these are wonderful questions you deserve to ask and have ... | |
| Am I doing to much in my relationship? Or is it coming to an end? | 4/17/2011 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year and we've been officially going out for ... A: First of all, stop comparing yourself to his last girlfriend. We already know he is attracted to ... | |
| Confused | 4/3/2011 |
| Q: Forgive me for the long question, but I feel it's crucial to provide as much detail about my ... A: In my years working with abuse victims, I have learned that there may be much more that she may have ... | |
| Overcoming Communication Wall | 4/2/2011 |
| Q: My SO recently told me that he is having a hard time connecting with me. He said he has tried ... A: Absolutely GV. Don't give up hope. I have wondered though what else is going through SO's mind. ... | |
| Overcoming Communication Wall | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: My SO recently told me that he is having a hard time connecting with me. He said he has tried ... A: I am sorry to hear that but please have hope. Ok. So, what I would start with is to write out all ... | |
| Emotional Intimacy | 3/26/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and I don't know where we're going. We ... A: Sorry Danielle, This is a confusing spot to be in. The good news is I am not hearing a lot of ... | |
| Will I get her back? | 3/15/2011 |
| Q: I'll make this as short as possible but still try and get the point across. About two weeks ago my ... A: Good for you in reaching out. Here is my hunch from what you have shared. It sounds like she has ... | |
| Holding On | 3/14/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year now. We have taken two breaks, lasting roughly a ... A: Well, I am not sure there is a firm understanding on how opposite two can truly be. What I would ... | |
| Relationship doubts | 3/10/2011 |
| Q: I´ve been dating for a year. And all of sudden, there are little things about the relationship ... A: Sorry about that Ana. I hear your frustration. Please know that sometimes it is not what we say ... | |
| Confusion | 3/6/2011 |
| Q: ( I apologize for any grammical errors) I'm 20 and I've been seeing my 22 year old gentlemen for ... A: I can certainly appreciate your confusion. He has appeared to change and we may not have all the ... | |
| im a mistress | 2/24/2011 |
| Q: Im a 21yrs old girl.. Im a mistress of a 42yrs old man. He is married and has two kids. I cant help ... A: I am sure that there are cultures and religions where multiple relationships are accepted. I am not ... | |
| Trust factor | 2/23/2011 |
| Q: Greetings!! I am a 24 year old woman and have been in a relationship with a 29 year old man for the ... A: My hunch is that he is as confused as you are. Is it possible that he misinterpreted your hanging ... | |
| What does he mean | 2/22/2011 |
| Q: recently myself and my boyfriend had a conversation and He said i was confident, sensitive, ... A: My hunch is you were hoping to hear something more specific. Perhaps some type of sign he is ... | |
| Boyfriend thinking of moving | 2/17/2011 |
| Q: I am 22 and my boyfriend is 26. We have been dating a little over a year and have been living ... A: I can imagine what you are going through but let's not jump to conclusions. What if due to his past ... | |
| Brother and boyfriend are not getting along | 2/10/2011 |
| Q: I have been dating a great guy for the past 6 months, and I love him with all my heart. I live with ... A: Has brother expressed concerns before? I am curious why boyfriend thinks brother does not like him? ... | |
| My man is pulling away. Is there hope? | 1/25/2011 |
| Q: I hope you can offer me advice. I feel I am going crazy. I am in a relationship with a man I love ... A: Ok Tash. Here you go: I believe you do have it all wrong. First, this is not about you doing ... | |
| ADVICE NEEDED | 1/23/2011 |
| Q: Well my story is a bit complicated but to cut is short: My boyfriend and I a year ago and fell in ... A: I am sorry Sr. This is not easy I am sure. It sounds like the diagnosis from the recent doctor's ... | |
| love relationship | 1/15/2011 |
| Q: i want to ask you that how can i pampered my boy friend he wanted me to treat him like a baby and ... A: I hope he truly does not want you to treat him like a baby. I appreciate his wanting to be pampered ... | |
| am pete,my gf just changed. | 1/12/2011 |
| Q: i have date a girl 4 8months now,but i have not make love to her cos she said she is nt ready dat ... A: I am a little confused here. If she is not ready for sex and we push her, you can see you are not ... | |
| help for ex | 1/11/2011 |
| Q: Hey, well I need some help if you can offer, my ex well we was going to get back together my mate ... A: It is wonderful that you care about your ex and his safety. From what you shared, I would be ... | |
| confusion | 1/2/2011 |
| Q: I hope you can help. Well the thing is I've been on and of with this quy since may our relationships ... A: I think you are most wise to be exploring possibilities here. Not knowing exactly about your past, ... | |
| Boyfriend of 3.5 Years wants to move in together | 12/26/2010 |
| Q: Hey there, I have been with my boyfriend since the beginning of college when I was a freshman and he ... A: Congrats on the upcoming graduation. I like how you are being proactive here in thinking about all ... | |
| Relationship problems | 12/20/2010 |
| Q: I am dating this boy for over two months now.we are very far from each other. At the beginning, he ... A: There could be a number of things going on here but only he can answer for certain. One thing, ... | |
| Husband wife relationship | 12/15/2010 |
| Q: i am married from 3 yrs but been together jst frm one yr.we had some bad past family politics ... A: I am glad you are reaching out. My hunch is that like for most of us, there are a number of things ... | |
| My boyfriend is loosing interest | 12/10/2010 |
| Q: Its been just 3 months since we are together. But my bf is loosing interest in relationship. Last ... A: Ok. So he has not been in a previous relationship. That would explain perhaps not knowing how ... | |
| My boyfriend is loosing interest | 12/9/2010 |
| Q: Its been just 3 months since we are together. But my bf is loosing interest in relationship. Last ... A: You left out some details that may help me to understand better. What are the topics he gets ... | |
| Unsure. | 12/8/2010 |
| Q: I'm 17 and I'm in my first relationship with this boy. It's been 3 months, but it hasn't been a ... A: Relationships can be confusing....for all of us (smile). Ok. So please realize that since you are ... | |
| i want to trust him..long distence relationbship | 12/4/2010 |
| Q: he goes out friday and saturdays and when he does he rarely answers my texts and he doesnt show any ... A: Where does he say he goes on these days? Indeed, this could just be his fun time. Have you ever ... | |
| Advice in mending a relationship | 11/19/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I went through a personal matter a few months back and up until then it was a ... A: While you do not mention what the issue was a few months back, I can hear that trust keeps coming ... | |
| Why is he so cruel? | 11/15/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend is in his late 50's and I am in my early 50's. We started dating about 3 years ago and ... A: I am sorry you are going through this. I can only imagine your disappointment. My hunch here is ... | |
| john | 11/12/2010 |
| Q: john and i hit it off so very fast with a strong, strong connection. he is in the middle of a ... A: I like how you know now is not the best time for a relationship. Many people do not know this and ... | |
| Conflicting feelings | 11/7/2010 |
| Q: I’m writing you for advice because I feel like giving up. My girlfriend and I have drifted apart ... A: Impressive Mariano, Good for you. Clearly, you have a sense of what is going on for you. With ... | |
| I have boyfriend problems, a little help? | 11/6/2010 |
| Q: Ok so here's the problem: I just went out with this guy, name Steven. Before we went out, we were ... A: That does sounds frustrating....and confusing. I don't understand it either but we need to find ... | |
| Conflicting feelings | 11/4/2010 |
| Q: I’m writing you for advice because I feel like giving up. My girlfriend and I have drifted apart ... A: Good for you in reaching out. What I am hearing is that she wants to make things work, is confused ... | |
| I'm past the honeymoon phase and it's sink or swim time! help! | 11/3/2010 |
| Q: I am 20 and have been seeing my boyfriend, 23, for around a year now. We did become pretty serious ... A: I guess I am wanting to make sure here. Has he done anything that would lead you to worry or is it ... | |
| Question | 10/31/2010 |
| Q: so I have been seeing this guy for almost a month now, and we sleep together too, but im not sure ... A: I would think you could start with the general idea of his hopes for his future. What does he hope ... | |
| What is goin on?? | 10/29/2010 |
| Q: I am 25 yrs old and deeply in love with a 32 yr old. We have been together for close to two years in ... A: I would tend to agree with you that there are unresolved issues here. Could you have another ... | |
| How do I break old bad habits that I have for ruining relationships? | 10/24/2010 |
| Q: Since I was born I grew up in a household where my dad is an alcoholic and is still to this day so I ... A: Good for you for sensing what is happening. Have you shared with your boyfriend? He needs to ... | |
| Is he lying | 10/22/2010 |
| Q: my boyfriend works long shift and is also going through a divorce with his ex and he will meet me on ... A: I can certainly appreciate wondering if he and his ex are truly ending their relationship. ... | |
| The Ex | 10/21/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating a man for 9 months and he has a 6 year old son - he has sole custody. His ex ... A: Wow Kathi! Good for you in touching base with his family. Sounds like you are already developing a ... | |
| The Ex | 10/18/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating a man for 9 months and he has a 6 year old son - he has sole custody. His ex ... A: I appreciate your willingness to support the young man's contact with his mom. It is indeed awesome ... | |
| Phone Calls | 10/16/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now and I feel like we already have problems ... A: Ok. Let's try to look at our hopes/expectations. Yours are clear. We see each other 1-2x/wk and ... | |
| Confused on feelings | 10/14/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating somebody since January. Of course in the beginning things were great but all ... A: Now I am convinced that couples and/or parenting would be imperative with the different styles here. ... | |
| Please help | 10/11/2010 |
| Q: i don't understand why i act like this but i do. Normally it is hard for me to get over stuff and i ... A: Wow CTM, This really sounds discouraging and like a depressive existence. I like how you are wise ... | |
| Stuck at an impasse | 10/1/2010 |
| Q: My goal in writing this question is to help me decide whether the dating relationship I'm currently ... A: Yes. I am a little concerned too. Is there anyone else that he knows/trusts, perhaps within ... | |
| I'm ruining our relationship | 9/30/2010 |
| Q: My fiance and I met in 07 and everything was going too fast at the beginning and it was too much so ... A: Michelle, there is so much here. First, I want to make sure whatever medical condition you are ... | |
| confused | 9/29/2010 |
| Q: so i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. we get on brilliant, have had a few disagrements, ... A: I can only imagine how being hurt in the past would definitely come up here. Have you shared this ... | |
| please help me | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: "i having a bad day 4 three weeks,my girl say she has no feeling anymore 4 me...she also said she ... A: Lester, She is reacting right now so I would not take this as rejection. Be patient. Ask her if ... | |
| Confused on feelings | 9/27/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating somebody since January. Of course in the beginning things were great but all ... A: Sorry about all that. I can imagine wanting to show him a wonderful future together and yet feeling ... | |
| please help me | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: "i having a bad day 4 three weeks,my girl say she has no feeling anymore 4 me...she also said she ... A: Lester, it is clear she has feelings for you. Perhaps she is just confused. If you care about her ... | |
| Stuck at an impasse | 9/24/2010 |
| Q: My goal in writing this question is to help me decide whether the dating relationship I'm currently ... A: Yes. I too would like to know what would change if the relationship became "official." I would ask ... | |
| Friendship | 9/20/2010 |
| Q: recently I have been going through allot of life changing events. Since the economy took a nose ... A: The economy has impacted so many of us. Since you have been the one to support your friends, it is ... | |
| Older man dating a younger woman | 9/18/2010 |
| Q: I am a 48 year old man and I am dating a 33 year old woman. She is the most awesome woman that I ... A: You are clearly wise Herbert. Try to do some reflecting of what you hear her say and then ask if ... | |
| Older man dating a younger woman | 9/14/2010 |
| Q: I am a 48 year old man and I am dating a 33 year old woman. She is the most awesome woman that I ... A: Have you shared all these wonderful things with her? Let's make sure she knows and hears the good ... | |
| I'm loosing | 9/13/2010 |
| Q: We've been married for almost 10 years, he still doesn't trust me, he thinks i'll cheat on him or i ... A: Wow! 10 years in and there are still trust issues? That is definitely a problem. My hunch would ... | |
| How do i know if he shares the same feelings? | 9/10/2010 |
| Q: I'm 14 and he's 15,both chinese and malaysian.We've been talking on fb for a least a month now and ... A: Let me generalize and say we guys do not do the best job showing our feelings. Most of us were not ... | |
| How do i know if he shares the same feelings? | 9/9/2010 |
| Q: I'm 14 and he's 15,both chinese and malaysian.We've been talking on fb for a least a month now and ... A: That sounds confusing. What I am hearing is you discounting yourself. He may be holding back his ... | |
| Crushed heart...another update. | 8/29/2010 |
| Q: I wanted to give you a recent update and I think it is interesting. Last night I ran into a brick ... A: He does care about you...a great deal. I think he is scared about committing right now and what he ... | |
| Crushed heart...another update. | 8/28/2010 |
| Q: I wanted to give you a recent update and I think it is interesting. Last night I ran into a brick ... A: Alison, I am so sorry. This is difficult and confusing. I know how much you care about him. I ... | |
| How to get the reassurance I need without seeming needy...? | 8/12/2010 |
| Q: I am in a three-year relationship with a wonderful man. We are both in our late twenties, both ... A: I appreciate your honesty with your feelings here. I hope he knows this as well. Share with him ... | |
| Building love | 8/6/2010 |
| Q: I have been married for the past thirteen years and for the past few years my husband and I lived ... A: I am struggling with forgiving myself and struggling with my self-esteem. I was trying to please ... | |
| tough love... | 8/4/2010 |
| Q: my names Jeremy and I'm 17. So about this girl, it is a really long story I will try to make it ... A: Jeremy, I like how you said you are not ready. Good. Then please don't project your angst about ... | |
| Help | 8/3/2010 |
| Q: 38 I am in a long distance relationship. I never thought I would be in one, however I have never ... A: Your honesty is wonderful. Have you shared this with her? What I am hearing is that you care about ... | |
| Update... | 8/2/2010 |
| Q: I tried a follow up but to many follow up. Remember me mentioning that the man that I been seeing ... A: Alison, from everything you have shared, he does have strong feelings for you. I do not doubt it. ... | |
| Update... | 7/31/2010 |
| Q: I tried a follow up but to many follow up. Remember me mentioning that the man that I been seeing ... A: Yes. Alison. He is probably uncomfortable with any feeling words so this will not be any ... | |
| Relationship boundaries, lies and cleaning up a mess | 7/23/2010 |
| Q: A few months ago I crossed my gf's boundaries with porn and masturbating. Masterbating nor porn were ... A: Paul, first let me say how impressed I am with your understanding of the issue and willingness to ... | |
| Argument help! | 7/18/2010 |
| Q: I'm 20 years old and I'm writing because I have a situation I just can't make sense of. Last night I ... A: Very confusing here. My hunch is there are unresolved issues: either he had a bad day at work or he ... | |
| I hope he didn't meant it. | 7/17/2010 |
| Q: I know some men can hide their feelings or are scared to be in another relationship which can be ... A: Wow Alison, how cool about the journalist. I think this ties into the being scared and wondering ... | |
| Lacking chemistry | 7/14/2010 |
| Q: I am a 27-year-old business consultant. I met a kind, good-hearted man while I was on vacation and ... A: I would certainly believe his move was an indication of wanting more in the relationship. That ... | |
| Physical fights & a 8 year relationship | 7/12/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together 8 years, lived together almost 4 years. We are both very ... A: Clearly, Cathy, you are a intelligent and insightful person. I agree that our pasts are indeed in ... | |
| I hope he didn't meant it. | 7/7/2010 |
| Q: I know some men can hide their feelings or are scared to be in another relationship which can be ... A: I am saying I do believe he is scared. I am saying that if you believe he has difficulty expressing ... | |
| I hope he didn't meant it. | 7/6/2010 |
| Q: I know some men can hide their feelings or are scared to be in another relationship which can be ... A: Sorry Alison, I hope I answered this. I do think he is scared and torn on how to best moved forward ... | |
| Does he mean whatever he says | 6/30/2010 |
| Q: . I’m a 22 years old girl, and my boyfriend is 25, he’s a telecommunication engineer and I’m a law ... A: What really stands out for me here is "he felt I wasn’t interested to listen to him and he felt he ... | |
| Don't know what to think | 6/27/2010 |
| Q: I don't know if I'm just overanalyzing this entire situation. I was away with my boyfriend last ... A: When anyone is honest enough to wonder if things are moving too fast, I definitely want to support ... | |
| seeing an older woman | 6/25/2010 |
| Q: I asked you a question a few months back about this older woman who is in her early 40's and I am in ... A: I do think you are right believing she is holding back because she is scared. It just makes sense. ... | |
| boy dont my boyfriend want to spend time with me? | 6/21/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend are both 17 and we have been dating for 8 but lately it seems like he doesn't ... A: Well that certainly sounds like it could be discouraging. What does he say when you calmly mention ... | |
| personality clash | 6/16/2010 |
| Q: What is your opinion on the importance of shared interests in a dating relationship? My boyfriend ... A: I do think that partners need to have at least some interests that are shared. I also think that ... | |
| Help | 6/15/2010 |
| Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend after being together for 2 yrs. We broke up in December of last ... A: What I believe is happening is that you have not had the needed time to grieve the end of your ... | |
| help to save my friendship | 6/9/2010 |
| Q: I am Rizwan (male) from Pak, 25, just completed my MBA. From the class 1st to 14, i have been very ... A: I am sorry for your pain. Quite honestly, I would wonder if you were indeed both depressed. ... | |
| Relationship going nowhere? | 6/3/2010 |
| Q: I've been living with my boyfriend since January. He's currently going through a divorce and was ... A: I am curious what his hopes were when the two of you moved in together? What were you hopes? I am ... | |
| i dnt want to | 5/30/2010 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months...at fist we where fine ... A: I am sorry for your predicament. The first thing though is to take care of you. Being deported ... | |
| saving my relationship | 5/24/2010 |
| Q: Im not so sure that this is exactly a question. I know that i am a very challenging person,always ... A: Well hi there! I am glad you are taking care of yourself with the medical care. Many do not, so ... | |
| to make my relationship more stronger with my girlfriend | 5/22/2010 |
| Q: i really love my girlfriend very much and she too but everytime she's is afraid that whether we'll ... A: Ok Aditya, I guess if I wanted to pull out all the stops here, I would do everything I could to ... | |
| to make my relationship more stronger with my girlfriend | 5/21/2010 |
| Q: i really love my girlfriend very much and she too but everytime she's is afraid that whether we'll ... A: I am glad you are reaching out. Let's try and figure out where her concern is coming from. Any ... | |
| Can't seem to control my jealousy | 5/18/2010 |
| Q: I need some advice on controlling my jealousy and anger that I feel when my boyfriend communicates ... A: I hear your concern MacKensie and I wonder why the ex is not aware of your relationship? Is this ... | |
| Casual to committed | 5/17/2010 |
| Q: Since you are an MFT I thought perhaps you would be able to see some of the dynamics at work in this ... A: Ah Sid. I got it. He was probably delaying a meeting for fear of such a conversation. I wonder if ... | |
| I'm confused as to how she REALLY feels about me and how to move-on from here | 5/14/2010 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with this girl for almost 6-months now. She is really a special person ... A: It certainly sounds like you are invested here and this gal means a lot to you. Great. I hear your ... | |
| Casual to committed | 5/10/2010 |
| Q: Since you are an MFT I thought perhaps you would be able to see some of the dynamics at work in this ... A: All this makes sense, no? I mean your hopes for the relationship have changed and, naturally, your ... | |
| frustated | 5/9/2010 |
| Q: me and my boyfrd been dating since last 6 years.there were some really bad days.bt they went and ... A: I am sorry Neeru. That must be frustrating and discouraging as well. I am not hearing here how he ... | |
| feeling distiant in my relationship | 5/5/2010 |
| Q: Why am I feeling distiant in my relationship? I have been in a relationship with this Guy who lives ... A: It is interesting why you might feel distant when you are truly so far away (smile). Long distance ... | |
| love | 4/26/2010 |
| Q: my fiance and i recently had a break cuz she felt she fell out of love with me and we got back ... A: I think it might be best to show her how you care in every way possible. Not just in words but also ... | |
| problems | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: i like two people but one isn't ready for a relationship for another two years, and one is already ... A: Well, if one is not ready for a relationship right now (and not for a long while it would seem -- I ... | |
| Need help please! | 4/20/2010 |
| Q: Ok. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years total. He went to prison for 2 1/2 years, and ... A: Wow Amy! That does not sounds like a comforting environment. I know I am missing a lot of the ... | |
| rebuilding trust | 4/19/2010 |
| Q: My question or questions are is it possible to rebuild trust after it is broken? When do you get to ... A: I feel your pain here and I am sorry. I cannot just expect you to get over it as trust takes time ... | |
| why wont he move to the next level | 4/9/2010 |
| Q: my name is ashley im 20 years old i have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now.i want to get ... A: I am glad you are on all the ball here. You are right; he is scared. This is fairly typical though ... | |
| i cheated | 4/8/2010 |
| Q: well i sorta cheated anyways.. and now he hates my guts. it was an accident and i love him with all ... A: I think it will be important to know what he is going through right now. If he is angry let him ... | |
| Confused Ex | 4/6/2010 |
| Q: well me (19) and my now ex (18) recently broke up. the reason behind it is really bugging me. She ... A: let's take her at her word then. My hunch is that she has been hurt over the years (perhaps not ... | |
| what is wrong with me? | 4/3/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. We see each other everyday for a good 5 hours or ... A: I certainly appreciate your attention to detail and investment here. Good for you. How neat to ... | |
| what is wrong with me? | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. We see each other everyday for a good 5 hours or ... A: You are wise indeed. I would wonder if you have thought about what boyfriend thinks? It would make ... | |
| what is wrong with me? | 4/1/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. We see each other everyday for a good 5 hours or ... A: I am glad you are addressing this issue fairly quickly as opposed to waiting months later. When we ... | |
| Is my relationship dying? | 3/28/2010 |
| Q: What does "growing apart" mean? I think my boyfriend and I are growing apart. However, I'm not ... A: Over time, anything can become (let's say) stale if we let it. It is normal to be confused and ... | |
| Not sure if it's worth fighting for | 3/27/2010 |
| Q: Between 2003 and 2007, I was in two separate relationships. In both, I was mostly unhappy. After ... A: There is a lot going on here. I am guessing that you did not plan for the pregnancy so early in the ... | |
| issues within my relationship | 3/26/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my partner for over a year, and I have a child from a previous relationship. We ... A: This sounds like a lot to be dealing with and living with family can add to conflicts for many of ... | |
| Growing apart, nothing in common, racism, is this finally the end? | 3/24/2010 |
| Q: Here's some background: I'm black, 27. My girlfriend is Mexican American (although she consider ... A: Tyron, Clearly, this does not sound positive. Unless you are going to be happy with just great ... | |
| relatio nship | 3/23/2010 |
| Q: I am 49 yrs old and about 6 months ago a guy who I have known fo several years starting flirting and ... A: Well, if he is being genuine in sharing, it would certainly make sense about feeling pressured. His ... | |
| Disappointment | 3/19/2010 |
| Q: I am constantly doing things to disappoint my boyfriend. I have lied to him in the past. He admits ... A: Good for you Dawn in sharing this. I can imagine it is not easy to do so. I always say there is a ... | |
| Frustrated | 3/17/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have lived together for 4 years. When our ... A: Good for you in reaching out. That sounds confusing about the kissing. I am glad you asked and it ... | |
| relationship | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: answer me on a mans point of view, ok I met this guy on site and he seems to be nice. I chose him ... A: Wow Jewell, this sheds so much more light on the situation and yet it seems so confusing for me, so ... | |
| He Doesn't Know How to Commit? | 3/6/2010 |
| Q: I have been seeing a guy for a little over two years. We were extremely close, and had a great ... A: Clearly, officially ending a relationship is not easy. It sounds like it is finalized at this point ... | |
| i took a break from my boyfriend | 3/5/2010 |
| Q: im 18 and i felt distant from my boyfriend..maybe like he was taking me for granted so i told him we ... A: I am curious to how he responded when you said you felt like he was taking you for granted? Did he ... | |
| relationship | 3/3/2010 |
| Q: my friend sent me a e mail saying hello take a break, should I assume since he asked for it that he ... A: Working on ourselves is indeed hard to do so good for u in trying. What I am hearing you say is ... | |
| Confused | 2/13/2010 |
| Q: I was in a 6 year relationship with my boyfriend and broke up with him 6 months ago because things ... A: After being in a 6 yr relationship and it not working, I can imagine you not wanting to invest ... | |
| Commitment phobe | 2/11/2010 |
| Q: we have dated for about two years and three months now, but once the marriage issue comes up, bf ... A: I can hear your interest in the relationship and your motivation. Honestly, I had to check your ... | |
| inconsistencies | 2/8/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 9 months and, I think, both of us thought this was "the ... A: I can appreciate the issue of letting go, as it is certainly a common one. I always say there is a ... | |
| Clinging onto people | 1/28/2010 |
| Q: Hey 2 years ago I lost my mother to cancer when i was 16, I have found since then I have been a ... A: I am so sorry for your loss Elliot. It certainly makes sense why someone would feel the need to ... | |
| Can this be saved | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 6 months,we met online, and everything seemed ... A: Leo, what I am suggesting is that if she wants the break to truly reflect on the relationship and ... | |
| Can this be saved | 1/25/2010 |
| Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 6 months,we met online, and everything seemed ... A: Wow! This is a tough situation to be in. I would have to believe that a pregnancy and then ... | |
| I messed up | 1/20/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for only 3 months now and I messed up so bad. I didn't keep my word to ... A: I think it is a good start that you are owning your actions here. Of course, making contact with an ... | |
| My Boyfriend is very Shy | 1/15/2010 |
| Q: I am a 22 year old female and am currently in a relationship with a wonderful, smart and funny guy. ... A: I am wondering (and guessing) that he is shy around the general community as well. If not, this may ... | |
| Dependency in Relationships | 1/14/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are currently in college (where we met) and have been together for three years . ... A: I can appreciate your concern here. Have you shared this with him? I am wondering what his ... | |
| Stressed | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: Hey I have been with myboyfriend for a year and a few months n I recently broke up with him but ... A: I guess I am unsure as to why you broke up? Perhaps this is a good place to start. If there were ... | |
| Strengthining my relationship. | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: I really need advice. I've been with my fiance for 2 years now, everyone who reads this is going to ... A: good for you in taking ownership here. That takes a lot of courage and is not easy to face. As a ... | |
| Relationship advice | 1/11/2010 |
| Q: I am 25 year old woman about to graduate from college. I have been with my fiance for almost two ... A: This certainly sounds like a lot to be going through. Even before the whole paternity question, I ... | |
| can ii save this relationship ? | 1/10/2010 |
| Q: Me & my boyfriend broke up recently ; we`ve been friends for years and we tried to get serious but ... A: Good for you Tashia, You know this is about you and wanting something you have not had before. ... | |
| my marriage | 1/6/2010 |
| Q: Hi doc i have alot going on now a days well for one i am married and i dont think my wife is ... A: that is quite an undertaking. If you both were in couples counseling, I would be looking at how you ... | |
| A subject? | 1/4/2010 |
| Q: I love my man but he’s driving me nuts. There’s a lot I want to ask but keep to the main issues our ... A: As you share even this small bit of information, I am trying to figure out why you want to stay when ... | |
| Walking on egg shells! | 1/1/2010 |
| Q: My man use to live with me until last month when he moved into supportive housing for his drug ... A: I totally agree with what you are saying and I appreciate that you are hoping for more. My hunch is ... | |
| Lonley | 12/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm in a marriage 10 yrs now. We recently have had a lot of stressors financially over the past 2 ... A: I am sorry to hear that. With the stress you mention, I would wonder if he is depressed. The ... | |
| self assessment | 12/27/2009 |
| Q: am trying to self-assess myself coz recently ive been feeling very sad and upset of things girl been ... A: Yes Mike. I do believe that having that kind of job, combined with being a student, as well as just ... | |
| should we take a break? | 12/22/2009 |
| Q: I love my boyfriend SO much, let me just start with that... We have been together for 2.5 years and ... A: That certainly is a problem. I can appreciate your frustration. It is amazing how when couples ... | |
| How do I keep a 10 year relationship going? | 12/15/2009 |
| Q: I am 27 years old and have been with my fiance since high school. The past 10 years for us has been ... A: you are alluding to a past that sounds uncomfortable to even think about and yet my hunch is it ... | |
| Boyfriend Issues | 12/13/2009 |
| Q: I would love to know how to go about strengthening my relationship. By all appearances I have the ... A: This does not sound like a pleasant or fair situation. It does sound like he harbors a great deal ... | |
| Dead end relationship? | 12/12/2009 |
| Q: So first I need to say where I am at in life right now. I have been in a relationship for over three ... A: I can appreciate how you might feel frustrated as well as torn, wanting to be with someone who may ... | |
| Should I wait for him? | 12/5/2009 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over 4 yrs. now, we started dating in high ... A: I am remembering my high school graduation day and then waking up the next day feeling a bit ... | |
| Confused | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 6 months now, everything is great, minus the ... A: First let me apologize for my delay in getting back to you. I was out of the office for the ... | |
| need quick help | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I am Tarnjot 21 yrs old from India and my girlfriend 22 yrs old lives in WA USA. Today when i talked ... A: Again, Tarnjot, the fact that she is confused is not a bad thing as it is very normal. Remember to ... | |
| need quick help | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: I am Tarnjot 21 yrs old from India and my girlfriend 22 yrs old lives in WA USA. Today when i talked ... A: This would certainly leave me with a lot of questions and concern as well. Has she given you any ... | |
| I cant figure him out | 11/26/2009 |
| Q: Been dating this guy for six months, before he was in a relationship where he was under extreme ... A: I appreciate your concern and wondering what to do. On one hand, I like the idea of trying to fully ... | |
| jealousy is driving me mad. | 11/24/2009 |
| Q: I recently got back together with an ex boyfriend, I used to be with for two years. We took a ... A: Well hi there Jess! Please know that a lot of this makes sense. When you are single, there is no ... | |
| My boyfriend and father of my child says he is not the marrying type. | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: I got pregnant shortly after I met my boyfriend. He said that he did not want to get married right ... A: Nichole, this sounds disheartening. It sounds like you have been holding out hope that he would ... | |
| Help! | 11/13/2009 |
| Q: Let me start off by saying that my boyfriend and I love each other very much and we have been ... A: I like hearing your commitment and interest in making things better. I would ask him how he feels ... | |
| My boyfriend wants his alone time | 11/9/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend wants his alone time and i dont know what to do we have only been dating for 2 weeks ... A: Ok Erica. I will say that his believing that things are moving too fast is certainly a concern but ... | |
| help. | 11/6/2009 |
| Q: I wrote to another allexpert person about two weeks ago about my problem, hopefully I can get a ... A: I am sorry Lisa. This sounds like so much to be dealing with. I too am confused as to what he may ... | |
| Is he that wrong for me? | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: This is going to sound so dumb so please bear with me. I am recently divorced after being separated ... A: Charlene, I appreciate your reaching out during this confusing time. Clearly though, when it comes ... | |
| Found out husband cheated while engaged | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: I'm feeling a little lost. Two weeks AFTER my wedding I found out that my husband cheated on me ... A: Wow S, I can only imagine what learning that information was like for you, especially since he ... | |
| Confusion and heartbroken/rejected | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: we went to the cinema together and he was all over me(holding my waist, putting his face close to ... A: Kate, I guess the good news here is that he is being upfront with his feelings/hopes. It sounds ... | |
| Dating a friend | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: I met this man three months ago named John. He is a really nice guy, good to me and my grandson. ... A: Well Kristin, the neat thing here is that everyone has been open with their wants and needs. The ... | |
| moving past a bad 7 years | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for 7 years. We married young (21) and we didn't really have a ... A: I am glad you are reaching out. It sounds like you have been holding down the fort and doing what ... | |
| No Feelings | 10/8/2009 |
| Q: Kaplowitz, I am a 23 year old girl and have been in a relationship for almost 6 years with a guy of ... A: let's put your best friend aside for a moment. From what you are sharing, you have been a ... | |
| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
| Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ... A: Dean, I can only imagine how confusing this must be as well as how a number of other feelings might ... | |
| Ex-boyfriend | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ... A: Todd, this is certainly a tough one. Like your gut, I fear the same. It had only been "days ... | |
| relationship problems | 10/4/2009 |
| Q: I am having trouble with my relationship. I cureently don't feel happy but i do not want to end the ... A: I am so sorry for your struggles here. It does sound most confusing, like he is pushing you away. ... | |
| regain that spark with my girlfriend | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year and a half. i sometimes feel like our "spark" ... A: Ricky, I am glad you are reaching out. I love your attitude and wanting to enhance the passion. My ... | |
| reconnecting with ex | 9/27/2009 |
| Q: Kaplowitz, In November, I reconnected with my ex on facebook. Both he and I have been married 16-18 ... A: My gosh! There is so much that you are going through. I can only imagine the feelings that you are ... | |
| Is it Normal to Expect an Apology | 9/26/2009 |
| Q: As I stated in my earlier correspondence my spouse will not discuss the problem she has created in ... A: Wow Kiley! There seems to be so much going on here. I can certainly appreciate your fears and ... | |
| Is she scared? | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: I am currently involved in a long distance relationship that has gone fairly smooth. We have been ... A: You are welcome Mike. Honestly though, in your shoes, I would indeed be concerned with the son and ... | |
| Is it Normal to expect an Apology | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: Following a Normal disagreement in which there was absolutely NO yelling, NO shouting, NO threats & ... A: Wow Kiley! I am certainly confused and can imagine how you might be as well. That said, I don't ... | |
| Is she scared? | 9/23/2009 |
| Q: I am currently involved in a long distance relationship that has gone fairly smooth. We have been ... A: Whether we are talking about cold-feet or her guard being up, I can imagine some things coming up. I ... | |
| Getting back together with an ex | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: I have sent you a question before and found your response helpful, so I am sending you another ... A: Wait Aurelia. You are a bright and insightful person; you know what you want and it seems most ... | |
| how to make him care | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: how to make him care more for me and to be more passionate.like for example i call him when am out ... A: That is a good question Reeree. We cannot make him care though. Perhaps we might want to take the ... | |
| Anger and competivness | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: She's the one, carries with all the traits I have ever wanted However, we've been struggling , ... A: I need to understand this better and have a few questions here. Can you give me examples of how ... | |
| Is This Normal? | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: Ok, so I got my first boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Since he's my first I really didn't know how to act. ... A: good for you in reaching out. I can imagine how it might be bittersweet to hear a friend's ... | |
| What should I do? :( | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: Okay, im pretty young. Im 15 years old, my boyfriend is 16. He lives 5 hours away. So we're in a ... A: That has to be hard Mya. I can imagine being so far away and not having as many ways to see each ... | |
| spending time with ex's | 9/5/2009 |
| Q: I was not really sure if addressing this problem here would be the right idea but it seems that my ... A: Jamie, I can truly appreciate what you are sharing. I also thank you for your candor and will ... | |
| Missing butterflies | 9/3/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ... A: I am curious what would happen if you shared with her what I explained in my very last paragraph ... | |
| Missing butterflies | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ... A: Mark, I am glad you are reaching out. I think you are insightful and wonder how much of her ... | |
| Boyfriend losing interest in me | 8/26/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend is 7 years older than me we have one child together she is 6 months. We stay with my ... A: Brittany, there is so much going on here. The fact that knives are being pulled is a major concern ... | |
| Crazy ex-boyfrend; should we discuss end of relationship? | 8/24/2009 |
| Q: I care very much for someone who is deeply depressed. He is an ex-boyfriend of mine, and although ... A: You are clearly most sophisticated in attempting to deal with his depression. Unfortunately, he ... | |
| Crazy ex-boyfrend; should we discuss end of relationship? | 8/23/2009 |
| Q: I care very much for someone who is deeply depressed. He is an ex-boyfriend of mine, and although ... A: Wow! I am concerned here. It sounds like you really care about this guy and that he cares for you ... | |
| Mending our Marriage | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: I need to know how to win my wife back. I have totally destroyed our marriage. We have been married ... A: Carlos, there are a number of issues here. First, I am concerned about her safety. When you say ... | |
| I need help!!!! | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together a little over 2 years. She is 27 and I 29. I love her so ... A: Joe, this might be a wonderful opportunity for growth and I am glad you are open to look at yourself ... | |
| Relationship break | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for awhile. He has had a history of depression and anxiety and is on ... A: Mary, I am glad you are reaching out. I am wondering about the depth of his depression. The ... | |
| Should I take a hint? | 8/9/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have had a bit of a rocky 4 year relationship, we have broke up a couple times ... A: It is indeed hard to believe that children's names would be a make or break situation for him. That ... | |
| Starting a relationship Over | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend in March online. I drove from OH to PA to meet him. Things went really well we ... A: Tiffany, I am glad you are reaching out. I feel your struggle. Your words cry out angst and worry, ... | |
| Am i Going to Be Hurt? | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: this is my first time asking anyone for help in the department.. and i don't know i can get help.. ... A: Amber, I can certainly appreciate your concern. The fact that your ex cheated does not help your ... | |
| something is missing in my relationship | 7/29/2009 |
| Q: I've been in this relationship for almost 6yrs and we have a 2yr old child together.My partner has ... A: What is really neat here is how you recognize him being a "wonderful person, a great father".... and ... | |
| Am I losing him? | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I have been stupid and jealous towards a girl who is in love with my boyfriend. I know he wouldn’t ... A: Wow Jess! I appreciate your honesty and that must be difficult. In your shoes, I too would have ... | |
| back on track | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: I've been in a relationship for two and a half years. It's been kindof rocky. We have quite a few ... A: I am glad you are reaching out Laurie. I would first want to learn more about that "not looking B4 ... | |
| a friend with a crush | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: This isn't a question about a dating relationship. I was wondering if you could help me understand ... A: I appreciate your concern with your friend. It sounds like this has been a meaningful friendship ... | |
| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ... A: So Becky, what you are saying is that you know he makes time for others and could make more for you. ... | |
| Lust is gone | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my partner for 4 years. We aren't engaged, and I am starting to despise him for it. ... A: I'm sorry Hayley. That cannot be a positive feeling. Again, maybe it is how he is hearing it. He ... | |
| possessive behaviour | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: Well i'm 19 and i've been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 months. Things are going well but i feel ... A: Well, first let me say how positive it is that you are recognizing your behavior as a concern. Have ... | |
| Inconsistencies | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ... A: Aurelia, Clearly you are pretty insightful here. Long-distance relationships have additional ... | |
| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ... A: Becky, it is clear to me that you care about him and are invested. We need to find a way to connect ... | |
| Don't know what to do anymore | 7/11/2009 |
| Q: I started dating this guy about over a year ago. I have never had a serious relationship, I am now ... A: I am sorry Becky. I hear your pain and investment. The fact that this appears to be that first ... | |
| confused? | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my guy for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. He has been really mean to me ... A: I am glad you are reaching out. He may need to as well. His behavior may be a way of attempting to ... | |
| Inconsistencies | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ... A: Yes. This does sound confusing. I also share your concern that you had the feeling / need to check ... | |
How to Strengthen Your Relationship
Answers by Expert:
Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
how to help relationship. How to address issues within relationship......I am pretty open here
Experience
20th year in the field. Managed and directed clinical programs. Now, I work out of my own office as well as supervise counselors
Organizations
California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists
Publications
The California Therapist
Education/Credentials
B.A. Psychology
M.S. Counseling
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Awards and Honors
Hero of the Heart - Covina Valley USD
Past/Present Clients
I work with individuals, couples, families and children
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