| Subject | Date Asked |
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| My ex and what he wants? | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I'm not sure whether you will remember me or not. I sent you a fair few emails/questions July time ...
A: Alice, It seems apparent to me that he still cares for you, but care for you or not, if he's in a ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: Diana, Great, thank you for the information. I think it just confirms what I said initially. I ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: I won't necessarily tell you to let him go. But, I would like to know a few things. Have either of ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, Just goes right along with what I've been telling you. His interest level doesn't match ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, The reason I think you need to wait, is because you have this fixation with a man, who ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: Joann, If you feel comfortable texting, then try it down the road. If not, give him a call. But, ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: I never asked, but how old are you? I don't know if you told me how old he was. I know he's "older". ...
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| trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 |
Q: my names eric and the love of my life is megan i need some help me and her are perfect together but ...
A: Trust is a crazy thing. It can take a second to lose, but so much time to get back. You've lost her ...
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| how to let it go | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: You shouldn't feel guilty about ending this relationship. These three months you've shared were ...
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| Getting that 'spark' back | 11/4/2008 |
Q: and thank you in advance for your advice. My wife and I have been together for over three years now ...
A: It sounds like you two should definitely look into couple's counseling. This doesn't sound like ...
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| Phone Sex Becoming Too Frequent? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been very close over the last year and ...
A: Phone sex, like any other kind of sex, can become routine and tiresome. And, just like physical ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't even push it. He knows you are interested. If he is interested, too, he will call ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds like his response is telling you that he really is unsure of what he wants ...
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| Reply to your previous questions | 11/2/2008 |
Q: You asked how the issue of him not wanting to have sex with me came up- We hadn't had sex in a while ...
A: So, if it's just a low libido, you may want to add some spice to your intimacy. A great book is ...
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| dating | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: I think we've discussed this before just a week or two ago. Yes, there is a chance that he will call ...
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| am i parranoid | 11/1/2008 |
Q: i get really nervouse when any lass talks to my lad and i get angry when i see messages on his phone ...
A: Let me ask you some questions first. Has he ever cheated on you or a former girlfriend (that you ...
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| love and relationships | 10/30/2008 |
Q: .. my feelings are very weird. For the first maybe 4-5 months of our relationship I always worried ...
A: There's no guarantee that you will not have feelings like this again, but the good news is that you ...
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| Girlfriend doesn't want the same things | 10/29/2008 |
Q: I stumbled across this site and have, for quite some time now, been thinking that my girlfriend does ...
A: As far as palm reading, believe it or not, nothing can create your future but you. So, maybe she was ...
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| need advice | 10/28/2008 |
Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ...
A: Milli, Why not wait a few more days so he'll have time to receive the letter, read it and process ...
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| This New Girl | 10/27/2008 |
Q: Ok I just met this girl like a couple weeks ago it was weird. She was at wk this boy gave his number ...
A: So, let's address these issues one at a time. First, let me just advise you, no matter where the ...
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| need advice | 10/27/2008 |
Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ...
A: Wow, you hit it right on. You said just what I would have. Maybe you should be sitting here. Yes, ...
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| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, It doesn't sound like she was put off by your text. And, more importantly, she wasn't ...
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| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, I would say so. If it wasn't her, you just let know what you told me, and that you just ...
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| Relationship | 10/23/2008 |
Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds like he's not really opening up to you. So, I wouldn't push it. He's either ...
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| Get her back: Complicated | 10/22/2008 |
Q: Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3.5 years. We were high school sweet hearts. ...
A: Yes, you give her the space she needs. College often does this to relationships. One or both ...
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| Relationship | 10/21/2008 |
Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ...
A: Knowing a bit more about the relationship would make this a little easier for me, but with what ...
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| Again... | 10/19/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, Look back at those messages I sent you a few months ago. I told you that she will always care ...
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| What can i do? | 10/19/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. We have had many ups and downs throughout ...
A: How did this not wanting to have sex with you issue come up? What preceded it, and what followed? ...
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| *** Can we fix it? *** | 10/18/2008 |
Q: In the past month or so me and my girlfriend for 2 years broke up. Before we broke up fully we ...
A: There's really not much you can do right now. There's really nothing to prove to her. It's not so ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/18/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: Salena, I am so pleased to hear that you two have talked this out and that you are on the same ...
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| Out of love and fed up | 10/18/2008 |
Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ...
A: This is really less about what you can DO, to get her back, and more about her coming to terms with ...
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| Need advice on what feeling my boyfriend has for me | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I am 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for about 13 months. We get along great ...
A: From what you are telling me, it doesn't sound like he's quite where you are (or where you want to ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: Salena, So, what I'm hearing is that you lost your father at 11 and your mom had substance abuse ...
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| taking a break/breaking up in a long distance relationship | 10/17/2008 |
Q: my name is Julian, I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. Right before i left for my freshman ...
A: Julian, Great question. It's the question everyone who is in your position asks: What do I do now? ...
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| My gf is bored | 10/16/2008 |
Q: My gf called me and told me she is bored of the relationship. We've been together for a year now and ...
A: You are experiencing what most couples experience somewhere between 6 and 18 months into their ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/16/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: I can't tell you why you are acting this way for sure, but my guess is that you are sabotaging this ...
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| Me an my boyfriend | 10/15/2008 |
Q: My partner an i have been together for 3 years now an we have a baby who is 5months. Lately I've ...
A: Parenthood can be a strain on a relationship, especially one where the couple was only two people ...
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| my boyfriend and his ex | 10/14/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, we have a good and honest relationship. a few days ...
A: You are in a bit of a tough spot. The reason: you know of what he did, but because of the way you ...
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| Her attention, where is it. | 10/13/2008 |
Q: ..My fiance' and I have been engaged for awhile and just passed our 5 yr. anniversary from the day ...
A: No matter what you ultimately decide, you can't move forward with this relationship in the state ...
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| dating | 10/8/2008 |
Q: it's me again, I have another question about the same subject. I haven't spoke to my friend since ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't suggest calling him and asking him why he didn't call back. The reason: you don't ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds to me that the two of you may be looking at this relationship differently. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: It sounds to me that this is not an exclusive relationship yet. You hadn't dated in four months. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Talk to him. Ask him what gives? Are you two just dating? Are you exclusive? What happens when you ...
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| distrust | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: The simple answer is to get away from him. That's it. You two need time apart. You've been together ...
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| BREAK | 10/6/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. Until about four months ago ...
A: It's incredibly common for couples to find themselves in a relationship rut between 6 and 18 months ...
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| HELP !! | 10/5/2008 |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Does she appear to be sexually aroused when she is pleasing you? Did she enjoy sexual ...
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| my brother | 10/5/2008 |
Q: My problem is my brother and his wife.They have been married for 6 years now and they have a 5 year ...
A: The best thing for him to do is stay focused and strong for his daughter. He needs to keep his eye ...
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| HELP !! | 10/2/2008 |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Have you spoken about this yet? Does she give you any reason for why she feels this ...
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| rethinking our relationship | 9/30/2008 |
Q: Leon! My name is Elizabeth and I have a very loving boyfriend named Chris. We have been dating for a ...
A: It sounds like you are dating a great guy, but, at least right now, he doesn't sound like he may be ...
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| 2 Years. | 9/27/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend (Diana) and I will have been dating for 2 years on Oct. 2nd. I am 22, she is 20. We ...
A: What you two are going through is so common, yet not so commonly spoken of. Of all the questions I ...
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| need some serious help | 9/25/2008 |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: Alexandra, How did you find out? Did she explain why this happened? Did it happen more than once? ...
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| my relationship | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I have had a rocky past and have know my girlfriend my whole life well just recently i got into a ...
A: Without much details I can only give you some general advice. You may need to show her that you mean ...
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| Long distance love | 9/21/2008 |
Q: Leon I am planning on visiting my girlfriend in Ukraine next month. She is having a minor back ...
A: Long-distance relationships are tough. There's no two ways about it. So, if you can manage and ...
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| What Should i do? | 9/20/2008 |
Q: I even asked her why our relationship feels so much different. She said she thinks that we lost our ...
A: Well, what you are experiencing is very common. Most young people (and many who are older) are ...
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| need some serious help | 9/19/2008 |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: If I'm reading this right, this is not so much about her promiscuity early on or that she gets hit ...
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| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/16/2008 |
Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ...
A: It's obvious to me that he's still not quite over her. that doesn't necessarily mean that he wants ...
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| does she want me | 9/16/2008 |
Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ...
A: CC, I'm glad to hear things sound like they are starting to work out better. Be patient and the ...
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| does she want me | 9/15/2008 |
Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ...
A: I'd like to know how long you two have been dating. Also, what are your past dating histories like? ...
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| relationship | 9/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ...
A: Agnies, From what you are telling me, it sounds like you may never have really been in love with ...
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| relationship | 9/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ...
A: Wow, Agnies, you have a lot of different issues we need to touch upon to help you discover what ...
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| Again... | 9/8/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, I think your friend gave you some good advice. And, you know it, too. Although you feel ...
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| My Paranoid Husband | 9/7/2008 |
Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ...
A: The easiest way to put this all to rest is to get both of you checked.. period! If you know that you ...
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| Should I try to get back with my boyfriend? | 9/6/2008 |
Q: A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend and for the first 2 days I felt pretty good, but now I ...
A: So, some things immediately popped into my head as I was reading your message. You say that your ...
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| Regretted saying "Do I still love you?" | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Good day to you. I thank you for your time reading this letter. My name is Mariel, I'm 24 years ...
A: First, take a deep breath. Relax. You are making this into something bigger than it is. In the heat ...
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| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, No, of course I remember you and her situation. Friendship is the bond to make any ...
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| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, What you are going through is not easy. It's commonplace to miss someone like you do, when ...
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| can phone sex cause attachment? | 9/4/2008 |
Q: my name is sarah , I am 24 and the guy is 23 my question is that ive known this guy for about 5 ...
A: Phone sex alone won't make you fall in love with someone. I'm not denying that you are in love. But, ...
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| I messed up. | 9/2/2008 |
Q: I was hanging out with my new boyfriend Kiel, we were at his house hanging out, and as the night ...
A: It mans that Kiel is jealous, and is upset that there may still be something going on between you ...
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| mixed signals, opinion needed... | 8/31/2008 |
Q: i waited a month to have sex with him. he lives about 25 30 minutes from me. we see eachother once a ...
A: No, don't ignore him. That's not going to make things better. At best, it MIGHT wake him up to how ...
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| Relationship Problem | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for the past year now with someone I have known as my friend since I ...
A: So, since you've known him for 27 years, is this new behavior, or has he always been like this? How ...
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| Please Help | 8/27/2008 |
Q: I and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 4 months and lately it’s not going that well. I ...
A: You two have not been dating very long just yet, although it may feel like quite some time right ...
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| my girlfriend and i are going thur a ruff time | 8/19/2008 |
Q: hay my name is mike and all get down to it . my girlfriend and i just moved in with eachother and we ...
A: The way to show her that you are more responsible is just by doing it. If you've shown her a pattern ...
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| Break or a break up? | 8/15/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: Angelina, It really depends on what you two think? A month sounds about right. But, I've heard some ...
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| Break or a break up? | 8/14/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: I'd go for the break, first. It shows that you are at least giving it another shot, rather than just ...
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| Confused | 8/10/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little bit over a year now. Of course, like any other ...
A: My opinion: from what you've told me, I don't think your boyfriend is making a conscious effort to ...
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| please help me! please | 8/9/2008 |
Q: okay...ill go straight to the point. here it is! am in a relationship with a guy for like five ...
A: First question I had when I read this was, "How long was it between the break with his ex, and you ...
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| Confusion, once again. | 8/7/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ...
A: Ryan, She's putting upon you the feelings she has for you, saying that you are in love with her, ...
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| Getting him to come around | 8/6/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, I know you feel like you need to figure out what to do or to say to convince him that you ...
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| Confusion, once again. | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ...
A: Ryan, From what you are telling me... NOTHING. If that's the whole story, hen she's got some issues ...
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| how can i strengthen our relationship | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Me n my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years, a month after we started dating I got ...
A: The spark naturally fizzles out usually between 6 and 18 months. Read this to get more information ...
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| not sure what to do | 7/27/2008 |
Q: I have a beautiful girlfriend that is 17 years old, im 19 and we've been going out for about almost ...
A: Just for your information, I'm not a doctor (though I play one on the internet). But, feel free to ...
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| On a break | 7/26/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ...
A: April, You're right. No honest person fakes being in love. So, therefore, we must conclude that he ...
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| Getting him to come around | 7/26/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, First, I would recommend not going to this meeting with the intent of reconciling. Go at it ...
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| Getting him to come around | 7/25/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, This sounds like a game of poker and he just may be bluffing. He's keeping his poker face ...
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| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ...
A: Jack, It's such a scary position to be in, not knowing what the future holds, and where this ...
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| paranoid? | 7/24/2008 |
Q: Im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. I know its a big age difference but im just not comfortable around ...
A: Your concern makes perfect sense to me because you have been cheated on before. If you get bitten ...
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| On a break | 7/24/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ...
A: You guys sound pretty healthy in many ways. I love that you have used his break to grow and learn ...
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| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ...
A: What does she mean that things are worse since being on the break? Didn't she ask for it? If things ...
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| After all we've been through should I just let him go? | 7/23/2008 |
Q: I have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've known each other for about 3 ...
A: You may very well have Mr. Right right now, but the problem is, that your relationship is so fresh ...
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| how to get my BF back to me? | 7/22/2008 |
Q: This is was my 1st relationship to experience. at 1st my boyfriend loved me so much but i wasnt ...
A: The good news is that he didn't break up with you and just move on. He was hurt. You hurt his ...
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| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ...
A: Faye, I believe your boyfriend loves you , but it sounds like he'll take the free buffet wherever ...
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| arguements in a relationship | 7/21/2008 |
Q: My name is Cale. I'm in a perfect relationship with my girlfriend. We been through a lot. We been ...
A: Has she given you any indication why she's acting this way? Does she tell you that she's bored, ...
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| Feels like it's over. | 7/21/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. I'm 26 and he is 27 if that makes ...
A: Sounds like he's become quite the self-centered jerk these last few months. Granted, you may have ...
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| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ...
A: I wish you had asked me this question a year from now. I'm currently writing a book about how to ...
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| Love | 7/20/2008 |
Q: hey thanks for you time im just looking for any advice, i dont really have much to turn to...my ...
A: Greg, You will feel a bit off balance and out of sorts at first, because things won't feel "right". ...
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| Confusion, again. | 7/20/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ...
A: Ryan, The pain is still right there under the surface. So, little things like that bring them to ...
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| Getting through the tough times | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. He owns a business and works a lot of hours ...
A: You sure have had it rough as of late. Hang in there. You will get through the medical stuff, the ...
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| taking a break | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ...
A: Jennifer, As far as advice, yes, it will be hard, especially in the beginning. It's only been a few ...
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| it's complicated... | 7/18/2008 |
Q: I am 30 years old, and my boyfriend, who I've been dating for 9 months, is 38. It is the longest, ...
A: I like your motto of not settling, and waiting for the right person. You are right. You're in the ...
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| Fires out. | 7/17/2008 |
Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ...
A: Nick, Then, what I think I would do is just take a step back, not approach her for a kiss or a hug. ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: Alice, I'm glad you approached him on this and told him how you were feeling. You should have no ...
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| Fires out. | 7/16/2008 |
Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ...
A: That's a tough situation you are in. You know something is up, yet you both go through the motions, ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: Alice, Well, you can't stop him. He's got to make his own decision about this. And, he may just ...
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| Confusion, again. | 7/16/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ...
A: Ryan, If I remember correctly, you two have always said that you would love each other forever. I ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/15/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: First, let me tell you that nine months is right smack dab in the midst of when the "honeymoon ...
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| Frustration | 7/15/2008 |
Q: My name is Sara and I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years. Because of the ...
A: I think I can better help advise you if I know a little bit more. If are comfortable with telling ...
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| taking a break | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ...
A: From what you've said, I think a break may be in order. You care about each other, but have gotten ...
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| Marriage Needing Some Help | 7/14/2008 |
Q: Wow, how to say what needs to be said without writing a book...here goes...My husband and I have ...
A: You are not alone, my friend. I wrote a book for pregnant couples about keeping romance alive during ...
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| Keeping Relationships Interesting | 7/14/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 1. We don't fight much, ...
A: If you are feeling this way, odds are, he is, too. But, let me assure you, although it doesn't make ...
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| what should I do? | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ...
A: Sandy, Reading between the lines is a difficult skill, and I don't pretend to be an expert at it, ...
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| keeping the relationship | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I am a 20 yr old female and I am really worried my boyfriend of almost 3 years might break up with ...
A: It is absolutely normal for couples to lose that romantic spark. You say it drifted after about two ...
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| what should I do? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ...
A: You asked what you should do. My question is, what do you want to do? I mean, you are in a ...
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| Break up | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Please advise what you think about my situation and on my chances and ways to bring my ex boyfriend ...
A: So there are lots of issues here, and a few questions I need cleared up. Let's go right down your ...
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| Going on a "Break" | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. We met online playing a game ...
A: You have great questions about the break. Most of them I cannot answer because it depends on the ...
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| What do I do? | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Not sure if i'm in the right place or not but maybe you can help me. I'm 17 and i'm 20 weeks ...
A: I would venture to guess that your boyfriend is probably feeling a bit nervous, scared or uneasy ...
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| Need rekindling for relationship | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I would like to rekindle me and my fiances relationship together but have no idea how, we both still ...
A: There are lots of ways to rekindle your relationship. Here's a link about getting passion back ...
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| What to do?? | 7/10/2008 |
Q: So me and this guy I have been hanging out for a while now. At first, he wasn't genuinely ...
A: Yes, he could be playing you, but then again, he might not. You can always look at the negative side ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: A lot of how we handle a relationship is due to the way we were raised. What we saw in our own ...
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| critical question | 7/9/2008 |
Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ...
A: I'm sorry, but my conscience will not allow me to help you to cheat on your wife. I will be glad to ...
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| My bf and I seem not to get along. | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 6 months now. I am 21 and he is 28. Most of the time we get along but ...
A: Usually right around this time in a relationship (6 to 18 months), things start to change from ...
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| on a break | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I know this is a boring problem, seems like everyone goes through it, but that doesn't make it less ...
A: There are no problems too boring. I love that you and your boyfriend are mature enough to ...
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| critical question | 7/8/2008 |
Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ...
A: Hold up. Are you telling me that you are married, but have fallen in love with another woman and you ...
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| Am I over reacting... | 7/7/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend has been together for almost 10 months now, we live in different cities but we ...
A: You know, people move at different speeds in relationship. Ten months can be a relatively short ...
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| well..... | 7/3/2008 |
Q: hey leon thanks for that answer you gave me it really helped and i told him about it. so he has made ...
A: Gaby, You sounded like you wanted this to work, at first. Now, you say you are pushing him away. ...
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| Confussed | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ...
A: Mimmi, It sounds precisely like you are taking a break. Like I said, could be a very good thing. ...
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| Girlfriend says she loves me? | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I was asked out by this great girl 4 months ago. She says she loves me and thinks I'm a great ...
A: It's very hard in a relationship when both people are looking at things from different points of ...
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| Lack of commuication | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I don't know if this should be in this section or in the friends section because its mainly about ...
A: Your lack of communication and shyness, could be a combination of your upbringing as well as your ...
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| Confussed | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ...
A: First, you two were speaking of marriage so early because you wee under a "spell". The brain ...
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| is okay that we are back together???? | 6/30/2008 |
Q: okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 5 months. the relationship was very ...
A: Yikes! There's so much going on here. I'm kind of torn with how to advise you. See, you two seem to ...
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| What happens now? | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I am a 19 year old girl and I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy the same age as me. We've ...
A: I hear you and understand where you are coming from. The "honeymoon stage" is over and reality is ...
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| he wants some space/break | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Me & my boyfriend met in college last December ('07). He was a senior and I was a sophomore. We ...
A: First off, yes, it is normal, for a number of reasons. Let me start off by telling you that where ...
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| Affection | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I have been going out my 15 year old boyfriend for over two months now and lately it hasn’t been ...
A: Do you take any meds for your ADHD? If so, are they working? If not, have you just decided to deal ...
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| is he cheating or am i paranoid??? | 6/26/2008 |
Q: WEll im 17 and have a boyfriend 19 who i love very much he is the love of my life we have been going ...
A: Well, first I would have to recommend that you guys extend your engagement a little past December. ...
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| Can we fix this? | 6/25/2008 |
Q: I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend. There is no doubt about it, and I am sure he loves me ...
A: Right around 18 months into a relationship (if not earlier) couples generally realize that the ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/19/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: Mark, Good job with getting involved with other things and toning down the alcohol consumption. Of ...
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| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ...
A: Anthony, First, you both should be thankful that you are not going to be parents right now, not ...
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| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ...
A: What you do is wait. You two need time to simmer down. I mean, my goodness, this relationship is on ...
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| is it time to break up | 6/12/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 1/2 years. I am 27 and he is 31. We have lived together for ...
A: What does he mean, "on his terms". Marriage is not about one person's terms. You go into it ...
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| army relationship | 6/12/2008 |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been together two years..we love each other very much...he is going to Iraq ...
A: To make the time go faster, you're going to have to fill your time up with activities. You ever ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: Mark, You can't do anything, really, accept try to move on and wait until things simmer down with ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/7/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: Al, So, if what you say about the kiss from the ex is accurate, then your girlfriend is really ...
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| love vs compatibility. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I know there are a lot of ways to answer this question but you may be able to help me. I am ...
A: You can go to places online that will offer you and your partner "compatibility testing". But, the ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/5/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: Al, It sounds to me that you're leaving part of this story out. It doesn't add it, to me. It's ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: You've got a bit of the jealous bug. You are pretty darn sure that she's not doing these things, but ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/3/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: A few things, first, it's fine to talk about marriage, but I wouldn't recommend couples to look at ...
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| my past n him? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: since you're a guy i figure maybe you could help me better. am in a 3 months relationship with my ...
A: You are absolutely right, Dori. If you are not ready, you are not ready. But, I do understand that ...
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| How do I stop ruining good relationships? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ...
A: I'm so glad that yo see what's happening. You choose these guys who treat you poorly. Then, when you ...
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| How do I get my girlfriend back | 6/2/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend were going out for one year, nine months, 15 days. I thought everything was ...
A: Well, I'm sorry to tell you, that it's not about what you do, although things would be easier if it ...
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| We just got back together...now what? | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I am 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We had been together for 7 months when we split up for more than a ...
A: It's normal to have a decline in the relationship about 6 to 18 months into it. Your brain chemistry ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: Zak, Of course, you're hurting, Zak. And, it's not going to feel very god for awhile. But, as you ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: Zak, It sounds like you are looking at this in as positive of a light as you can. If she's done ...
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| Pls advise me | 5/26/2008 |
Q: i have a problem which i hope u can help me. i am 28 years old and i've known my boyfriend for ...
A: I don't think he does this because he's bored and has nothing to do after work. If that's the case, ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: You know that your ex didn't mean all those things. She was just angry... really angry, and, at the ...
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| She's leaving | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ...
A: Chris, Yes, you are right. Love isn't always playful and fun as it is at the beginning. Love can be ...
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| She's leaving | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ...
A: One of two things could be happening here. See, the first 6 to 18 months of a relationship usually ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Conner, Drop her a quick text, something like "You up to talking to me tonight?" If she is, ...
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| Relationship Trouble | 5/12/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about 5 years, lately he has absolutely no interest in me. We ...
A: If he's not talking to you, making love, going out, and is looking for singles online, trying to let ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/11/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: Andy, This is one I can't really tell you what to do. You kind of need to call this one on your ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/10/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Conner, I'm glad your family friend confirmed my suspicions. Now, it's just a waiting game. It's a ...
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| I really messed up - Part 2 | 5/10/2008 |
Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ...
A: Karen, Your boyfriend is going to in for quite a shock, looking for a relationship that doesn't ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Here's the part that may surprise you... she's just as confused as you (it sounds). She sounds as ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/8/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: Andy, There's no universal wrong or right way to act in this situation. Really it comes down to ...
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| I really messed up | 5/8/2008 |
Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ...
A: You didn't make a mistake. If he proposed to you, and you said, "no", then the next day he's going ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/7/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: It sounds like Candice really wants to be with you in the end, but isn't ready for that commitment ...
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| Escaping her past | 5/6/2008 |
Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ...
A: Edward, It's okay to feel the way you are feeling. Like I said, with time, it will subside. But, if ...
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| Day girlfriend | 5/4/2008 |
Q: Leon, I have been dating a girl whose job is satisfying other men at night (one month now). She took ...
A: Before I answer your question, let me understand a few things first: Do you mean that by satisfying ...
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| Escaping her past | 5/3/2008 |
Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ...
A: Before I address the situation, I want to know about two things: 1) what stupid thing do you think ...
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| theres something awkward between us | 5/2/2008 |
Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ...
A: Well, here's the thing, Brian. You told me that you both are in the same place, but it sounds as ...
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| theres something awkward between us | 4/30/2008 |
Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ...
A: This is perfect, absolutely perfect! Do not worry, my friend. Nothing is wrong... it just feels that ...
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| ref: question | 4/26/2008 |
Q: Good day, In any relationship there is give and take. In trying to develop a relationship, how does ...
A: Be open and admit your faults right up. Don't shy away from them: "Okay, Sara, I need your help. I ...
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| Break (up) | 4/25/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: So here are your options: you stay together in the relationship you have now, which you both agree ...
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| How to deal with this break? | 4/25/2008 |
Q: I came into college as a freshman in 2006. I met a girl Jan. of my freshman year named Brynn, she is ...
A: Brynn sounds like she may be unsure of what she wants right now. You are at a crossroads. The ...
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| Saving The Relationship | 4/23/2008 |
Q: My problem is simple but I can't quite explain my behavior. My girlfriend of nine months feels that ...
A: This might be easier than you think. First, let me just assure you that love is love, no matter what ...
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| love | 4/23/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Mariah, Of course he's upset when you tell him you're thinking of dating someone else. Then, he's ...
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| Break (up) | 4/23/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: If everything you've said is accurate, you ABSOLUTELY can fix this. Let me first tell you that the ...
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| Relationship in limbo | 4/23/2008 |
Q: I have been with a woman for almost 2 years now (Sept 06 - Current). When we first started dating we ...
A: First, don't get married in August. The postponing of the wedding sounds like the best idea. Sure, ...
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| keeping a relationship | 4/22/2008 |
Q: Me and my Fiancé are 2 years and 7 months and we always fiting about small things which is not ...
A: What you are going through is incredibly common. You are in love, but the excitement is gone. It's ...
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| Break-up. | 4/21/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: Ryan, I know it's hard. This kind of thing always is. There's really no easy way to get through it, ...
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| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: Ryan, You know her better than I. It sounds like the best thing is to give her the space she's ...
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| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: First, I do think that whenever there is a break, ground rules should be set. Here's a report that ...
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| love | 4/18/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Mariah, Like I said, it sounds to me that if you two "date" via long-distance, he may still end up ...
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| Relationship issues | 4/17/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ...
A: I know that the choice you've made is hard for you, but it's not selfish at all. You re giving her ...
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| love | 4/15/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Does he claim that he has a girlfriend because the two of you are too far apart to date? If that's ...
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| Relationship issues | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ...
A: Wow! It sounds like she's still working through some issues, because you are the first guy she's ...
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| Help Repair My Relationship | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for a year and a half now, and we have been through quite a few things ...
A: You seem to have fallen into the very common category called "The Passion Is Gone". This is so ...
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| I think I lost my girlfriend | 4/12/2008 |
Q: Well this is a first for me but I really love my girlfriend but idk what the hell is going wrong ...
A: I'm not much of a believer of falling out of love. Either she never loved you and just thought she ...
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| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ...
A: Joanna, I'm almost with you here, but before I offer my advice about what you might say to him, I'm ...
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| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ...
A: This is all a bit confusing. There are so many issues here: he doesn't want to be in love, he wants ...
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| Need another chance to prove myself | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I have been living with my girlfriend for more than 3 years now. She has an 11 year old son. We both ...
A: You know she doesn't want this either, don't you? She wants to believe in you. She wants to trust ...
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| Rekindle a currently rocky relationship with my girlfriend | 4/7/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm after some advice of what to do in my relationship - we've been together nearly seven ...
A: Yours is the most common question I get, Matt. that's good news for you. That means it's normal. ...
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| i dont know what to do | 4/7/2008 |
Q: im a vey young but i don know whhat 2 do i met this girl about the beginning of my junior year in ...
A: This is bigger than the two of you right now. If she's clinically depressed, the problem is that she ...
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| is time off in a relationship bad? | 4/3/2008 |
Q: I am on a 3 year relationship with my bf from US, i am in Mexico and he actually moved here to be ...
A: I don't know if the 100 questions was the trigger for this way he's been acting or i it merely is ...
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| Leon Please Help! THANK U!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: I can't tell you for sure what Bryan's deal is, but I can assume that he is pretty darn gun-shy. ...
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| My boyfriend doesn't work and it's hard on me | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I met my boyfriend in December but we were friends first. He didn't have a job then but I was ok ...
A: Yikes! Things sure seem to have gotten uncomfortable quickly. He's already coming to your house, ...
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| my boyfriend | 3/31/2008 |
Q: my name is shelby, and I am 12 years old. I was wondering, if my boyfriend, Benji, and I, will be ...
A: Shelby, I don't have the power to know how someone feels, but I would think since he is your ...
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| Advice needed | 3/29/2008 |
Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ...
A: It's obvious to me that you are very intelligent and on the ball. You understand where you came from ...
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| Advice needed | 3/28/2008 |
Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ...
A: I know that you love your boyfriend. But, as you've learned in the past, love really is not enough ...
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| Am I over reacting? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: Leon, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month now. We met in 1997 and went to 7th ...
A: I think you're reading into this because you don't have much else to go on. Sure you've technically ...
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| My relationship with my boyfriend | 3/23/2008 |
Q: How can I strengthen my relationship with my boyfriend after I cheated on him? I've been with my ...
A: You need to start by trying to figure out why you cheated in the first place. Because, until you do, ...
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| STRENGTHEN MY RELATIONSHIP | 3/22/2008 |
Q: How do i stop being selfish and start giving my all to my relationship. Note, i have had a bad ...
A: You say that you are being selfish and not giving your all. Then, you go on to say that this man ...
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| NEED OPINION | 3/19/2008 |
Q: I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP OF 5 1/2 YEARS AND I'M CURRENTLY IN THE MILITARY, WHEN I GO HOME ON VACATION ...
A: Being away from each other, be it due to the military or other reasons, is tough on a relationship. ...
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| Some problems.. | 3/18/2008 |
Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ...
A: Brycen, She's not taking a break from you because of her friends, Brycen. Her friends are just ...
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| My boyfriend | 3/17/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend works as a security guard and is either working nights or catching up with sleep. He ...
A: Ideally, if he changed his job or work hours, that would make time together much easier. But, I'm ...
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| Some problems.. | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ...
A: Wait a sec here. So, you trust her with all your heart, but she is sneaking email messages with an ...
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| strengthen my relationship | 3/16/2008 |
Q: am about to lose the love of my life any day now we have been dating for two years now we're been ...
A: I have a belief that if you love someone it's extremely rare to fall out of love. It can happen, but ...
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| Relationship- trust | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I, in a way, feel foolish for having to take my problem outside of my relationship. But sometimes ...
A: Let me just set the record straight: going outside to seek help for your relationship is nothing to ...
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| Military lifestyle | 3/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 years is a United States Marine. He has been gone for his 3 month boot camp ...
A: Being in a long distance relationship is very tough for anyone, but for the partners of military ...
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| ex | 3/11/2008 |
Q: my girl friend and I dated for almost 6 months. 2 months into our relationship, she asked me to ...
A: It sounds to me that she just feels hurt. She obviously had very strong feelings for you. She wanted ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: Linda, It's great that he's stepping up and telling everyone to get out of your business, because ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: This sounds awfully complicated and convoluted, with his parents, black magic, your parents, a ...
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| Sabatical | 3/9/2008 |
Q: This is Mitch - we corresponded on several occasions last summer, with my last being in July. At ...
A: Mitch, You're going to come out on the other side of this a better person, a stronger person and a ...
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| Can this be salvaged? | 3/9/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we used to get along just fine but I don't think I love ...
A: To answer the question in your topic: yes, yes and YES! Why am I so adamant about it? Because I ...
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| she wants to take a "break" | 3/7/2008 |
Q: hey me and my girl has been dating going on 4 months! here recently i lost my job. and her mom and ...
A: So there are a few things we should address here. First, she's going through a tough time right now, ...
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| Is it time to give it up? | 3/5/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I'm 28, he's 27. We've been living together for 3 ...
A: Take the next day that the two of you have off and hit the nearest amusement park. Get out of your ...
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| other girls | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Hey!!!!!!! Im Alexandra.....and I have a bf(boyfriend)named Charles.We've been dating for close to ...
A: You know, friendships are friendships no matter if their boys or girls. If he were going to boys' ...
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| Out of love | 3/3/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old and are about to graduate from college in May. My boyfriend ...
A: There are a couple of things that we could look at here. One is that you were going out for 14 ...
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| No patients | 3/2/2008 |
Q: My baby's mamma is 34 and both parents deceased. We have a 4 1/2 y/o boy who is very active. Mom has ...
A: I am so happy that you are trying to figure out how to make this relationship work. What is she ...
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| Is a break a good thing? | 3/1/2008 |
Q: i have been dating my girlfriend for a year now I'm 17 turning 18 very soon and shes 16 turning 17 ...
A: Of course I don't know the entire situation, but from what you're telling me, it sounds legit; I ...
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| Wow... | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I am in the bad situation: My boyfriend now views family, marriage, sex, and relationships as bad. ...
A: It sounds like your boyfriend was struggling finding his place in life, in the world, before he came ...
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| He's uncertcain about his feelings | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I’ve been dating this man 9 yrs my senior (he’s 34, I’m 25) for the past 6 months. He lives in NY ...
A: First, let me assure you that the whole "drifting" thing is quite normal at the beginning of ...
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| what to do | 2/21/2008 |
Q: Im Kayla and I have a boyfriend named Caleb. We have been dating for 9 and a half months. I know we ...
A: What a great question. I love the fact that you are being proactive with your relationship, trying ...
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| Can I get her back? | 2/19/2008 |
Q: Alright,so,I've been in a relationship with this girl for 14 and a half months,we weren't friends ...
A: Long messages, deserve full responses. There's a lot going on here that I want to discuss with you. ...
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| confused | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I am totally confused about everything my boyfriend signals. We have been on a break for 2 months. ...
A: Alicia, No, it is not wrong for couples to discuss their feelings, even if they know that their ...
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| How do I teach my boyfriend to be affectionate? | 2/15/2008 |
Q: I’m 25 years old with very little experience on relationships. The relationship I’m currently in is ...
A: First off, I'm glad that you realize that TV and movie relationships are mostly fantasy. If we ...
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| should I move on? | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I am 21yr old girl working in an IT firm as an engineer.I fell in love with a guy in college and we ...
A: It sounds like there may be two issues that are causing this obstacle in your relationship. The ...
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| friendship lost | 2/13/2008 |
Q: i have been with my fiancee for a little over a yr and we had an inseperable relationship for the ...
A: You could be the victims of two situations. First, you are right at the point that most ...
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| Love or no? | 2/13/2008 |
Q: Baxter, i have a true situation. I met this girl couple years back and i was physically attracted ...
A: I admire you for seeking help rather than just letting the relationship wither or by cheating on ...
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| keeping her interested | 2/10/2008 |
Q: Leon, i haven't been with my girlfriend for that long but long enough to realize how special she is ...
A: I wonder how long the two of you have been dating. This kind of lull in a relationship is very ...
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| How to move forward together... | 2/8/2008 |
Q: I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for just over one year and have a really good ...
A: That must have been very hard to put your heart out on the line like that and not get the same in ...
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| Confused | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I am a 30 year old divorced woman. My ex and I have a 4 year old together and are still good ...
A: It seems so cut and dry. It's time to move on. But, it's obvious that it's not as easy as that, ...
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| Communication | 2/7/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 9 months now and we're beginning to fight a lot ...
A: You know, by putting her first and trying to give her different things, you are showing her that she ...
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| Life has become routine | 2/6/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and our love life has become so routine. We both ...
A: After being married for nine years, it is quite normal for your love life to become routine. Most ...
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| my boyfriend, john | 2/6/2008 |
Q: Hey! I have a boyfriend named John and a close friend named Lisa. Today, I have found out that Lisa ...
A: Just because Lisa likes John, don't punish him. He never said he liked her, and he has said he's ...
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| Don't want to lose her | 2/4/2008 |
Q: Leon, I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. I've been dating this girl for about three months now and it ...
A: It sounds like you both want this to work, but there's a glitch that's keeping you from ...
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| on a break | 2/3/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, My boyfriend and I both have been on a break for one month. I know that one month is not a ...
A: Here's a report that I think may be of some help ...
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| My boyfriend and commitment | 2/1/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ...
A: Kim, What can you do, Kim? I mean, you've told him how you feel, so now the ball is in his court. ...
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| Starting Over | 1/31/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for six months and have been living together for four. It was ...
A: I can understand how you might feel devastated by the events that took place. I'm so sorry for what ...
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| Dear Leon | 1/30/2008 |
Q: Ok I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 5 months! Everything was great for awhile ...
A: You can't be tying to read her mind and hope that you make the right move. You need to get down to ...
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| My boyfriend and commitment | 1/30/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ...
A: What have his past relationships been like? Has he ever been in a serious relationship that ended ...
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| Regaining trust | 1/29/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend thinks I violated his trust which I didn't but I want to know how to REGAIN his trust. ...
A: Cari, His response doesn't seem to be as mature as it should be. He shouldn't be getting other ...
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| my boyfriend | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I have a boyfriend that i have dated for more than 8 monthes.I have three questions: 1)I have a ...
A: 1) Jealousy is a normal human trait, but we must tried to control it and think about it logically if ...
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| I don't want to lose her. | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ...
A: William, So, I don't think that the problem is so much that this guy has come back into her life. ...
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| another girl | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend that lives 61 miles away from me. I love her more than anything, but there's ...
A: When you are thinking of this other girl, is it more of a fantasy or is it more like you're secretly ...
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| the break | 1/25/2008 |
Q: Leon, My girlfriend and I have dated for almost two years. However, at the beginning, I think we may ...
A: Strange as it may seem, with me giving advice on keeping relationships together, I'm actually a huge ...
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| I don't want to lose her. | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ...
A: It sounds like your girlfriend gets scared when she sees that there's a true potential, that ...
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| Not COMPLETELY sure how I feel. | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for almost seven months. I'm 17 and she's 16. They've been quite good, ...
A: You sound a bit indecisive, Josh. You say that you care about your gf, and that you don't want to ...
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| five month relationship | 1/24/2008 |
Q: I met a guy about five months ago. At the time I was dating three guys and decided I wanted to be ...
A: From what you've told me, I don't feel as though you are being taken advantage of. Losing family ...
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| long distance and dull love | 1/24/2008 |
Q: My partner and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He works away from home and I only see ...
A: Moving out of the Honeymoon Stage is quite common. It's all about chemistry and hormones. Take a ...
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| not sure. | 1/21/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I'm sure you hate it when people write you long and over extensive messages, but please ...
A: There are a lot of things I would like to touch on. First, it's incredibly common for couples to ...
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| boyfriend | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I am 43 and my boy friend sites on chair and looks at a TV what about me
A: It sounds like the problem here is more than a relationship problem. It appears that your boyfriend ...
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| My Girlfriend and I | 1/19/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we live together. We used to ...
A: It sounds as if your girlfriend is going through some kind of change right now. Could be anything: ...
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| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ...
A: Diana, First off, twenty-seven definitely isn't over-the-hill yet. Right now, you are in your ...
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| Friend with benefit when thing change (feelings) | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I was in a friend with benefits for 8 months with a guy. He gave me ever signal that he was ready ...
A: It appears he's giving you a huge signal: "I am interested in sex, but I don't want to be in a ...
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| How to Strengthen my Relationship | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I've known him for 5 years. The last 2 weeks have ...
A: I very rarely push my book when someone asks for advice, but you two are THE PERFECT CANDIDATES for ...
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| How to I try again succesffuly? | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now, it will be 3 this year. I am 22, he is ...
A: I think that you are being asked to move out of your place of comfort and it feels really ...
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| heart broken | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I've been in one relationsip all of my life.I am 27years old.I married my first love and after 10 ...
A: I'll be completely honest with you. I think the only way to save this second relationship is to step ...
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| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ...
A: Wow, you certainly are in a pickle. It sounds like this guy truly loves you. And, I can tell you ...
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| Short relationships | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old guy and I consider myself attractive. My problem is that my relationships tend to ...
A: It could be that you're just not ready for a long-term, "serious" relationship right now. And, ...
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| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ...
A: Rich, I'm guessing that you're lying because you want to be sure you say or do the "right" thing so ...
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| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ...
A: Tell me a little more. Are you dating face-to-face or only online? How are you lying to her? What ...
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| Communicationg with my boyfriend | 12/31/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend has told me that I don't communicate with him. I do talk to him, we live together...he ...
A: It appears that your parents' relationship may be what's affecting you today. Very often children ...
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| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/20/2007 |
Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ...
A: Peter, Well, that 10 minute rule doesn't seem to really be working for you. The idea is that after ...
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| 4 Yrs and problems | 12/19/2007 |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs. We split up and i lost over 100 pounds. now we are ...
A: The hardest part about what I do, is that I sometimes have to make pretty crucial decisions about a ...
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| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/17/2007 |
Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ...
A: Before I give you tips on strengthening this relationship, what else is going on? Because it sounds ...
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| Stupid, little fights. | 12/14/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ...
A: Conner, I really can't tell you why Mom acts this way. Could be something as deep-seeded as anger ...
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