| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Help please! | 11/21/2009 |
Q: Okay well sense you answered my last question and helped me alot I just had to ask another one. Well ...
A: Usually it is best to ignore people like that, for the most part, but also to be friendly to them. I ...
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| Relationships | 11/21/2009 |
Q: Okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and we are young teens but I feel ...
A: Many people feel that way at your age. The problem is that it takes until around 25 to know what you ...
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| Boyfriend lost his job and may be moving | 11/20/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is 45 and just lost his job of 24 years. I'm a 40 year old single mom of two teens. ...
A: Well, our relationship must have not been very important to you and I would be screaming, too. The ...
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| my boyfriend said he met someone else | 11/19/2009 |
Q: ok me and my boyfriend just broke up again for the 5 time we have dated for 8 months he called me ...
A: One thing that people get mixed up about is love. It is not love when a man doesn't treat you very ...
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| Break Up | 11/18/2009 |
Q: So not really sure where to begin with this but will start with what I know, I had been dating my ...
A: It would be alright to write her but your need to express yourself can hold you back. I think it is ...
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| She Wants to Take a Break... | 11/17/2009 |
Q: ... but still be friends. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year now, but suddenly she ...
A: I thought I answered this but here goes. I advised that you not get into any relationship for awhile ...
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| Break Up | 11/17/2009 |
Q: So not really sure where to begin with this but will start with what I know, I had been dating my ...
A: Moving in together before marriage often ruins a relationships. It becomes old hat and loses the ...
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| Trust Complications | 11/16/2009 |
Q: Crandall, I am 22 years old. When I was 18 I met a man who lived far away and we became ...
A: What has happened to you in your life that you would want this kind of drama in your life forever? ...
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| dating limits | 11/16/2009 |
Q: I have had a boyfriend for 3 months and he is cool with me going out with my friends to dinner and ...
A: That clarifies. Has he been with you to any of those parties so that he can see that they are ...
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| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 |
Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
A: Listen to your family and really take a look at this. Does he just have a few quirks, or is their ...
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| dating limits | 11/15/2009 |
Q: I have had a boyfriend for 3 months and he is cool with me going out with my friends to dinner and ...
A: There are parties and then their are parties. There are parties where people socialize a bit with ...
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| Hopeful | 11/14/2009 |
Q: I'm 26 yrs old, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years now and of course the first years were ...
A: The question is, are your feelings justified and you are trying to ignore them, or are you just ...
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| broken engagement and separation | 11/13/2009 |
Q: until a few months ago, I was in a 6 year relationship with a girlfriend I met in college. We had a ...
A: The problem is that you are right in that two people in a committed relationship should be able to ...
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| broken engagement and separation | 11/12/2009 |
Q: until a few months ago, I was in a 6 year relationship with a girlfriend I met in college. We had a ...
A: The down side of having committed relationships when so young is that almost always one partner ...
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| Break Up? | 11/11/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for only 8 months now. I feel very confused because there are so many ...
A: Unfortunately, many, many people do not understand what a healthy, mutually giving, and loving ...
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| He avoids | 11/9/2009 |
Q: I am 39 and as others say beautiful, and have had many problems in my life. My family and me stayed ...
A: If we could only read someone's mind, yes? If you were from out of town he probably knew it ...
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| How can I make My relationship back the way it was? | 10/12/2009 |
Q: Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. When we first got together, ...
A: Yes, do not call and let him call you. Then suggest that you date as friends so that the pressure ...
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| Commitment Issues | 10/11/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been exclusively dating for 9 months now. We are both 30, never been married ...
A: You are smart, smart, smart for not moving in with him. Do not do it. You are right, it is like ...
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| How to take him back in my life. | 10/10/2009 |
Q: Im 23 and my boyfriend is 29, we have been dating for 2 years and a half now. Our relation is a ...
A: The question you ask yourself is he willing and anxious to get counseling to work out his issues? ...
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| How to take him back in my life. | 10/10/2009 |
Q: Im 23 and my boyfriend is 29, we have been dating for 2 years and a half now. Our relation is a ...
A: This is not a good relationship for you because this man is not stable. He is also willing to play ...
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| The Grass is Always Greener | 10/9/2009 |
Q: I am 19 and my boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. We have had several fights ...
A: At your age it is very common for couples to grow apart. There is usually a difference in the level ...
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| What to do with this situation | 10/8/2009 |
Q: Theres a girl i met at college orientation and we talked a bit over the summer but once we met back ...
A: I am not sure what it means to start a relationship. If it means having sex then I can't recommend ...
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| Relationship in a rough patch | 10/8/2009 |
Q: I hope you'll be able to advise me about how to handle some difficult things in my relationship. ...
A: This scene is played over and over again in letters to me. I truly believe that sex messes up a ...
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| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ...
A: First of all, I would concentrate on having a good time without getting into too much serious ...
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| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ...
A: Sometimes a person has the personality where they really have a high need to be a provider and ...
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| Help please? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: Well i have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, but just a few months ago i have left ...
A: When relationships start to get one-sided I always recommend you switch roles. Instead of you ...
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| relationship matters | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend about a Year, 3 Months, and 20 days. We met on the internet and started ...
A: When you are together there are things to do such as look into her eyes and really listen to what ...
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| relationship matters | 10/5/2009 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend about a Year, 3 Months, and 20 days. We met on the internet and started ...
A: Long distance relationships are impossible. 80% of communication is eye contact and body language. ...
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| My fiance left me | 10/4/2009 |
Q: We were together for about 3 years. It was love at first sight. We rushed into sex and she became ...
A: Well, we have a couple of problems here. It is common to really want something we can't have and ...
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| My Boyfriend takes me for granted | 10/3/2009 |
Q: Crandall, I am 23 yrs old and my boyfriend is 4 months younger to me. We have been dating since ...
A: He is just using you for sex. As a woman you must set boundaries and rules to a relationship or you ...
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| selfish ,controlling cheating spouse | 10/1/2009 |
Q: I am a 34 years old woman with 2 small kids.I am well educated but not working. I quit working ...
A: These are questions you need to ask a lawyer. Since I do know your laws but I would do all I can ...
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| relationship break. | 10/1/2009 |
Q: I am 19 and my girlfriend decided she wanted a break. She is 17, and is a senior. I understand she ...
A: She needs time to explore life and figure out what she wants in life so just be friends with her. ...
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| taking a break? | 9/30/2009 |
Q: I'm 34, my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for four years now, living together for two. ...
A: There are several keys to creating good relationships. The first one is self-confidence and ...
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| selfish ,controlling cheating spouse | 9/29/2009 |
Q: I am a 34 years old woman with 2 small kids.I am well educated but not working. I quit working ...
A: This is too serious of a problem for me to handle here. You must get a lawyer. Surely your ...
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| boyfriend of 5 years | 9/28/2009 |
Q: I started dating my boyfriend 5 years ago. I am 43 and he is 51. We both were married before.My ...
A: No. He won't change his mind. He is very clear on the subject. You should move on if you want to ...
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| How to reconnect | 9/28/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years. 4 months ago he started saying he wasn't sure what ...
A: Well, I think it might be possible that you can get the spark back but he is not going to marry you; ...
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| How to fix my relationship! | 9/27/2009 |
Q: me and my bf have been together for about a year and a half and for the most part it has been ...
A: Well, why are you pushing him away? Only you know why you are trying to push him away. Are you ...
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| am i subconsciously trying to ruin my relationship? | 9/27/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. 11 months ago i got pregnant and we have a two ...
A: You are probably feeling the responsibility of life and wish for times when you had more freedom. ...
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| What's wrong with us? | 9/27/2009 |
Q: Well my story is like these my and my gf have been together for 8 months we had so much issues they ...
A: A good life has to be planned. We don't just fall in love and then live happily ever after. There ...
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| relationship help | 9/26/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months. We live about 40 minutes away from each ...
A: If you had sat down to write a letter to push a guy away--your letter would fit that description. ...
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| My girlfriend left last night | 9/24/2009 |
Q: I am 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost four years. These past four years have been the ...
A: If you tell her you love her several times a day what kinds of things does she expect to show her ...
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| backing off a bit | 9/22/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4mos, and we have been friends for almost 2 years. As ...
A: A person needs at least a year alone, and often more, to really get his head together after a ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend | 9/21/2009 |
Q: I don't know where to start...I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and we dated for a few months, but ...
A: You are right. You are in this relationship by yourself. A guy who loves his woman can't wait to be ...
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| its all about making me his priority | 9/20/2009 |
Q: how to make him care more for me and to be more passionate.like for example i call him when am out ...
A: People show love in different ways and people have different needs. Some people a lot more closeness ...
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| My Relationship Isssues. | 9/19/2009 |
Q: my name is Brittany and I am 20 years old. I met my "ex" four years ago in 2005. We were together ...
A: There are several problems here. Getting involved too young before each of you has matured and ...
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| 5 Year Relationship - on the verge of breaking up | 9/18/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years now. We started dating when we were both 18 ...
A: There will not be a chance for any relationship until you become happy within. You can't trade one ...
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| stress hard times | 9/17/2009 |
Q: keri 22 years old my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year..we knew each ...
A: Your challenges cannot be solved in one or two letters here but I can give you a few tips that I ...
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| Loves me what wonders what others are like | 9/17/2009 |
Q: I'm in my early twenties and have been dating, and am madly in love with, my guy of three and a half ...
A: For goodness sakes. Millions of people have slept only with one partner their whole lives and have ...
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| help | 9/16/2009 |
Q: "i am pregent and i dont want a baby but i dont want to give it up. my boyfriend does not spend time ...
A: You have really got yourself in a dilemma. You have invited a little baby into your body with a guy ...
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| My boyfriend doesnt want to spent much time with me | 9/13/2009 |
Q: I have been with my b/f 4 years now, our big problem in the relationship always has been the time ...
A: Well, let's look at this for what it is. You are his weekend girlfriend. He doesn't what he wants ...
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| Is he really into me? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. ...
A: A couple of things. Whatever you do, do not have sex with him. It is so not smart to have sex with ...
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| help me Fix my relationship | 9/13/2009 |
Q: I'm 24 and my girlfriends 18 we've been together for a year and all of her friends,guys and girls ...
A: Did you know that you can be addicted to a person just like you can Cocaine? In that case, talking ...
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| My boyfriend says I bore him | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I'm 26 years old and have been in my relationship for 3 years now. Since the beginning Spending time ...
A: This is the deal, he will not go back to the way he was because that was not who he really is. ...
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| something missing | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I'm 23 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 plus years now. We have lived together for ...
A: It is so sad to see couple move in together before marriage. It is almost always the death toll to ...
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| I want to feel secure and confident again! | 9/4/2009 |
Q: I'm 22 years old and am in a serious relationship with a 25 year old marine. We both met online ...
A: I recently had young female friend in your same situation. Even though they think they will marry, ...
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| Withrawing and the ex | 9/4/2009 |
Q: My Question is a little similar to the question posted 1/09 re co-dependency. I am 49 and am engaged ...
A: Mostly, people who are just separated are not really through with their marriage. Especially is ...
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| Missing Butterflies | 9/2/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ...
A: The problem here is that you both did too much too soon. This is a big problem with many ...
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| How often can I complement my girl without smothering her? | 9/2/2009 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for two and a half months and I like to complement her. I ...
A: You are very wise in asking this question. When a person pays a lot of compliments it comes across ...
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| help me Fix my relationship | 9/2/2009 |
Q: I'm 24 and my girlfriends 18 we've been together for a year and all of her friends,guys and girls ...
A: Back off and give it some time. Contact her maybe once a week with a friendly hi! how is is going? ...
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| Sex, Needy-ness | 8/30/2009 |
Q: 18, MD. I have had only had one sexual partner, my current boyfriend. How can I control my need for ...
A: Sometimes sex is a substitute for a real relationship. If you are not feeling close without sex ...
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| Advice | 8/30/2009 |
Q: i'm a 23 year old male. 3 months ago i got with my girlfriend. We have been doing all right but i ...
A: Well, it is difficult to read another person's mind but one of two things are happening here. She is ...
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| help me Fix my relationship | 8/28/2009 |
Q: I'm 24 and my girlfriends 18 we've been together for a year and all of her friends,guys and girls ...
A: It is pretty controlling to require your girlfriend to get permission to talk to someone. Are you ...
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| Fight-Fight-Fight | 8/27/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost 1 year, this was a FAST relationship, after 4 ...
A: Well, I hear this story a lot. People who move in together before they even know each other and it ...
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| Space and no communication | 8/27/2009 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. We are just "friends" because he knows I have issues with ...
A: He is not through with his marriage yet. It is never a good idea to get involved with anyone who ...
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| Relationship Issue | 8/26/2009 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend the past six months and we get on really well. We always have a great ...
A: This happens frequently when sexual activity begins soon in a relationship. It makes you feel like ...
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| so lost | 8/25/2009 |
Q: So here is my long story short. I have been in a live in relationship with my boyfriend for over a ...
A: Well, the question is do you feel equally yoked? By that, do you feel there is equal give and take ...
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| forced to give up...worst feeling! | 8/25/2009 |
Q: Thew worst feeling in the world, I find, is when you are in love, and see yourself with the man of ...
A: Well, this is rather complicated and actually requires some extensive coaching, but I will try to do ...
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| Dating and Relationship | 8/25/2009 |
Q: I met this girl a couple years ago at work. We got pretty close and this girl ended up liking me. ...
A: It often happens that one person likes another person more and it just doesn't work out. There is ...
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| confused | 8/24/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. I live in Missouri and he lives in Mississippi. we met ...
A: The problem here is that it takes at least a year and really around a year and a half of seeing ...
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| Dear Sharon | 8/23/2009 |
Q: ANSWER: Dear Tim, People change a lot during these years, until around age 25. It takes time and ...
A: All you can do is to try doing little things for her until she tells you not to. We can't change ...
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| Dear Sharon | 8/22/2009 |
Q: Hi Sharon i am 18 years old and my girlfriend is 17 getting ready to be 18 and she has a lot of ...
A: People change a lot during these years, until around age 25. It takes time and learning and ...
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| relationship advice | 8/22/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years. He's my first and I'm his first. We broke up ...
A: What you need is my six month coaching program. You are talking about changing your life ...
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| Relationship Phobic | 8/22/2009 |
Q: I am a 27 single yr old female. Now i have a very big problem i have had for a long time that i cant ...
A: The first thing you should do is get the book, "Bad Childhood, Good Life". Even if you may not have ...
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| Help with letter please. | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Sharon, Thanks for this site. Could you help me with the following letter? Would you send such a ...
A: It is up to you as to what you want to write to her but sometimes the less said the better. The more ...
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| Marriage | 8/20/2009 |
Q: My fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and although we have had alot of difficulties ...
A: It indeed sounds like a lack of heart to heart communication. She might be saying that she doesn't ...
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| Girlfriend of 2 years wants a break | 8/20/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and for the most part things have been ...
A: It is very common for couples to grow apart during the years when you are young and learning and ...
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| I just feel lost | 8/20/2009 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old male who has things going for him. I just graduated from the police academy in may ...
A: This didn't happen overnight and it won't be solved over night. The only hope you have is to see if ...
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| Boyfriend / Partner question | 8/19/2009 |
Q: About five months ago I met a man my age, just months apart in age. We both have reasonable ...
A: You do have a mystery. Even though he was the one pushing the togetherness he is scared in some way ...
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| Relationshipn problems | 8/19/2009 |
Q: How do I strengthen my relationship in a christian way? We both are christians and we both have ...
A: Get back to church and find a way to serve together in something that benefits others. It will bond ...
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| I dont want to loose him | 8/18/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 7 months, when we got together i already had a ...
A: Men need to be admired. Think about things you like about him and praise him when he is doing ...
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| Feeling Unwanted | 8/17/2009 |
Q: me and my boyfriend are having so many problems. His controlling ways, cheating, etc I could keep ...
A: Let it ride. It takes awhile to get to know a person and any relationship can look good right at ...
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| Should I let the love of my life go? | 8/17/2009 |
Q: I am a 43-year-old divorced mother of two great kids, 10 and 13. I met a wonderful man three years ...
A: I think you are right that he will end up regretting his decision if in his heart he does not want ...
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| Have I lost her for good this time? | 8/16/2009 |
Q: I am 33 years old. My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have 4 kids. I struggle with control ...
A: All we can do in life is decide what we want and also what boundaries we are willing to work in. ...
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| Betrayal has shattered me. | 8/16/2009 |
Q: in 2007,at age 23 i started a relationship with a guy aged 27 then(my friends friend)..and i wanted ...
A: It is too bad you married him but you did and so this is what you have to do. You have to accept ...
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| 6 yr relationship | 8/15/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 yrs and have a 2 yr old girl together. We do not ...
A: It seems pretty sad to me that you have settled for so little in your life that you would think you ...
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| I just feel lost | 8/15/2009 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old male who has things going for him. I just graduated from the police academy in may ...
A: Unfortunately, it is so easy to get in a rut in a relationship and end up just hanging out together. ...
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| Lost in translation.. | 8/14/2009 |
Q: Ok. I waited 2 years after a past relationship went sour where there was a child involved (not ...
A: Well, this is hard to figure out. I really need one or two instances where I know who said what. I ...
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| remarriage, blending families | 8/12/2009 |
Q: I am in a relationship with an Aries male born April 10, 1971. I am a Sagittarius female born ...
A: It is just an educated guess, based on 25 years of working with people and their personality traits. ...
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| my ex | 8/12/2009 |
Q: I sent a text message to my ex saying I didn't want to talk to him anymore cause I have a boyfriend. ...
A: It sounds like he believed what you said when you told him that you had someone new and didn't want ...
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| need advice quickly | 8/12/2009 |
Q: I am 31 years old and my boyfriend of nearly two years ended our relationship one week ago. To start ...
A: He has just been thrown for a big loop and to his credit, he knows that he must put his children ...
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| How do I find a happy medium between my high sex drive and my boyfriend's low sex drive? | 8/11/2009 |
Q: I am a 24 year old female and my boyfriend is 24 as well. We have been together for just over 1 ...
A: There are two reasons why this might be happening. Either there is a personality trait difference ...
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| remarriage, blending families | 8/11/2009 |
Q: I am in a relationship with an Aries male born April 10, 1971. I am a Sagittarius female born ...
A: Moving in is a really bad idea. Most couples never marry that move in together for numerous ...
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| relationships | 8/11/2009 |
Q: i resently read one of your q/a's about if your significant other is becoming distant and detached ...
A: In order to help you I need a little more information. What is there so attractive about her that ...
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| She wants to step back | 8/10/2009 |
Q: I met this girl on an online dating site and we were seeing each other for almost 2 months. I now ...
A: It is a little hard to determine what is really happening here. She could have decided that you ...
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| communication issues | 8/9/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years now and we are as close as close can be. we ...
A: It would help to know if you live together, etc. This is not so much a communicating problem. I ...
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| My wife and the internet | 8/9/2009 |
Q: How do I know if my wife is falling for someone on the internet? Here is my situation. About 5 years ...
A: I am so sorry you are having to go through this. The problem is that we teach others how to treat ...
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| lplease help! | 8/9/2009 |
Q: first I would like to thank you in advance for your time. I am typing this email on a new phone and ...
A: This is beyond what can be handled in a letter or two because it has to do with a deeper problem ...
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| growing up ? | 8/8/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have known each other since 2001, and have been dating almost a year now. We are ...
A: I am sorry to say that your story could be put in a copy machine and we could make enough copies of ...
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| I want to save my relationship with my dream girl. | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfreind for a year and six months or more. Everything was perfect the first ...
A: You are not going to like what I say but your girlfriend needs to leave you. You are controlling, ...
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| I want to save my relationship with my dream girl. | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfreind for a year and six months or more. Everything was perfect the first ...
A: The first thing to do is truly communicate with her. Ask for a time when you can get together and ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: Your hormones are raging, which is natural, but you are playing with fire. First of all, the person ...
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| Boyfriend lost his job and may be moving | 8/6/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend is 45 and just lost his job of 24 years. I'm a 40 year old single mom of two teens. ...
A: Michele, I have mixed feelings about this. I worry about him turning to drink, lying to you, and ...
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| trust | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I am in a lesbian relationship...not that that really matters what kind of relationship someone is ...
A: I am quite unfamiliar with the dynamics of this kind of relationship but in general, we can't change ...
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| no title | 7/31/2009 |
Q: My girl and I have been together for about 10 months. We were doing really well, spending time ...
A: Well dearie, She wants her cake and eat it, too and if you put up with that kind of stuff then you ...
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| worth saving??? | 7/30/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship for two and a half years. It's been kindof rocky. We have quite a few ...
A: The problem here is that you have a relationship based on sex. This is why I recommend sex after ...
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| my boyfriend | 7/30/2009 |
Q: my name is cheryl and i want 2 know why dont my boyfriend spend anytime with me anymore we have a 4, ...
A: The problem is that you have given him everything and required nothing of him so he is taking your ...
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| Pushing me away | 7/21/2009 |
Q: I am 19 years old. My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and our son is 8 months ...
A: Without knowing your girlfriend I am no sure what to recommend. I know you are serious about this ...
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| Need help ASAP | 7/21/2009 |
Q: and i am 17 years old, and i need ur help wit something all the other experts are not helping me ...
A: First of all, go to the library and read things that are interesting that you can talk about. Be ...
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| Does he just like me as a friend? | 7/21/2009 |
Q: We havent known him for a long time but and he used to take classes with me but we never talked. I ...
A: I think he is just trying to be friends and that is why he calls you sister. Maybe by calling you ...
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| why is he trying to walk out | 7/20/2009 |
Q: i am a 33 yr mother of three children, my boyfreind of 4 yrs we have twin babies together and we ...
A: I think you need a whole new life. A man who lies and cheats will probably always lie and cheat. It ...
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| Aggravated and Disappointed | 7/19/2009 |
Q: My Boyfriend of 7 years and I had met when we were just about 13. We had our daughter at a very ...
A: There are several things going on here. What seemed glamorous and wonderful turned into reality ...
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| vulnerable | 7/18/2009 |
Q: I am fed up with being punished and ignored by my husband when we have a problem between us he is ...
A: I am so happy you have the courage to stand up for yourself and express to me how you feel. That is ...
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| vulnerable | 7/17/2009 |
Q: I am fed up with being punished and ignored by my husband when we have a problem between us he is ...
A: He doesn't respect you because you keep putting up with it. The question is--do you provoke him? ...
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| Am I not seeing the signs? | 7/17/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 10 months. He seems so distant lately and he ...
A: It is hard to say what is happening here but I do know that if a guy really cares a lot he wants to ...
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| show me a way | 7/15/2009 |
Q: "Hello I have a relationship for 9 months. Also i know her like since 2002. She was my very best of ...
A: There is something in us that wants to have a relationship where we are the only one and there has ...
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| feeling taken for granted | 7/12/2009 |
Q: Please help me with my relationship troubles. I'm 25, dating my boyfriend whose 26 for almost a year ...
A: Giving him an ultimatum was okay but I think it was a waste of time. A guy is either really into ...
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| At a lost after nine years | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Well to begin I am a forty year old woman who has been in a relationship with my "fiancee'". It has ...
A: If he cheated on you once he will cheat on you again. When a guy starts causing trouble such as ...
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| continue or end? | 7/10/2009 |
Q: I am so confused. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years. We've have had some rocky roads but ...
A: It is always uncanny to me how abusive and self-serving men can attract such nice women. I am just ...
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| How to save a broken relationship? | 6/25/2009 |
Q: my name is Hima,i am 24 years old...i have been into a relationsnhip with my boyfriend past a ...
A: I can help people when they have differences when both want to work it out but in this case, he has ...
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| girlfriend smokes to hurt me? | 6/25/2009 |
Q: currently my girlfriend for nearly 5 years is smoking just to hurt me. About a year or two back, we ...
A: Buy her a carton of cigarettes and tell her that if she wants to kill herself go right ahead. This ...
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| Communication | 6/25/2009 |
Q: I dont even know where to start. I am 18 years old, and Ive just graduated high school. When I was 8 ...
A: My heart goes out to you. There is so much to life and this I know. You were created to fulfill ...
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| don't know what to do with my relationship | 6/24/2009 |
Q: I met my girlfriend last summer at a summer internship and we have continued dating for the last ...
A: I think it is a good idea that you stopped having sex because when the focus is sex you do not get a ...
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| fiance issue | 6/24/2009 |
Q: My FI have been together for 1 1/2 yrs, engaged 9 months, due to wed next mo, now called off. I have ...
A: It is usually not a good idea to marry when already have a child unless you are absolutely sure that ...
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| relationships | 6/23/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. He cheated on me early on in our relationship. It ...
A: I believe you shouldn't just jump right into it full force. I think that you need to tell him that ...
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| NO TRUST! | 6/23/2009 |
Q: okay me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years, the first time we met we started ...
A: I hate to say this but your boyfriend is a very self-serving boyfriend and is irrational in his ...
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| Boyfriend Problems | 6/22/2009 |
Q: I am 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for a 1 year and a half. We are ...
A: Love is never enough. That is why the divorce rate is so high. A good marriage must be based on ...
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| Need to believe I am very important now. | 6/21/2009 |
Q: I am 49. Over the past almost 3 years I have had a relationship with a man who had just separated ...
A: There are a couple of things that could be happening. You could have the trait of Idealism which ...
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| Taken For Granted | 6/17/2009 |
Q: I am twenty seven years old and my boyfriend is thirty one, and we have been with my boyfriend for ...
A: What you see is what you get. Your bf is happy with this relationship the way it is. He likes his ...
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| Help! Is this a sign of the end? | 6/17/2009 |
Q: My partner is currently out of work and is on antidepressants as he has suffered from depression ...
A: From what you say, your bf has some serious problems he is dealing with right now and truly needs ...
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| breaks in a relationship | 6/16/2009 |
Q: yesterday my girlfriend of a year and a half asked if we could have a break. so we can grow up and ...
A: I think it is a great idea because too, too many people feel this way after marriage and three kids ...
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| Relationship Issue | 6/13/2009 |
Q: Age 20: Hello Sharon. A little background for you; my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a ...
A: It really helps to know if you are sexually active with him or not. If he only sees you when he ...
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| work relationships? | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ...
A: Men have a blind spot when it comes to girls coming on to them. They do not see it. They think ...
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| relationship break? | 6/9/2009 |
Q: i am 21 and so is my ex.we have been dating sense we were 16 but have know eachother sinse we were ...
A: This happens when couples get together into a serious relationship when too young. One or the other ...
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| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 5/25/2009 |
Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ...
A: Women make mistakes by taking the lead in relationships. No matter what is accepted at this time, ...
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| Flirting | 5/20/2009 |
Q: A guy I've been seeing for 4 months just openly admitted that he flirts with other girls and I'm ...
A: First of all four months is really not long enough to even know if you want any kind of a permanent ...
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| Should I end things with my boyfriend? | 5/20/2009 |
Q: So I am 19 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I still live at home but he has ...
A: Your guy might be a comfortable boyfriend but he is not a good catch. Goodness, what if you got ...
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| break when buying a house? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: in that 8 years we have travelled the world she has been to uni in the states for a year what im ...
A: I have some tough things to say. Usually, the thing people do is the opposite of what is best. ...
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| To break up or not to break up... | 5/19/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and living together for the last year. I meant ...
A: He is the typical abuser. He abuses and then feels all badly and does some things to make up for it ...
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| break when buying a house? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: in that 8 years we have travelled the world she has been to uni in the states for a year what im ...
A: There are too many unknowns for me to be as effective in helping you as I would like. Has marriage ...
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| Boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend get along fantastically. But sometimes I can't help but have a blank mind when I ...
A: I didn't think you were looking for sex from him but sometimes girls do not understand how they can ...
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| Boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend get along fantastically. But sometimes I can't help but have a blank mind when I ...
A: Your boyfriend is being very smart. All great relationships have a natural progression that is very ...
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| Boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend get along fantastically. But sometimes I can't help but have a blank mind when I ...
A: You do not have to talk all the time when you are together, and not having something to talk about ...
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| Girlfriend is not over Ex | 5/17/2009 |
Q: It's be six months since my girlfriend broke up with her ex. The relationship of her and I has ...
A: You have two choices, one is to accept it and just forget it as best you can and start being a ...
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| Confused | 5/17/2009 |
Q: I am a senior accounting major in college about to start my masters work and plan to become a CPA ...
A: This is the deal. It is tough but it sounds like you are fortunate to find out now what she is ...
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| Break up | 5/15/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I of one year broke up this past Monday. I was the one that did it. I am just ...
A: There is nothing wrong with you. There is an order of progression in any relationship that needs to ...
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| my boyfriend and his ex pictures on facebook | 5/15/2009 |
Q: My now boyfriend, Scott, and his ex girlfriend, Ali, broke up a little over 2 years ago. When they ...
A: It really helps. Now, often what we think are insecurities are actually gut feelings trying to warn ...
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| my boyfriend and his ex pictures on facebook | 5/15/2009 |
Q: My now boyfriend, Scott, and his ex girlfriend, Ali, broke up a little over 2 years ago. When they ...
A: It is very natural when people are young and growing to not really know what they want. They think ...
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| he needs a break | 5/15/2009 |
Q: I was dating a wonderful man for about 8 months and everything was absolutely perfect. We would do ...
A: Well, it wouldn't be too bad to go if you could absolutely not show any affection. No hand holding. ...
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| he needs a break | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I was dating a wonderful man for about 8 months and everything was absolutely perfect. We would do ...
A: Hi. Life is tough sometimes, isn't it? However, it is all good if we learn and grow from our ...
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| My ex | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I contacted you not long ago about my ex contacting me 5 months after our break up. I am having ...
A: A couple of things. First of all, you do not even have a relationship where you can give him an ...
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| My ex | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I contacted you not long ago about my ex contacting me 5 months after our break up. I am having ...
A: Don't hold onto the fantasy any longer. He keeps talking to you because he feels guilty but that is ...
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| My boyfriend has become a jerk. | 5/13/2009 |
Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ...
A: I hate to tell you this but you were in love with a fantasy and he was participating in the fantasy. ...
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| Relationship ups & downs | 5/13/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend on and off for the past 4 years. He is divorced and had past issues with ...
A: Love is not enough. If love were enough there would be few divorces. Love must be nurtured and fed. ...
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| My partner and I fought. I need your advice. | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I've seen a girl for a little over a month now. We liked each other very much. Intense passion. She ...
A: There is a country song called "Lookin' for love in all the wrong places." There are plenty of ...
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| Case of the EX | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriends for almost 9 months,6 months into the relationship we slept ...
A: How do I tell someone that they need time to grow up and be mature and build a life for themselves ...
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| My partner and I fought. I need your advice. | 5/11/2009 |
Q: I've seen a girl for a little over a month now. We liked each other very much. Intense passion. She ...
A: Your doing something wrong doesn't change who she is. Why would you want to get to the way things ...
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| Love Confusion | 5/10/2009 |
Q: I love a gal very much.But unable to talk to her because she works in a software company & earns a ...
A: You do have a problem. I would ask her if she knows of any job openings and that you are diligently ...
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| relationship | 5/9/2009 |
Q: ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years ive lived with him just about a year my question is why ...
A: I think this is the second question from you and so my answer to the first question applies here. ...
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| alcohol problem | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years lived with him under year. I pay him 350.00 a month and ...
A: Is this the man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Are you educated or trained so that ...
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| A relationship without a title- Help?! | 5/8/2009 |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend now for almost 2 years. About 3 months ago, we had a falling out and ...
A: Don't be so easy for him. By just accepting this you are making it easy for him to take you for ...
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| relationship issues. | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I am 23 years old and have been dating this guy for about two and a half years. We have had problems ...
A: It is clear he is taking you for granted. If you have been nagging and complaining, however, that ...
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| trust issues in a relationship | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I feel like my husband is hiding some dark secret and I do not trust his behavior. He has a ...
A: It is only paranoia when your thinking is irrational. With his history there really could be ...
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| Intimate relationship | 5/5/2009 |
Q: I am writing this letter as a last chance to see what else I can do to help my wife. We have been ...
A: I am so sorry of your troubles. I wish I had great news for you but people do not change unless ...
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| so in love then ... confused | 5/5/2009 |
Q: ..in the beg of the realtionship he was sooo caring and gave me so much attention he still is but ...
A: At this point there isn't too much you can do to fix this because your boyfriend does not want you ...
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| Distance problems | 5/4/2009 |
Q: my name is James. I'm currently enlisted in the military and that has put serious strain between ...
A: I am not sure what you mean about not being honest about your personal life and marriage. Does this ...
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| Confused by relationship status | 5/3/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend of 3 years recently told me we need to take a break. He said he's been under a lot of ...
A: If he loves you and cares about you then he would want to be with you. He is having some ...
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| relationships | 5/2/2009 |
Q: How do I fix my relationship after i have said some hurtful things to my mate
A: Whenever someone says something hurtful to another person it is because there is a problem that is ...
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| I think i love my BF....... | 4/30/2009 |
Q: My question is that me and my BF have been together for about four months now. We live apart from ...
A: No, do not tell him you love him or tell him you might move to CA. I see too many women jump right ...
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| Long Distance Relationship turning into no Relationship | 4/29/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. For the past six months we have had a long ...
A: I do think there is some codependency going on here. You are quite needy in this relationship and ...
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| I need advice Please | 4/27/2009 |
Q: Im 27 years old and have been with my fiance now for 6 years we would have gotten married along ...
A: I wish I could talk to you, personally, and do a telephone coaching session with you. When little ...
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| Devastated and confused | 4/26/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are 25 years old. We have been together for almost 5 years. While we have had ups ...
A: I think you know the answer to your questions but just need a boost in courage. It takes 1 1/2 to 2 ...
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| does a break mean it over? | 4/25/2009 |
Q: Here’s the situation, I am a gay male and 18 years old, I have been dating a guy who is 21(we are ...
A: Almost always a break means it is the end. People change a lot and often grow different directions. ...
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| Relationship or engagement | 4/24/2009 |
Q: I am needing to strengthen my relationship, We use to be so close and our past is pulling us apart. ...
A: There are so many possibilities here that I really need more information to help you very much. I ...
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| my relationship | 4/24/2009 |
Q: Im 19 and my boyfriend is 19. We met August 18th through the internet. I lived in Texas and he lived ...
A: The first thing to realize is that when you meet over the internet you really do not get to know the ...
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| friendship | 4/23/2009 |
Q: I have a question, I go to the same place where they have music and dancing almost every weekend, ...
A: What you see is what is. He didn't hold your hand and he hasn't asked you to go out with him again. ...
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| friendship | 4/23/2009 |
Q: I have a question, I go to the same place where they have music and dancing almost every weekend, ...
A: Once again, if a guy really likes you romantically he can't wait to see you and be with you, ...
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| friendship | 4/22/2009 |
Q: I have a question, I go to the same place where they have music and dancing almost every weekend, ...
A: Joann, In your mind you have developed a fantasy that he likes you more than just a dance partner ...
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| want him to be dere..... | 4/21/2009 |
Q: hey dere...i have a boyfriend and we hav been together for past 2 and a half years...the problem i ...
A: I think you are in love with him but he is not in love with you. Man in love can't wait to be with ...
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| Is it time to break up? | 4/21/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for coming up a year now, and I keep wondering if it's time for me to ...
A: I think you know the answer--that you are not compatible. Think about this. A true loving ...
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| girlfriend pulls away | 4/20/2009 |
Q: I am 44 years old and my girlfriend is 49. We have been dating for 9 months now. Our relationship ...
A: This relationship seems to one-sided to me for it to be a good relationship. This can happen ...
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| My wife's internet | 4/18/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years now. For the last few months, she has been ...
A: Of course, she has to be the one to break this off but you are also not obligated to trust her ...
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| Confused???? | 4/18/2009 |
Q: Age: 27 My "common law" husband and I have been together for 9 years, we have three children ...
A: It would help to have more about your relationship but it would seem that if you are doing all you ...
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| marriage support/problems | 4/18/2009 |
Q: I will start by saying that I am not a trusting person, nor a very emotionally invested one under ...
A: I would really like to help you but I am so limited here. If at all possible I would see a ...
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| Confused???? | 4/18/2009 |
Q: Age: 27 My "common law" husband and I have been together for 9 years, we have three children ...
A: Without more information it is hard to say what would help but I will say that if you treat him like ...
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| Frustrated and Tired | 4/17/2009 |
Q: I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months. It has really been a rocky relationship. ...
A: I need some more information. Could you send me an example or two of what questions you ask him ...
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| My wife's internet "friendship" with another man | 4/16/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years now. For the last few months, she has been ...
A: I believe that if she really wanted to restore your relationship she would cut off the other ...
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| Long Distance Relationship turning into no Relationship | 4/15/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. For the past six months we have had a long ...
A: Unfortunately, if she is seeing someone else then she has already left the relationship on an ...
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| I dnt knw y he has changed | 4/14/2009 |
Q: We have been in this relation for the past 9 months although I know him from last 9 years and he ...
A: Here are some lessons on love that might help you. #1--having sex without the commitment of ...
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| What does my ex want? | 4/14/2009 |
Q: 5 months ago, my partner of 10 years left. I was devastated. He didn't seem to want to talk at the ...
A: Follow your gut feelings. Think about this. If you think you want to talk to him, ask him why he ...
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| I dont want to push my boyfriend away. | 4/13/2009 |
Q: So I have been dating my boyfriend for about four months. I was actually really good friends with ...
A: Your question is very interesting because both the question and the solution is already right there ...
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| jealousy | 4/13/2009 |
Q: my name is Amanda and I am hoping you can help me I have been with my boyfriend two years now and ...
A: Well dear. He is a cheater and a liar so how can you ever trust him? Of course you do not trust ...
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| my boyfriend has never been in love | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I'm 31. My boyfriend is 38. We've been dating 2 months. I asked if he's ever been in love and he ...
A: Sit by his side and take his hand and hold his hand. Then let yourself feel what you feel. do not ...
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| I found a good man but he's boring and proud of it | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I have been dating someone for 2 months. I'm 31 and he's 38. We are both busy people, who isn't. ...
A: Dating is to see if you are compatible with someone and you are not. You are outgoing and hate TV ...
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| i dont know what to do | 4/12/2009 |
Q: im 17 me and my boyfriend have been together for more than two years now through our whole ...
A: It is very hard to admit when you have made a mistake but you have clearly made a mistake in ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him dearly but I feel like I can't go ...
A: If he was otherwise a good guy there are things you might do to help him be not jealous but since he ...
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| trust problems from past relationships are affecting my current relationship | 4/11/2009 |
Q: im 18 years old now, i was with a guy for two years we never did anything but kiss till we was ...
A: It would be okay to get some counseling, but even if you are all healthy and over the past you ...
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| trust problems from past relationships are affecting my current relationship | 4/11/2009 |
Q: im 18 years old now, i was with a guy for two years we never did anything but kiss till we was ...
A: If you have read many of my answers you know that I believe in waiting until marriage to have sex. ...
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| strong woman, stepkid | 4/10/2009 |
Q: I've been with her for 3 alomst 4 years now. It has been great for the most part. I love her, I ...
A: This is the deal. It never works for a step parent/figure to take any kind of parenting role unless ...
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| should i give it another try? | 4/10/2009 |
Q: she has 2 kids and i have one of my own. we have grown to be a great little family. i love her kids ...
A: I am proud of you for seeking advice. It shows that you care and are open to changing your life for ...
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| spending time together | 4/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year 2 months, he is 32 and I am 25. We didn't jump into ...
A: No, you are not crazy and not out of line at all. So, what is this partnership all about? You ...
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| Keep it or let it go | 4/9/2009 |
Q: My fiancé and I have been together for 3 years. He proposed when we had been together about 8 ...
A: You are so asking for trouble if you married him. While religious difference isn't much of a ...
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| A break | 4/8/2009 |
Q: I am 22 years old. I have been dating "K" for a year and a half. He just turned 25 years old. Right ...
A: There are problems bigger than your little fights. It takes two people to make a relationship and ...
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| breakup or stay together? | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I am 23 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. He is a great guy. We get long, ...
A: I would not consider marrying him until he finds out about himself. If he doesn't love anyone, ...
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| Closeness | 4/6/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend loves me very much and I am the first guy in her life but the problem with my ...
A: If she is afraid you will try to have sex with her then for her, she has placed these boundaries ...
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| what do i do? | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I was dating to beautiful girl for 8 months. At the beginning of our relationship she ask me have I ...
A: Your girlfriend has high standards and she is hoping for someone who also has high standards. Men ...
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| advise | 4/6/2009 |
Q: What can i do to change the monotony of my relationship? ANSWER: Hi Krystal, What is the goal of ...
A: Living together without marriage almost never works. It is like playing at marriage but without the ...
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| i have a communication problem with my partner | 4/6/2009 |
Q: my partner is 14 years older than me we've been together for a year now and it is a far distance ...
A: What is the point of a relationship if you are never together? It is more like two strangers ...
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| advise | 4/5/2009 |
Q: What can i do to change the monotony of my relationship?
A: What is the goal of your relationship? Is it marriage? Is it just to date and have fun? Does this ...
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| Im desperate!!! | 4/5/2009 |
Q: So this whole thing starts like this. I had a boyfriend we where together for three years after ...
A: Boy! You have got yourself into hot water for sure. Having sex with an ex while with someone ...
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| Troubled relationship | 4/4/2009 |
Q: I am currently in a relationship which a great guy however we don't communicate like we used too. He ...
A: This is the answer. You are being unrealistic in your views of what this relationship should be. ...
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| Troubled relationship | 4/4/2009 |
Q: I am currently in a relationship which a great guy however we don't communicate like we used too. He ...
A: It depends on what you mean by non communication. Often women expect men to be like women in their ...
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| Confused | 4/4/2009 |
Q: I am 24 years old I have been in a realtionship with my girlfriend for about a year and a half and ...
A: Suggest counseling with her. Dreams usually represent the fears we have because of our own feelings ...
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| Should I give it more time or break it off? | 4/3/2009 |
Q: I'm 25 years old and boyfriend is 28. We've been "officially" together for 8 months now. He is one ...
A: Dating is to get to know people to see if you are compatible. It is too bad that so many girls look ...
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| saving a relationship and keeping the feelings alive | 4/3/2009 |
Q: I have recently turned 17, and am in high school, I understand that I am young, but surely you could ...
A: Yes, I do remember. At the time it seemed important but after that time I realized how much people ...
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| What 2 do!! | 4/2/2009 |
Q: ..ok to start with im 24-years. I met this guy at work. He is also 24. Our relation or dnt know what ...
A: If a guy really cares for you he can't wait to be with you and if you are a little hard to get that ...
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| is it good enough? | 4/1/2009 |
Q: I am 34yo. Moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years just last month. i love him and want him to be ...
A: You are setting up a textbook case for a co-dependent relationship and that is not healthy. If you ...
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| What 2 do!! | 4/1/2009 |
Q: ..ok to start with im 24-years. I met this guy at work. He is also 24. Our relation or dnt know what ...
A: Yes you are wasting your time. A guy that likes you would take you out. He is only calling you ...
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| relationships | 3/31/2009 |
Q: I have a question for you that im hoping you can give me some direction with. me and my boyfriend ...
A: Who we want and what we want in life can change an awful lot. In working with quite a few women ...
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| Charge card | 3/31/2009 |
Q: I have a Bi-Polar husband who is controling, I was going to leave him a few weeks back if he did ...
A: I do not know what you can do. The only thing you can do is to tell him that he is so controlling ...
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| relationships | 3/31/2009 |
Q: I have a question for you that im hoping you can give me some direction with. me and my boyfriend ...
A: This is definitely a deal breaker; however he is young and might change his mind about it. People ...
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| i want my boyfrend back | 3/30/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I been together for over a year now and we just had a babyboy. I love my boyfriend ...
A: Well, I really need to be talking to your boyfriend because love is a choice and it is natural that ...
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| How to mend a broken relationship | 3/29/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my fiance now for a year and we have always had some issues even in the ...
A: I know you would like me to help you fix this relationship but since I care about people and you, ...
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| Long distance girlfriend unsure about taking a break | 3/29/2009 |
Q: I'm 20, my long distance girl of 3 months is 19 and is not sure if she wants to take a break from ...
A: I wouldn't bother. Anyone who has to take a nap instead of talking to his supposed love interest, ...
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| he chooses his friend over me | 3/28/2009 |
Q: We have been together almost two years and have an 8 month old son together. Recently he started ...
A: No, I don't think you are wrong but I don't think an ultimatum is the answer. I would tell him that ...
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| help! | 3/28/2009 |
Q: i have been with my now fiance for 5 yrs weve been engaged for 6 months now we have two children ...
A: I don't have enough information to help you like I could but I do have a recommendation. Read Dr. ...
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| need help with failing relationship | 3/28/2009 |
Q: Sharon - First, let me thank you for taking time out to help me with my relationship problems. I ...
A: It isn't that your feelings don't count. It is that men are different than women and they can't ...
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| my relationship | 3/28/2009 |
Q: ive been with my girlfriend for almost 6 yearsand i think its goin down the drain, we have been ...
A: I don't get dating for 6 years without getting married because relationships go through all sorts of ...
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| Relationship is fizziling out.... | 3/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been together for 6 months. It has been a bit of a rocky ...
A: Sometimes it is just a matter of nature taking its course. The problem is that when you start ...
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| relationship on the rocks due to depression | 3/26/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. I am 25 he is 26. We met at university. Prior to a ...
A: There is no way to fix another person. He needs to go to counseling and make changes in his life. ...
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| Girlfriend pullling away | 3/25/2009 |
Q: , I am 25 and my girlfriend is 28. We have been together for almost 5 months now. We live 2 hours ...
A: This problem happens a lot. A couple gets together and starts having sex before they truly know ...
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| relationship problems | 3/24/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend broke up and she had sex with another man. The person she had sex with was her ...
A: Well, if you both cheated then what can you do or say? All you both did was take a big risk by ...
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| How to give more space and freedom if you dont know how | 3/22/2009 |
Q: Ok Im 20 yrs old.Me and my fiance Michael have been together for 1yr and 4 months and living ...
A: It makes me so sad to see people get themselves into such problems at so young an age. What is why ...
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| Nearly 3 Years & Issues Are Getting Bigger | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I am 27 years old, going to be 28 in a few days and have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 ...
A: In a healthy, loving and giving relationship when one person expresses how he feels and how he is ...
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| Nearly 3 Years & Issues Are Getting Bigger | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I am 27 years old, going to be 28 in a few days and have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 ...
A: Talking never, never, never, never works--as you have proven once again to me as a coach. When you ...
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| marriage on the rocks | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I am 30 yrs old.I think my husband is talking about me behind my back,crazy right? His whole family ...
A: If he is working hard to save money so you can move out and is considerate of you most of the time ...
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| marriage on the rocks | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I am 30 yrs old.I think my husband is talking about me behind my back,crazy right? His whole family ...
A: You knew what he was when you married him so I am not sure what is the best thing to do here. You ...
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| Manchild | 3/20/2009 |
Q: I have dated my husband for 6yrs before we married last year. Since we have been married, he ...
A: Just out of curiosity, what clues did you overlook before you were married? Well, water under the ...
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| even steven | 3/18/2009 |
Q: I recently started dating a guy...I am 21, he's 22...we've been together for about 2 months now and ...
A: Is the problem that you feel you are too much the center of attention or are you feeling that maybe ...
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| Long Distance | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I am 23 and my boyfriend in 28. We have been dating for a year and a half now. We have an ...
A: Red flag. Red flag. When you are assessing a situation you look for red flags of warning. The way ...
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| Nearing the end? | 3/17/2009 |
Q: I am 22 years old, my boyfriend is couple of years older. We have been together for a year. Few ...
A: This is not a good relationship. This man is not good enough for you. First of all, you cannot ...
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| my ex and i | 3/16/2009 |
Q: .. she wants to "take it slow" im not really sure how to do this i usually rush into everything... i ...
A: I think it is very wise to just be friends and for goodness sakes do not have sex with her. If she ...
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| I WANT MY EX BACK + BABY ON BOARD! | 3/16/2009 |
Q: Recently me and my boyfriend of 7 months broke things off after his father's passing. It was about 3 ...
A: At this point, with a baby in the picture I am not sure what you can do. It is so difficult to me ...
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| My Relationship, break, counseling, or what else? | 3/16/2009 |
Q: so i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years i was 18, he was 19. my mom moved him into our house ...
A: You know. People that live good and happy lives plan their lives and do not settle for just anyone ...
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| 3 month mark of LDR relationship - fearing break up | 3/16/2009 |
Q: I'm 20, she's 19. I'm in South Korea, She's in North Carolina, Chapel Hill. On 03/27/09, it will be ...
A: I think you already have it figured out. She has cooled off. Long distant relationships often do ...
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| my ex and i | 3/15/2009 |
Q: .. she wants to "take it slow" im not really sure how to do this i usually rush into everything... i ...
A: Dustin, Men are hunters by nature and tend to go right after what they want. So, this is the deal. ...
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| Is Taking a Break the Answer? | 3/15/2009 |
Q: Sorry, this is pretty long. My fiance (26) and I (24) have been together for 16.5 months, engaged ...
A: There are two ways to handle this. The first one is how most people handle a situation like this. ...
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| dating | 3/14/2009 |
Q: I have a question, didn't ask this before...I have a male friend and we are suppose to go out on ...
A: That is a tough one. Often, we know by our gut feelings what to do, if we can set aside our fears ...
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| Trust, compatability, infedelity problems in my relationship | 3/14/2009 |
Q: I'm 22 years old, My girlfriend is 20 and we've been together for 2 years next month (not counting ...
A: Your gut feelings are probably right and there is something going on. The problem is that people ...
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| dating | 3/14/2009 |
Q: I have a question, didn't ask this before...I have a male friend and we are suppose to go out on ...
A: Gosh, I don't know without asking him. Since you initiated the whole thing perhaps he either ...
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| 2 years... and now college | 3/13/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 and a half years.. we started dating when i was a ...
A: Don't take it personally. This is very common that people, when they start dating seriously before ...
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| He thinks I'm perfect! | 3/12/2009 |
Q: I know this might not sound like a big relationship problem at first, but bear with me. I've been ...
A: . Interesting dilemma. What is happening is you are feeling that it is a weakness on his part, a ...
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| On a break. | 3/12/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and got engaged a year and an half. We plan our ...
A: When people get into serious relationships too soon and then they go on for so long, it is very ...
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| Should I break up? | 3/12/2009 |
Q: Im 17 years old, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year a half. Before he went to ...
A: You are very attached to him but you are not in love with him. Love is not getting tired of a ...
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| Marriage rute with in the first year | 3/11/2009 |
Q: This April my husband and I will be married a full year, and as how excited I am that we made it I ...
A: Oh, boy! You have a real problem and I am not sure that it can be fixed. It sounds like your ...
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| does she really like me | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I'm 23 and me and my girlfriend have been dating for a month and a half now. Some times i feel like ...
A: It would help to know what she is saying to you so I could read this situation better so I can only ...
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| living without feeling desired | 3/9/2009 |
Q: i am in a difficult situation. I recently split up with my boyfriend of two years whom I'm in love ...
A: The battle for living a good life is in the brain. You know that you are too needy when it comes to ...
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| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/8/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ...
A: Usually when someone needs a lot of attention it carries from their childhood but there could also ...
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| he's more into his friends | 3/6/2009 |
Q: I am 21 in July and my boyfriend is 22 in June we have been together for 5 1/2 years. We have the ...
A: My oh my! You are sure right when you say he is in control. You have trained him well to ...
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| the end? | 3/6/2009 |
Q: I am in a situation you read about every day. I too am going through a break-up. I know what I am ...
A: That helps. I can help with some things that could help you in this or any other relationship. ...
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| falling apart | 3/5/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship for 3yrs now and my partner has been my best friend for around 6yrs. For ...
A: This might sound strange but sometimes a person doesn't stay with a recovering addict of any kind ...
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| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/5/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ...
A: I am so sorry but this question and information is way too long. I tried to get the gist of it so ...
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| the end? | 3/5/2009 |
Q: I am in a situation you read about every day. I too am going through a break-up. I know what I am ...
A: I am at a loss a bit because it is not clear why you are breaking up. If you have judged that you ...
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| negative changes in our relationship! | 3/3/2009 |
Q: I have been together with my boyfriend for over 2 years now.. We met thru friends and had to have a ...
A: You really answered your own question. You know that you want to return to your old self and ...
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| relationship break | 3/3/2009 |
Q: I am 23(in a couple of weeks) my partner is 25. I met peter at a family party. we started talking ...
A: Sounds like you are thinking quite well. The problem with trust is that people change a lot, ...
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| relationship break | 3/2/2009 |
Q: I am 23(in a couple of weeks) my partner is 25. I met peter at a family party. we started talking ...
A: It sounds like the typical too much too soon relationship that happens so often now that women have ...
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| relationship question | 3/2/2009 |
Q: Shortened question. My boyfriend is afraid to move in with me because of past issues with trust ...
A: You are going about this all wrong. First of all, if you have high fears of abandonment you will ...
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| dating | 3/1/2009 |
Q: I am going out with this guy like not all the time and I recently went over to his place after we ...
A: Sorry. I usually only allow two questions so can't help you any longer. I wish you well. There are ...
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| dating | 2/27/2009 |
Q: I am going out with this guy like not all the time and I recently went over to his place after we ...
A: I have already answered the question. He has let you know how he feels. He didn't want to talk to ...
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| dating | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I am going out with this guy like not all the time and I recently went over to his place after we ...
A: Do not make the mistake of many women and think that if they have sex with a guy it means the guy ...
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| dating | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I am going out with this guy like not all the time and I recently went over to his place after we ...
A: Basically just ask him if he considers you just friends and that you are okay with that. If he ...
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| I don't know what to do. | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I'm 19, and i have a boyfriend that is 4 years older than me. We met a years ago, and we fell in ...
A: You are too young to be in a serious relationship let alone a live in relationship. He picked you ...
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| dating | 2/25/2009 |
Q: I am going out with this guy like not all the time and I recently went over to his place after we ...
A: It always amazes me that women latch onto a guy as though because he takes them out a few times that ...
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| How so I get him to want to be with me | 2/23/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and we only spend one night a week ...
A: Well, dear, it is time to wake up and see things for what they are. Whenever a guy doesn't ...
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| Strengthening relationship | 2/22/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over 8 months. She is four years younger than me and she just ...
A: She is younger than you and probably feels that being in an exclusive relationship is stopping her ...
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| Nearing the Breaking Point | 2/19/2009 |
Q: To start off, I'm twenty three and my boyfriend is thirty. We've been together a year and a half and ...
A: Your boyfriend is a controller and controllers choose people who are easily controlled. We get into ...
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| I don't know if he truly loves me. | 2/18/2009 |
Q: I'm 29 and have been with my fiance for just over 7 years now. Throughout the relationship I've ...
A: No, you are not silly. I think you are exactly right as to why he is sticking around. Also, ...
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| not connecting? | 2/17/2009 |
Q: I am 19 years old, i really hope you can give me some good advice about this. here is the situation. ...
A: What is happening is very common for long distant relationships where you meet on the internet. It ...
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| personality differences with wife | 2/15/2009 |
Q: First off, I am a huge fan of personality theories and psychology. I always like to try to learn ...
A: I wish I could work with both of you so she could understand her personality traits that are causing ...
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| relationship, whether a break is the right choice | 2/11/2009 |
Q: My boyfriends father recently died. My boyfriend is reacting to the death with anger, which has ...
A: It is pretty natural to be angry and also want to withdraw from others when there is a death of a ...
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| affection | 2/11/2009 |
Q: I'm 19 and having some issues where affection is concerned with my boyfriend. He's 25 and sometimes ...
A: I am so glad you wrote to me. I get a little frustrated at women these days because no one has ...
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| My boyfriend & I | 2/9/2009 |
Q: Today when my boyfriend (he is 19) was with me we were talking and we've been fighting lately and ...
A: In my experience and way of thinking young people get serious way too soon and get involved sexually ...
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| well..... | 2/6/2009 |
Q: i dont know why he got mad about the nickname..i always tell him what i feel but he doesnt get ...
A: This is the last time I can answer on all experts so that I can answer others. I usually only take ...
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| how can i be sure if my fiance cares about me or likes me or not? | 2/6/2009 |
Q: we knew each other for a short period of time(10 days) and then we got engaged with the engagement ...
A: I am not sure what to think except he sounds like he is very controlling and would not be good to ...
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| Is taking a break healthy | 2/6/2009 |
Q: Well I've been with my girlfriend for 4.5 years,we currently live with each other and have for ...
A: I think I would try something. I think you should ask your girlfriend if she would be willing to ...
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| relationships and the past. | 2/4/2009 |
Q: Recently i have been having a lot of trouble with my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for ...
A: Tell your boyfriend that your past is your past and doesn't have anything to do with right now. Go ...
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| how can i be sure if my fiance cares about me or likes me or not? | 2/4/2009 |
Q: we knew each other for a short period of time(10 days) and then we got engaged with the engagement ...
A: Well, what you have been doing hasn't been working. You could try different things but you really ...
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| The Shoe on The Other Foot | 2/4/2009 |
Q: I just read an interesting question from a woman seeking advice in her relationship. The ...
A: I hardly know what to say. I do not see how you can respect her for being so irresponsible with her ...
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| how can i be sure if my fiance cares about me or likes me or not? | 2/3/2009 |
Q: we knew each other for a short period of time(10 days) and then we got engaged with the engagement ...
A: You are right. He doesn't care very much. Telling him to change will not work. If he loved you he ...
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| relationship break | 2/3/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for nealy a year.Recently she has said she has not being ...
A: At 19, when a couple gets into a serious and exclusive relationship one or the other almost always ...
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| almost broke-up but got back together... | 2/2/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and month now. our first two weeks in the ...
A: It helps a lot to have more details. In this case, it sounds like he just isn't quite ready which is ...
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| almost broke-up but got back together... | 2/2/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and month now. our first two weeks in the ...
A: When people say should they fight for a relationship I am not sure what that means. It is important ...
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| In the verge of breaking up | 1/31/2009 |
Q: I'm 25 years old. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months. Our relationship have been going ...
A: The purpose of dating is to get to know someone to see if they are compatible. In her mind, at ...
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| Relationship Confusion | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Hi I'm 23 years old & have been with my girlfriend for about 5 years and the majority of the ...
A: What is happening here is that when you get serious too young one or more feels like life has passed ...
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| she always breaks up | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Im 43, shes 39.... we met online and it was love at first site. We dated long distance 6mos then I ...
A: Well, it sounds like you need to be stronger and set some boundaries. If she is quite controlling ...
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| my best friend | 1/28/2009 |
Q: me and my best friend are in this big fight and i want to be her friend but yesterday when she asked ...
A: Apologize. Tell her that you said things that you didn't mean and then offer to really listen to ...
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| How can I make this work because I really want to | 1/28/2009 |
Q: I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. I know it's young love and it's hard for people to accept the fact ...
A: Of course you can be in love at any age. The problem is in maturity in handling situations, which ...
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| relationship problems | 1/28/2009 |
Q: i sit here and wonder sometimes about where the relationship i am in is going or how long its going ...
A: Things don't usually work out when you move in with someone before marriage. It is like giving all ...
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| help! | 1/28/2009 |
Q: Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year, our anniversary is on the 19th ...
A: Well dear. You say you love him and yet you are doing all you can to drive him away. So, this is ...
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| Is She Crazy?? | 1/27/2009 |
Q: ! I have a friend who I believe is legitimately, certifiably psychologically crazy. I love her ...
A: I have had experience with this. There are two possible causes. It could be a legitimate disorder ...
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| Having Doubts | 1/27/2009 |
Q: I am 22 yrs old, and still in college about an hour away from my home. My boyfriend lives near my ...
A: You know, I don't know if I can help you or not. I will just be honest. Without being able to work ...
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| Teenage dating | 1/26/2009 |
Q: Is it Normal that if ive been dating/talking to this one boy for seven months now & he still hasn't ...
A: I do not know how old you are. Some parents do not let their children date until a certain age. ...
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| Girl wonr be with me because of past relationship | 1/26/2009 |
Q: There is this girl i have talking to for about 5 months now. I started out as her friend. I began to ...
A: This is the deal. It usually takes one to two years to get over a serious relationship and really ...
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| Help | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I met a women who is 44 Ii am 39 . She was married at 28 to him and now he is 70 in a hospital with ...
A: There still is a problem and that is she is married and not free. You sound like a very good person ...
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| Afraid to be Alone | 1/25/2009 |
Q: 'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half ...
A: I am so proud of you. Now, many women have been faced with the same dilemma. They have tried to ...
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| will she ever change for me? | 1/23/2009 |
Q: i was my girlfriend for 10 months and we had a pretty rocky reltionship, but i fell so in love with ...
A: Brian, There is an old saying, "When you're not with the one you love, you love the one you're ...
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| Help | 1/23/2009 |
Q: I met a women who is 44 Ii am 39 . She was married at 28 to him and now he is 70 in a hospital with ...
A: What kind of a life do you want and what kind of a woman do you want? It is too bad that her ...
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| A best friend or lover? | 1/23/2009 |
Q: Im 25, living in Newport Beach....my good friend Nick, 24 has been in and out of my life since I ...
A: I think it is a really bad idea to move in together. First of all, that is not the setting to make ...
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| relationships | 1/23/2009 |
Q: i was hoping to seek advice since everyone else i've talked to doesn't fully understand me since ...
A: I would tell him that you have been feeling restless in the relationship and that you read somewhere ...
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| relationships | 1/22/2009 |
Q: i was hoping to seek advice since everyone else i've talked to doesn't fully understand me since ...
A: This is a tough situation. It sounds like you really love him and that he is a pretty good guy. ...
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| Compatible? | 1/20/2009 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month now and I am having trouble figuring out if we are ...
A: I think that if you stop having sex you will be able to see if there is anything really there. ...
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| Is our relationship coming to an end? | 1/17/2009 |
Q: Cut a long story short, been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. Met on a night out, started ...
A: There are some basic personality differences that will not change. That you can believe. He is a ...
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| Is our relationship coming to an end? | 1/16/2009 |
Q: Cut a long story short, been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. Met on a night out, started ...
A: This is difficult. It really depends on what you want. Obviously this relationship is in a rut. ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: This is how it works. Love is a choice. You can choose to either love him or not. You can choose ...
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| help | 1/14/2009 |
Q: alright, heres the situation. i started dating the girl im with now about a month ago. we have been ...
A: Steve, there are some things we do out of self-respect. If we do not do it then we lose ...
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| relationship moving backwards | 1/10/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a girl for a few months now. We got into a relationship really early and started ...
A: Yes, it might have a chance if she is sincere and just not trying to break it off by letting you ...
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| What Can I Do To Get My Bestfriend Back | 1/10/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we have two children together, 8 and 1; after the birth of ...
A: I am sorry you are having problems with your boyfriend, especially since you have children together. ...
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| Boyfriend in Law School | 1/8/2009 |
Q: I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29 and in his second year of law school. We used to work together ...
A: I assume you are having sex with him if you spent four days with him, etc. The problem is that when ...
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| Relationship In Distress | 1/8/2009 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old college student. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He lives in ...
A: He likes you and wants to be with you when he can but his son comes first and always will. Period. ...
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| work relationship | 1/7/2009 |
Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ...
A: I suggest you email him with this question. "Hi. How is it going? I enjoyed our time working ...
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| hello | 1/6/2009 |
Q: I have another question..I went to my male friend's house on my own actually he met me somewhere and ...
A: Depends on what you want in life. Some people want to wait until marriage for sex (which I ...
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| hello | 1/6/2009 |
Q: I have another question..I went to my male friend's house on my own actually he met me somewhere and ...
A: That helps a bit. It sounds like it is a fairly casual relationship and so is never a good idea to ...
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| Need some advice | 1/6/2009 |
Q: I'm a 24 year old guy who has been dating my girlfriend for the past 4 years. Things are great 95% ...
A: How much is your commitment to your girlfriend? Man I hate live in situations. There is almost ...
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| dating | 1/5/2009 |
Q: I have a close male friend and we went out a few days before christmas, I didn't get a gift from him ...
A: Never tell a guy that you want more than casual. If they really like you they will let you know. ...
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| What to do now? | 1/5/2009 |
Q: when we met at a friends house that night started talking. She confessed that she was very sensitive ...
A: You are not the only one confused. She is very confused and so the only thing you can do is wait it ...
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| dating | 1/5/2009 |
Q: I have a close male friend and we went out a few days before christmas, I didn't get a gift from him ...
A: Stop calling him. When women chase men they usually back off. If he wants to go out with you he ...
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| Should i walk away or fight for her? | 1/4/2009 |
Q: sorry this is a long one but i am in real need of help. I met my partner over 3 years ago, i was ...
A: Don't you find it odd that T doesn't kick up a fuss with her other boy-friends? I think you should ...
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| marital relationship | 1/4/2009 |
Q: I and my husband have keep having arguments often, the reason could be anything at all..example, we ...
A: Ok. I am going to have to guess a lot but I do know some secrets of keeping a man interested. Act ...
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| Questioning my relationship | 1/3/2009 |
Q: I am 29 years old and left my long term ex-boyfriend approximately a year and a half ago. The ...
A: Ok. This is the deal. A mother gives advice, makes sure you are wearing your hat and gloves, ...
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| Questioning my relationship | 1/2/2009 |
Q: I am 29 years old and left my long term ex-boyfriend approximately a year and a half ago. The ...
A: Often when a person keeps repeating the pattern of choosing relationships that are not good for ...
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| Moved in.... Grew apart. | 1/2/2009 |
Q: My gf(20) and I (27) have been living together for a little over a year now and I am finding us ...
A: Playing at marriage just doesn't work. One or the other usually expects a lot more out of living ...
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| Is he still interested in me? | 1/1/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 19. We have been together for 2 months and have been on and off for ...
A: Yes, he is losing interest. It blows my mind that a woman would risk having sex with someone before ...
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| lost and confused | 1/1/2009 |
Q: I'm 30 & divorced now for about 3 years and have two little girls 9 & 4. I live with my ...
A: My answer may surprise you. I wouldn't have either of them. Your ex wants you badly because he is ...
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| Timing/Getting back together | 12/31/2008 |
Q: I'm 31. We broke up a few weeks ago. I've had some time to think about my behavior and what was ...
A: Did you push him away or was he looking for an excuse to get out? without more info I am not sure. ...
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| What to do now? | 12/27/2008 |
Q: when we met at a friends house that night started talking. She confessed that she was very sensitive ...
A: The only way this will work is for you to stop being so intense about it and up tight. Keep your ...
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| trust issues | 12/25/2008 |
Q: I am currently in a relationship of a year and a half. And I am finding myself more paranoid than ...
A: OK I think I have it figured it out. When you have self-confidence then you realize which is your ...
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| trust issues | 12/24/2008 |
Q: I am currently in a relationship of a year and a half. And I am finding myself more paranoid than ...
A: I think that your whole problem is that you need to have more confidence and self-respect. When you ...
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| What to do now? | 12/24/2008 |
Q: when we met at a friends house that night started talking. She confessed that she was very sensitive ...
A: Well, I am not sure what is going on but I can tell you strongly, do not move in together. There ...
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| trust issues | 12/22/2008 |
Q: I am currently in a relationship of a year and a half. And I am finding myself more paranoid than ...
A: The problem is that you do not trust yourself. It is not your boyfriend that you do not trust. You ...
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| relationship | 12/22/2008 |
Q: Can you have a relationship without kissing or meeting each other?
A: You can have a relationship without kissing but you can't have a relationship without relating to ...
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| Financial issues with live-in boyfriend | 12/13/2008 |
Q: I have been dating a guy (34) for 2 1/2 years and we live together. I'm 42 and have 2 young children ...
A: Get out before he completely ruins your credit, too. He is irresponsible. If he doesn't understand ...
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| communication issues | 12/13/2008 |
Q: .. my name is shaniece i am 19 yrs old my boyfriend is 22 we've been together for 11months and i ...
A: Yes, you really do need someone to talk to. I raised three girls and one daughter is not married ...
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| difficult situation with GF | 12/11/2008 |
Q: my gf and me planned to get married in mar09. all plans on way. now she is not picking up calls, nor ...
A: You are not ready for a mature and mutually loving and giving relationship. When you feel like you ...
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| Marriage questions | 12/8/2008 |
Q: Enjoyed reading your great answers and helps lots of people. I am from India and living in the US ...
A: In that case, It is pretty natural for there to be some competition between a wife and her ...
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| She doesn't know if she wants a relationship | 12/7/2008 |
Q: Sharon, I'm a 24 year old Asian man seeing a 20 year old German woman. We've been seeing each other ...
A: More than likely there were other signs that made you appear needy to her. One incident would not ...
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| Marriage questions | 12/6/2008 |
Q: Enjoyed reading your great answers and helps lots of people. I am from India and living in the US ...
A: Hello. It is nice that you are trying to work thing through your marriage to make it better. ...
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| keep my husband interested in ME | 12/5/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been together for 3 years, married 2. we have always had a wonderful ...
A: I recommend Dr. Laura's book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. The key is to be his ...
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| What to do? | 12/5/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. it is been a very rough last couple of months ...
A: I am sorry you are going through so much all at once. Now, what you have been doing is not working ...
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| talking with ex | 12/4/2008 |
Q: Why chill with an ex just to smoke while your man is at work?
A: Maybe because she needs someone to talk to? From the length of your question perhaps your lady ...
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| boyfriend | 12/4/2008 |
Q: I have being going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years we lived in different countries for ...
A: If you don't have or want a commitment then he is free to call others and while it might show he ...
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| boyfriend | 12/4/2008 |
Q: I have being going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years we lived in different countries for ...
A: If he is doing things like calling old girlfriends and other women when he is drinking then he has a ...
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| will you help me | 12/4/2008 |
Q: So my boyfriend and i have been dating for alittle over 2yrs now, and like everyones beginning of ...
A: When you wrap your whole live around another person and give up friends and doing things with other ...
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| The problem that won't go away | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I am 20 years old, and I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. She has self-confidence ...
A: Call any mental health clinic and ask them who to call for low income counseling and they should be ...
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| boyfriend | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I have being going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years we lived in different countries for ...
A: I am concerned more about his getting drunk and losing control than who he calls. If this is a ...
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| The problem that won't go away | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I am 20 years old, and I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. She has self-confidence ...
A: This problem is not anything you can solve. She needs professional help. She is trying to prove ...
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| Girlfriend troubles | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I am 20 years old and I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. When things are good, ...
A: It takes two to fight. The next time you are talking about something and she starts to get upset, ...
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| Where is this going, what does she want? | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I am 31 yrs old. I have recently had a breakup and i am very confused about the signals i am ...
A: Your lady is not stable. What you see is what you get unless she gets counseling and works through ...
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| Please help | 12/2/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I have always had a very ...
A: You asked for honest and so here it is. I believe you are addicted to sex in a very physical way. ...
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| It's hard to cope with his success...Why? | 11/30/2008 |
Q: I am writing because I have an issue in my two year relationship to my boyfriend - or it may well be ...
A: Just the fact that you are concerned tells me that you are growing into your full self and that is ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 11/30/2008 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: The answer would be the same. Enjoy what you have now and stop worrying about tomorrow. Accept ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: I tried to put it as gentle as can be. We all have problems sometimes that need counseling. There ...
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| This is a marriage question. | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: I wish I could help you but I can't. You really, really, really, really need professional ...
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| relationship going different ways | 11/28/2008 |
Q: I'm very concerned and heartbroken. I've been in a relationship about two years. I am deeply in love ...
A: One of the challenges of relationship is communication. Too much is assumed and not enough ...
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| Fiancee's family | 11/27/2008 |
Q: I have dated and been engaged to my fiancee for five years and from what she has told me and have ...
A: Much unhappiness comes from wanting what we can't have instead of accepting what is. This is her ...
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| Depressed about my boyfriend | 11/26/2008 |
Q: I am 22-year old, recent college graduate, taking a year off from school before applying to graduate ...
A: The instincts for a woman to need someone on whom she can rely if she were pregnant, vulnerable with ...
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| young widow is sabotaging new love | 11/26/2008 |
Q: 2 yrs ago, I became a widow from a sudden/tragic death w/the love of my life. 6 mos ago, I met a man ...
A: First of all, there will always be some pain, which I think will subside somewhat over time, ...
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| Girlfriend woes | 11/25/2008 |
Q: recently my girlfriend(20) and I(22) have been having a few problems. We've been together for 2.2 ...
A: There should be organizations of like-minded people in school where you can develop friendships. I ...
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| relationship breaks | 11/25/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he recently informed me that he is concerned ...
A: If he was so compatible with his ex, why aren't they still together or did she pass away? The ...
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| Girlfriend woes | 11/25/2008 |
Q: recently my girlfriend(20) and I(22) have been having a few problems. We've been together for 2.2 ...
A: I always recommend that people do not get into exclusive relationships until they are ready to marry ...
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| Not sure what to do | 11/24/2008 |
Q: I am in a situation where I really need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. When we ...
A: Any guy that would sit around and let a woman pay for most of his living is not the kind of man you ...
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| Men... | 11/23/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months, on and off. In the beginning his ...
A: Much unhappiness comes from wanting things we can't have. You want things to be the way they used ...
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| My bestfriend says I pushed her away and she wants nothing to do with me | 11/23/2008 |
Q: My names Jon I am 21 years old. I'm actually writing this e-mail because I guess you could say I'm ...
A: OK. I am going to be brutal with you because I want you to be happier in your life. You do not ...
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| My bestfriend says I pushed her away and she wants nothing to do with me | 11/20/2008 |
Q: My names Jon I am 21 years old. I'm actually writing this e-mail because I guess you could say I'm ...
A: Wow! I will bet you are off the chart on the trait of Serious Mindedness. Also, you are an ...
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| my boyfriend | 11/20/2008 |
Q: im in love with my 6month boyfriend, we got into this relationship knowingthat theirs alot of issues ...
A: People don't change much and so either this is just his personality or he is dating you because you ...
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| Will he want a divorce? | 11/19/2008 |
Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
A: What happens in the future can be affected by what happens now. If you want to make sure you have a ...
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| Will he want a divorce? | 11/19/2008 |
Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
A: I highly recommend you get counseling. The things you are asking me are more than I can help you ...
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| Will he want a divorce? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
A: When you said that you tend to doubt yourself you were not kidding! My goodness girl. Believe in ...
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| Confused | 11/18/2008 |
Q: age 39. I have been seeing this woman for a little more than two months. The first month was great. ...
A: Well, it is hard to say without asking her and maybe you should just ask her outright if she feels ...
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| I don't know what to do with my relationship | 11/17/2008 |
Q: I am in a situation that I don't know what to do, my 9 months boyfriend always gave me mixed ...
A: People are very different from each other, according to their personality traits. It could be that ...
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| Can time apart work? | 11/15/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend recently told me that she is feeling very confused and that we should take a break. ...
A: Women and men have different needs. I would read Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars to help ...
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| I really need help! I get a mad at my girlfriend for things I don't think I should. | 11/12/2008 |
Q: first of all I would just like to say thank you for reading this. My girlfriend and I have been ...
A: A couple of things. I do not think it wise to date someone so exclusively until you are ready to be ...
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| how to be happy & love the man that is breaking my heart? | 11/11/2008 |
Q: I have been in a six year relationship with my boyfriend, & we have a 4 yr old son. This past spring ...
A: First of all, I do not know why you feel guilty about hitting and yelling at him. I think he is ...
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| Keeping my relationship from failing | 11/11/2008 |
Q: I am madly in love with my partner. He is great but he says he needs his own space his own time... ...
A: What you have is what you get. I get a lot of letters where one person is very committed and the ...
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| she seems to be getting more and more distant | 11/11/2008 |
Q: ok well me and my girlfriend have benn going out for 6 months and were doing really good but lately ...
A: I will do my best. Be creative with your dates. Be sure and call her ahead of time and do things ...
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| reuniting | 11/10/2008 |
Q: I wonder whether you can give me some insight here. The mother of my 6yo child and I have been ...
A: This question is very important because a little boy is at stake here, as well as two other lives. ...
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| Marital Concerns | 11/9/2008 |
Q: We have been married for the past 17 years and have two children, aged 13 and 7. I am 47 years old ...
A: I recommend you read Dr. Laura's book, Bad childhood good life. This will help you to forget the ...
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| How can I improve my relationship? | 11/7/2008 |
Q: I'm 24. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. He was a friend of my family ...
A: Theresa, You made a huge mistake to have sex with someone without being sure he would make a good ...
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| no trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 |
Q: ok so my name is eric the girl i love is megan so it stated by one night i drink a little to much ...
A: Drinking one drink is still drinking so she has a right to not trust what you say. It is important ...
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| how to let it go? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: All our experiences are for us to learn things. I think it is important for you to speak to him ...
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| Lack of confidence | 11/3/2008 |
Q: Crandall, Hi there! I REALLY hope you can help me…. I am a 29 year old female that has a serious ...
A: First of all, read Bad Childhood, Good Life by Dr. Laura. Even if your childhood was ok this book ...
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| Support my boyfriend, or take care of myself? | 11/3/2008 |
Q: I met my boyfriend about two years ago. I thought he was funny, smart. He is known for his loyalty ...
A: Boy, have you taken on all the emotional responsibility in this relationship! You have felt his ...
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| day-to-day communication | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I am 17 and a junior in high school. My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately 20 ...
A: Without actually talking to you both I can only use what info I have, of course. My assessment is ...
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| day-to-day communication | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I am 17 and a junior in high school. My boyfriend and I have been dating for approximately 20 ...
A: The purpose of dating is to see if you are compatible, not to establish a permanent lifetime ...
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| boredom in relationship? | 10/13/2008 |
Q: Iam a 31 yr old lady married to a 34 yr old man for 9 yrs now. We have a daughter of 6 yrs. Well, by ...
A: It is not doing your duty all the time that works. It is doing little things to make him feel ...
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| She wanted a break | 10/13/2008 |
Q: Im 22, and my girl is 21. We have been together for 7 months, and We have had an amazing ...
A: Unfortunately, we can't control another person. We can either continue to act the way we have ...
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| Confussed | 10/13/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for ten months now and things seem to be slipping a bit. I understand that ...
A: I do hope you realize now that bringing a man into your children's life should only happen when you ...
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| boredom in relationship? | 10/12/2008 |
Q: Iam a 31 yr old lady married to a 34 yr old man for 9 yrs now. We have a daughter of 6 yrs. Well, by ...
A: Read Dr. Laura's book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. Your whining and complaining will ...
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| how can i get him to understand hes a of a family? | 10/11/2008 |
Q: im 23 years old my spouse and i have two children our past has been terrible he cheated on me after ...
A: I do not know how to make a guy grow up and be responsible, but I can tell you that what you have ...
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| Inattentiveness/ADD -- processing problems? | 10/10/2008 |
Q: Our 9yr son (4th gr) struggles with what appears to be inattentive ADD. Following is a quick ...
A: The problem with the professionals is that they promote the false idea that all children should be ...
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| Giving an ex a second chance after a really bad mistake | 10/8/2008 |
Q: I am 29 I was in a relationship with this amazing girl (27) for 2 and half years, we have been ...
A: The problem with this girl is she doesn't know her own mind and is too swayed by others opinions. ...
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| Confussed | 10/8/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for ten months now and things seem to be slipping a bit. I understand that ...
A: Your boyfriend might be worried about "losing it" with your children and if he can really handle ...
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| dealing with the past in a complicated relationship | 10/7/2008 |
Q: I was with the father of my children for 7 years. Our relationship fell apart when I got a new job ...
A: Take him by the hand and tell him how much you love him and that you are sorry that there were so ...
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| Still together after breaking up | 10/7/2008 |
Q: I'm 27, my bf is 28, we've been seriously together for 4 years. In my view, we fit perfectly ...
A: When you beg, whine, pin them down, talk, talk, talk, you have already lost your power. You put ...
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| Distrust | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: Your guy has a severe sexual and mental problem and I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole. I ...
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| Not Happy with my relationship anymore | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I have been with this great guy for 2 in a half years and we both say we love each other and i know ...
A: You ask how you can make him see that this relationship is really important to you and believe me, ...
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| reply to "staying together email" | 10/5/2008 |
Q: I just had a quick question in regards to your reply to my relationship concerns. I would really ...
A: What I was trying to say is that it is important to have clear understandings of what you want in a ...
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| Money and responsibility/finance | 9/30/2008 |
Q: My partner has recently decided not to drink alcohol for a year as he was drinking very heavily, ...
A: I would write to him and say something like: "When I tell you how scared I am about our future and ...
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| Distance | 9/29/2008 |
Q: I am 23 years old, and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for almost 3 years now, and living ...
A: This happens a lot with couples that move in before marriage. There is no real commitment, even ...
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| Money and responsibility/finance | 9/28/2008 |
Q: My partner has recently decided not to drink alcohol for a year as he was drinking very heavily, ...
A: You called him partner in one sentence and husband in another so If you are not married don't marry ...
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| I don't know how to act in this relationship anymore | 9/28/2008 |
Q: I am in a relationship with a guy now for nearly 3 years now. He is my first major boyfriend. I ...
A: CJ, This relationship is not right and you are trying to force it to be ok. That is not possible. ...
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| She wants a break | 9/28/2008 |
Q: Im 22 years old, and my girlfriend is 21 My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months ...
A: Your girlfriend is obviously pulling away from you but for what reason, neither of us do not know ...
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| Being the 3rd party | 9/26/2008 |
Q: I have to start by providing you with a background on my relationship with my boyfriend. I met him 5 ...
A: Oh my gosh, you are not serious about wanting him. He is a liar and a cheat. Lose him? You never ...
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| Letting my boyfriend help with kids and around the house | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, I have 3 children (20, 17, & 7) he has 2 (12 & 10). We ...
A: For heavens sakes, let him help you. Most women complain their man won't lift a finger to help. ...
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| husband issue | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I have some points to tell as well. See according to me , there can be no smoke without fire. What I ...
A: If you are stuck in the marriage and can't do anything about it then I am not sure what you can do, ...
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| husband issue | 9/22/2008 |
Q: I am 26 yr old gal married since past 9 months. Ours is an arranged marriage (as we being Indian). ...
A: Do every thing you can do to develop more self-confidence. Can you take classes so that you can ...
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| myboyfriend in irag gets mad at me easily | 9/22/2008 |
Q: am 19 and my army boyfriend is 24 av been going out with him for 3 months and he was so ...
A: Three months is not long enough to know someone or to be in love. As to wanting toothpaste, etc. I ...
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| relationship | 9/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ...
A: Well, you are in a bad situation. Think of what it would be like if women waited to marry and have ...
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| Relationship help | 9/10/2008 |
Q: I have been on and off with my guy for about 3 years. He has committment issues about us getting ...
A: Ask your guy, "May I ask you a question?" (Never say you want to talk to a guy he will withdraw ...
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| Sooo confused... | 9/9/2008 |
Q: MY BF and I have been together for over 16 months, we do not live together and we are in our 30's. ...
A: The way to find happiness is to learn what we can have and what we can't have and then what we ...
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| DIVORCE OR GIVE IT TIME?? | 9/9/2008 |
Q: WEVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 MONTHS NOW AND ITS SEEM LIKE WE JUST CANT SEEM TO GET ALONG ANYMORE LIKE ...
A: The problem is that both of you are looking to the other person to fill your own needs instead of ...
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| She left me. | 9/6/2008 |
Q: I have been living with her for 4 years, and things were always great, we never fought and loved ...
A: I am glad to see some anger. Yes, you did way too much without requiring enough from the other ...
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| boyfriend/girlfriend relationship advise | 9/4/2008 |
Q: I don't know if I should break up with my current girlfriend Tina? i want to be single again at ...
A: You should do one of two things. Either give in to your ethical side that wants a stable home and ...
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| Our relationship is on a break | 9/3/2008 |
Q: I am 23 years old, me and my boyfriend are going to be 6 years together now in October. We have ...
A: Usually when someone takes a break it means the end of a relationship. It is a way of easing out. ...
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| My ex-girlfriend | 9/3/2008 |
Q: Hey I'm 18 and Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. I was so happy with her and it was ...
A: It seems like she has already told you how she feels but you might joke around a little with her and ...
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| Boyfriend | 9/2/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 years and we have a daughter. We have grown far ...
A: It is too bad you were not married first, before you had children. Unfortunately, you really have ...
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| My ex-girlfriend | 9/2/2008 |
Q: Hey I'm 18 and Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago. I was so happy with her and it was ...
A: Everyone is looking for happiness and that is good and important because it motivates us to do ...
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| The girl that wont decide to date me | 8/29/2008 |
Q: Sharon, I have a problem. I am 25 years old and last spring I met a girl who is 21 and a senior at ...
A: Sounds like you are a thinking man. Good for you. As to maturity, etc. They know now that it ...
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| The girl that wont decide to date me | 8/28/2008 |
Q: Sharon, I have a problem. I am 25 years old and last spring I met a girl who is 21 and a senior at ...
A: This girl is clearly not ready to settle down to one guy and she really shouldn't at her age. ...
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| Relationship issues. | 8/28/2008 |
Q: I'm not too sure where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together since April of last year, and ...
A: That is very helpful. So, this is the deal. Men are hunters and they need a challenge in order to ...
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| Relationship issues. | 8/27/2008 |
Q: I'm not too sure where to begin. My boyfriend and I have been together since April of last year, and ...
A: Unfortunately you chose to get yourself into this situation when you had sex and got pregnant with a ...
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| stay or go??? | 8/27/2008 |
Q: ive been with my boyfriend for almost a yr now..left college friends and all my family to move w ...
A: It is time for you to have a serious talk with your boyfriend and tell him that you do not regret ...
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| my relationship | 8/26/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend is a really great guy and has honorable qualities about himself. The only problem is ...
A: Do not feel guilty about this. It is natural, and even necessary to spend time when young in ...
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| No connection, have I fallen out of love? | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I have been with my BF for 16 months, he is 37 and I am 35, neither of us has been married but both ...
A: If you can get my book it will enlighten you a whole lot on your differences. My daughter has ...
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| No connection, have I fallen out of love? | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I have been with my BF for 16 months, he is 37 and I am 35, neither of us has been married but both ...
A: Ok. One thing at a time. You have known him long enough to know his personality. He doesn't show ...
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| Relationship problems | 8/23/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months now. We knew each other for about seven ...
A: Why are you so worried about losing him when he really does not put you first in his life. It ...
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| How can I save my long distance relationship with my girlfriend of almost a year? | 8/22/2008 |
Q: I am 38, Dear Sharon, I have been in a long distance relationship with this wonderful woman ...
A: Long distant relationships are almost impossible because you really do not know another person ...
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| Break up or stick it out? | 8/20/2008 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old female freshmen in college. My boyfriend Austin is a senior in high school, he ...
A: There is a lot going on here. First of all, the purpose of dating is to get to know different ...
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| personality clash | 8/19/2008 |
Q: I am 36 and feeling confused in my relationship with my 47 year old boyfriend. I have been on and ...
A: You keep saying you want him to be the one as though this relationship is something you can change ...
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| Six years and still not met his family | 8/18/2008 |
Q: .I'm a separated mother of four children..22, 16, 10 & 9. I met someone, separated father of one, ...
A: He likes the relationship just the way it is and is not about to rock the boat. Otherwise by this ...
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| Break or Break up? | 8/15/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: Think logically, not emotionally about what you just said to me. You said that he told you he does ...
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| Taking a break | 8/14/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been toghether for two years. We are usually very good at working through ...
A: I not only think a break would be good but I think you need to have confidence and belief in ...
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| Break or Break up? | 8/14/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: Well, in order to teach you a little about men it is usually a bad idea to pin a guy down, other ...
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| the feeling of insecurity? what to do? | 8/9/2008 |
Q: okay...ill go straight to the point. here it is! am in a relationship with a guy for like five ...
A: Your problem is that you have not developed maturity and self-confidence and so you are very afraid ...
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| To date or not to date... | 8/8/2008 |
Q: You gave me great advice 10 months ago when my 3 year relationship broke down so i was hoping you ...
A: The question is, how much do you value yourself? How much do you believe in yourself? You are ...
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| Want to make my relationship work | 8/5/2008 |
Q: I love my boyfriend dearly but it seems like he doesnt have interest in me anymore.He barely ...
A: First of all, men do not talk about things. They only will talk about something that they can ...
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| 5 year relationship dwindling | 8/4/2008 |
Q: It has finally come to the point that I need to ask an outsider's opinion. I know that you will only ...
A: What happens is in making decisions lots of things keep swimming around in our minds and one thought ...
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| I DONT KNOW!! | 8/4/2008 |
Q: I dont know what braught me to talk about this online. But I guess I am truly out of options? I ...
A: The problem is in how you show you care. Apparently, you have been "wearing the pants" and it is ...
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| confused | 8/4/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend of 10 years is in prison and he wants to marry one day, i am scared of being with him ...
A: How long is he going to be in prison? Would you want your daughter to marry someone like him? How ...
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| I DONT KNOW!! | 8/4/2008 |
Q: I dont know what braught me to talk about this online. But I guess I am truly out of options? I ...
A: I don't know either because I can't read minds yet! However, here are some possibilities. Perhaps ...
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| confused... | 8/3/2008 |
Q: Me and my bf have been together a year. We love and care about each other very much but I have ...
A: It is not easy to help someone as you because it is important to know what causes your depression. ...
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| Unsure about what just happened with my relationship | 8/1/2008 |
Q: So my girlfriend & I have been together for about 2 1/2 years and generally we've been very happy ...
A: A couple of things. First, the age difference is significant. She is still spreading her wings. ...
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| Im pushing her away | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Hey, Ok so recently I've been spending alot of time with this girl and she knows i love her alot but ...
A: To tell you the truth. It really sounds like it is just time that will tell. You can't make ...
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| Im pushing her away | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Hey, Ok so recently I've been spending alot of time with this girl and she knows i love her alot but ...
A: I don't know. You can't force love and so sometimes people just don't click. There is no way to ...
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| dating | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I have a question that I hope you can help me with. I am 40 years old and going to be 41 soon. I ...
A: I am so happy to hear from you again with a little more info. If a guy really likes you he can't ...
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| How to get my boyfriend to follow through. | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I am 58, divorced 10 years. My boyfriend, Michael, is 59, divorced 3 years. We have been dating for ...
A: The question is; do you want to be a shack up partner or do you want to get married? It is proven ...
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| He needs space. I need answers. | 6/7/2008 |
Q: Sharon, I have read some of your advice on other questions and I was immediately itching to ask my ...
A: Ok. This is the deal. Too much, too young and too soon. Then it leaves nothing to look forward ...
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| love vs compatibility. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I know there are a lot of ways to answer this question but you may be able to help me. I am ...
A: No, love is not enough or there would be almost no divorces. The answer is that the new excitement ...
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| schedule problem | 6/5/2008 |
Q: Crandall, I have a problem with my 'boyfriend'now. In fact, I am not sure whether I count him as my ...
A: Why do so many women expect a guy to immediately wrap their whole lives around them? Dating is not ...
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| i dont know what to do | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I am 19 years old and my ex girlfriend is turning 18 in two months. We broke up just a week ago. ...
A: The only reason you might be too young is that people change a whole lot during the teenage years up ...
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| Taking a break... | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I'm 32 turning 33 in November. She is 23 turning 24 in July. We met 1year 8months ago in a group ...
A: When the army is pursuing you and your only choice is to swim across the river that is full of huge ...
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| Should I let him go even though I know he loves me? | 6/4/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I started dating when we had 2 months of knowing each other, we fell in love and by ...
A: The problem is that the real person is who he is now. When you first meet someone they are on their ...
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| Please, I need advice! | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I'm 22 years old I have been with my boyfriend (24) for almost 2 years, and just recently found out ...
A: What you see is what you get. He will not change. He has to have these girls to feed his ego and ...
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| Got back together, now what? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: We are in our early twenties. We had been together for 7 months when we split up for more than a ...
A: The problem is that most of the questions you asked me are questions only can answer. It takes time ...
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| Taking a break... | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I'm 32 turning 33 in November. She is 23 turning 24 in July. We met 1year 8months ago in a group ...
A: First of all when someone breaks up with you it is never rejection. There are always reasons; and ...
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| how do i stop ruining a good relationship? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ...
A: When you are afraid to trust it is you that you do not trust. It is important to develop confidence ...
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| What is wrong with me?! | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I'm in a great relationship, my partner couldn't be better for me, he treats me great he's not over ...
A: You probably need some counseling in order to get at the bottom of this but here are a few things ...
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| Embarrassment | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I am thirty and I am living with my boyfriend. I have over the past year had problems on and off. ...
A: I am glad your boyfriend sticks up for you. Here is a tip. Whenever you feel embarrassed or like ...
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| how to begin | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I am 38. How do I get my lover to stop controlling everything in our relationship? My lover has a ...
A: This is the deal. You teach people how to treat you. You know what does not work. You tell her ...
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| Embarrassment | 6/2/2008 |
Q: I am thirty and I am living with my boyfriend. I have over the past year had problems on and off. ...
A: I doubt if there is anything you can do to make his friends think differently of you, perhaps even ...
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| Husband behavior | 5/31/2008 |
Q: I'm 35 married to a 38 year old man for 14 years now , we have 4 children . we had lots of problems ...
A: Well, this marriage is clearly not working very well. Secondly, it is time to put the smack down, ...
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| my relationship | 5/29/2008 |
Q: my age is 19 1 year and 2 months ago i met the man of my dreams. he is everything i ever ...
A: It is very common at your age to grow apart from someone that you think was the one and only. He is ...
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| lost.. | 5/27/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year and things have been rocky for a long ...
A: The purpose of dating is to see if you are compatible. It is obvious that you are not compatible ...
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| Pls advise me | 5/26/2008 |
Q: i have a problem which i hope u can help me. i am 28 years old and i've known my boyfriend for ...
A: There is nothing wrong with you but a great deal wrong with the relationship. Now, this may sound ...
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| not helping | 5/25/2008 |
Q: when the man you're dating helps everybody but you, what does that mean?
A: That is a good question. He has the trait of considerateness and feels responsible to make others ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I am a 26 year old woman. I like a guy who is 39 years old and he seems to like me a lot. We are ...
A: Yes, you will be changing his diapers (from being old) when you are still wanting to travel and do ...
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| long distance | 5/24/2008 |
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship with my 'b/f' since August 2007- thus 9 months. I am in ...
A: The problem with long distant relationships is that you really never get to know the person because ...
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| Is this something I should be upset about? | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I have been in an on and off long distance relationship. We have just been back together since five ...
A: You situation is quite complicated but I will try. The main thing to know is that it is important ...
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| How do I make my ralationship better? | 5/22/2008 |
Q: Hey, My name is Denise, I am 16 years old. I know that may come to a suprise for you, but I just ...
A: Most of us have gone through several "loves" before we found the one that we married and yes it is ...
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| How do I make my ralationship better? | 5/21/2008 |
Q: Hey, My name is Denise, I am 16 years old. I know that may come to a suprise for you, but I just ...
A: I am sorry to tell you but it sounds like your guy has fallen out of love and that is very natural ...
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| My boyfriend is "getting his feet wet" | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 years old and have recently started dating a guy in my circle of friends. We get a long ...
A: It is a serious mistake to demand too much too soon and that is what you are doing. It makes you ...
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| Help, dunno what else to say... | 5/16/2008 |
Q: .I'm turning 32 in July this year, never been married and I have no kids. I've been in several long ...
A: You are a typical woman that is just too needy and men take advantage of you. I suggest that you ...
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| save my relationship | 5/14/2008 |
Q: am 22 and my girl friend is 19 we have been talking for almost two years she is my first lover and ...
A: This is the deal. It is natural for a woman to want a man who she thinks can support her and the ...
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| Very Much In Love | 5/14/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 1/2 years now. We have had our problems in the past, but ...
A: Since I am not sure what bothers you to make you criticize her, then I am not sure how to help you. ...
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| Start Over | 5/13/2008 |
Q: First off my husband and I have been together since 1993 (high school). His senior year, 1995, he ...
A: Since the other relationship was only a fantasy because you never lived with each other in order to ...
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| Start Over | 5/13/2008 |
Q: First off my husband and I have been together since 1993 (high school). His senior year, 1995, he ...
A: You can't tell if he is sincere or not unless you check on him a lot! But don't tell him what you ...
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| Start Over | 5/12/2008 |
Q: First off my husband and I have been together since 1993 (high school). His senior year, 1995, he ...
A: We need to teach all women that when a man lies and cheats he usually does not change. How can you ...
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| family | 5/10/2008 |
Q: how important is it women to meet their boyfriends family. my gf and i dated for 5 months. we both ...
A: Once again, I don't think it was what you did or did not do. I really think there was too much ...
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| family | 5/9/2008 |
Q: how important is it women to meet their boyfriends family. my gf and i dated for 5 months. we both ...
A: what you want in life, what kind of life you want, whether you have about the same need for outward ...
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| family | 5/9/2008 |
Q: how important is it women to meet their boyfriends family. my gf and i dated for 5 months. we both ...
A: It sounds like a lot more than just not taking her to meet your family. I would have no way of ...
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| I really screwed up | 5/8/2008 |
Q: Crandall, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was ...
A: He is afraid you will have a problem the next time you are pmsing. Although I do not believe it is ...
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| Take a break or not? | 5/7/2008 |
Q: I've been in a committed monogamous relationship for over 2 years and now I'm wondering if I should ...
A: ' It is very common to grow apart during these years and it sounds like that is what happened. I ...
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| Ref: | 5/5/2008 |
Q: Good day, Lets say that you are looking for a job but happen to have a middle eastern look and is ...
A: That is a problem. It really is out of my area of expertise. I would think that having a good ...
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| boyfriend of 2 months | 5/2/2008 |
Q: my problem is that i met my boyfriend about 2 months ago, and we hit it off really fast. he told me ...
A: I will be unable to get emails for a couple of days and I have to leave now for an appointment. I ...
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| She wants a break | 4/30/2008 |
Q: I have been best friends with a girl for over 12 years. When we first met we started dating, and we ...
A: Love cannot be forced and she is really not through with her old relationship. It is time to back ...
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| My relationship is on the rocks | 4/29/2008 |
Q: I wrote to you about my girlfriend and i having trouble a few months ago. well last week Candace ...
A: It is difficult to tell if she is feeling a little down and is moving back to her comfort zone or ...
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| My relationship is failing HELP!! | 4/29/2008 |
Q: Hey I really hope I can get some help here because I have no where else to turn. I am 21 years old ...
A: Listen carefully because your life and happiness is at stake here. This is not love it is an ...
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| He moved back home... | 4/28/2008 |
Q: I’m 34 and my boyfriend recently moved back home about 3.5 hours from me. He took the initial step ...
A: There are several things to look for to know if a man loves you or not. They can't wait to talk to ...
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| Break (up) to get back together? | 4/26/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: It is just like any loss. You will feel empty for awhile but as you fill your life with good things ...
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| Break (up) to get back together? | 4/23/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: This is the deal. You both are wise in your assessment of this and you do need to shift into a ...
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| Girl of my dreams | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I am a senior in High School. I recently started getting to know a girl who I have had a thing for ...
A: This is the deal. You have only dated two weeks. That is not the time to pressure someone to be ...
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| time & space. when to initiate contact again | 4/22/2008 |
Q: Ma'am, i was inquiring about my current situation. my girlfriend and i have only been apart since ...
A: Your track record is not that great. Your girlfriend is still only 21 and may not be ready for all ...
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| im confused | 4/19/2008 |
Q: I've been through a couple hard and difficult realtionships. I found someone that Im pretty sure is ...
A: You are not compatible. The differences you describe are not just difference of opinion on things ...
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| Rocky roads | 4/18/2008 |
Q: My fiance and I have been together for four years. I have a daughter from another man and we have a ...
A: The question is are you jealous over nothing or is there something to be jealous about? If you are ...
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| How do I make it better? | 4/17/2008 |
Q: It's not that I have high expectations for him..... my anger stems from childhood issues I want to ...
A: The question is what goes through your mind since you are not with your father and this is an ...
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| How do I make It better? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have a good relationship. We have arguments as many couples do, but we usually ...
A: Let's start with trust. If your boyfriend hasn't done anything to you that you should mistrust him ...
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| dont kno whay to do | 4/16/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend will be together for two years in sept. we were truly happy for a month but ...
A: I think that somewhere inside you know this relationship is bad for you. It is also not good for ...
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| dont kno whay to do | 4/15/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend will be together for two years in sept. we were truly happy for a month but ...
A: Your life sounds like a nightmare. I would like to help you but I need to know how old you and your ...
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| Hurting Relationship | 4/13/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 5 years, three years ago through a hobby of mine I met a woman with whom I ...
A: If you can't keep a marriage vow and commitment in one marriage and end up lying and cheating on one ...
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| passionate | 4/11/2008 |
Q: I'm interested in this man. But he has had like a million girls because he used to be a pro athlete ...
A: I believe that each of us has a conscience and that our conscience tells us that we should wait ...
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| passionate | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I'm interested in this man. But he has had like a million girls because he used to be a pro athlete ...
A: Yes, I do think he is thinking about sex. If he has had a million girls then why on earth would ...
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| Where did it all go???? | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for around 18 months. She and I met off of a mutual blog site after ...
A: The problem is that she is really not through with this relationship. It takes a good year or two ...
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| Go on a break/ Break up???? | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I am living with my partner of 3 1/2 years. I am 22 and he is approaching 30. I have never before ...
A: What is happening to you is very common. People change so much before they reach 25 or so and you ...
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| love | 4/10/2008 |
Q: is saying 'ive fallen for you' the same as saying 'i love you'? do most people interpret it the ...
A: He may never be the type to say I love you very much. Men tend to show love by their actions, ...
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| love | 4/10/2008 |
Q: is saying 'ive fallen for you' the same as saying 'i love you'? do most people interpret it the ...
A: No, they are not the same and I would hold off saying you love him. Guys like to be the ones who ...
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| insecure of my relationship | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well, I'm 19 years of age, and well I'm in a relationship with a very sweet girl who is of the same ...
A: Four months is way too soon to know if you are compatible to make a life time commitment. The first ...
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| Hmm. | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ...
A: I see some red flags here. First of all, very few people stay together who start dating at such a ...
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| Need another chance to prove myself | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I have been living with my girlfriend for more than 3 years now. She has an 11 year old son. We both ...
A: Rajiv, The problem is that you really haven't changed if you have repeated behavior as little as ...
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| Is it Love? | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I've been dating a guy for approx 6 months now and I really love spending time with him, we talk ...
A: Well, that puts another light on this subject. I can tell you what I would do. I would say, dear, ...
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| Stopping my girlfriend getting bored in a relationship | 4/8/2008 |
Q: Hey, Me and my girlfriend are having some issues at the moment, and one thing she is having ...
A: Usually a break is the end of a relationship but you might try it. Since I do not know the details ...
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| Stopping my girlfriend getting bored in a relationship | 4/7/2008 |
Q: Hey, Me and my girlfriend are having some issues at the moment, and one thing she is having ...
A: The best thing you can do with someone like that is to make it difficult for her to have you. The ...
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| How to support boyfriend of 4 months with job loss? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 4 months just got laid off this past week and I am concerned about how to support ...
A: Ok. The first thing to realize is if you are expecting him to communicate feelings, hopes, dreams, ...
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| Downward spiral...college | 4/4/2008 |
Q: I am writing you today for some of your advice. I have never done this online before but I am really ...
A: One of the signs that a relationship is not doing well is if someone keeps it private. She really ...
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| relationship problems | 4/4/2008 |
Q: I am 25 years old. My ex is 29. We have been together for just about 3 years. We have had many ...
A: It depends on what you want in life. When a man loves a woman wild horses couldn't keep him from ...
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| I'm confused on my girlfriends behavior now | 4/3/2008 |
Q: Well im 18 and in my senior year in high school. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year ...
A: Personally, I think it is a bad idea to try and keep a committed relationship during college because ...
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| life on pause/confusing | 4/3/2008 |
Q: ive been going out with my girlfriend for over 22 months now. The first year has been the greatest ...
A: I think I answered this question. Perhaps you have more information to offer. The thing to ...
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| A little help... | 4/2/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and it seems like we aren't talking as ...
A: In a good relationship you can be comfortable just being together and not talking, if you think ...
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| Sharon Please Help! THANK U!!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: Bless your heart. You have a lot of challenges right now and I can understand why you are upset. ...
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| friend with benifits | 4/1/2008 |
Q: i think my ex wants to go back out with her she reminds me we don't go together every other day but ...
A: Unless you are ready to marry her and be a father I certainly would not go back into this ...
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| What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? | 3/30/2008 |
Q: 1. What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? 2. How effective is the kiss test? ...
A: If you don't feel anything when you kiss then I would say you were not in love with her. Now, with ...
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| Communication & Strengthening Problems? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: I've been with a guy for six months. After reading a few previous posts, I've realized that we ...
A: A couple of things. In a good relationship you shouldn't have to be talking all the time. However, ...
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| Graduation | 3/25/2008 |
Q: Well I'm 14 and my girlfriend(who is 15) and me are serious in our relationship. I love her and hope ...
A: The first thing to realize is that you can never force love. It has to come freely. So, this means ...
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| how to win my girlfriends heart back? | 3/24/2008 |
Q: I was looking to see if you could help me out,I'm 26, my gf 20 this is our 1st relationship with the ...
A: I. The problem is that you can't force matters of the heart. People are either attracted or they ...
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| Is a break good for a relationship? | 3/20/2008 |
Q: I am 23 years old. I am having problems with my relationship. I have been dating this guy for a ...
A: I think I answered this question before. I think you need to work on your own life and become more ...
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| should i stay with my boyfriend | 3/19/2008 |
Q: I'm unsure if i should stay with my boyfriend. He's the nicest guy and all my friends say he's ...
A: Every chance I get I discourage teenagers to be involved in exclusive relationships because almost ...
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| relationship problems | 3/18/2008 |
Q: Well I've been w/ my boyfriend for almost 5 years now but it seems everything is falling apart... ...
A: Long distant relationships hardly ever work. You really can't get to know someone when you don't ...
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| confused | 3/16/2008 |
Q: i am 25 year old female. my problem is that i have been really good friends with my ex - boyfriend ...
A: Sorry to hear about your problem. Often best friends turn out to be the best partners ever. This ...
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| got drama from past | 3/15/2008 |
Q: I'm having a problem with an ex keeping budding into my new relationship. He doesn't understand were ...
A: Stick to your guns and simply do not speak to him except in front of the judge and then be as brief ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 3/15/2008 |
Q: Okay so Im a 21 yrs old and ive been dating this guy for almost 2 yrs on and off, we sometimes also ...
A: The answer is yes, you should leave him. You want a different life than he does. Also, I would ...
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| Boyfriend troubles | 3/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 24, and have been with my boyfriend who's 25 for 6 months. At first, he was very happy to be in ...
A: Your boyfriend is on an ego trip. Whatever feels good in the moment. He is not scared of ...
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| I'm not sure if my boyfriend is the one for me | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. Most of our times together have been good, but ...
A: Your instincts are right and you have been choosing out of an inner need to rescue, rather than ...
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| got drama from past | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I'm having a problem with an ex keeping budding into my new relationship. He doesn't understand were ...
A: Explain to me how he contacts you and why you have not called the police if you have a protection ...
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| I'm not sure if my boyfriend is the one for me | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. Most of our times together have been good, but ...
A: There is way too much commitment too soon in relationships today and it is very harmful. Dating ...
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| Am I selfish, or not giving myself enough credit? | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 22, I've been living with my boyfriend and his daughter for 2 years. I moved from family, ...
A: Man, I hate it when couples move in together without the marriage commitment. It is like living in ...
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| How do I save my relationship with my girlfriend I have been with for 2 years | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend now for over 2 years. We have been through some difficult times ...
A: Without talking to your girlfriend I can only guess. She says she feels suffocated and so maybe you ...
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| My relationship is on the rocks | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I started seeing my girlfriend Candace back in Nov. of last year. This is our second time being ...
A: There could be several things going on and who knows? I would text her and ask her to be really ...
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| family issues | 3/11/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend and i dated for around 5 months. my family lives in another state, while hers lives ...
A: Moving in with someone is not a commitment. It is a way of playing at a relationship and is a ...
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| family issues | 3/11/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend and i dated for around 5 months. my family lives in another state, while hers lives ...
A: Yes, it could be, because a person marries a family, not just a person. If by the time you were ...
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| can this work | 3/11/2008 |
Q: Ive been wit my luver since 15 and im now 19. last august i lost my virginity 2 a guy who turned out ...
A: I am not sure what is best here. Ordinarily I would recommend that you just stay in there and keep ...
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| relationships | 3/11/2008 |
Q: Well i understand what you're saying but i mean it's like he's so some-timey..like he'll want to be ...
A: People can change if they want to. You can change if you want to. IT is just that we can't change ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: Most of us get hurt a number of times in this dating game. You know, it is really up to you. You ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: This the deal. If he doesn't stand up for you now he won't after marriage and this is what you will ...
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| relationships | 3/9/2008 |
Q: Well i understand what you're saying but i mean it's like he's so some-timey..like he'll want to be ...
A: There is nothing confusing about this. He is really not ready for a steady relationship. He just ...
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| I dont have the slightest clue what to do | 3/8/2008 |
Q: I need some major advice. Well it seems major to me at least. I'm 21 years old. Ok here is the ...
A: The problem is that with the role you are playing now you can't respect yourself and she really will ...
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| relationships | 3/7/2008 |
Q: Well I've moved on to another relationship with this guy who i met sept.07 and we hooked up dec.07 ...
A: The past can only hurt you if you let it. All we have is today. We can't change the past and if he ...
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| relationships | 3/6/2008 |
Q: Well I've moved on to another relationship with this guy who i met sept.07 and we hooked up dec.07 ...
A: Ok. That is helpful. This is the deal. The girls who are hard to get, usually get the guys. The ...
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| girl friend problems | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I am 22. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and she has been on and off in the ...
A: I would like to help you fix this but I think your girlfriend has already left the relationship ...
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| emotion & physical | 3/4/2008 |
Q: I'm 22 years old I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 and half years. I love with that I've got ...
A: Dump her. Get someone that loves every inch of you. Unless you want to live with someone the rest ...
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| dating | 3/3/2008 |
Q: I am 30...recently divorced with a 1 1/2 year old. I have always had a poor choice in men but when a ...
A: I am glad you are not living together. That is always a bad idea before marriage. Too much too ...
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| ex girlfriend | 3/3/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend of 6 months ended up cheating on me. everything seemed to be going fine. i was ...
A: Ben, I think you are another person who has asked me similar questions and you keep trying to get ...
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| ex girlfriend | 3/1/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend of 6 months ended up cheating on me. everything seemed to be going fine. i was ...
A: First of all, 6 months is not even enough time to get to know another person and too often ...
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| Rebuilding Trust | 3/1/2008 |
Q: I am at a loss. I don't know how to rebuild trust in my SO of over 3 years. In the last year, we ...
A: It is very hard on a guy to not be the one to be the provider financially and so is probably seeking ...
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| ex | 3/1/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. i keep trying to get a reason from her, but she ...
A: I am pretty good at picking up on things but I can't read your ex girlfriend's mind so I have no ...
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| ex | 3/1/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. i keep trying to get a reason from her, but she ...
A: It really sounds like it wasn't you, particularly, or she would have said something if she was open ...
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| Rebuilding Trust | 2/29/2008 |
Q: I am at a loss. I don't know how to rebuild trust in my SO of over 3 years. In the last year, we ...
A: This doesn't look good. The problem is that when a guy makes excuses for his behavior and even ...
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| sex issue | 2/28/2008 |
Q: so my girlfriend and i dated for 5.5 months. we first had sex about 3 weeks into the relationship. ...
A: It is always surprising to me that someone woould be having the most intimate of things in life, ...
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| 2 yrs 2 months and now its almost over | 2/28/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for over two years. She and I were forced to move in with one ...
A: When someone wants space that means they have emotionally left the relationship already and there ...
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| Is it worth the move? | 2/27/2008 |
Q: my name is Kelsey and I am 21. When I was away at college I met my current boyfriend through a ...
A: If you have to ask you are not ready for that kind of commitment. There must be something that is ...
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| I ruined the best thing that ever happened to me... | 2/27/2008 |
Q: Sharon, I'm almost 21 and i have just ruined the best thing in my life. I started dating David when ...
A: When you lie to someone they really never can trust you again. You showed that you were young, ...
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| Marriage/Children/MONEY?? | 2/23/2008 |
Q: Where do I start?? I am dating a guy that I met a little over two years ago online. He is very ...
A: I think it very sad about your parents. I would write to them and thank them for all they did for ...
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| Wow... | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I am in the bad situation: My boyfriend now views family, marriage, sex, and relationships as bad. ...
A: Oh my, you do have a problem. How fast can you get out of this relationship? He just moved a ...
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| My boyfriend is emotionally closed to me. | 2/22/2008 |
Q: Well heres the situation... I had a little girl with my boyfriend...she's 4 now. But a year and a ...
A: I have mixed feelings about this because of your little girl. It is really hard on children to go ...
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| He's uncertain about his love for me | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I’ve been dating this man 9 yrs my senior (he’s 34, I’m 25) for the past 6 months. He lives in NY ...
A: What you said last to him was the right thing to say and now it is really up to him but it doesn't ...
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| Broken engagement/relationship | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I am 20 year old female. My ex-fiancee had been together close to 2 years, we had been engaged for ...
A: I think it best to wait for him to contact you, at least for awhile. Then, if you feel like you ...
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| In a dilemma | 2/21/2008 |
Q: I'm 21 years old and have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We are both ...
A: Well, let's see what we can do. First of all, it is always a big mistake to move in with someone ...
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| Taken for granted on a "platonic" platform. | 2/20/2008 |
Q: Sharon.....I'm a "young" 32 yrs old, and many who know me would describe me as being a nice ...
A: This is a very good question and very thoughtful. It is difficult for me, without asking you some ...
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| On a Break | 2/16/2008 |
Q: I am 20, and I've been with my boyfriend (he's 25) for over a year now, and I love him so much. But ...
A: There are several things here I would like you to think about. First of all 5 years difference can ...
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| With Mr. Wrong, met Mr. Right | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for nearly 8 years and I have 2 young daughters with this man. For the ...
A: What are you thinking? This is not about you. This is about two little girls who you are thinking ...
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| I don't want to screw up my second chance | 2/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 13 months had broken up with me because he fell out of love with me. We are both 21 ...
A: No, communication is not the key. Communication is the key when two people are in love and ...
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| I don't want to screw up my second chance | 2/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 13 months had broken up with me because he fell out of love with me. We are both 21 ...
A: When men want to break up they never do it openly because they really don't want to hurt the woman. ...
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| My Heart Aches | 2/11/2008 |
Q: I am 37 and have been in a relationship with my 29 year old girlfriend for about 8 months. Recently ...
A: Whatever happened, your girlfriend is pretty much through with this relationship. When someone wants ...
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| Life has become routine | 2/6/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and our love life has become so routine. We both ...
A: Wow. This is a challenge for me. I am going on a small amount of information so if I hit on ...
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| My Girlfriend | 1/30/2008 |
Q: Ok the story is!I am 19 and she is 17! I have been with this girl for about 5 months, and everything ...
A: Get a different girlfriend. She is 17 and is very immature for her age. Dating is to find out what ...
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| Ex-boyfriend | 1/30/2008 |
Q: At this moment I am having one of the hardest times in my life. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a ...
A: I don't know that you ever forget someone. That is natural to think about him once in awhile. It ...
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| Having things good again with my guy | 1/29/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend thinks I violated his trust which I didn't but I want to know how to REGAIN his trust. ...
A: Sometimes the best way to handle something like this is to call someone's bluff. Right now he is ...
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| not sure | 1/29/2008 |
Q: Hi, I'm sixteen and my boyfriend is eighteen. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a ...
A: Smart girl. You are starting to pay attention to who you really are. Do not feel badly. Very, ...
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| too dependent | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years. We started off really amazing, we were best friends ...
A: The difference between humans and animals is they do have to act the way they are programmed. You ...
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| help me | 1/27/2008 |
Q: We hold hands and hug, but what should we do to strengthen are relationship? we hang out alot and ...
A: If you are under the age where you are able and ready to marry you would be smart to not kiss but ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I'm 23 years-old, I'm a girl, and I’m in my last year at college. My boyfriend is also 23 and in his ...
A: Well, dear, you are not confused. You already know what you need to do. Don't prolong it any more. ...
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| another girl | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend that lives 61 miles away from me. I love her more than anything, but there's ...
A: You didn't say how old you are but it takes until around age 25 to know yourself and what you want ...
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| Working on the basics | 1/25/2008 |
Q: Very recently, my girlfriend and I of 8 years decided to take a “break.” Actually, it’s not that ...
A: I need to know a couple of things. Why have you been together for 8 years without getting ...
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| Fear of Ruining Relationship | 1/23/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 years old and been in a relationship for 4 months now. Before this time, I was content on ...
A: Read what I said before very carefully about 10 times. I am serious. The reason he can control you ...
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| Fear of Ruining Relationship | 1/23/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 years old and been in a relationship for 4 months now. Before this time, I was content on ...
A: The reason he says you are the perfect girlfriend is that he is a controller and you are so easily ...
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| Breaking up with a boyfriend I live with.... | 1/23/2008 |
Q: We started dating last year after we met each other in one of our classes. He was the one who asked ...
A: Follow your gut feelings. You two are not compatible. As you can see, it doesn't work very well to ...
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| Sister and Wife | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I come from a easter culture however I believe all the problems are similar when it comes to family ...
A: You are not supposed to be neutral between your wife and your sister. You are to protect your wife ...
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| Im Clingy and it ruined my relationship | 1/22/2008 |
Q: Hey My Names Sarah and I'm 14 I went out with this guy for about a year and 3 months and I'm truly ...
A: I have an answer for you, but you may not want to hear it. Yes you are too clingy and he has a ...
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| Whether I should stay with my boyfriend? | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 24 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years going on 6. We have had our issues ...
A: While you are desparate and feel willing to do anything to save the relationship--he isn't. If you ...
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| Whether I should stay with my boyfriend? | 1/21/2008 |
Q: I'm 24 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years going on 6. We have had our issues ...
A: You have been in love with a fantasy and now that the reality is here it doesn't look too good but ...
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| I need some insight, I am not sure what to do anymore | 1/18/2008 |
Q: So here's my story. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months now. I am the first ...
A: Well, we can't change another person to be what we want them to be, but we can acknowledge our ...
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| Relationship problems. | 1/18/2008 |
Q: My question is how can I open up and get more comfortable? Let me start off by saying this is a new ...
A: A couple of things. First of all, you do not know this man and do not know if he is all you would ...
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| broken engagement | 1/17/2008 |
Q: I'm 41 with 4 kids (17, 15, 13, 11) and I've been dating a 51 year old with 2 kids (one married and ...
A: Ok. Four years is long enough. The question is, can you be strong enough to do what might work, ...
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| Differences | 1/17/2008 |
Q: I am 24 my boyfriend is 20. He is also a Division 1 basketball player in college. I am having a ...
A: I thought I answered this already. I recommend that you keep busy and start some new things in your ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I am 19. I have a boyfriend that is 20, we have been dating for 9 months and lived together for 5 ...
A: Move on. How can you mend someone who is abusive? They don't mend. Abusive-types never change ...
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| contemplating divorce after 19 years | 1/15/2008 |
Q: Crandall, I have been married for 19 years and have three wonderful children ages 12, 11, and 8. I ...
A: No, an email is not the way to go. I have been thinking about your situation and I think you should ...
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| contemplating divorce after 19 years | 1/15/2008 |
Q: Crandall, I have been married for 19 years and have three wonderful children ages 12, 11, and 8. I ...
A: Bless your heart. I have had fibromyalgia for 15 years and I realize how difficult it is for ...
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| He can't open up | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and I've been dating this guy for a year and a half and we've had some trusting issues and on ...
A: Sometimes in order to understand the closer picture we need to understand the bigger picture. One ...
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| I feel helpless | 1/14/2008 |
Q: i been with my bf for ova a yr. he has depression and always come to me for support n such. Well it ...
A: I tried to email you at this address and it was rejected. Add personalityconsultant1@yahoo.com to ...
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| break up | 1/14/2008 |
Q: i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. when we first started dated, she was all about ...
A: You keep asking me questions because you need to figure it out logically and there is no way to ...
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| Is he interested or not? | 1/13/2008 |
Q: Im 16 years old. Ive known this guy since the 9th grade but we didnt see each other until last ...
A: The best thing to do is to back off and leave him alone. If he is interested he will call you. He ...
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| break up | 1/13/2008 |
Q: i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. when we first started dated, she was all about ...
A: 1. Yes, if she really thought it would work she would probably have overlooked the dog issue. 2. I ...
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| break up | 1/12/2008 |
Q: i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. when we first started dated, she was all about ...
A: Well, this is the first time I have had a letter about dogs coming in between a relationship but I ...
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| Should I finally give up? | 1/11/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy named Mike for a little over 6 months. I live with him and we're ...
A: MY dear girl. You need to change your whole way of life. I don't know if you guy is what he should ...
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| I feel helpless | 1/11/2008 |
Q: i been with my bf for ova a yr. he has depression and always come to me for support n such. Well it ...
A: Well dearie, you do have a problem and it is important that you face it head on. First of all, it ...
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| what does defending mean | 1/9/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? Thank you for the great work on the forum and great help. My name is Mohan and I ...
A: It sounds like you have the traits that makes you want to make everyone happy and feel responsible ...
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| what does defending mean | 1/8/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? Thank you for the great work on the forum and great help. My name is Mohan and I ...
A: One thing to remember is that after you talk to her about it, then do not try to teach her or change ...
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| what does defending mean | 1/8/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? Thank you for the great work on the forum and great help. My name is Mohan and I ...
A: I wish I could work with your wife so she wouldn't be so sensitive. Since she is over-the-top ...
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| i'm not sure where the relationship is headed. | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I have been with my partner for nearly two years and we live together. In the first few months ...
A: At first, it seems so exciting to be with someone who is mare "mature" but then the age difference ...
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| i have a problem | 1/7/2008 |
Q: i suck at comming up with topics to talk about with my gf. she always expects me to have something ...
A: It is not a sin to be a quiet person, but you could develop some conversational skill. One way to ...
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| Girlfriend needs more affection and wants to move out | 1/7/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 4 years. We have lived together for the last 2 and ...
A: Sometimes what people say is the problem really isn't the problem. Sit down and take her by the ...
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| Time to move on? | 1/6/2008 |
Q: I am 22 and was with a girl for two years. We went on a break in Oct. but never really made it very ...
A: Two things. People change a lot during those years, in face until around age 25 or so and so it is ...
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| does she still want me? | 1/3/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have recently got back together after 7 months of breaking up the first time ...
A: It usually takes around age 25 to really know oneself and what you want out of life and I suspect ...
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| Dont know what to do! | 1/3/2008 |
Q: Hey Sharon. First, Happy New Year! I hope this year is filled with joy, happiness and many blessing ...
A: IT is difficult to say what is going on in your girlfriend's mind, but #1, obviously she is mixed ...
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| how to heal broken trust | 1/2/2008 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend and I went away together. We went to Hawaii where we stayed with his ...
A: z3nfire, Hello. It sounds like you already know the problem and the solution, to some extent. ...
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| troubles in relationship | 12/31/2007 |
Q: My life at the moment is, well I'm lost. Back in December last year 2006 i took a barmaid working ...
A: For the life of me, I don't know why someone would expect others to trust them when they have been ...
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| need advice | 12/30/2007 |
Q: Well i have been in a love hate relationship for 10 years and everytime she always says shes moving ...
A: Well, there are two ways to go. one is what I already suggested. If you do that then I would put ...
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| need advice | 12/30/2007 |
Q: Well i have been in a love hate relationship for 10 years and everytime she always says shes moving ...
A: Long distance rarely works but probably the only way you can do this is to tell her that if you ...
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| Help | 12/29/2007 |
Q: How how to deal with my ex (wanna be boyfriend) stubborness? ANSWER: Dear Mercedes, I will be glad ...
A: Since you are long distance I suggest that you both keep in touch but do not try to keep your ...
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| Change and getting the SPark back | 12/29/2007 |
Q: Basically.... My girlfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. Our relationship is really ...
A: It is difficult to know how this is going to turn out for several reasons. First, you sound quite ...
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| Help | 12/29/2007 |
Q: How how to deal with my ex (wanna be boyfriend) stubborness? ANSWER: Dear Mercedes, I will be glad ...
A: It is almost impossible for a guy to stay in a long distance relationship. They rarely do. So, you ...
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| Help | 12/28/2007 |
Q: How how to deal with my ex (wanna be boyfriend) stubborness?
A: I will be glad to help but I need more information. Are you trying to get him back? Who broke up ...
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| learning | 12/27/2007 |
Q: I am trying to understand something. What does it mean when a partner cries during love making. ...
A: Each person is an individual but it is not uncommon for women to cry at that point. Others will ...
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| learning | 12/27/2007 |
Q: I am trying to understand something. What does it mean when a partner cries during love making. ...
A: It is perfectly natural for this to happen. They are not tears of sadness but of release of deep ...
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| Woman testing you | 12/27/2007 |
Q: How do I know if a woman is testing you? How do I handle a situation when she is testing you? Is ...
A: Only certain kinds of girls like "bad" boys. Those kind usually are players. So, what are you ...
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| Woman testing you | 12/26/2007 |
Q: How do I know if a woman is testing you? How do I handle a situation when she is testing you? Is ...
A: There is no way to maintain attraction as such unless you can actually go out with her. But, there ...
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| Woman testing you | 12/25/2007 |
Q: How do I know if a woman is testing you? How do I handle a situation when she is testing you? Is ...
A: Unless she has a darn good valid excuse it measns she got a better offer or is not really in to you ...
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| does she still want me? | 12/23/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have recently got back together after 7 months of breaking up the first time ...
A: Well, one thing you know for sure. She is not ready for a committed relationship so now what do you ...
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| Boyfriend loves the bar more than me? | 12/22/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend goes to the bar every Friday evening hes 21 I'm 19 i cant go along i work until 8 or 9 ...
A: Well, here you are at 19 just like an old married lady whose husband goes out every Friday night, ...
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| my love | 12/17/2007 |
Q: iam 18 years old ok so me and tina the one i love broke up about 9 months ago we had alot of trouble ...
A: Take it easy. People change a lot during these years. People don't really have their personalities ...
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| His sister is more important that me | 12/12/2007 |
Q: I’m 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 28 years old. We’ve been dating for two years. He has an older ...
A: Good for you in being able to talk calmly about this. That is the only way you can really ...
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| scared | 12/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and have just decided to take a break with my boyfriend of 9 months. Neither of us had a ...
A: I am so sorry you are going through this but in this stage of life this happens a lot and is part of ...
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| Asking about a fib..... | 12/11/2007 |
Q: I'm 33. I have a friend who is very dear to me and recently when I asked her about something she ...
A: Dear Todd, Let it go. Because of what it is about, it is better left forgotten. Tell your friend ...
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| His sister is more important that me | 12/11/2007 |
Q: I’m 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 28 years old. We’ve been dating for two years. He has an older ...
A: NO, I do not think this will work out. A man who won't stand up for his woman will not stand up for ...
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| Affectionless Marriage | 12/10/2007 |
Q: Ever since the birth of our little girl, our marriage has gone down hill. My husband is a ...
A: Unfortunately you can't change another person but you can acknowledge and speak your boundaries. ...
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| What the hell is wrong with me. | 12/9/2007 |
Q: I have an amazing boyfriend he's a total and complete sweet heart and would go to the end of the ...
A: This is a bit difficult for me since all seven of my children were not allowed to date until they ...
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| Telling your girlfriend something about her that bothers you. | 12/6/2007 |
Q: I am 26 years old and have been dating my girlfriend for like 1 1/2 years now. Things are mostly ...
A: I don't know quite what to say here. If she turns you off then she turns you off. The only thing ...
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| I'm so confused | 12/6/2007 |
Q: I'm 21 years old. I've been dating this guy for 3 yrs now. He is 27. He's the first person that I've ...
A: I know you are serious but have you really looked at what you just wrote to me? He is 27 and you ...
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| me and my boyfriend | 12/6/2007 |
Q: I am 16 years old and I am a junior in high school and my boyfriend is 17 and a senior in high ...
A: The sign of maturity is to choose the best thing for you over and above feelings of love. That is ...
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| me and my boyfriend | 12/4/2007 |
Q: I am 16 years old and I am a junior in high school and my boyfriend is 17 and a senior in high ...
A: There are problems with dating exclusively at your age. That is why none of my children even dated ...
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| my relationship is in turmoil | 12/3/2007 |
Q: My name is alicia and i'm 21 years old. i left my home in long island to move in with my boyfriend ...
A: There are a couple of things going on here. What happens when you move in when not married is that ...
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| availability hurting your attactiveness..... | 12/1/2007 |
Q: I'm 33. More than once I have read and heard about how if you seem "desperate" it somehow causes ...
A: Being nice, thoughtful and kind to someone is not a turnoff. I am glad you are not a "jerk" ...
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| I am about to move in with him... | 11/30/2007 |
Q: My name is Erin and I am 21 years old. I met the man I want to spend the rest of my life with and ...
A: Setting aside religious reasons there are plenty of reasons not to do it. One is that men are ...
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| There is no comunication | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I wrote to you a month ago. You helped me then a lot. But there is no progress with my girlfriend. I ...
A: I think you are wasting your time. This girl does not communicate and probably won't. When a person ...
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| I am Confused | 11/26/2007 |
Q: This isnt really a question, I am just a 25 y.o. male with a complaint, and seeking advice. My 19 ...
A: Of course the mom is sick and the daughter is sick. Now it sounds like the whole family is sick--no ...
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| Feeling Like I Lost A Best Freind( its very long, sorry) | 11/26/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ...
A: You are not confused. You know what to do. What would you say to your daughter if she was going ...
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| Feeling Like I Lost A Best Freind( its very long, sorry) | 11/26/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ...
A: When things happen that are hurtful and really hard to go through--those are the times when we have ...
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| I am Confused | 11/26/2007 |
Q: This isnt really a question, I am just a 25 y.o. male with a complaint, and seeking advice. My 19 ...
A: We can all wish until we are blue in the face, but that doesn't change the reality of the situation, ...
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| I am Confused | 11/25/2007 |
Q: This isnt really a question, I am just a 25 y.o. male with a complaint, and seeking advice. My 19 ...
A: Your girlfriend is a child and you are a man. A couple of things to consider. Why are you choosing ...
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| Trust Issue | 11/16/2007 |
Q: I have been going with this guy about 8 months now. We’ve been together almost constantly since ...
A: How can you trust someone who lies? If a guy lies once, he will lie twice and more, unless he ...
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| . Confused . | 11/14/2007 |
Q: We are engaged to marry and have a one year old together he has an eight year old from a previous ...
A: The problem is that you chose someone who already had a child and then you went ahead and had a ...
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| Why do I feel this way, and I'm wrong? | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm 24 years old. Married for 3 years. and I have 3 children. John 2 yrs. James 1 yr. and Jayden 4 ...
A: I want you to stand in front of the mirror and look at the woman who should receive a medal for ...
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| Wife and problems | 11/9/2007 |
Q: Been married for 11 months to my wife now and things are slowly getting better. Initially she use to ...
A: If the things your wife says are abusive or if they are just kind of hurtful makes a difference. I ...
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| Rebuilding trust | 11/8/2007 |
Q: What is the best book which covers the topic of rebuilding trust in relationship in depth?
A: I am not aware of any books that cover this specifically. I can only give general rules. Call in ...
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| my boyfriend changed | 11/8/2007 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend about 2 years. At first he would do anything for me, he always showed ...
A: I need a little more information. When you say you have been together what does that mean? Are you ...
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| Wife and problems | 11/8/2007 |
Q: Been married for 11 months to my wife now and things are slowly getting better. Initially she use to ...
A: There are several things to consider here. First of all, it is important that you learn to work as ...
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| She isn't happy.. | 11/8/2007 |
Q: Sharon- My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for some time now, and I am deeply in ...
A: There is a problem with relationships these days. First of all, when the initial excitement wears ...
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| What do you think ? | 11/6/2007 |
Q: I am a 25 year old woman in a relationship that just passed the two year mark last June. We have ...
A: I am willing to bet that the way he was raised was that his mother stayed home and didn't work 60 ...
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| i wanna spice up my relationship | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I'm a 27 yr old male and my girlfriend 23 yr old, we been dating for almost 9 months now and are ...
A: Ansony, Perhaps it is time to go into a more realistic relationship. There is no way to keep going ...
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| Choosing to break up | 11/5/2007 |
Q: Two years ago I met a wonderful girl. We hit it off great, started spending more and more time ...
A: You have to be honest with her and "move on" as you say, but do not leave her alone to fend for ...
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| How to make my boyfriend open up to me | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I have a boyfriend of about 2years together, we stay together, lot of things happen in our ...
A: There are several problems here. What has happened to you is why I recommend that couples do not ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: I don't know how to even begin this without upsetting you. How can he respect you when you have ...
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| My boyfriend gives me a hard time | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I am 35 years old and my boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time and after 3 years of it, I wave ...
A: You are correct, it is not loving to treat you like an opponent in a courtroom. Now, with that ...
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| need help | 11/3/2007 |
Q: We will be married for almost 5 years in may. We have had alot of struggling times in our lives ...
A: I am so sorry you are having these serious problems. It is clear that your husband has withdrawn ...
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| can we make it work? | 11/2/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years, and we are only 20 years old. We recently ...
A: Don't marry a project; get into social work if you want to help someone. The problem with dating ...
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| Boyfriend in depression, what to do??!! | 11/2/2007 |
Q: im 30 YO gay guy, i have met a guy 3 months ago, he is 32yo, and our relationship went perfectly and ...
A: I have not worked much with Gay relationships and I think the dynamics are a bit different than ...
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| bitch girlfriend | 11/2/2007 |
Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ...
A: Women sometimes will respond to emotion. Tell her you want her to be proud of you and that it makes ...
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| Expense-sharing question | 10/31/2007 |
Q: Should my boyfriend pay rent and if so, how much? My boyfriend basically moved in with me six ...
A: I don't think you want to hear this but if you have to ask this guy to pay his share then he is not ...
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| bitch girlfriend | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ...
A: I think you have me mixed up with another person as I don't have an assessment where you use numbers ...
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| Commitment | 10/12/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of almost 4 years has just come home (his place which i pay rent on), and said that he ...
A: It is not enough to just get along so well if that is not what you really want. He has made it ...
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| VERY confused guy in a confusing relashionship | 10/11/2007 |
Q: my name is Adam, and i am 19 years old. i need your help! alright, me and my girlfriend have been ...
A: If two people are not compatible there is no way to "fix" it. You see, what happens at your age is ...
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| 9 months.. | 10/10/2007 |
Q: I am 24 my boyfriend of now 9 months (which we have lived together for almost a year) is 32. He is a ...
A: Well, now you know he is a liar. Perhaps that sounds harsh but it is the truth. Can you ever trust ...
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| Long Distance Relationships - how to keep it. | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 4 months. We have been in a long distance relationship for ...
A: Well, the truth is that long distant relationships don't work very well, usually. Especially men do ...
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| 9 months.. | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I am 24 my boyfriend of now 9 months (which we have lived together for almost a year) is 32. He is a ...
A: Well, I do think you are insecure, but I also think there is problem with porn there that influences ...
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| How to get back my GF ??? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: Am in deep trouble and I really don't know how to handle the situation. Let me relate you my whole ...
A: If you are serious about changing I think she will notice as you become more thoughtful, really ...
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| Communicating with my significant other | 10/7/2007 |
Q: Sharon, Hello! I am having what you would call "crazed emotions". I've been dating my partner for ...
A: Stop and look in the mirror. Talk to yourself. You are a survivor. You made it through past ...
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| He's 'free' and I'm not, but is that what's wrong? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I am a 28-year-old single mother, and live with my parents (there is no other way). I began seeing ...
A: Unfortunately, he is free to come and go as he pleases and that is just what he is doing. Let me ...
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| How do I deal with our relationship breaK? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I am 33 and my partner is 50. We have been going out with each other for 3 years and currently ...
A: Bless your heart. It is so important for you to be honest with yourself. Yes, it is very difficult ...
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| How do I deal with our relationship breaK? | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I am 33 and my partner is 50. We have been going out with each other for 3 years and currently ...
A: In my Life is 4 Living classes I teach people that in order to be happy one must live by two rules. ...
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| How to get back my GF ??? | 10/5/2007 |
Q: Am in deep trouble and I really don't know how to handle the situation. Let me relate you my whole ...
A: I hate to say this but you sound more like a taker than a giver and when she loved you, you really ...
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| I like a girl but it isn't mutual | 10/5/2007 |
Q: Well, there's a girl i've liked since freshman year, and only in junior year did we become friends. ...
A: You never can predict what will happen. I have seen friendships turn to love and then I have seen ...
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| When should I break up? | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half now and put simply, the person I met ...
A: Break up with him now! You can't trust a liar and a would-be freeloader. Sure it will be awkward ...
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| Missing my love | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I went out with my true love for five years and we have a three year old. she left me for an older ...
A: Marry her, which is what you should have done in the first place, and take marriage and parenting ...
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| I need some advice please! | 10/4/2007 |
Q: My name is Kelly, and I am 17 years old. I have a boyfriend and he is also 17 years old. We have ...
A: I know you want me to help you get this guy back in your life but I care about you too much. It ...
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| wHEN SHE SAYS THAT THINGS MOVED TO FAST | 10/2/2007 |
Q: i AM 51 AND THE WOMAN i AM DATING IS 47. OUR BEGINNING WAS ON AN EVENING BEACH OUTING WITH FIRE AND ...
A: Now, it is not being negative to be busy and not run to her at the drop of a hat. Even though she ...
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| he's too busy | 10/2/2007 |
Q: I'm in trouble these days.my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years now. The problem ...
A: It sounds like your jealousy is ruining the intimacy in your relationship. The first thing that ...
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| wHEN SHE SAYS THAT THINGS MOVED TO FAST | 10/1/2007 |
Q: i AM 51 AND THE WOMAN i AM DATING IS 47. OUR BEGINNING WAS ON AN EVENING BEACH OUTING WITH FIRE AND ...
A: She is either interested in someone else or she is not ready for much of a commitment more than ...
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| fear of trusting again | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I have been having problems with my boyfriend. At first our relationship wasn't too serious as ...
A: Of course you cannot trust him again. He is not stable and he has no business in another ...
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| marriage | 9/19/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: It helps. I am not sure what is in her heart. Only she knows that. You are right in that she ...
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| marriage | 9/18/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: This is your problem, not hers. She just wants to be normal and talk to people, both men and women. ...
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| Boyfriend is moving 30 minutes away | 9/18/2007 |
Q: hope you can give me some unbiased advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year (2 weeks ...
A: What choice do you have but to be supportive since he didn't discuss it as a decision you make ...
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| PLEASE HELP!!! THANK U MUCH!!!! | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I was going out with this guy named Ricky for seven or eight months. When we met for the first time ...
A: I do not know why you are confused. The guy is a player and a user. He goes with whatever feelings ...
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| how to avoid arguments??? | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I am 24, female form India. I am in love with a guy in my office since last 8 months and know him ...
A: Well, you do have a problem. Apparently he lied to you about quitting his other girlfriends. Now, ...
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| I let too much out the bag how do I fix this situation? | 9/13/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year, I'm 24 and he's 26. What happens is that ...
A: Tell your guy that you are sorry he read the letter because you wrote it on a bad day when your ...
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| My new relatinship is going sour | 9/12/2007 |
Q: I am a 37 yr old single woman, my son is grown and in college and I have my own home. Let me start ...
A: The problem still is that you are afraid of talking to him about something that is very important. ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend that I am living with... | 9/11/2007 |
Q: Ok...since the very beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend has been a little bit edgy. I ...
A: Oh my gosh, he might as well hang out the flag that he is not interested in a monogamous ...
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| Pillowtalk | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I met a cute lady called Anna two weeks ago.She says she will call me next on Monday night.I would ...
A: I do hope you don't mean pillow talk where you have sex on the first date. If you mean how to ...
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| talking | 9/4/2007 |
Q: A little background. I met my boyfriend online around Christmas last year. We lived in different ...
A: That helps. Unfortunately, long distant relationships do not bring out the real person. Now that ...
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| jealous | 8/31/2007 |
Q: My husband to be has loads of celebrity images on his computer not all sexual he told me he used to ...
A: You are upset and rightly so. Your conscious is telling you, when you feel ugly, is that your ...
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| sex | 8/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for a year. He's 29 and was raised by his mother. He prides ...
A: What worries me about your husband is more than his lack of sex. It is having that much control ...
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| Just way too confused | 8/27/2007 |
Q: My name is Josef and I'm 23 years old. It all started about a year and half ago when I first met my ...
A: I am so sorry you are going through this but I think that one of two things might be happening. One ...
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| sad story | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I was dating a man I was very much in love with. Him and I had a lot in common, same music, movies, ...
A: He probably will feel sorry at some time in his life, but maybe not. He seems to lack the ability to ...
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| sad story | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I was dating a man I was very much in love with. Him and I had a lot in common, same music, movies, ...
A: Sometimes what is too good to be true is too good to be true. It takes awhile dating someone before ...
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| My Girlfriend said she wanted to be friends for now! | 8/24/2007 |
Q: My Girlfriend, changed all the sudden, we have been dating for 2 years, and 8 months. This started ...
A: The key is to do the unexpected. You showed a little spunk and that was good. Now, it is easy for ...
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| Intimacy | 8/23/2007 |
Q: I'm happily married for 2 and half years now. We have a beautiful 9 months baby. My husband is a ...
A: Men need visual examples in order to get it. What is important to your husband--is it his car? ...
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| My Girlfriend said she wanted to be friends for now! | 8/23/2007 |
Q: My Girlfriend, changed all the sudden, we have been dating for 2 years, and 8 months. This started ...
A: You and I could guess all day and not know the answer as to why she is backing off. Usually, what ...
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| Dating a divorced man | 8/23/2007 |
Q: I am having a problem that I have been trying to find some help for but it is starting to feel like ...
A: One of the most difficult things to do in life is to live and enjoy the now. There are no ...
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| happy married but want sex with other people | 7/21/2007 |
Q: me and my wife have been married for a year and ahalf now and we have been talking about this and i ...
A: Everyone has a conscience that is built in. The reason why you have to ask me is because your ...
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| being cheated on | 7/19/2007 |
Q: Five months ago I was cheated on and left for the other woman. I am very sad. How do I get over ...
A: Deaqr Ana, Good for you. Yes, I think he will regret it. My goodness--he wanted you and also to ...
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| being cheated on | 7/19/2007 |
Q: Five months ago I was cheated on and left for the other woman. I am very sad. How do I get over ...
A: It is always difficult to get over what you thought was a wonderful relationship. When someone ...
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| can we ever make this work? | 7/15/2007 |
Q: im 22 and karl is 30. me an karl had a two and a half year relationship, it was always very ...
A: If you are smart you will not get back together with him. He has a violent temper and you could end ...
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| my communication | 7/15/2007 |
Q: My wife told me she was having a tuff spell. she was doing alot of thinking and didnt know if she ...
A: I think you answered your own question. Men tend to fix when women only want sympathy and a hug to ...
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| am i being too needy when i ask for affection? | 7/13/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past nine months. I am a single parent of a ...
A: Relationships that bring children together from other marriages seldom work for that reason. He is ...
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| Help | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I'm 15 and my girlfriend is also 15. We have been going out for 5 months and i don't know what i ...
A: If she says you suck up to her too much then listen to her. Even if it doesn't seem like it to you, ...
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| magic words? | 7/11/2007 |
Q: Joe (my current boyfriend) and I met in a fairly odd way, I was dating one of his best friends from ...
A: So far so good but if you continue to crowd him you will lose him. Moving in together is a very bad ...
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| New love | 7/9/2007 |
Q: I recently I met a girl online from a popular dating site(eharm.) When I was matched up with her i ...
A: This is a difficult question for me because when people get their dating way out of sequential order ...
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| dating | 7/7/2007 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR FEW MONTHS NOW AND REALLY CARE ALOT ABOUT HIM HE ABOUT 10 YEARS ...
A: Smart girl. The purpose of dating is to see if the person is who you could live with for life. I ...
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| Newly married and insecured wife | 7/6/2007 |
Q: First of all thanks for the great work I am newly married and less than a year. I married after ...
A: Yes, it is normal. Some people get very deep in thought and you should have an occupation where you ...
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| how to compromise | 7/6/2007 |
Q: I have a quick question. I am newly wed actually 7 months and seem to be going through adjustment ...
A: Sit down with your wife and tell her that you have a personality difference in that she is more of a ...
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| Newly married and insecured wife | 7/6/2007 |
Q: First of all thanks for the great work I am newly married and less than a year. I married after ...
A: It looks like there is also another question from you but I will address each one separately for the ...
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| girlfriend | 7/6/2007 |
Q: ok, my girlfriend told me she thought we needed a brek, to figure out what we really want to do, ...
A: When someone says that it is all them and not you, they are letting you down easy as possible. ...
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| breaking up with live-in boyfriend | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I am 26 years and I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 years. Our relationship started off really ...
A: If I could I would be tempted to make it a law never to move in with someone unless you are married. ...
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| ...i don't know what else to do | 7/3/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together exactly 10 months today, but we have known each other and ...
A: Well, actions usually speak the truth. What a person says is one thing but if the actions don't ...
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| were's the romance | 7/2/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and it seems like all of the romance has ...
A: This is the deal. People change a LOT during the teenage years on up to age 25. No one I know, ...
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| conversation and connection | 7/1/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months, but lately we have been so caught up ...
A: It helps me a lot to know how old you are but I will do my best. Let me start with marriage. I ...
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| Newly married and insecured wife | 6/29/2007 |
Q: First of all thanks for the great work I am newly married and less than a year. I married after ...
A: It is very important that you stop any kind of violence. If this doesn't help you please seek ...
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| Still like them, but get bored. | 6/24/2007 |
Q: I am 15 and easily become bored with relationships, even if i like the guy, which is never a ...
A: Yes, I do have suggestions. First of all, why date at all? My kids (I have 7) didn't even date ...
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| marriage on the rocks | 6/24/2007 |
Q: I am 35 yrs of age, Father of 2 boys. Me and my wife have been married for 4 , together for 7 years. ...
A: I am so sorry you are having such a hard time in your marriage. I do have some suggestions, but at ...
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| Ugh | 6/22/2007 |
Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together over two years. Lately, he's not been saying "I ...
A: What is happening is that he is still young and changing a lot. People change a lot between 18 and ...
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| We need help | 6/16/2007 |
Q: I am 22 years old, and I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years with a man that I love. We ...
A: This is called verbal abuse. You have a choice, either go along with it or stand up against it. ...
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| How to stop the insanity | 6/13/2007 |
Q: I'm currently in a relationship with a wonderful man going on 3 years now. We have a set of ...
A: First of all sit down and examine your feelings about this whole thing. What is your true gut ...
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| Trust | 6/12/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now and everything is wonderful. We seem to be ...
A: You have moved in with this man way too soon. It takes at least a year to really even start to get ...
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| army relationship | 6/12/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of three years is going into the Army Reserve and is about to leave in July for six ...
A: Long distant relationships are very difficult but all I know to do is to send pictures of what you ...
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| i dont know what to do. | 6/11/2007 |
Q: in the begining of my boyfriend and my relationship we were the cutest couple, now we have been ...
A: Stop getting mad about little things. If you can't control your behavior in those things how can ...
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| Introverted and Alone With No Experience. | 6/8/2007 |
Q: My name is John and I am a 22-year old single male. My problem seems to have many complicated veins ...
A: Being a virgin is certainly no drawback. To some women that would be a wonderful asset as there are ...
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| How to survive take a break in relationship | 6/5/2007 |
Q: My name is Jo and i am 32 years old. I found my first love when i was 30. And I met this wonderful ...
A: Sometimes it is my sad duty to tell the truth as I see it. This means that it may not be what you ...
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| why does he contact me now | 6/3/2007 |
Q: In graduate school I dated a man for about two months, fell very much in love with him but never ...
A: I think he just wants to be friends. Friends say I love you. If he loved you in the boyfriend ...
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| Alot of relationship problems.. | 6/1/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating more almost a year now. The beginning of may he told me he ...
A: First of all, if people are committed to staying virgins they shouldn't be feeling boobs or letting ...
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| need advice on giving a gift to my GF. | 5/30/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing a woman for about 18 months now. She is 43 never married and I am 39 separated ...
A: If she has to ask, then she will not be sure that it is what you really want. She already has told ...
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| when to give up | 5/30/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and i have a 7 month old. The relationship between her father and i have been a roller ...
A: Start reading and learning how to create a happy relationship. Read books on marriage, etc. Read ...
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| four years and fading | 5/28/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for four years. I love her very much. I've never met anyone ...
A: This is the deal. When you choose a mate, you choose the package deal. By understanding your ...
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| Boyfriends | 5/25/2007 |
Q: My name is Lexi and I am 12 years old. I love my boyfriend Corey, ok. I cant talk to him on the ...
A: My kinds used to join church groups that do fun things together. They did not have boyfriends or ...
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| Boyfriends | 5/23/2007 |
Q: My name is Lexi and I am 12 years old. I love my boyfriend Corey, ok. I cant talk to him on the ...
A: Bless your heart. I know that you sincerely feel things for Corey but I am committed to telling the ...
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| Is this a test? | 5/22/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I will celebrate our first year together this week. He's not a touching person nor ...
A: Communication is very important in any relationship. A couple of things that are important. Be sure ...
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| i'm asking too much | 5/21/2007 |
Q: I'm about to go through a period of exams, which is always emotionally very hard for me. This ...
A: Building Self-Confidence is very important for you. People who have self-confidence know they will ...
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| Help Before I Lose HIm | 5/15/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for a year now. We're both in our 40's. He is very outright with his ...
A: If you have issues with what you talk about then you may not be so compatible as you would like. I ...
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| his communication | 5/15/2007 |
Q: Hey, im 19 and my boyfriend is 25, we've been together a year and a half. We see eachother twice a ...
A: Your challenge is that you don't believe in yourself and you don't trust the process of life. Your ...
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| Help Before I Lose HIm | 5/14/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for a year now. We're both in our 40's. He is very outright with his ...
A: If this guy is the best thing that has happened to you I would like to know what kind of a guy was ...
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| Help Before I Lose HIm | 5/13/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this guy for a year now. We're both in our 40's. He is very outright with his ...
A: This is a self-esteem issue for sure. What is it about you that you are afraid others will find ...
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| how to erase the past | 5/11/2007 |
Q: me and my boyfriend talked about it and he said hes going to try to forget everything and thats ...
A: It is good you have a concience. It is our conscience that helps us to do things that are helpful ...
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| Is there hope for our marriage? | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I am 37 and married to a 47 y/o man. We have 5 kids all together (mine: 17, 13, and 10) (his: 28 ...
A: To be really truthful, one letter won't solve this problem. You are right in reaching out for help ...
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| I cannot escape my past... | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Okay, I've never done this before, but at this point I am desperate for some help, I feel like I am ...
A: I am so proud of you for reaching out for help and you have come to the right place. You can change ...
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| Trust and connection | 5/7/2007 |
Q: I'm a 22 yr old woman who is dating a 26 yr old man. We have been in a relationship for 10 months ...
A: You are 22 years old. It is time that someone helps you to be a woman, not a needy little girl. ...
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| Relationship Problem | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Im in a relationship for three years but we had a lot of problems,then one day we broke up and i ...
A: There is really nothing you can do but only time will erase, if he will allow it to eventually go ...
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| ex | 5/7/2007 |
Q: I ran into my ex boyfriend yesterday. I still have a lot of feelings for him despite him coldly ...
A: He certainly sounds like he is erratic in his behavior and therefore it would be very difficult for ...
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| another girl involved with relationship | 5/6/2007 |
Q: I really hope you can help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years but we've been very good ...
A: You certainly are right to not trust him. Now, we have to teach others to respect us. In order to ...
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| ex | 5/6/2007 |
Q: I ran into my ex boyfriend yesterday. I still have a lot of feelings for him despite him coldly ...
A: You would lose your self-respect and become just another needy woman willing to do anything to get a ...
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| I don't know whether to just give up or try some more | 5/4/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 3 months. We are planning to get married (as ...
A: Please, please listen to me with all your heart. People make mistakes and you have made the ...
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| Age gap and personality difference | 5/4/2007 |
Q: I read many of your advices that I found very thoughtful. I hope you can offer me some advice here. ...
A: People often make the mistake of too much too soon, and it crowds the other person. They feel ...
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| Hanging On by a String | 5/2/2007 |
Q: Sharon, Hi, I have been with my fiance now for just over a year, we are not rushing into the ...
A: This problem is too deep one or two letters. For sure, I would make SURE you do not get pregnant ...
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| whats the issure | 5/1/2007 |
Q: ive been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who is 21 and im 20, now for 1 years and 2 ...
A: I meant to click on the button that says it is out of my area of expertise. This sounds like you ...
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| im having a hard time | 5/1/2007 |
Q: Sharon ...I'm having a hard time thinking about what i should do about me and my babys mom. Im 19 ...
A: I didn't answer right away because I wanted to take the time to think about this. I feel you will ...
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| chasing a stunner | 4/30/2007 |
Q: I met a girl through the web and we didn't click and that was fine and she was cool about it. ...
A: I would text her maybe once a week and call once a week. I am sure she enjoyed the moment but ...
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| lazy | 4/29/2007 |
Q: I have a minor problem, my boyfriend/roommate, ( more or less my roommate),,is living with me for ...
A: Since you can never change another person then your only choice is to either accept it or take a ...
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| The lust is *gone* | 4/28/2007 |
Q: I'm 31 years old and I've been in a very committed monogamous relationship for 5 years with my ...
A: I probably can't be of much help as it seems like it probably is a physical problem. Sometimes ...
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| Needs more space | 4/27/2007 |
Q: I'm sure you've heard this question before but here it is again with a different twist. I'm ...
A: Your are right. Usually, that is the beginning of the end. Be very open with her. Ask her what ...
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| Breach Of Trust | 4/27/2007 |
Q: A few weeks ago, I was speaking to a friend of my fiance's and she accidentally let slip that he had ...
A: I wish I had better news for you but he is a liar and people do not change character defects. You ...
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| I dont know what to do | 4/27/2007 |
Q: 21 years old. Ihave been in a relationship for 2 years now and about a year ago we started arguing ...
A: It takes two people to argue. Stop arguing with him. Start listening to what he is saying. Then ...
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| I'm so confused! | 4/27/2007 |
Q: I have sent this question to a few other experts but they seemed to be maxed out unfortuantely. I ...
A: Dear I am saying these things because I care what happens to you. I am sorry that you are not ...
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| MIA | 4/26/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a Muslim Arab American, 31 yr old M for 6 months. I'm W, 36 non-Muslim. These ...
A: We see movies where couples overcome huge cultural differences and I am talking about various ...
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| How can I make it better | 4/26/2007 |
Q: My partner and I have been together two and a half years, we met online and our relationship grew ...
A: It always puzzles me to see a woman say how much she loves someone and just can hardly live without ...
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| relationship | 4/25/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now and just recently we've been fighting a lot. We ...
A: I hate to say this but he really doesn't love you any more. He may feel some attachment but he is ...
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| MIA | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a Muslim Arab American, 31 yr old M for 6 months. I'm W, 36 non-Muslim. These ...
A: I am so glad to have more information, however, it is really hard to get through our heads that ...
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| MIA | 4/24/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a Muslim Arab American, 31 yr old M for 6 months. I'm W, 36 non-Muslim. These ...
A: OH, women need to be educated as to the workings of men. Men will do and say most anything to get ...
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| losing the love of my life | 4/24/2007 |
Q: Crandall I am a 25 y.o malayalee female, raised with good morals both religious and familial. So ...
A: Well dear you are like so many women and have fallen hook, line, and sinker for a con artist. I ...
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| I'm so confused! | 4/23/2007 |
Q: About a month and a half into my relationship with my boyfriend, I asked him for a break. Now it was ...
A: It is too bad you moved in with him. This rarely works because men appreciate more what they have ...
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| On and off | 4/22/2007 |
Q: She's 26 and I'm 24. Our relationship has been 2 years old and a few struggling months. We started ...
A: I want to ask you a very important question? Why do you cling to someone who obviously does not ...
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| On and off | 4/21/2007 |
Q: She's 26 and I'm 24. Our relationship has been 2 years old and a few struggling months. We started ...
A: Give it up unless you want a life of never measuring up. She is narcisstic. She wants what she ...
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| how to strengthen our relationship | 4/17/2007 |
Q: Mine was an arranged marriage..its been just 2 and a half months tht i got married..! My husband ...
A: I hate to say this but your husbnd just doesn't love you and he really doesn't care how you feel. ...
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| how to strengthen our relationship | 4/16/2007 |
Q: Mine was an arranged marriage..its been just 2 and a half months tht i got married..! My husband ...
A: This one is very difficult for me to answer. Usually people marry because they love each other so ...
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| On a break, what now? | 4/16/2007 |
Q: I am 23 years old, and so is my Ex. My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the ...
A: There are some challenges here. If he has been your boyfriend for six years, this means that during ...
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| Can we Do It? | 4/13/2007 |
Q: I'm 21. My Boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. For all of this time it has ...
A: Sorry, I do not buy this story. Not at all! I have never heard of such a thing. I think he really ...
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| relationships | 4/1/2007 |
Q: I am at a bit of a loose end, I hope you can help. Iv been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 ...
A: Forgive me for being very blunt but you need a wake up call. Wake up! Get hold of yourself! This ...
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| ? | 4/1/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ...
A: Yep, I think that is what happened--he was afraid of his feelings. I think you are very smart for ...
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| ? | 3/30/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ...
A: Boy, this is a tough one. I am not sure what happened. The only thing you can do is to think back. ...
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| Confused | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I am 25 years old and completely lost. I will start at the beginning. My ex and I were together for ...
A: Ok. Now it is time to ask yourself some hard questions. Is talking to your ex feeding your ego? ...
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| Confidence issue | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and have been with a guy a few years older for about two years. I love him very much, and I ...
A: One thing that is important. Joking often has serious meaning beneath it. This shows that the ...
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| How to develp better communication that pushes towards the future | 3/23/2007 |
Q: I am trying to find a way to get my relationship with my ex even back on course or just completely ...
A: Nikita, It sounds like this relationship is really a lot of hard work on your part? Does he work ...
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| How do I be more controlling? | 3/23/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months now and we do think we will be in this ...
A: I am not sure what she means by being controlling as usually people do not want the other person to ...
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| I dont know what to do. | 3/22/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now. When we first met it was our freshman year in ...
A: First of all, People change a whole lot between the ages of 15 and 25. It takes until about age 25 ...
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| Communication Issues | 3/21/2007 |
Q: Let me give you my case. I'm a grad student at USC, the girl that I've been dating (almost 4 ...
A: Ok. There is a way to handle this if you have the courage to do it. Otherwise, you will be stuck ...
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| making changes in a relationship | 3/20/2007 |
Q: my relationship is really confusing, i moved out with our baby a few ago. it was because he wasnt ...
A: It doesn't seem like confusion to me. It is pretty clear that he is still a little boy. He talks ...
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| what to do!?! | 3/20/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and were totally in love!!!! But we have a ...
A: You are right. It probably will be the end of your relationship if you don't learn how to ...
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| what to do | 3/17/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a couple months. We were really happy together, laughed every moment we ...
A: Wow! This must have been a shock to you. Think back and see if you started assuming things from ...
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| Always the same problem | 3/16/2007 |
Q: I'm 25, she's 27. Been together 2.5 years. We're both college-educated, intelligent people, both ...
A: It really sounds to me like this is her problem and not yours. I commend you for being so thougtful ...
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| Secure relationship | 3/16/2007 |
Q: I'm so sorry, but reading some past answers, there were a couple things I realized I should have ...
A: Take my answers and apply accordingly. I think everything still pretty much applies. I am oh, so ...
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| Secure relationship | 3/16/2007 |
Q: I apologize if this is lengthy, I'll try to keep it one issue at a time. I'm 18, my boyfriend of ...
A: First I always like to start with principles that are important to know in order to make good ...
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| getting back together | 3/10/2007 |
Q: Ok let me get you some background...I am 25 and he is 23. Yeah, when he was with me he was very ...
A: He is obviously interested, but for friendship or more, it is hard to say. Usually, guys don't go ...
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| getting back together | 3/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I work together but not in the same department. He told me about a month ago that ...
A: I wish we could read your guy's mind, but since we can't do that then let's do the next best thing. ...
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| how??? | 3/7/2007 |
Q: look i have this boyfriend that I really like but i dont think im not doing a very good job in ...
A: I need some more information in order to help you. How old are you both? How often does he call ...
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| How do I keep my girlfriend interested in me? | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Hey Sharon, my name is Garret and I was wondering if you can help me. Is there any way I can get my ...
A: You haven't given me much info to go on but I will do my best. Listen to her when she speaks and ...
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| Open ourselves up to each other | 2/28/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering if you knew how my girlfriend and I would be able to share our souls with each ...
A: Start asking questions like, what would you do if you had plenty of money and could do anything you ...
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| Confused but determined! | 2/26/2007 |
Q: I am 33 years old. and the person I am interested in is 29 years old and is a solo mother. ok, my ...
A: It sounds like you are doing quite well in what you are doing. It is important to not be too needy ...
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| Confusion | 2/22/2007 |
Q: I've been with my boyfirend for just over two years and its been a turbulent time to say the least! ...
A: Usually, what people are angry about is not what they say they are angry about. Perhaps he feels ...
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| Reciprical friendships | 2/19/2007 |
Q: I have a pair of friends(one of seversl)who are a married couple, in their 40's. Cindy and Jim have ...
A: Since we can't read minds we can only guess in this situation. Perhaps the husband is a little ...
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| Romantic question for a special night | 2/19/2007 |
Q: Sharon, Thank you for the quick and very helpful response. Regarding my index card idea. My plan ...
A: Aha! That puts a different perspective on the card idea. I think that is a great idea. Now, it is ...
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| Romantic question for a special night | 2/18/2007 |
Q: Sharon, I am looking for a list of questions. I want to make a very romantic dinner/evening all ...
A: This is difficult since I do not know anything about your gf. The important thing is to understand ...
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| Do I fight for her or move on? | 2/16/2007 |
Q: Sharon, I first want to say that my story can go back so far I want to ask you a question more about ...
A: This sounds a little complicated for me to be able to help you in a simple answer on this website. ...
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| she lost her spark | 2/16/2007 |
Q: "Ok, so we have been dating for 8 months or so, and it's been terrific. I just turned 24, and she is ...
A: Since she had the same problem with her last boyfriend I feel that she will have this problem in any ...
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| He's so confused he said... | 2/15/2007 |
Q: My emotional roller coaster must stop so we have decided to give 30 days notice and move out and ...
A: I think you know what is the best thing for you to do. I must say that if a man loves you a little ...
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| He's so confused he said... | 2/14/2007 |
Q: my name is April, I'm 24 and have been in this relationship for about a year and a half..little ...
A: The first thing is to stop right now trying to get pregnant. This you don't need with a man who may ...
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| Is She The One | 2/11/2007 |
Q: I've been with this girl on and off for about ten years. Throughout our relationship there have been ...
A: If you could read your letter from this end you like it was your son asking for advice I think you ...
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| sex | 2/9/2007 |
Q: I worry that I may never find a woman who will satisfy me sexually. In all three of the long-term ...
A: IT sounds like you are mostly concerned about your needs and are not feeding what a woman needs in ...
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| Getting over the past | 2/9/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of two years and I have been through a lot. When we first met, it was completely like ...
A: You are not ready for a healthy, lasating relationship. You didn't say how old you are but I can ...
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| selfish boyfriend | 2/8/2007 |
Q: and in addition, he only drinks like two or three beers a month, and never on his own time, just ...
A: I wish you the best. Just use your head, too, along with your heart so that you are both ready for ...
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| selfish boyfriend | 2/8/2007 |
Q: Me, 19. Him, 20 My boyfriend of two years has recently chosen a religion that has convined him that ...
A: There are serious problems with people under 25 having exclusive relationships. This is the time ...
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| Ex Girlfriend is now a friend and I want her back | 2/6/2007 |
Q: I'm 19 and I ve been dating this girl for 2 1/2 years. It was the greatest thing that ever happened ...
A: I am not sure how old your girlfriend is but being in a relationship for 2 1/2 years is a problem ...
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| Re: improving my relationship | 2/2/2007 |
Q: Mrs. Crandall, Hi, this is Jack again. I was just wanting to talk to you about some things that ...
A: I agree and disagree. If you talk her into living with you then you would be settling for just ...
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| coaching program | 1/22/2007 |
Q: Please tell me about your coaching program details and cost. Thanks Randy Blackstock
A: The best thing to do is to contact me at personalityconsultant1@yahoo.com and I can email you some ...
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| Re: improving my relationship | 1/22/2007 |
Q: Mrs. Crandall, After some more talking with my girlfriend today I found some things out. She ...
A: OK. More information. Usually when women say their emotional needs are not being met it is a ...
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| improving my relationship | 1/21/2007 |
Q: To answer your questions though, lead to a long e-mail also. To help the matter, my girlfriends ...
A: Jack, Thanks. That helps me to see what is going on. To tell you the truth, I am not sure what you ...
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| improving my relationship | 1/21/2007 |
Q: ( I apologize before hand for the length of this e-mail) I am 25 and four credits away from ...
A: There are all sorts of problems caused by living together before marriage. You are committed sort ...
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| Relationship over? | 1/16/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. My boyfriend has been married before, and ...
A: I am sorry I am so slow in answering. For some reason I missed your question. Well, a couple of ...
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| my relationship | 1/14/2007 |
Q: well i was not always but some of the time unhappy, and then would take it out on him. Ive heard ...
A: I commend you for seeking to learn more about relationships. One of the most important secrets to a ...
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| After deployment | 1/13/2007 |
Q: I am in the Army an will be comeing home from a 6 month deployment , I met a girl before i left , an ...
A: The old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is not really true. It takes time and lots of ...
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| my relationship | 1/13/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend has just broken up with and i am completely heartbroken. I have been miserable at work ...
A: Rachel, What is it about your situation that bothered him. What were you doing that he couldn't ...
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| He just doesnt understand | 1/10/2007 |
Q: I have a ten year old brother who I've raised since birth.He does not live with me but with our ...
A: No, you certainly are not being unreasonable. Personally, I do not think this guy is any where good ...
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| torn with emotions | 1/9/2007 |
Q: I’m in a void torn with emotions like a rollercoaster up and down. I’m a 47 year old working male ...
A: You need help! and I don't want you to feel badly about that because most of us never were really ...
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| I need some tips | 1/9/2007 |
Q: What do u recommend me doing how do i leave him? Should i just ignore him?How can i leave him i ...
A: Just tell him that you want to be just friends and not date or see each other as girlfriend and ...
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| I need some tips | 1/8/2007 |
Q: He tells me he goes to the gym then he goes to eat... His normal time is 9pm to get home thats why ...
A: It is God's job to teach people lessons, not yours. Hurting him back will not make you feel any ...
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| I need some tips | 1/8/2007 |
Q: How can i leave him i tried i feel very depressed i feel like i need him. How am i gonna go to ...
A: The difference between us and animals is that we can choose our behavior. Doing the right thing is ...
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| Relationship Trouble | 1/7/2007 |
Q: My name is Jon, and I have been saved since I was three. I am currently 17 and I am in a serious ...
A: There are several things to think about here. First of all, you feel like you are supposed to be ...
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| What is happening to my relationship? | 1/7/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been togethes for a little over year. In the beginning everything was ...
A: Your instincts are right. He is pulling away from and and he is either just not that interested or ...
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| Intimacy Issues.... | 1/6/2007 |
Q: I'm 21 years of age and I've been involved in a wonderful relationship with my best friends sister ...
A: It may surprise you to know that people who wait to have sex until after marriage have a lower ...
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| I need some tips | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I been dating this guy for about 3weeks.. I been knowin him for about 3years... We go to church ...
A: Red Flag. Red Flag. Whenever a guy keeps a relationship secret he is looking for sex, and also is ...
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| how to strengthen my relationship | 1/4/2007 |
Q: I am a 28 years old woman and my question is the following. I have had a two years' relationship ...
A: I hate to be the one to tell you but you do not really have a relationship with this guy for several ...
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| Should I call, is she interested? | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing this girl for a month on and off. At first we just "hooked up" and I thought that ...
A: It is better if I know how old you are. Generally speaking, make sure that you ask her out to ...
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| Is she still mad at me? | 12/31/2006 |
Q: one more thing, we had a classmate get together today and played cards over my friends house..shes ...
A: This is my last time to answer your questions as I must move on to others now. I think you should ...
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| Unsupportive girlfriend | 12/28/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for over 14 months now. (She's 45, I am 43) She is wonderful, ...
A: Unless she is willing to go to counseling together and solve this issue, believe me, every time you ...
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| Is she still mad at me? | 12/28/2006 |
Q: k basically i called yesterday, and her mom said she would call me back which she did. we talked for ...
A: I would still play it cool and don't call so often. When you back off a bit it makes you more ...
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| one more comment | 12/28/2006 |
Q: I noticed his behavior about couple of months after i met him. First, i thought he did this because ...
A: Sounds good. Keep that good head on your shoulders and be open to a man who is already on track, as ...
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| Is she still mad at me? | 12/27/2006 |
Q: k, it all started this past christmas when i gave her a gift, only it wasn't a gift it was a sort of ...
A: Since we can't change another person and we can't know what another person is thinking I suggest ...
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| Soo confused!!! | 12/26/2006 |
Q: I am 27 and a mom of 3 girls, 12, 10, & 4. I have been dating a girl who is 28 for a year now. We ...
A: Generally I do not get involved in same sex relationships because I feel that it is out of my area ...
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| Should I have my baby? | 12/25/2006 |
Q: I am going to try my best to shorten my story. I have been living with my boyfriend for 1 year and ...
A: My heart goes out to you in your dillemma but I can't recommend you bring another baby into the ...
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| Should I break up? | 12/23/2006 |
Q: I have been together with my boyfriend for six months.I am 26 years old and my boyfriend is 24. We ...
A: Yes, you are being too needy. He really isn't into you that much so take the hint. Men rarely are ...
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| crazzzy | 12/21/2006 |
Q: So you told me to be more busy and hang up the phone first and stuff because he would always call me ...
A: Well, Are you so desparate to have a boyfriend that you would settle for one who really doesn't seem ...
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| Stuck and Don't Know What to Do | 12/20/2006 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 6 years. Marriage is about having a good friendship and ...
A: I wish that I could work with her but since you are already going to counseling that would not be ...
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| help i need some advise | 12/18/2006 |
Q: with. He is a retired Sergeant from the army. We get along great most of the time. 0ur friends say ...
A: You are being used and abused. Really now! There is not mixed message here. He simply does not ...
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| Fiance ex wife is on the prowl | 12/16/2006 |
Q: Every since my fiance and I got engaged, it seems as if there are new issues..His ex wife first ...
A: This is the deal. It is too bad he moved in with you before marriage because of all these problems ...
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| Stay or go and move on | 12/16/2006 |
Q: I have been talking to a girl on the internet since July this year and after a while started to have ...
A: Long distance relationships almost never work. They just are not real because you really can not ...
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| My child's father | 12/12/2006 |
Q: Sharon, I did not know that there was so much that you have to put into a relationship to make it ...
A: cDear Sunshine, I am so glad for more information. When I counsel people I teach them about the ...
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| My child's father | 12/10/2006 |
Q: I am 19 years old and recently had a daughter with my boyfriend. We are now having alot of problems ...
A: Well, reality has hit as always. Women give up their power when they have sex and babies before ...
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| Should I keep pursuing or let her go? | 11/30/2006 |
Q: I am a semi-retired male, 60, widowed in 1993. I have two grown daughters. I stayed single (but ...
A: Unless you haven't told me other differences, it seems like you should be able to work out your ...
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| Not strong enough/What now? | 11/17/2006 |
Q: (19) Thank you for your answer, but I'm not and never have been good at this type of thing. I can be ...
A: We all have choices in life and points where we can either grow up another step or go backward. The ...
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| get her back in my life | 11/17/2006 |
Q: this is all i know ,but u forget one little detal,that iam living in egypt and heir we dont date ...
A: The problem is that we can't change another person. The only thing you can do is to be friendly to ...
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| Am I wrong? | 11/16/2006 |
Q: I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. His parents kicked him out early this year ...
A: The reason he was kicked out of his home was probably because he was on pot and not contributing to ...
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| Relationship Challenges | 11/14/2006 |
Q: Lately we have been going through some rough times. Our time that we spend together has been cut ...
A: Well dear, people do what they want to do so if you feel you need to treat him better why have you ...
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| GIRL PROBLEMS | 11/12/2006 |
Q: WHY IS IT THAT EVERY TIME I CALL MY GIRL.SHE EITHER TALKING TO SOME ELSE OR SHE WON'T PICK UP THE ...
A: Either she wants to wait to talk to you when she can give you full attention, or she just really ...
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| Should I break- up with my boyfriend for good? | 10/24/2006 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year next month. He technically still has an apartment 2 and ...
A: I want you to read the letter you just wrote to me as though it were your daughter who was asking ...
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| Old flame | 10/23/2006 |
Q: I really feel better about the problem that I asked and understand that he will love others in a ...
A: Jennifer, NO, I do not think there is anything wrong with it and I have no problem with it. He ...
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| Old flame | 10/22/2006 |
Q: I am 44, and one day I was curious and one day asked my husband if he still loved his old highschool ...
A: I am surprised that you don't have an old boyfriend, perhaps your first love, that you still have ...
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| marrage | 10/22/2006 |
Q: So, if I pretty much tell him what you have advised me to say and he still doesn't want to talk ...
A: Look at it like this: Let's say you have been buying stock in a company for three years, which has ...
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| please help | 10/22/2006 |
Q: my name is Jessica and I am 18 years old and in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 ...
A: First of all, it takes until about age 25 for the brain to fully develop. This means that people ...
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| Old flame | 10/22/2006 |
Q: I am 44, and one day I was curious and one day asked my husband if he still loved his old highschool ...
A: We are all capable of loving more than one person. And we do love people in different ways. If ...
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| Advice on whether it's time to enda 3 year relationship | 10/21/2006 |
Q: I have been dating someone for 3 years. I am currently 33 years old. It began as a "fling" or ...
A: Ok, I see some traits there that might be contributing to this problem. I think you have a trait ...
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| My boyfriend lost his job...what should I do? | 10/20/2006 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and things were going really good, and then he got ...
A: Men do not respect themselves when they do not pay for everything, or at least most of the time and ...
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| marrage | 10/19/2006 |
Q: After reading your response I feel that you have some very good ideas about what I should do and ...
A: Well, OK. But look at it this way. It takes about a year and half to date someone to really see if ...
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| marrage | 10/19/2006 |
Q: ------RE: -Now, why is it offensive to him? I think that the idea of having a family is offensive ...
A: Your gut feeling is probably correct. He is marriage shy and not about to change or he would be ...
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| marrage | 10/18/2006 |
Q: my boyfriend is 24 years old. He is starting his undergrad work at UCLA and will finish in two to ...
A: 2 1/2 years is long enough to know if you will marry or not. It is long enough that you should be ...
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| blondiegurl37@Hotmail.com | 10/17/2006 |
Q: well... I think I am going to do what you say.. and well I asked him how he would feel if we went ...
A: I think I already answered you and said that he is not heartbroken enough to really step up to the ...
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| sepration | 10/17/2006 |
Q: Ive been having a lots of ups and down in our relationship.My wife decided that we should seperate ...
A: The best thing to do when you feel a little helpless in a situation is to do what you can do. Take ...
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| blondiegurl37@Hotmail.com | 10/17/2006 |
Q: I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We get along, and tell eachother ...
A: What happens when young couples date exclusively is that they miss out on being young and free and ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 10/11/2006 |
Q: I am 23 years old andhave been dating my boyfriend for two years now, we have lived together for 17 ...
A: Love is not enough to make a lasting relationship. Yes, I feel it best you break up with this man. ...
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| Relationship | 10/11/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now... I have had some issues that I am ...
A: I am glad you are getting counseling. I hope your counselor is a good one. The first thing to tell ...
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| 6 years | 10/10/2006 |
Q: hey my name is Jen and i have been since this man for 6 years now off and on i do love him very much ...
A: If you keep going back and forth with him the way he is doing with you, he will be doing that ...
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| trusting my wife | 10/9/2006 |
Q: my wife of three years is still e-mailing an old boyfriend I am 52 she is 49. I have ask her not to ...
A: I am not as worried about her emailing her x boyfriend, although that is not acceptable behavior but ...
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| marriage | 10/5/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 7 years. I love him very much. However, he has one behavior ...
A: I will do my best to help you but this sounds like a deep seated problem that requires counseling. ...
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| growing apart | 10/3/2006 |
Q: I didnt write the whole situation.I did want commitment from him.I wanted us to live together (it ...
A: I think your assessment is correct that you are moving apart so think about this. Couples who ...
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| growing apart | 10/2/2006 |
Q: I have been with my bf for 3 years.We had a good relationship and we were so close together.Hes 28 ...
A: It is time to take a good hard look at this relationship. You are smart to keep busy and have your ...
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| Moving in with him | 9/26/2006 |
Q: I am 19. I've read your previous answers to other questions and some of them have been right on ...
A: It sounds like you have a pretty good head on your shoulders so I am going to ask you to use it. ...
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| relationship help | 9/25/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 months,he has told me first he loves me,and we both came out ...
A: I hate to burst your bubble but I hope you do not move in with your boyfriend for several very good ...
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| commitment | 9/24/2006 |
Q: I've been with my bf for about 3 years now.Our relationship is pretty good but not perfect.I think ...
A: Men who are afraid of commitment rarely marry so I don't hold out much hope for you. However, if he ...
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| Relationship issues | 9/21/2006 |
Q: i'm 24 yrs old and I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. My girlfriend and I are coming ...
A: People who have low self-images try to hid who they really are by humor. She has serious doubts ...
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| yelling in frustration | 9/20/2006 |
Q: 44. I was raised in a house where yelling was normal. I, therefore, have used yelling as ...
A: It will be easier to correct if both of you are willing to work together on this issue. Yelling is ...
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| Should I stay married? | 9/19/2006 |
Q: Hey Sharon, I am 26 years, married to a 27 woman for two years with a 1 year old child. We both ...
A: Yes, there are things you can do make this marriage work if she doesn't have an outside ...
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| negativity | 9/18/2006 |
Q: I AM 38, MY HUSBAND IS 36. I AM HAVING SUCH ISSUES WITH HIS NEGATIVITY ON EVERYTHING FROM STUFF ...
A: It sounds like you husband has the trait of critical perception. While his behavior is not ...
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| sexual fustration | 9/17/2006 |
Q: I had a question regarding sexual fustration in a relationship. Just recently my doctor told me to ...
A: I konw of a very well-respected expert on relationship, who coaches people in relationships. He did ...
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| my boyfriend doesnt want to spend as much time with me as i would like | 9/14/2006 |
Q: I am 29years old. I have been with my boyfriend for year and a half. When we are together we are ...
A: Why should he want to spend more time with you. He has it made. He gets the amount of sex he wants ...
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| How can we become closer and communicate? | 9/13/2006 |
Q: We were casual in our relationship at first (both dating others), spent about a year apart and then ...
A: It could be a generation gap that is too much to bridge. Communication is so important. the key to ...
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| whats wrong with my relationship | 9/11/2006 |
Q: I'm 24 my byfriend and I have been together for a year and a half things were great until about 5 ...
A: The problem with your relationship isone I hear zillions of times. It is too much, too soon. Women ...
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| fellings | 9/11/2006 |
Q: I work part time at a drive through and my boyfriend recently got into a car with three older girls ...
A: Does he make excuses lots of times for different things? How old are you both? It is not natural ...
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| friendship failure with a woman | 9/6/2006 |
Q: 36 - male I have been a close friend and confidant with a woman a couple years older than me for a ...
A: She could either be scared of her own feelings that she might fall for you, which probably wouldn't ...
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| Girlfriend | 9/6/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are 22 years old and we've been together for the past 6 months. In the beginning ...
A: I am just going to be straight out honest with you. This is not love. It is not love when you say ...
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| relationship | 8/30/2006 |
Q: I am 27 years old and have been dating a twenty four year old male for about 5 months...He has a one ...
A: Your guess is as good as mine but I do want you to not make the mistake that many women make and ...
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| she doesnt care !! | 8/28/2006 |
Q: Iam 21 years old Iam ingaged one year ago. we love each other a lot. but what makes me crazy is her ...
A: I am not sure what you mean. Do you mean that you get married at the same time as your brother ...
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| Taking a Break from a relationship | 8/28/2006 |
Q: which I thought was going great until 4 days ago. I went over to my boyfriends house like usual ...
A: Let me tell you what has happened in this country that has resulted in your story being told over ...
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| Repairing the relationship | 7/5/2006 |
Q: In reply to your question - there have been several incidents along the way, starting from Christmas ...
A: If you never listened to anything in your life listen to me now. Get out of this relationship and ...
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| My Best Friend | 7/5/2006 |
Q: that down there is what you wrote, obviously. Thank you so much, and this note really made me have ...
A: I am so glad things have changed in regards to your friend. You keep up reaching out to others who ...
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| she wants to take a break | 7/4/2006 |
Q: I'm currently in a relationship of 16 months, my girlfriend has just told me that she needs to take ...
A: Ask her specifically what she means by needing space. Does that mean she wants to see other guys, ...
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| My Best Friend | 7/4/2006 |
Q: I'm 12 years old. This is more of a friendship related problem, so I thought it would work since ...
A: You are so right. It is so hard to be a teenager. For starters hormones are changing and you are ...
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| Ambivalence | 7/3/2006 |
Q: I have been dating someone for about 8 months. The first few months were amazing...I have been in ...
A: Women's lib has really set women up to be used and abused. Women lose their power when they have ...
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| Newlyweds and intimacy | 7/3/2006 |
Q: I am a bit embarressed to be asking this question, but Ive been frustrated for a while now and cant ...
A: You are right to be concerned. This is not normal. There is something wrong and it isn't you and it ...
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| making him be excited to see me. | 7/1/2006 |
Q: my bf n i have been together for over a year now. i feel like he is gettin bored of me. he is always ...
A: There is a book you should read. It is called "He's just Not into you. I do nto know the author. ...
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| Reviving a relationship | 6/29/2006 |
Q: my name is Emilie, I'm 22 and my b/f 25. We have been together for nearly 2 & 1/2 years. I have a 3 ...
A: Your case is just another showing the reasons why I tell women to not have sex until marriage, or at ...
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| Can you answer these questions? | 6/26/2006 |
Q: I've had help from people on this sight before, it's always been wonderful and VERY helpful, but ...
A: I will do my best. Before I answer each question I would like to share some important information. ...
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| Tough Times Ahead | 6/19/2006 |
Q: you did not previously answer this question, i would appreciate any input you could giveI am 22 and ...
A: One of the challenges of your [rpb;e, os that you both are at an age where you are changing a lot. ...
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| Feeling Distant From My Boyfriend. | 6/18/2006 |
Q: I'm having problems communicating with my boyfriend. We go to the same school and I'm just a year ...
A: Honey, if you want a guy to chase you you have to run away from him. Stop caling himl stop being ...
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| Broken relationship | 6/18/2006 |
Q: My name is Erica and I'm 23 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. Things ...
A: The first thing to realize is that we can never change another person. Your guy has the traits to ...
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| Friendship | 6/15/2006 |
Q: This question may be a little off topic for you, but I rather seek the wisdom of someone ...
A: I am not knowledgeable in the Buddha culture so I don't know if I can be o fmuch help or not. Your ...
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| affection grosses her out | 6/15/2006 |
Q: I am 49 she is 30 with 3 year old not mine I want to but things back together. My girlfriend says ...
A: Either she is in love with someone else, memories of abuse have come to surface and causing her ...
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| what to do | 6/14/2006 |
Q: i am 46 years old, been married or 21 years and have had an affair for 3 years. I announced to my ...
A: I am so glad you wrote to me and I do hope my words will touch you. Please consider a few things. ...
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| A little skeptic | 5/24/2006 |
Q: I have had feelings for a female friend for years. Our story is much like a movie and feels like it ...
A: Yes, I do think she has feelings for you. How did you get along while she was there on the island? ...
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| What to do, pushed her away! | 5/19/2006 |
Q: First of thank you for reading this. I have read so much lately on what to do and i think this is ...
A: Well, it seems you have some growing up to do. I don't say that to put you down but to let you know ...
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| Working Things Out | 5/11/2006 |
Q: we are Christine and Alexis. We're both 22 years old, and are just about to graduate from college. ...
A: I wish I had more time to answer your questions but I have had something come up that will take most ...
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| Lost in Love | 5/11/2006 |
Q: Sharon, This is the first time ive ever done anything like contacted someone for advice. so forgive ...
A: If you have any hope of having a relationship there are several things you must do. First of all, ...
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| i need more help with my girlfrield | 5/8/2006 |
Q: Can i just ask one more question.I've been to Moscow with her 3 times over the last 2 years.I know ...
A: It isn't what people say; it is what they do that tells you how they really feel. Words are easy for ...
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| My relationship | 5/8/2006 |
Q: I met her in chess last year and we started to know we liked each other about the end of october ...
A: Having one steady girl is not a good idea at your age. People your age change rapidly. Your body ...
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| i need more help with my girlfrield | 5/8/2006 |
Q: i asked kinred a question about my girlfrield and his answer was what i new he would say(posted ...
A: Unfortunately we can't change another person. They have to want to change. If she wanted the same ...
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| Help! | 5/4/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together over two years, and are talking about getting married. We have ...
A: The first thing for you to do is to own your feelings and depression. The battle for our behavior ...
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| How to fix my relationship. | 5/3/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 10 months. IN the start it was great just ...
A: How I wish I could help women before they get into such situations as yours. Women give their power ...
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| relationship | 5/3/2006 |
Q: kind of a long sad story. i'm currenly in a 9 mo relationship with a man i adore. he loves me and ...
A: In the first place there is something wrong with the relationship if you haven't already discussed ...
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| Not sure whats going on | 5/2/2006 |
Q: I am currently 24, my girlfriend is 23. I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years. When I ...
A: Your fears are real. A person who really loves someone does not go out with everyone except the ...
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| how to deal with jealuosy | 4/27/2006 |
Q: i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. we love each other very much, ...
A: Sorry I am slow in answering. I wanted to give this question some time. First of all, it is ...
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| Family problems | 4/19/2006 |
Q: I have a series boyfriend for almost a year. We live together. I have a very big family and my ...
A: Tell your boyfriend about your dillemma and ask him if he has any suggestions of what you should do. ...
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| stuck | 4/17/2006 |
Q: Hey thanx... He is 16 and I am 20, he lives with his mom and dad at the same house that his sister ...
A: I am not sure you want to hear this but the difference between 20 and 16 is really not the ...
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| Where is our relationship/friendship heading? | 4/15/2006 |
Q: (Sorry this kinda long, thanks for understanding and for your generous help - Sam) I have a good ...
A: It sounds like you are doing fine on your own. I am not sure why she didn't want to go to the prom ...
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| 20-I lied to my galfirend | 3/27/2006 |
Q: I am Mike from India, I have relationship with my girlfriend for last 7 months but I told her lie ...
A: Well, one of the highest needs of women is to be able to trust their man and so you betrayed that ...
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| need to know | 3/25/2006 |
Q: how can i do with him ? secondly : how can i know that a person love me even if from opposite sex ...
A: If you want to know how someone feels then ask them. It is that simple. If you want to have better ...
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| boyfriend and friends | 3/21/2006 |
Q: I was just wondering is it wrong if your boy friend wants to hang out with other girls as friends ...
A: I am not sure I understand the whole thing but I can tell you some things. What ever gut feelings ...
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| Want to have sex with my lover | 3/19/2006 |
Q: I am 25 year old batchelor, working as supervisor in a firm. I am in love with the wife (aged 30) of ...
A: Perhaps this woman has a conscience and is feeling guilty about committind adultery. She has made ...
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| Need Some Dating Advice | 3/15/2006 |
Q: I need some help. It's my last year of high school and I want someone to be with in the summer, and ...
A: I will do my best to give you helpful information. First of all, it is wise to date various girls ...
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| communication, making it last | 3/6/2006 |
Q: I must say this is one of the most difficult questions I have had to answer. My heart goes out to ...
A: This is helpful. I recommend a couple of things. I know of successful lmarriages where they have ...
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| communication, making it last | 3/5/2006 |
Q: 24. i am a soldier currently deployed to iraq. my wife has a hard time talking to me, she gets ...
A: I must say this is one of the most difficult questions I have had to answer. My heart goes out to ...
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| Saving a relationship | 2/27/2006 |
Q: I've been seeing this guy for about four months now, and we've both fallen for each other. Just ...
A: I am really not the one to help you. In training we have found that most men living homosexual ...
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| Giving her the right amount of time... | 2/24/2006 |
Q: I've known this girl for almost 8 months. We met during the summer and have kept in really good ...
A: It always is a mystery to me that people won't go out again after they get "hurt" by another person ...
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| Possessiveness | 2/18/2006 |
Q: I really appreciate it. So what would be the best way to break up with him? Well I know there isn't ...
A: Tell him that you realize that you both have some growing up to do and that you need time to really ...
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| relationship dwindling | 2/18/2006 |
Q: I dont know what to do with my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2yrs. and ...
A: My heart goes out to you and so many other women who find themselves in this situation. Pregnant, ...
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| Possessiveness | 2/17/2006 |
Q: I'm an 18 year old female who's dating an 18 guy since November '05. I think I have a huge problem. ...
A: Good for you for asking some advice. It shows that you are maturing and starting to think about ...
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| Strange Girl | 2/8/2006 |
Q: I have 22 years old and a few weeks ago I met this 18 years old girl over the internet and we ...
A: A couple of things. This girl is too young for you is number one. Of course she doesn't know what ...
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| I Don't Know How to Talk to Him | 2/5/2006 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for seven months, and I love him dearly. You see, he tells me to let him ...
A: Your problem is that you are too easy. We each set up our relationships and teach others how to ...
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| I Don't Know How to Talk to Him | 2/1/2006 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for seven months, and I love him dearly. You see, he tells me to let him ...
A: It is difficult for me to judge this situation with so little information. I will say, however, ...
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| I'm 36-years old and I've... | 1/24/2006 |
Q: I'm 36-years old and I've been with my fiancee for almost 2 years. One month ago he asked me to be ...
A: Well, dear, I think you have some valid doubts. While it is good that he has a good relationship ...
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| Should I go on into marriage? | 1/21/2006 |
Q: I am 40 and single. I have been dating R for 8 months now. When we first met, 3 years ago, we became ...
A: With only what you have told me yes, I feel it would be wrong to marry her under the circumstances. ...
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| Helping a "friend" | 1/17/2006 |
Q: I'm 34 years old and am feeling frustrated. I have a friend that I helped over the holidays buy ...
A: It is usually never a good policy to give people money. There are exceptions when you see a person ...
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| Need help | 1/15/2006 |
Q: I had been dating this girl but I ruined things with her. We were on our 3rd date and everything ...
A: I think you hit the nail on the head. This is why she isn't married. She is a real flake. It ...
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| Need help | 1/13/2006 |
Q: I had been dating this girl but I ruined things with her. We were on our 3rd date and everything ...
A: You do not have much choice except to write her a nice email and apologize. Tell her that you are ...
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| My boyfriend and I have bene... | 1/12/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have bene together for about a year, and are considering getting engaged. There ...
A: You are so smart to get this settled now before marriage. Under no circumstances should you allow ...
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| Very short relationship | 1/11/2006 |
Q: I'm Vina, 28 yrs old. Have a very short relationship w/ guys 'til now, hang out for 1 to 3 dates, ...
A: I need some more information. When a guy asks you out do you call him and contact him afterward? I ...
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| How Can I Make My Relationship Better? | 1/4/2006 |
Q: Sharon, (I apologize, this will be somewhat long in detail, but it's the only way to tell you, ...
A: Dear Michael, Ok. This is the deal. It sounds like you are doing very well in the way you are ...
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| Im starting to HATE! HIM! | 1/1/2006 |
Q: i been my boyfriend for 8 months now and im sorry to say i love him. he lied to me in the past ...
A: Well, dear, you are not in love you are addicted to this guy just like you would be addicted to ...
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| Should I break up with my boyfriend | 12/20/2005 |
Q: I am 26 years old. I will try to be as short as possible, but I am very wordy and I think I am going ...
A: This guy is still married and you know he is. Get out now! Of course you feel stupid, but don't ...
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| how to offer appearance advice | 12/15/2005 |
Q: I have a guy that i was friends with for many many years. Not close like talk everyday but some how ...
A: Is he the manager of the band? If not, why hasn't the manager said something to him? Just a ...
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| Communication Block | 12/15/2005 |
Q: Well, I am actually left handed, but can use my right hand for some things, sometimes. There are ...
A: I do think you should just accept that you are not the greatest communicator in the world but that ...
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| Is his battle my battle | 12/14/2005 |
Q: We only know each other for a short time however, with in that time we have became really close. We ...
A: Respect his wishes to leave him alone. Usually that works a lot better than keeping after him ...
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| Communication Block | 12/10/2005 |
Q: First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and answer my question. I am a 21 yr old ...
A: I need to ask you a few questions. This may sound strange but are you supposed to be left handed ...
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| Help...I'm 53...he's 45 | 12/6/2005 |
Q: Ever since I met him, there has always been someone else,he came to Fl. from Colorado to be with ...
A: Well, I am going to tell you some things you are not going to like but you need a wake up call. It ...
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| i have a question | 12/2/2005 |
Q: i'm 30 and i've gone out alot with many different girls, u can say i was a player, she is 23 i met ...
A: That makes quite a difference. Just remember that you met her in a very romantic setting where you ...
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| i have a question | 12/2/2005 |
Q: Hey Sharon Me and my girl have a long distance relationship(me in ny, her in texas) i have trusted ...
A: This is the deal. Long distance relationships rarely work out. Were you together a long time ...
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| -------------------------
Hello... | 9/10/2005 |
Q: ------------------------- Hello Sharon, thank you for taking the time to listen to me! My partner is ...
A: Is this guy real? You mean to say that when you suggest he pay even a little part of his way he ...
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| Am I totally damaged goods. | 9/8/2005 |
Q: I am 26 years old and I am in a relationship with a guy that is 22. I never thought I would ever ...
A: Not to trust him is rational and understandable. I wouldn't either for awhile. The key here is to ...
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| Closeness | 9/8/2005 |
Q: I'm in my last year of high school and I've been going out with this girl for about 2 and a half ...
A: In looking at your relationship I have to say I do not feel too hopeful for you. It is important ...
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| Hello
I am very upset at... | 9/5/2005 |
Q: I am very upset at the moment because last week, my partner packed his bags and left, we had had a ...
A: Unfortunately, when you are not married you have no commitment from him. As usual, the woman is ...
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| Wesley | 9/4/2005 |
Q: Hey! Thank you so much for your time... I am very confused about one of my friends. This ...
A: Unfortunately, I cannot read Wesley's mind to know what is going on there. He seems like he likes ...
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| Need Help please | 8/18/2005 |
Q: I've been engaged 1 1/2 years and Im really looking for advice on how to deal with some feelings. We ...
A: If you are already having sex then the anticipation of marriage has lost a lot of its power and you ...
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| Honeymoon period over? | 8/16/2005 |
Q: i'm 21, and so is my boyfriend of 8 months. We are both at college together. We're both in love ...
A: Well dear, dating is to see if you are compatible. There is a very important relationship trait ...
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| marriage comittment | 8/16/2005 |
Q: I'm 45, Wife just turned 46, married 13 years with one 12 year old girl. Wife works full time ...
A: Bless your heart! Isn't it interesting how we humans tend to feel that the grass is greener on the ...
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| girl | 8/9/2005 |
Q: I like this girl who I see in youth group but does not know how to approach her. HOw shall I ask her ...
A: Ok. Here are some suggestions. When you are around her ask her questions that require more than a ...
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| Taking a "break" | 8/2/2005 |
Q: I am 27 years old. On Sunday my boyfriend of 15 months tells me that he thinks it would be a good ...
A: Well, things don't look too good. Here you are going through a rough time and he cops out. Doesn't ...
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| What to do what to do ? | 7/29/2005 |
Q: me and my fiancee just got engaged on July 11th he has been going through some emotional shifts from ...
A: I agree with Dr. Phil when he says that we teach others how to treat us. You need to tell your guy ...
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| hey,
i liked this guy at... | 6/7/2005 |
Q: hey, i liked this guy at my high school, and one day i accidently blabbed it to everyone that i ...
A: Well, if you really dislike yourself and don't feel you have any value then go for this guy! You ...
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| Concerned about relationship | 5/27/2005 |
Q: My name is Jessie and I have been dating an Egyptian man for about 8 months.Everything is just ...
A: Well, dear, you are really asking for trouble. First of all, you have not gone with him long enough ...
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| what is it? | 5/25/2005 |
Q: Hey Sharon, just wanted to say Thanks for that great insight and explanation on that topic, i really ...
A: The book is for both men and women. I need to do some more work on my website, ...
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| saving my relationship | 5/24/2005 |
Q: been with my g/f for about a little over a year. The most she's been with someone before that was a ...
A: Well, I would like to tell you that you could do some wonderful thing that would knock the socks off ...
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| Please Help! | 5/23/2005 |
Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been together for a little over 15 months. He has ...
A: I hope you have learned your lesson that you never tell a guy about your past. It is amazing to me ...
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| what is it? | 5/23/2005 |
Q: and let me say this your title as a personalityconsultant suits you perfectly, especially with the ...
A: I actually have telephone clients I work with, as part of my Personality Consulting business. I do ...
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| what is it? | 5/22/2005 |
Q: Hey Sharon, I'm just trying to get female perspective on this topic, it seems almost all women i ...
A: Well dear Dan. It all depends on what kind of woman you want to attract. If you want someone who ...
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| tough or sensitive? | 5/16/2005 |
Q: age: 29 Which do you (and what you believe most women) consider a bigger turn-off? A conceited ...
A: I don't think there is much difference. Women tend to stay with men who are not good for them ...
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| reconnecting | 5/6/2005 |
Q: my name is Nick, I'm 25 and the woman I'd prefer to be with is Cali, she is 24. Cali and I have had ...
A: One of the challenges today of breaking with the morals of yesterday is that it is natural for a ...
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| What should I do? | 5/4/2005 |
Q: I would really appreciate if you could help me/ give me your opinion. I'm a 20 year old girl. I met ...
A: It is obvious that you two clicked in some way, but how is the question. Often, when we are away ...
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| Dating dilemmas/problems | 5/3/2005 |
Q: Age: 35 Hi Sharon... I'm kinda in a dilemma about a girl that I've been seeing for about 4 months ...
A: Sounds like this gal has a lot of mood swings. Genetically, one side of our personality we inherit ...
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| distance, love and friendships | 4/24/2005 |
Q: I'm going to Berlin in August for one year to carry out a placement. My friends will carry theirs in ...
A: Your brother is right. However, once in awhile a friendship will last many years. The problem is ...
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| Smoking | 4/20/2005 |
Q: I am 19 years old. I have been dating this guy and he smoked when we were friends and then he quit ...
A: Sorry to be slow in answering your question. I couldn't get through to the website yesterday. The ...
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| hey.
i want to keep it... | 3/17/2005 |
Q: hey. i want to keep it simple... i love a gal. its been more than 1 year. i love her so much ...
A: Boy is this girl playing games with you. I am not sure I understand why you would want someone who ...
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| help | 3/5/2005 |
Q: ..m going crazy i hope u can help me....we had a fight again plz read my story carefully and gimme ...
A: You were right to not allow him to swear at you. I know it hurts right now, but do you really want ...
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| Trust & Closeness | 2/26/2005 |
Q: I am engaged to a wonderful man and we are to be married in Oct of this year. We are very supportive ...
A: Sounds like he has traits that make him feel very private about things but you are right in feeling ...
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| Important Question | 1/27/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old black female, I work at an hospital and wanted to do something part-time to ...
A: You must stop talking to these people they are very bad people and if you went out there your life ...
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| i need help | 1/17/2005 |
Q: ------------------------- we're both are 21 and was ready for marriage! Followup To Question - ...
A: I need to know age as sometimes it makes a big difference on how to handle situations. OK. The ...
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| Opening Up | 1/15/2005 |
Q: I am having problems communicating with my girlfriend. She will often suddenly clam up, not say ...
A: Your girlfriend is demonstrating negative and pouty behavior that could be caused by a trait swings. ...
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| Dazed and confused | 1/5/2005 |
Q: I'm 19 years old. As a child I was sexually abused for years by my grandfather, and going into my ...
A: I am proud of you. You have realized your problems connected with your abuse and seem to be moving ...
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| confusion | 1/4/2005 |
Q: i am so confused about my relationship with my boyfriend of two yrs. we were a great couple the ...
A: You can't. Long distance relationships simply do not work. The only thing you can do is decide to ...
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| Growing Stronger. | 12/27/2004 |
Q: I am currently 19 and working. I have been going out with this girl for a month now and for the ...
A: Your instincts are right. Going out just to "make out" is not only pointless but also dangerous as ...
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| Help!!! | 12/25/2004 |
Q: Well I have a few questions about this girl name Kenza that I dated for a few month 2 years ago. The ...
A: One of the mistakes people make sometimes is to think of relationships as either nothing or close ...
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| Is He The One? | 12/16/2004 |
Q: Please help me! I will be as brief as possible, but it is quick a detailed question. My boyfriend ...
A: First of all, it has been proven that marriages have a higher divorce rate when couples live ...
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| marriage | 12/15/2004 |
Q: That's good advice. I think before I go to drastic measures, I should try talking again. Then I'll ...
A: Good luck. Talking rarely works. It isn't like you haven't told him how you feel and what you ...
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| continued | 12/11/2004 |
Q: More detail to last question-He's at work 8am-8pm, Mon-Sat. I'm at home now, in a small town where ...
A: Yes, it is important. His work hours make it very difficult. Is there any way he can change his ...
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| marriage | 12/11/2004 |
Q: 38, married 15 yrs, 2 kids (7&4). I'd like to feel passion in my marriage. I'm a passionate person; ...
A: I will do my best in the short time I have with you. First of all, cut off all conversations with ...
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| feeling equal | 12/5/2004 |
Q: I am a 24 year old woman, and have been in my relationship for 4 years. I have been happy for the ...
A: I am so glad you are becoming aware. Yes, you have it right. You had to do everything so you would ...
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| Gallantry | 12/3/2004 |
Q: In a news article about couples, I found a story about a man taking out a woman. After the date, ...
A: Well, this is a new one for me. It is a good question. I suppose that the tradition of helping a ...
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| Understanding a friend's motive | 11/24/2004 |
Q: A little history. 3 years ago I dated this fellow for three months. He is now 39 and I'm 36 and ...
A: Sorry I am so slow in answering. Don't know what the mix up is for sure but I now have your ...
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| My relationship with my boyfriend, Aaron | 11/15/2004 |
Q: In the beginning, I wasn't the best girlfriend in the world. I took our relationship for granted and ...
A: Your boyfriend has the trait of Taciturn. He may also have the trait of Esthetic, which means that ...
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| help please | 11/2/2004 |
Q: My bf has been unaffectionate lately. Well, our fights have been about his unaffectionateness. My ...
A: Yep. You sure did pressure and push him too much. It didn't work, either, did it? Women need to ...
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| Communication Loss | 10/26/2004 |
Q: ...The thing is I have already stopped calling him but at the same time he's lately been on my ...
A: Well, it sounds like it is too late and probably not the greatest match for you. Now, how to pick a ...
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| ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS | 10/26/2004 |
Q: I'VE BEEN MARRIED TWICE AND 'HE', NEVER.IAM ASKING FOR HELP BECAUSE, EVEN THOUGH I'VE BEEN IN ...
A: Well, this is the deal. Your guy is not verbally expressive when it comes to saying I love you. I ...
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| Communication Loss | 10/24/2004 |
Q: " I don't quite understand why the breakup was sudden. I mean we have been out for 1 year and now ...
A: He probably thinks you are too young for him and you are. Saying let's be friends is probably his ...
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| Strengthining our relationship | 10/22/2004 |
Q: well i think that i already made the mistake od asking him how he feels about me and you say do ...
A: Hi. This is the last question I can answer for you. I really have told you what to do but you are ...
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| Strengthining our relationship | 10/21/2004 |
Q: well this is julia again and thanks for the answer it was very helpful but i think that i made a ...
A: Yes, it was a mistake to tell him that you love him. Don't call him again. Don't act like you are ...
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| Strengthining our relationship | 10/20/2004 |
Q: well we actually dont go together but we have feelings for each other i think that i love him but he ...
A: Well, Julia, you haven't given me much to go on but I do suggest that you don't put any pressure on ...
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| I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly... | 10/17/2004 |
Q: okay my boyfriend called and told me he was going to his friend pauls house to help him move things ...
A: Dearie, your guy is a lier and can't be trusted. Get rid of him quick. Don't believe him when he ...
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| Forgot What Being Happy Is Like | 10/2/2004 |
Q: Follow Up Question Hi Again, I just wanted to know how to tell her that i believe its a good idea ...
A: Ok. My best advice is not to say anything about it but just say somthing like: Tomorrow won't work ...
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| Forgot What Being Happy Is Like | 10/2/2004 |
Q: This has been a really rough year for me. I have dealt with two really abusive relationships with ...
A: I need to know a couple of things. Does she call you, too - and how often? Who usually closes the ...
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| Relationship on the rocks. | 9/28/2004 |
Q: I am 20 years old. My girlfreind and I have been having a few arguments for the past month and a ...
A: If you are working on yourself and feeling better about yourself, it won't be as hurtful when ...
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| Relationship on the rocks. | 9/28/2004 |
Q: I am 20 years old. My girlfreind and I have been having a few arguments for the past month and a ...
A: In the Bible Jacob worked seven years for Rachel and then surprise, at the alter it was Leah, ...
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i have a problem in my... | 9/25/2004 |
Q: i have a problem in my relationship that i really need your advice on. I have been dating my ...
A: I need more information to get an insight to your personalities. There are lots of reasons for ...
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| Where do I fit in? | 9/20/2004 |
Q: I'm 32. He's 30. I met a man almost 3 years ago and we fell instantly in love. He had a daughter ...
A: Well dear, you are treated like a piece of furniture because you so willingly took that role. No, ...
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| need help | 9/16/2004 |
Q: -Thanks, to answer your questions,both Jack and I have joint custody with our ex's,my daughter stays ...
A: Several things. The first thing is that these children need to come first. The second thing is ...
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| can you guide me more | 9/14/2004 |
Q: well actually i wrote her a few letters on email of which i told her how much she meant to me, to ...
A: I am trained thoroughly in personality traits so I recognize major trait differences from the ...
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| a life-long relationship | 9/8/2004 |
Q: my name is angie, my boyfriend of 1yr 8mo, is cornell.(I am 30 and he is 27) We have a great ...
A: I would be happy to help you but I need more information. Give me a couple of examples of problems ...
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| step son | 8/30/2004 |
Q: I have a sweet lovely lady i hope to get married to soon and every thing is moving smoothly between ...
A: Yes, it is not fair to keep this from her. It is too bad you didn't tell her right away. If it ...
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| contolling issues/emotions | 8/25/2004 |
Q: I guess I have to start by giving you a sort of background on my relationship with James. James & I ...
A: I would be happy to help you. One of the mistakes I see women make over and over again is thinking ...
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| Dating | 8/17/2004 |
Q: I am planning to get a girlfriend. But, I never had one before. I am a Male 29 yr old. Hence pls ...
A: I need a little more information. Have you dated at all? Have you just been busy getting your ...
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| non trusting wife | 8/12/2004 |
Q: My wife and I have been married just a little over a year. I am 58 and she is 54. At the early ...
A: Yes sir, you are in a pack of trouble. It is funny how one lie can lead to all this trouble. I have ...
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| relationship | 8/9/2004 |
Q: I'm a 24 yr. old female who's always had a bf, and always had a backup plan it seems. My track ...
A: You need to live on your own so that you can figure out who you are and what you really want in a ...
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| confused, lonely | 8/7/2004 |
Q: my name is sarah and im 18. ive been dating someone over a year who just left for army basic ...
A: Happy to help you. I am glad you told me you are 18. My suggestions would be quite different if ...
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| What do I do | 7/28/2004 |
Q: I'm 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for 19 months and we moved in together in ...
A: My advice is get out, get out, get out. Neither one of you are ready for a lifetime commitment. ...
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| My husband | 6/30/2004 |
Q: I am 27 years old, and my husband is 29. We are going through a divorce, the papers are signed ...
A: I don't agree about getting a divorce to clean the slate but that is up to you. The question is, ...
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| abandoned | 6/8/2004 |
Q: I think I have a hard question. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 19 and now I am 24 and he ...
A: I thought I answered this but don't know if it went through or not. If so, I am sorry you if are ...
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| Marriage, kids.. | 6/4/2004 |
Q: I hope you can give me some insight as to what I should do in my situation. I am a 22 year old ...
A: Relationships are about compromise on such things as cleaning up after yourself, taking turns ...
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| I want to find out about the real her! | 6/3/2004 |
Q: I'm an 18 yr old male, my girlfriend is 17. We've been a couple for a few weeks. I do like her, but ...
A: Now is the time to practice communication skills. If the fire fades, that is Ok. Your age is the ...
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| relation | 5/14/2004 |
Q: I AM 25 YRS OF AGE.I HAV A PROPOSAL OF A 40 YEAR OLD MAN AND ALSO HE HAS DIVORCED HIS WIFE.THEY LIV ...
A: Since I am not your religion it is difficult for me to answer your question but I will try. First ...
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| how to make her mine? | 5/12/2004 |
Q: I'm an 18 yr old male. I have been talking with this girl, who is 17, for a couple of months now. ...
A: I am so glad you care enough to write to me for some advice. I am not sure you will totally like ...
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| Insecurity&Jealousy | 4/28/2004 |
Q: 25, I have been married to my husband for a year and a half and he doesn't trust me. Last year, he ...
A: If you feel there is any danger follow your gut feeling. Make sure other people know you feel ...
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| Insecurity&Jealousy | 4/27/2004 |
Q: 25, I have been married to my husband for a year and a half and he doesn't trust me. Last year, he ...
A: Take care of this problem now or it will get worse. Because you have not been married for too long ...
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| boyfriend acts up in public | 4/24/2004 |
Q: I am 41 and have a good relationship with my boyfriend. We do just fine with each other or with ...
A: Sit down and have a good talk with your boyfriend. Acknowledge how valuable he is to you and how ...
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