| Subject | Date Asked |
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| how to get spark back in my relationship | 11/20/2009 |
Q: Leon, I am 18 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little bit over 2 years ...
A: There are two common issues that are taking place in your relationship, causing this difficulty. the ...
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| My Relationship is heading South | 11/19/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years come Dec. 23rd. We've always been good together, and ...
A: Well, if you look at when the difficulties began, it was just about a year and a half into your ...
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| Drifting upart | 11/18/2009 |
Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ...
A: Jaydee, Just from your response, it appears that he may have issues with commitment. I mean, he's ...
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| I don't get Him sometimes! | 11/16/2009 |
Q: Look I don't go out and I really don't ask to I rather be a good Mother/Step and the best wife I ...
A: It sounds like you have a few issues going on here: his daughters, your son and the whole "family" ...
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| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 |
Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ...
A: So, why are you afraid of rejection? He's telling you he misses you and thinks of you all the time ...
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| does he still want me? | 11/16/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ...
A: Kath, My advice is to get out. I'm standing by that, but if you refuse to take my advice (you ...
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| Getting bored? | 11/15/2009 |
Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 11 months now, and this is by far the best ...
A: This is not uncommon with people in college. When someone heads off to college, they often feel as ...
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| How to keep it going.... | 11/14/2009 |
Q: I am 28 yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. Lately, I don't were the relationship ...
A: So, it doesn't sound as if there is any profound difficulty in the relationship: cheating, annoyed ...
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| Drifting upart | 11/13/2009 |
Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ...
A: Well, I wouldn't just drop this thing. You need to have answers to your questions, have the loose ...
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| does he still want me? | 11/12/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ...
A: Move out! That's your first step. All of this stuff about money and lack of sex are problems, but ...
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| is he losing interest or am I losing my mind? | 11/10/2009 |
Q: I'm a 21 year old girl. I recently moved in with my boyfriend, whom I've been with a little over a ...
A: It's funny. Before I got to the end of your message, I started thinking that maybe this guy is ...
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| Keeping my girlfriend interested | 11/5/2009 |
Q: Me and my girlfreind have been off and on for 7 months, three times she has left me and all three ...
A: So, it sounds to me like you want to know how to be a bit stronger because you don't want her ...
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| keeping it alive | 11/1/2009 |
Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ...
A: Byron, That could be it. If that's the case, you need to stop worrying about reaching your parents' ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/30/2009 |
Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ...
A: Byron, What I wonder, though, is why. Can you pinpoint a reason for this fear? It's not always, but ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Byron, You don't expect this relationship to last.. and it is. So, subconsciously (or consciously) ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/27/2009 |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Byron, So, first, now you understand why you might have had those feelings of your relationship ...
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| He just doesn't seem like he wants to see me. | 10/26/2009 |
Q: Okay, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17. I love him dearly and he just doesn't seem the same. He tells ...
A: This is the most common question I get. It's normal to feel that the relationship has changed, that ...
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| keeping it alive | 10/26/2009 |
Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ...
A: Why have you two broken up? And, why have you returned? What are these black thoughts you are ...
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| what to do now | 10/26/2009 |
Q: I have been in an exclusive relationship with this woman from day two of meeting her, we were ...
A: Two things come to mind. Here's the first. Could it be that she feels as though you just want her ...
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| Getting past relationship mistakes | 10/25/2009 |
Q: My boy friend and I have been together for about 3 years now. The first 2 and a half of it were long ...
A: First I would suggest you two learn a bit more about what "love" means to the other. If you haven't ...
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| confused | 10/25/2009 |
Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ...
A: Farrah, If you can be sure that it was him, without a doubt, then not only has he been deceptive ...
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| Relationship advice | 10/25/2009 |
Q: recently after 6 months of being in a relationship my boyfriend and I have been having real bad ...
A: First, you should know that between 6 and 18 months into a relationship, there is a drop in ...
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| My relationship is in serious trouble!http://www.couplescommittedtolove.com/ | 10/24/2009 |
Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we've been through a lot but now I find ...
A: There are a few issues at play here. First, you two are going through the slump all couples ...
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| confused | 10/24/2009 |
Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ...
A: I think that he's not ready for the serious stuff you two have talked about. He still longs for his ...
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| How do i take the step forward in my relationship? | 10/22/2009 |
Q: i was looking for a place where i could share my problems and get expert advice and found this great ...
A: I'm not so sure you relationship is ready for "the next step". i think it first needs to be ...
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| Insecure relationship | 10/20/2009 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for a little longer than two years. I always ask him to plan stuff for ...
A: He's getting a rush going out with his friends, but he's not feeling the same way about spending ...
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| New BF too busy for me | 10/20/2009 |
Q: Good Day - I starting dating a really great guy single father of 3 young kids....since June'09. We ...
A: He seems like a respectful man who really cares for others. He's had a lot of obstacles thrown in ...
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| Again... | 10/20/2009 |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ...
A: Ryan, Do I know what she's thinking? of course not, but from the many correspondences we've had ...
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| Don't even know what to write here | 10/19/2009 |
Q: Here is my speel, I've dated this guy for the past six years (i'm 22 he's 24) he has been my only ...
A: To say the least, your boyfriend is homo-curious. He may be gay, but unwilling to accept it, or ...
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| Again... | 10/19/2009 |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ...
A: Ryan, Getting over a love is a very tough thing. It's painful. Some can move on faster than others. ...
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| Lost as to what to do? | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I'm 20 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. A year ago my ...
A: For many guys (and women for that matter), it takes time to really be ready to fully commit. Since ...
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| always fighting | 10/13/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i love eachother very much, though as much as we do we never seem to go on without ...
A: How long have you dated? Has he ever hurt you? Has anyone else? I ask because you say he scares you. ...
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| Husbands Low - I mean NO Sex Drive | 10/8/2009 |
Q: My husbands sex drive has been getting lower and lower over the last 2 - 3 years up to the point now ...
A: So, was his sex drive running up to par when you first started dating and at the beginning of your ...
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| Spark going away | 10/8/2009 |
Q: Hope you can help me with the cooling off of my relationship. My boyfriend and I are both 25 and ...
A: I'm not so sure that the factor that we should be looking at is sex (although it may be, but you ...
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| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ...
A: I can't tell you why he would push that out of his life? I don't know. Maybe it truly is just too ...
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| How can we make this work for us? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I am aspiring actress and have worked to get to drama school for a few years now but yet to be ...
A: There are a few things we should address here. First, you two had this intense relationship for a ...
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| Lost connection with eachother | 10/6/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for couple years. We attend college together, and live ...
A: First, let me say that all long-term, committed relationships hit an obstacle like this, usually 6 ...
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| Ex boyfriend | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ...
A: When you find a person you click with it can eel so right, so perfect. What happens is chemical and ...
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| dying love? | 10/5/2009 |
Q: I am having trouble with my relationship. I cureently don't feel happy but i do not want to end the ...
A: It sounds like a couple of things may be happening in your relationship. The first is that he is ...
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| boyfriends porn problem | 10/3/2009 |
Q: Baxter, I'm 21 years old with an issue with my boyfriend of 2 years. When i first met "bob" i ...
A: So, I'm reading your message to me, and I'm formulating my response. Then, you hit me square in the ...
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| I want to spice things up | 10/3/2009 |
Q: Leon Scott Baxter, I am 23 yrs old and my boyfriend is 4 months younger to me. We have been dating ...
A: Long distance relationships are tough and very hard to survive. You should be pleased that you two ...
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| Relationships | 10/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend just lost the place he was living and a job. On top of all this my mom and ...
A: So, the first thing I want to know is why your family doesn't like him and why they would say he's ...
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| "I Lost Me" | 9/30/2009 |
Q: I am crazy over him we can laugh and talk about anything, we share the same dreams and our children ...
A: Temple, I'm not telling to hate this guy at all. Hate just wastes your energy on something that you ...
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| Should I stay or should I go? | 9/29/2009 |
Q: Leon, I am 20 a sophomore in college, and have been dating this guy for about a year and a half. I ...
A: There are three things I would like to touch on in your situation. First, you have reached that ...
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| Will he ever be able to express himself? | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I have been with this guy for over a year. He's 22, I'm 23. He is my first love and serious ...
A: I wonder what it is about him that makes him keep things closed in. I wonder what happened in his ...
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| Please help... | 9/22/2009 |
Q: So I like my best friend's sister. (My best friend is also a girl.)Last Friday we had our first ...
A: Sam, It's true, you can't force love and shouldn't try. Yet, on the other hand, if you fall in ...
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| Getting back together w an ex | 9/21/2009 |
Q: I am writing you this question because your profile blurb aligns alot with my own goals for dating. ...
A: Initial impression: don't take him back. Keep in mind, this is based solely on the little info I get ...
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| Broke up in August and unhappy | 9/21/2009 |
Q: This has been spooking around in my head for the last 6 weeks, since the break-up occured. I was ...
A: Each of us defines love differently, based on our experiences and expectations ...
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| is space the solution? | 9/18/2009 |
Q: My name is Christina and i've been very blessed with a wonderful love with a wonderful man. We have ...
A: I don't know if you need to create any more space than you already have, what with you being ...
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| boyfriend issues | 9/18/2009 |
Q: Why are some men so insecure
A: The same reason some women are, past relationships. We become insecure in our relationships when we ...
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| ? | 9/17/2009 |
Q: KERI 22 i have been with my boyfriend going on about 1 1/2 years here and we have known each other ...
A: So, it's perfectly normal for passion (the "hot and heavy" you mentioned) to subside somewhere ...
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| Communication Issue | 9/15/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things suddenly went down a month ago. He's been ...
A: It sounds to me as though there may be a little fault lying with him also. I mean, if you two were ...
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| Butterflies Missing | 9/12/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ...
A: Mark, Here is a site that offer kissing tips (http://www.kissingbooth.com/kiss.htm). Maybe this ...
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| Putting The Spark Back Into Our Relationship | 9/10/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now, and I feel that he is starting to pull away, I ...
A: As you know, this is quite normal. It all comes down to hormones and brain chemistry. Usually about ...
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| "Stuck Between An Rock and Hard Place" | 9/9/2009 |
Q: I am crazy over him we can laugh and talk about anything, we share the same dreams and our children ...
A: How long have the two of you dated? What do you think has made him start to push away? Is there ...
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| relationship problem | 9/7/2009 |
Q: hey,iv been with my bf for almost 2 years now im 19 and hes 27 i love him to peices at the start of ...
A: Hayley, Do you think you can live t]like this? You definitely shouldn't have to. If you realize ...
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| Should I go visit him? | 9/2/2009 |
Q: I'm having trouble deciding on what to do in this situation and help would be much appreciated. I ...
A: You sound as though you are really making the most of this break, working on yourself, getting out ...
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| Butterflies Missing | 9/2/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ...
A: You are absolutely right. The butterflies do naturally flutter away in relationships, and that ...
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| im scared | 9/2/2009 |
Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ...
A: Ben, So, she sounds as though she's just confused right now. She loves you but treats you poorly. ...
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| strengthening our relationsjip | 8/30/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend (35yr never married) and I (41yr been married) have been dating 11mo. We meet right ...
A: Having less time together physically does not necessarily mean that you two will grow apart. On the ...
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| I need advice on whats best to do. | 8/25/2009 |
Q: Ok so I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than 4 years, hes 20 im 19... we ...
A: Wow, there's a lot going on here, Leyla. First, after four years and being the age you two are, it's ...
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| making it better | 8/24/2009 |
Q: me and my fiance always argue because she's addicted to the high life. like fashion and clothes. its ...
A: r., This relationship has issues that need to resolved before you two jump back into the ring. I'd ...
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| Boyfriend troubles | 8/24/2009 |
Q: I met my boyfriend on the internet 3 months ago. We met up in person and spent a week at his parents ...
A: You know, I have seen a decent amount of internet relationships fall prey to this kind of outcome. ...
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| Question re Boyfriend/Partner | 8/21/2009 |
Q: About five months ago I met a man my age, just months apart in age. We both have reasonable ...
A: Miel, Have you considered that he still may be feeling gun-shy after his ex left him? You feel as ...
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| Question re Boyfriend/Partner | 8/19/2009 |
Q: About five months ago I met a man my age, just months apart in age. We both have reasonable ...
A: What a great name... "Honey". What strikes me immediately is that you two appeared to be traveling ...
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| im scared | 8/18/2009 |
Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ...
A: Ben, Sexuality is often the easiest area of compatibility, because, though emotional, it's very ...
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| im scared | 8/17/2009 |
Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ...
A: It's hard after a blow-up like you two have had. You can't help but tread lightly for fear that ...
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| What is going on?!?!? | 8/10/2009 |
Q: Well let's get right down to it...my boyfriend and I are having MASSIVE problems and, in complete ...
A: He's acting like this because he's sad and hurt. He's starting to build up a protective wall, ...
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| my gf | 8/10/2009 |
Q: my girl friend told me that shes thinkin if she wants to stay with me.I really like her but she said ...
A: What I get from this is that she's pretty ambivalent about this relationship. She's not sure if she ...
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| need help! | 8/9/2009 |
Q: My name is Kay I'm 26yrs old and my boyfriend of 7yrs is 30. I have been living with him and his ...
A: So, why not move out?! What's stopping you? You've been with this guy for seven years and you still ...
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| boyfriend | 8/6/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for almost four years now. Our relationship has been long and ...
A: I say you have a right to be concerned based on his past actions and he obviously hasn't proven to ...
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| Am I being unreasonable? | 8/5/2009 |
Q: My partner have been in a relationship for 2.5 years and he has been separated from his ex-wife for ...
A: The situation you are in is really not healthy, and it should have been "fixed" long ago. Now, that ...
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| Only i see a problem | 8/3/2009 |
Q: a little background about the situation is me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and ...
A: I don't know if he's telling you the truth, but do you have reason to think he's not? I mean, he's ...
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| my girlfriend | 8/3/2009 |
Q: my girlfriend who says she can never love any guy again deeply text to later that she truly love me. ...
A: Why would you doubt her? has she given you any reason to? If not, then I would believe her. When ...
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| am i losing my girl friend | 8/1/2009 |
Q: me and my girl friend have been living together for 2 years and in the recent months she has grown ...
A: It sounds to me that she is conflicted with her emotions. Things don't feel the way they used to and ...
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| Please Help!! | 7/28/2009 |
Q: Ok,me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half and at first things were going ...
A: So, first off, most relationships fall into a rut somewhere between 6 to 18 months into them. Read ...
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| space in a relationship | 7/28/2009 |
Q: me and my girlfreind have been dating for 7 months and i love her more than anything in the whole ...
A: First of all, it's normal for relationships to take a bit of a turn between 6 to 18 months into ...
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| fading or just my imagination | 7/27/2009 |
Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ...
A: Kaitlyn, I am sorry that the relationship didn't work out. I know that it's painful, but you sound ...
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| how to get the spark back? | 7/27/2009 |
Q: I am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and 9 months. We have been ...
A: This is not uncommon at all. Usually this kind of "numbness" occurs about 6 to 18 months into a ...
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| i'm depressed | 7/23/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 and a half yrs. when we first started dating he ...
A: Did he start acting differently when you became pregnant? If so, good chance he doesn't feel 100 ...
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| shes bin hurt in the past(cheated on) and i made a dumb joke. | 7/21/2009 |
Q: im sorry to bother you but i really need help. im sure everyone tells you that. but me and my gf ...
A: Let me start by saying if you can find a silver-lining in this, it's that not having asked her to ...
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| Confused | 7/19/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. about six months ago, he brought up spicing ...
A: Getting another couple involved in your relationship is very tricky and can be dangerous. There are ...
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| Confused | 7/18/2009 |
Q: Well, Now I had been in this relationship with this guy for nearly 2 years now. I have never been in ...
A: Unfortunately, arguing is pretty common among many relationships, but it's definitely not healthy, ...
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| fading or just my imagination | 7/17/2009 |
Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ...
A: Kaitlyn, So, there are a lot of things to address here: Did you read that report I linked for you ...
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| fading or just my imagination | 7/16/2009 |
Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ...
A: You say you don't want him thinking you don't trust him, but the truth is, you don't. She can be as ...
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| Relationship Blues | 7/15/2009 |
Q: Baxter, I've never actually asked anyone for advice like this in a relationship, but I need help ...
A: I think you should listen to both your mother and your friend. You two need a break. Read this ...
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| Inconsistencies | 7/14/2009 |
Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ...
A: Aurelia, I asked if you are ready to be committed to one another, because it appears that the two ...
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| How to fix a relationship | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ...
A: Greg, I wouldn't write a letter to her family. You don't want to have them get in the middle of ...
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| How to fix a relationship | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ...
A: Greg, It sounds like you have nothing redeem. It sounds more like she has to get over her issues of ...
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| Inconsistencies | 7/9/2009 |
Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ...
A: So, why is it that you pushed the non-monogamous thing? Had he shown signs of straying during your ...
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| Pls Help | 7/8/2009 |
Q: wen we first started dating it ws the best relation i could ever ask for.we both are dating for the ...
A: Sandra, Why not try refraining from sex for the next month and see what happens? You don't have to ...
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| "Its not it you really is me". =[ please help | 7/8/2009 |
Q: Hey leon, god i hope you can help me,okay so here it goes Im 18 he is 17, we live in a country ...
A: You say it over and over in your post to me: "There's nothing wrong with the relationship." So, I ...
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| How to fix a relationship | 7/7/2009 |
Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ...
A: Why wouldn't she believe you? Have you had trust issues with her in the past? Has she had other ...
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| How do we get past this? | 7/7/2009 |
Q: Well me and my partner are both young. I'm only 16 and he is 18. Although, we are both very mature. ...
A: You may not like my advice, but it seems very obvious to me from an outsider's point of view. You ...
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| Pls Help | 7/6/2009 |
Q: wen we first started dating it ws the best relation i could ever ask for.we both are dating for the ...
A: I would tend not to think that this change has to do with sex. I could be wrong, but the reason I ...
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| I think we are drifting apart... | 6/27/2009 |
Q: "My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half months now.....At first, our friends we're ...
A: Can you tell me how old you and your boyfriend are? Have either of you had relationships before this ...
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| How to save a broken relationship? | 6/27/2009 |
Q: I had asked Sharon the below mentioned matter to her and further below is her answer, now that shes ...
A: When someone is hurt by someone else, they instinctively try to defend themselves from further pain. ...
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| love. | 6/25/2009 |
Q: hmm.. first of all.. i think that she doesn`t really care about me.. she tell me that she care about ...
A: How long have you been together? What makes you think she doesn't care? What would you expect her to ...
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| I Believe I'm In Love.. | 6/25/2009 |
Q: First of all my name is Nicole and I'm only 15.. hence why I'm so confused. I'm going out with a ...
A: So, first let me offer you a link to a report that tells you what love is ...
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| continue or end?? | 6/24/2009 |
Q: I am so confused. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years. We've had some rocky roads but have ...
A: Part of me says that this could work out, because he's taking steps to go to counseling with you and ...
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| 8 months? still love? | 6/24/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I spoke the other night. He said to me first, that he loved me and missed me. ...
A: When I speak to couples I make a distinction between a break and a break up. A break up is calling ...
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| bored sexually | 6/23/2009 |
Q: i am 27 yrs old and my partners 36 we have been together for nearly two years he wants to sleep with ...
A: You seemed to have opened Pandora's Box when you agreed to have a threesome with your partner. For ...
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| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 6/19/2009 |
Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ...
A: I can only speculate why he's doing this. He's very shy, so maybe he has something he's keeping to ...
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| I blew it!!?! Maybe?! I think so!! | 6/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 39yrs old never married! While on vacation a couple of months ago I met this fabulous man our ...
A: Let me first reassure you that you didn't sabotage this relationship in any way. If he's reacted to ...
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| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 6/18/2009 |
Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ...
A: Catie, Here's the deal, if a person is truly connected to another, they will do whatever they can ...
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| work relationships? | 6/14/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ...
A: Kim, What was the reason he gave you for moving out after living together for so long? That could ...
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| viagra and masturbation | 6/14/2009 |
Q: Here is my question...does it make sense to you that a man would pack viagra for his 40th high ...
A: Kay, I think going to counseling is a great idea. He sounds like a great guy except for the ...
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| viagra and masturbation | 6/14/2009 |
Q: Here is my question...does it make sense to you that a man would pack viagra for his 40th high ...
A: I'm not buying it either. Could I be wrong? Sure, but the information you've given me leads me to ...
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| i need relationship help fast | 6/13/2009 |
Q: ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and we broke up for 7 months and got back ...
A: You can't make anyone believe anything they don't want to believe. You can give him a list of ...
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| work relationships? | 6/12/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ...
A: I'm not sure if you are reading too much into this or not. I need to know why after three years you ...
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| What the hell? | 6/11/2009 |
Q: I've known this girl D for a month and we've gotten pretty physical and stuff (I won't go into ...
A: I'll be honest, Kyle. I think you should avoid getting involved with D until she is available. I ...
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| Am I Needy? How do I change? | 6/10/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 yrs. Overall we have a great relationship. He has been ...
A: I don't know if you are needy, but you miss him. My first question, though, is why do you feel as ...
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| words and strength | 6/7/2009 |
Q: ..i haven't done this before so forgive me if i ramble .... the guy i like(love..a lot) says i dont ...
A: Candy, I know that you really want this relationship, and he's put himself in a position where if ...
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| break in a relationship | 6/7/2009 |
Q: last month my girlfriend and i broke up. it was fairly mutual and civil as we decided we were ...
A: First off, letting me know you were at 15 months is significant. That's just about the time most ...
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| HELP!!! | 6/4/2009 |
Q: ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months and we have had sex multiple ...
A: Good question. Have you asked? Every person is different from the next, but in general, most men are ...
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| words and strength | 6/3/2009 |
Q: ..i haven't done this before so forgive me if i ramble .... the guy i like(love..a lot) says i dont ...
A: I know you want to support your man in every way possible, but it's not your responsibility to give ...
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| Online relationship | 5/31/2009 |
Q: Hey Mr. Baxter, It's me again, Alisha, the disabled woman with the rare disease. I told you about ...
A: Alisha, So, first, you know him better than I do. Each person will react differently to different ...
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| take her breath away? | 5/30/2009 |
Q: Mr Baxter, thanks for taking the time to read my question if you're reading it right now, i ...
A: This site gives you 15 cheap and fun dates ...
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| in love | 5/29/2009 |
Q: me and my babydaddy had been dating for 5years then i had his baby now our love for eachother has ...
A: Putting a baby into a relationship absolutely changes it. You can't just be a couple with all the ...
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| Is this real? | 5/29/2009 |
Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ...
A: Alisha, First, I'm really out of my area of expertise when it comes to talking about ...
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| dating | 5/29/2009 |
Q: I was thinking that maybe I'll just try again, I don't think he will call again been a month now... ...
A: Joann, I think it was good that you didn't leave a message. And, no, I don't think you should text ...
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| dating | 5/28/2009 |
Q: I was thinking that maybe I'll just try again, I don't think he will call again been a month now... ...
A: Joann, truthfully, I think if he didn't call you already, he's probably got a reason. Could be ...
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| He doesn't seem to want to spend time with me anymore | 5/27/2009 |
Q: First off, there is a large age difference between the two of us, with him being 17 years older than ...
A: I agree; age doesn't necessarily have to make a difference in a relationship, but it could make a ...
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| Is this real? | 5/27/2009 |
Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ...
A: Alisha, I'm not able to get you exactly what you are looking for, but I have found a way to start. ...
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| Question | 5/26/2009 |
Q: So i have been dating this girl for about 10 months, she has been living with me and not paying ...
A: First off, have you asked her why? What does she say? If I had to venture a guess, there's a good ...
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| Is this real? | 5/26/2009 |
Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ...
A: You say that you are seeing doctors for your speech and health. Do you see anyone for your ...
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| Past Relationship's | 5/26/2009 |
Q: I have been seeing this man for 18mths... he told me in the begining of our relationship that his ...
A: He may just be a really nice guy. But, he doesn't seem to have had much time to heal from this. And, ...
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| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 5/25/2009 |
Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ...
A: It sounds to me that he's just dealing right now at his level of comfort. You say that you are both ...
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| dating | 5/25/2009 |
Q: I have a close friend that I saw a few days ago...I'm wondering why he didn't call to talk to me for ...
A: If he's a close friend, you should have no trouble confronting him, "Hey, what's going on here? ...
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| dating | 5/25/2009 |
Q: I have a close friend that I saw a few days ago...I'm wondering why he didn't call to talk to me for ...
A: Joann, Well, what kind of relationship do you have, just friends or more? If you are only friends, ...
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| Confused, but in love | 5/23/2009 |
Q: it is Sasha again and I have been thinking hard about our conversations regarding the man in my ...
A: Sasha, Yes, definitely. Losing your father could very well leave you with abandonment issues. You ...
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| dating | 5/22/2009 |
Q: I've been going to this casino to see the bands almost every weekend. I missed a few weeks and I ...
A: Joann, Give him a couple more days. Then, if he doesn't call, try again, but this time don't leave ...
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| Marriage | 5/21/2009 |
Q: Why is it that a guy says he loves you so much, he wants to be with u for the rest of his life, has ...
A: Because he is scared of that part of the future. Some guys are gun-shy of marriage because it seems ...
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| dating | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I've been going to this casino to see the bands almost every weekend. I missed a few weeks and I ...
A: Could be that he doesn't think that you are interested in him as more than friends. Could also be ...
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| my sons father/boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
Q: I am 23 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15. We have a 3 year old ...
A: Summer, I don't doubt that he loves you, but marriage won't fix what's going on. Love alone is not ...
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| Emotional Disconnected | 5/16/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years.I lost my job in feb.2009 and since then our ...
A: You know, when we get stressed, we often take it out on the people we care about most. With the ...
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| my sons father/boyfriend | 5/16/2009 |
Q: I am 23 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15. We have a 3 year old ...
A: What does he say the problem is? Have you asked him? I mean you don't just go from being a happy ...
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| Stay and try to work more or leave it? | 5/15/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. It has been so rocky. when we first go together it ...
A: See if you can finish the book, but because he's a slow reader and it doesn't really seem to be ...
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| Is my relationship worth working on anymore? | 5/13/2009 |
Q: I’m 25 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. From the very beginning ...
A: At first I was going to recommend a book for the two of you, because you seem to express love so ...
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| My boyfriend has become a jerk. | 5/13/2009 |
Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ...
A: Short answer: no. You can't change him. He need to want to change. What if this was not happening to ...
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| Independent guy I am dating won't open up | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I have been dating a guy for about a month now. He is very independent, being 35 years old, into ...
A: It sounds like you really like this guy, but consider that's it's still only been a month. That's ...
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| Is it necessary to text or call your bf everday? | 5/11/2009 |
Q: I've been with my bf for almost 3 years now. We have a 5 month old son together however we do not ...
A: It's absolutely not necessary to be texting everyday or calling if you two aren't connected that ...
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| Stay or go? | 5/8/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and he still has not said he loves me. We ...
A: So, one line of what you wrote has told me that you should not let this relationship go just yet. ...
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| Getting back with an ex | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I was in a relationship with this girl, Katie, for about 3 1/2 years. It started off perfectly, ...
A: Andre, I'm so glad to hear that you are taking steps in the right direction. Keep at it. You'll ...
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| helpp!!! | 5/6/2009 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost three years, we had lot of ups and down, ...
A: You say if you talk to him about this he'll just think you're jealous, but you're not. What do you ...
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| rekindling | 5/5/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months now and we seem happy. But at the ...
A: Good, don't give up on this relationship. What you are going through is so common it makes the cold ...
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| Getting back with an ex | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I was in a relationship with this girl, Katie, for about 3 1/2 years. It started off perfectly, ...
A: Okay, if you want this thing to get patched up, first thing you must do is come to grips with what ...
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| Boyfriend issues | 5/4/2009 |
Q: I wrote to you the other day and I loved your quick response and the knowledge you had on the ...
A: Sasha, Are you looking forward to being married again, or are you looking forward to a wedding? I ...
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| I want to work it out, he's not sure | 5/4/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now. Our anniversary was last week and he ...
A: He's confused and conflicted and quite honestly needs to suck it up. It's time for him to grow up ...
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| Problems with my boyfriend | 5/2/2009 |
Q: We have been dating close to 2 years. Since the economy and other world issues have caused people to ...
A: Do you think that you are not seeing each other as much as before because of the world issues, or ...
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| igniting HER flame (mine is already a buring fire) | 4/28/2009 |
Q: I am 16 years old and i am in my first real dating relationship (because i have not wanted to date a ...
A: Alec, Did you ever go to the quiz? I think that seeing those results might help you better ...
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| Trust issue with partner | 4/26/2009 |
Q: Its been 2 months i married to a girl and we both love each other though at times we gets fed up ...
A: Let me first start by asking some questions. How old are the two of you? What kinds of relationships ...
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| Confused & Miserable | 4/23/2009 |
Q: Where to begin? Ok firstly I caught my fiance cheating on me with a girl that he was involved with ...
A: I am so sorry for this situation that you have found yourself in. But, I think you are asking me the ...
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| igniting HER flame (mine is already a buring fire) | 4/21/2009 |
Q: I am 16 years old and i am in my first real dating relationship (because i have not wanted to date ...
A: She could just be incapable NOW of loving deeply (or at your level) because she hasn't had enough ...
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| need help with my relationship | 4/20/2009 |
Q: i have been dating the same girl for over a year now we love each other dearly but she all of a ...
A: I looked at the lyrics ...
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| boyfriend troubles | 4/19/2009 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, but he has been starting to act weird. We go to ...
A: How old are you guys and what is the dating history for each of you before this relationship? I ask ...
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| i want him to be there when i need him... | 4/17/2009 |
Q: ..i have a boyfriend and we hav been together for past 2 and a half years...the problem i hav with ...
A: There are a few issues we should address, Zaaro. First, this sounds like along-distance relationship ...
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| I dnt knw y he has changed | 4/16/2009 |
Q: We have studied in the same school and he had asked me out when we were in the 8 std and i had said ...
A: You need to understand that all relationships (I mean ALL) hit this snag in the road. It's ...
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| Is the relationship right? | 4/15/2009 |
Q: I have been living with my current boyfriend for almost 9 months. I have never before had a serious ...
A: Wow, there are a few things I want to touch on with you, Heather. First, you claim you are unsure if ...
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| getting the "spark" back. | 4/15/2009 |
Q: The other day I went over my boyfriend's house. we've been going out for over 8 months, but last ...
A: This is so incredibly common, yet rarely mentioned. The excitement and passion and playfulness ...
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| abandoned | 4/14/2009 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We live together, we've been living together ...
A: How long have you been dating? How long have you been living together? How old are each of you? And, ...
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| My Husband to be | 4/14/2009 |
Q: My fiance have known each other for almost all of our lives, and have been engaged for 2 ...
A: Sorry to say it, but you two are already like an old married couple, coming home, watching TV, maybe ...
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| friendship | 4/13/2009 |
Q: I know this guy as a friend, if you can call it that. I've tried to call him numerious times and ...
A: Is he just a friend or are you hoping this will be more? I'm guessing you want more, because with ...
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| I want to save my relationship before it is too late. | 4/13/2009 |
Q: firstly i would just like to say i have read a few of your answers to people's questions and they ...
A: As you have noted, your "honeymoon stage" looks like it's coming to an end. But, the good news is ...
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| relationship | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I've dating this guy for almost two months. When we first met we would talk for hours, and when we ...
A: When you spent time with him, were you intimate? And, if so, was it the first time with him? Next, ...
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| reason for break? | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I've been reading your advice to others especially in regards to a break in a relationship. Now I ...
A: I have to assume that you have already looked at my report on taking breaks ...
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| relationship stuck | 4/8/2009 |
Q: My man and I finally found who we were meant to be with after so many of years of failure for both. ...
A: First, I am sorry about this situation. I'm sure you've already told him this. But, getting a kick ...
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| Can I get him to stay? | 4/7/2009 |
Q: My name is Danyelle and I'm lost right now. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now and ...
A: So, you're saying he's already called this relationship off, but you want to know how to convince ...
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| Closeness | 4/6/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend loves me very much and I am the first guy in her life but the problem with my ...
A: Sandip, So, she's pretty inexperienced when it comes to relationships. It's a brand new ...
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| Closeness | 4/6/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend loves me very much and I am the first guy in her life but the problem with my ...
A: Where does this come from? Is it cultural, from her family? Is it her first relationship? Was she ...
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| starting a relationship over after four years.. will it work? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: See me and my ex have been on and off for the past four years and i suggested that we go ahead and ...
A: It's not about what I think or about how badly you want him. It really comes down to what he wants ...
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| Feeling different | 3/29/2009 |
Q: my name is Elisa. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and this is also my longest ...
A: Elisa, If you are feeling repulsed by his touch and the idea of kissing him, then it's time to get ...
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| Lost Attraction | 3/28/2009 |
Q: Okay my thing is that I've been with my girl for a little of a year now. We just had a little boy ...
A: So, good, you understand her trepidation, and why she might second guess you. You've come to grips ...
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| Feeling different | 3/26/2009 |
Q: my name is Elisa. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and this is also my longest ...
A: You are not in an unusual circumstance by any means. This being the longest relationship you've been ...
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| Taking an odd break | 3/23/2009 |
Q: First of all I think I should inform you that my girlfriend lives in NYC but I live in Georgia, so ...
A: First of all, long distance relationships are so tough to survive, but not impossible. Read this ...
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| How to reduce the distance and make him want me | 3/22/2009 |
Q: Ok so me and my fiance Michael have been together for 1yr and 4 months and living together for a ...
A: First, let me just make you aware that you two are within the critical time when passion generally ...
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| even steven | 3/18/2009 |
Q: I recently started dating a guy...I am 21, he's 22...we've been together for about 2 months now and ...
A: You say things are going well in one breath, but in the other you say "I don't know how to fix ...
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| 3 month mark of LDr relationship - fearing break-up | 3/16/2009 |
Q: 3 month mark LDR, fear break up with her soon Hello, I'm 20, she's 19. I'm in South Korea, She's in ...
A: I do think that too many compliments and apologies and showering your partner with gifts, especially ...
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| how can i get his interest again ? | 3/15/2009 |
Q: ok, I know I'm young but I rather start preparing now then later. I am 17 years old and five been in ...
A: You are never to young to feel love. So, don't worry about your age. You two are just where most ...
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| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/13/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ...
A: Jill, I'm glad things seem to be getting better for you, but I am still concerned because it ...
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| Will my relationship recover from this break? | 3/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He is 28 and I am 23. He just recently told me he ...
A: Sally, You're still dating. I'd call him and ask if he has plans or his birthday, because if not, ...
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| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ...
A: Jill, So, have you had to deal with issues like this in the past, where you can't get passed ...
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| Make things better | 3/8/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a month and things are going great. Being with her ...
A: Mike, Glad you didn't jump in there and tell her that you loved her. She's obviously not ready to ...
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| Waiting on him | 3/6/2009 |
Q: I am a 22 year old college graduate and my boyfriend is a 21 year old college senior. We met his ...
A: First let me say that I'm glad that you got your intimacy issues taken care of. But, as a result of ...
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| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/5/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ...
A: First, let me just get this out of the way... that other relationship, IT'S OVER. Your focus on what ...
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| Troubles.. and excitement gone | 3/5/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating about 6 months now. We used to never be able to not talk to ...
A: Let me start just by sending you to a report that explains what you two are probably going through. ...
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| Make things better | 3/4/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a month and things are going great. Being with her ...
A: I know just how you feel, Mike. I've been where you are with a girl years ago. And, it turns out she ...
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| Getting back what we used to have | 3/3/2009 |
Q: SO... i've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years, this is our second go at it, the first time was 3 ...
A: Yes, absolutely. It is possible and probable for you two to get some spice back into this humdrum ...
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| Will my relationship recover from this break? | 3/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He is 28 and I am 23. He just recently told me he ...
A: First off, taking a break because you are busy is really not a valid excuse. Couples in love support ...
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| At a crossroad | 3/2/2009 |
Q: My relationship with my boyfriend has recently been progressing into a deep downward spiral and I'm ...
A: So, first let me just direct you to this report about how relationships change during the first 6 to ...
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| Realtionship issues need some guideance | 3/2/2009 |
Q: alright, I'm currently dating my best friend, its been 4 months. We were happy, we still talk about ...
A: First of all, I am so pleased that you have fallen in love with your best friend. This is one of the ...
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| relationship | 3/1/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and i have been together for 7 months. although, we fight alot. reason being most of ...
A: Things change right around 6 to 18 months into a relationship. This is the time when you find out if ...
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| Keeping romance alive while apart | 2/25/2009 |
Q: What are things I can do to keep it going while I am gone and she is there. Things to keep the spark ...
A: Congratulations on the relationship. Doesn't it feel terrific?! You're in a tough place, though, ...
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| Strengthen my relationship | 2/24/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We moved in together in the summer time and ...
A: That conversation must have been tough, but what I think is even more uncomfortable is still trying ...
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| RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS | 2/13/2009 |
Q: I live in London and I have 23 years old boyfriend. We have been together since 1 year and a half. I ...
A: There are a lot of issues here that seem to be chipping away at the foundation of this relationship: ...
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| My life | 2/8/2009 |
Q: Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 2 years. we got pregnant with our son when we had ...
A: I can't know for sure, but it sounds to me that he may feel trapped. You two only dated five months ...
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| On the Fringe | 2/7/2009 |
Q: Where to start? Kyle and I have been dating for nearly two years. It was pretty great for the first ...
A: You have a couple of obstacles to overcome. The first is that you are at that point when most all ...
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| Relationship | 2/5/2009 |
Q: me and my boyfriend been dating for over a year. Well i did alot of crazy things in the relationship ...
A: Tell me more about the history of this relationship. What's happened in the past that has made you ...
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| I think I'm over analizing, but i still need some advice | 2/2/2009 |
Q: So I have been officially in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 months. I know that may seem ...
A: You have every right to question him. That is 100 percent natural. Trust is such an easy thing to ...
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| Please help me! Where do I start? | 2/1/2009 |
Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ...
A: AJB, You need to not worry so much about what every action or word means. Just try not to analyze ...
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| Please help me! Where do I start? | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ...
A: AJB, If you can't move away physically, then start focusing on finding a new social circle, so that ...
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| I'm losing him.. | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months.. We started out amazingly and he ...
A: First, let me assure you that you would not be completely ruined if he left you for another girl. ...
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| Please help me! Where do I start? | 1/29/2009 |
Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ...
A: I think you two have jumped into this moving in thing a bit prematurely. You are not married, yet ...
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| Suddenly Everything Makes Sense | 1/29/2009 |
Q: Hey Leon, Its Rachel again! So my boyfriend called me the other day to cancel plans for that ...
A: Rachel, Yes, it does all make sense now. What you can do for him is to tell him what you told me, ...
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| Afraid of Being Alone | 1/25/2009 |
Q: ), I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a ...
A: Rachel, Heck no! No relationship that lasts can stay in the honeymoon stage... Thank God! Mother ...
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| emotional problems affecting relationship | 1/25/2009 |
Q: i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about five months now and the situation is very ...
A: You know, it sounds like you two are on two totally different planes in your life right now. You've ...
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| Taking a break- now what? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: Leon- My ex and I have decided to take one month off - no communication, no texts, phone calls or ...
A: Chris, I think you have a firm grasp on reality, Chris. You understand your new perspective and you ...
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| Taking a break- now what? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: Leon- My ex and I have decided to take one month off - no communication, no texts, phone calls or ...
A: I like that you two decided to take a break for the right reasons. You set the ground rules (no ...
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| everything | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years officially. We have been seeing eachother for ...
A: Eva-Rae You seem to be struggling with issues of self-confidence. You know that you need to do ...
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| everything | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years officially. We have been seeing eachother for ...
A: First off, let me tell you that the time things started to change in your relationship, falls right ...
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| Rocky!!! | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ...
A: Sammy, So, if you are both committed and sick of the arguing, but can't seem to stop, it's time to ...
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| My girlfriend is losing interest in me | 1/11/2009 |
Q: me and my gf have been dating for 3 or 4 months now, and lately shes been acting differently towards ...
A: Danny, Since you've said you are considering taking a break, I suggest you read this report first ...
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| Again.... | 1/11/2009 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ...
A: Ryan, Sounds like you are making wonderful progress and maturing in ways you should be very proud ...
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| Rocky!!! | 1/9/2009 |
Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ...
A: Sammy, Well, you two fall right in the time frame where most "new" relationships experience ...
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| work relationship | 1/9/2009 |
Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ...
A: Gloria, Of course I cannot know what he is thinking, but I can tell you from experience, that when ...
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| My girlfriend is losing interest in me | 1/8/2009 |
Q: me and my gf have been dating for 3 or 4 months now, and lately shes been acting differently towards ...
A: Have you talked to her about this? If so, what does she say? How old are you guys? What are your ...
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| work relationship | 1/8/2009 |
Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ...
A: Gloria, I can't say for sure, because I'm not there. You are right; it could be that he's just not ...
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| work relationship | 1/7/2009 |
Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ...
A: It sounds like you just don't know how to take this relationship to the next stage, bridging it from ...
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| Rocky!!! | 1/6/2009 |
Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ...
A: Can I ask you a few questions before I advise: How long have you two dated? How old are you? Have ...
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| I know there has to be a way to fix this between me and my boyfriend | 1/5/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite some time now, almost a year and a half. Things have ...
A: You are in an incredibly common situation. When couples have been dating between 6 and 18 months, ...
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| Again.... | 1/4/2009 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ...
A: Ryan, Yes, it's tough, but you seem to be handling this well, and you also seem to be able to look ...
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| Again.... | 1/3/2009 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ...
A: Ryan, I am so sorry that things have taken this turn. You are right. Kay is not over you. She ...
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| should i stay with him? | 1/3/2009 |
Q: we will have been together for two years this June. and like it always goes the beginning was ...
A: It sounds like the classic case of the end of the honeymoon stage. This is so incredibly common, but ...
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| Is he losing interest or am I thinking too much? | 1/2/2009 |
Q: Okay.. so this guy and I have been on and off for about three years. We are both 19 and officially a ...
A: First, let me tell you that my first initial reaction is that this is not a healthy relationship ...
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| Is he still interested in me? | 1/1/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 19. We have been together for 2 months and have been on and off for ...
A: First, I'd like to know what you mean by having been together for two months, but on and off for ...
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| Out of love and fed up | 12/17/2008 |
Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ...
A: Ty, She's being pretty civil with you, thanking you for the flowers and such, but she's also trying ...
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| is my boyfriend just killing time with me? | 12/17/2008 |
Q: Ok so me and my boyfriend have only been dating for a short amount of time 5 months now. The problem ...
A: Well that really depends upon your wants, needs desires and time frame. If you can handle waiting ...
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| Again.... | 12/16/2008 |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ...
A: Ryan, You really need to avoid getting advice from someone with a track record like that of your ...
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| Again.... | 12/14/2008 |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ...
A: Ryan, You know her better than I. If she gets annoyed when you try to impede upon her "cool off" ...
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| Again.... | 12/14/2008 |
Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ...
A: Ryan, Of course I can't tell you what she is thinking, but I'm concerned that she jumps to "bailing ...
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| needy | 12/12/2008 |
Q: I think I made the mistake by taking to him about us. He may believe that I am needy and clingy. I ...
A: Ray, I think you may want to consider seeing a professional: a counselor or therapist. Someone who ...
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| help me please | 12/11/2008 |
Q: My ex and i have been broken up for about a month now and i cant get her out of my mind we talk ...
A: Trust is a tricky thing. It's something so easily lost, and so difficult to find again. She ...
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| Out of love and fed up | 12/11/2008 |
Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ...
A: Ty, If you send her flowers, what you do next is wait for a thank you. If you don't get one, take ...
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| Out of love and fed up | 12/9/2008 |
Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ...
A: Ty, If she doesn't call, don't push it. She's not ready. It's not like she has forgotten. She may ...
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| Dating | 12/6/2008 |
Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ...
A: Joann, Like I said, it's fine to call. If you call as a friend, fine. If you call because you want ...
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| keep the love going | 12/5/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been together for 3 years, married 2. we have always had a wonderful ...
A: First I would suggest you try to look back at how your relationship used to be, and what has changed ...
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| Dating | 12/4/2008 |
Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ...
A: It is absolutely okay to call a friend. If he sees it as a friendship and you accept that, then a ...
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| Dating | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ...
A: It sounds like he enjoys your company, but maybe isn't interested in you the way you are of him. If ...
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| Don't know what to do! | 12/2/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 10 months. Our relationship has been rather good. No ...
A: First, I don't think that the difference in beliefs is necessarily associated with the struggles you ...
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| How can i stop feeling what i feel everytime im around him ? | 12/2/2008 |
Q: Well, usually im going out with this guy named Jose and he like sooo fucking love me like A LOT. He ...
A: You can't make yourself love someone if it's not there. It sounds like you really like Jose. You're ...
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| Should I stay with him? Should I end it? | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I've been in the realtionship with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now. I met him when I was 16 ...
A: What you really need is to find out what's caused your boyfriend to change so drastically. And, he ...
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| Do people find their way back after 6 years? | 11/25/2008 |
Q: My ex and I were together for 6 years. Everything felt so right. He would talk marriage and kids and ...
A: I know you are hurt. This can be such a tough and emotional ting to go through. Of course I don't ...
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| College Romance | 11/19/2008 |
Q: I'm only 20 years old, this is my second year of college. I met my current boyfriend a year ago at ...
A: He's already set things up for a break when he moves to Japan. He's warned you, so there will be no ...
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| Will he want a divorce? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ...
A: Corrina, You sound very confused and I'm not exactly sure why. If you love him now, you love him ...
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| Will he divorce me now? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Okay, what's really going on here? What has gotten you all riled up to question your relationship? ...
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| My ex and what he wants? | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I'm not sure whether you will remember me or not. I sent you a fair few emails/questions July time ...
A: Alice, It seems apparent to me that he still cares for you, but care for you or not, if he's in a ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: Diana, Great, thank you for the information. I think it just confirms what I said initially. I ...
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| will it ever be the same again? | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ...
A: I won't necessarily tell you to let him go. But, I would like to know a few things. Have either of ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, Just goes right along with what I've been telling you. His interest level doesn't match ...
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| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ...
A: Joann, The reason I think you need to wait, is because you have this fixation with a man, who ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: Joann, If you feel comfortable texting, then try it down the road. If not, give him a call. But, ...
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| dating | 11/6/2008 |
Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ...
A: I never asked, but how old are you? I don't know if you told me how old he was. I know he's "older". ...
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| trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 |
Q: my names eric and the love of my life is megan i need some help me and her are perfect together but ...
A: Trust is a crazy thing. It can take a second to lose, but so much time to get back. You've lost her ...
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| how to let it go | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ...
A: You shouldn't feel guilty about ending this relationship. These three months you've shared were ...
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| Getting that 'spark' back | 11/4/2008 |
Q: and thank you in advance for your advice. My wife and I have been together for over three years now ...
A: It sounds like you two should definitely look into couple's counseling. This doesn't sound like ...
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| Phone Sex Becoming Too Frequent? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been very close over the last year and ...
A: Phone sex, like any other kind of sex, can become routine and tiresome. And, just like physical ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't even push it. He knows you are interested. If he is interested, too, he will call ...
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| dating | 11/3/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds like his response is telling you that he really is unsure of what he wants ...
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| Reply to your previous questions | 11/2/2008 |
Q: You asked how the issue of him not wanting to have sex with me came up- We hadn't had sex in a while ...
A: So, if it's just a low libido, you may want to add some spice to your intimacy. A great book is ...
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| dating | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ...
A: I think we've discussed this before just a week or two ago. Yes, there is a chance that he will call ...
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| am i parranoid | 11/1/2008 |
Q: i get really nervouse when any lass talks to my lad and i get angry when i see messages on his phone ...
A: Let me ask you some questions first. Has he ever cheated on you or a former girlfriend (that you ...
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| love and relationships | 10/30/2008 |
Q: .. my feelings are very weird. For the first maybe 4-5 months of our relationship I always worried ...
A: There's no guarantee that you will not have feelings like this again, but the good news is that you ...
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| Girlfriend doesn't want the same things | 10/29/2008 |
Q: I stumbled across this site and have, for quite some time now, been thinking that my girlfriend does ...
A: As far as palm reading, believe it or not, nothing can create your future but you. So, maybe she was ...
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| need advice | 10/28/2008 |
Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ...
A: Milli, Why not wait a few more days so he'll have time to receive the letter, read it and process ...
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| This New Girl | 10/27/2008 |
Q: Ok I just met this girl like a couple weeks ago it was weird. She was at wk this boy gave his number ...
A: So, let's address these issues one at a time. First, let me just advise you, no matter where the ...
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| need advice | 10/27/2008 |
Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ...
A: Wow, you hit it right on. You said just what I would have. Maybe you should be sitting here. Yes, ...
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| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, It doesn't sound like she was put off by your text. And, more importantly, she wasn't ...
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| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, I would say so. If it wasn't her, you just let know what you told me, and that you just ...
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| Relationship | 10/23/2008 |
Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds like he's not really opening up to you. So, I wouldn't push it. He's either ...
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| Get her back: Complicated | 10/22/2008 |
Q: Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3.5 years. We were high school sweet hearts. ...
A: Yes, you give her the space she needs. College often does this to relationships. One or both ...
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| Relationship | 10/21/2008 |
Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ...
A: Knowing a bit more about the relationship would make this a little easier for me, but with what ...
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| Again... | 10/19/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ...
A: Ryan, Look back at those messages I sent you a few months ago. I told you that she will always care ...
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| What can i do? | 10/19/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. We have had many ups and downs throughout ...
A: How did this not wanting to have sex with you issue come up? What preceded it, and what followed? ...
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| *** Can we fix it? *** | 10/18/2008 |
Q: In the past month or so me and my girlfriend for 2 years broke up. Before we broke up fully we ...
A: There's really not much you can do right now. There's really nothing to prove to her. It's not so ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/18/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: Salena, I am so pleased to hear that you two have talked this out and that you are on the same ...
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| Out of love and fed up | 10/18/2008 |
Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ...
A: This is really less about what you can DO, to get her back, and more about her coming to terms with ...
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| Need advice on what feeling my boyfriend has for me | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I am 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for about 13 months. We get along great ...
A: From what you are telling me, it doesn't sound like he's quite where you are (or where you want to ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: Salena, So, what I'm hearing is that you lost your father at 11 and your mom had substance abuse ...
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| taking a break/breaking up in a long distance relationship | 10/17/2008 |
Q: my name is Julian, I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. Right before i left for my freshman ...
A: Julian, Great question. It's the question everyone who is in your position asks: What do I do now? ...
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| My gf is bored | 10/16/2008 |
Q: My gf called me and told me she is bored of the relationship. We've been together for a year now and ...
A: You are experiencing what most couples experience somewhere between 6 and 18 months into their ...
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| Whats wrong with me? | 10/16/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ...
A: I can't tell you why you are acting this way for sure, but my guess is that you are sabotaging this ...
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| Me an my boyfriend | 10/15/2008 |
Q: My partner an i have been together for 3 years now an we have a baby who is 5months. Lately I've ...
A: Parenthood can be a strain on a relationship, especially one where the couple was only two people ...
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| my boyfriend and his ex | 10/14/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, we have a good and honest relationship. a few days ...
A: You are in a bit of a tough spot. The reason: you know of what he did, but because of the way you ...
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| Her attention, where is it. | 10/13/2008 |
Q: ..My fiance' and I have been engaged for awhile and just passed our 5 yr. anniversary from the day ...
A: No matter what you ultimately decide, you can't move forward with this relationship in the state ...
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| dating | 10/8/2008 |
Q: it's me again, I have another question about the same subject. I haven't spoke to my friend since ...
A: Joann, I wouldn't suggest calling him and asking him why he didn't call back. The reason: you don't ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Joann, So, it sounds to me that the two of you may be looking at this relationship differently. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: It sounds to me that this is not an exclusive relationship yet. You hadn't dated in four months. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2008 |
Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ...
A: Talk to him. Ask him what gives? Are you two just dating? Are you exclusive? What happens when you ...
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| distrust | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ...
A: The simple answer is to get away from him. That's it. You two need time apart. You've been together ...
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| BREAK | 10/6/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. Until about four months ago ...
A: It's incredibly common for couples to find themselves in a relationship rut between 6 and 18 months ...
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| HELP !! | 10/5/2008 |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Does she appear to be sexually aroused when she is pleasing you? Did she enjoy sexual ...
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| my brother | 10/5/2008 |
Q: My problem is my brother and his wife.They have been married for 6 years now and they have a 5 year ...
A: The best thing for him to do is stay focused and strong for his daughter. He needs to keep his eye ...
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| HELP !! | 10/2/2008 |
Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ...
A: Alessandra, Have you spoken about this yet? Does she give you any reason for why she feels this ...
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| rethinking our relationship | 9/30/2008 |
Q: Leon! My name is Elizabeth and I have a very loving boyfriend named Chris. We have been dating for a ...
A: It sounds like you are dating a great guy, but, at least right now, he doesn't sound like he may be ...
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| 2 Years. | 9/27/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend (Diana) and I will have been dating for 2 years on Oct. 2nd. I am 22, she is 20. We ...
A: What you two are going through is so common, yet not so commonly spoken of. Of all the questions I ...
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| need some serious help | 9/25/2008 |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: Alexandra, How did you find out? Did she explain why this happened? Did it happen more than once? ...
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| my relationship | 9/23/2008 |
Q: I have had a rocky past and have know my girlfriend my whole life well just recently i got into a ...
A: Without much details I can only give you some general advice. You may need to show her that you mean ...
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| Long distance love | 9/21/2008 |
Q: Leon I am planning on visiting my girlfriend in Ukraine next month. She is having a minor back ...
A: Long-distance relationships are tough. There's no two ways about it. So, if you can manage and ...
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| What Should i do? | 9/20/2008 |
Q: I even asked her why our relationship feels so much different. She said she thinks that we lost our ...
A: Well, what you are experiencing is very common. Most young people (and many who are older) are ...
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| need some serious help | 9/19/2008 |
Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ...
A: If I'm reading this right, this is not so much about her promiscuity early on or that she gets hit ...
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| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/16/2008 |
Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ...
A: It's obvious to me that he's still not quite over her. that doesn't necessarily mean that he wants ...
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| does she want me | 9/16/2008 |
Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ...
A: CC, I'm glad to hear things sound like they are starting to work out better. Be patient and the ...
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| does she want me | 9/15/2008 |
Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ...
A: I'd like to know how long you two have been dating. Also, what are your past dating histories like? ...
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| relationship | 9/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ...
A: Agnies, From what you are telling me, it sounds like you may never have really been in love with ...
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| relationship | 9/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ...
A: Wow, Agnies, you have a lot of different issues we need to touch upon to help you discover what ...
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| Again... | 9/8/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, I think your friend gave you some good advice. And, you know it, too. Although you feel ...
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| My Paranoid Husband | 9/7/2008 |
Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ...
A: The easiest way to put this all to rest is to get both of you checked.. period! If you know that you ...
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| Should I try to get back with my boyfriend? | 9/6/2008 |
Q: A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend and for the first 2 days I felt pretty good, but now I ...
A: So, some things immediately popped into my head as I was reading your message. You say that your ...
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| Regretted saying "Do I still love you?" | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Good day to you. I thank you for your time reading this letter. My name is Mariel, I'm 24 years ...
A: First, take a deep breath. Relax. You are making this into something bigger than it is. In the heat ...
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| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, No, of course I remember you and her situation. Friendship is the bond to make any ...
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| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ...
A: Ryan, What you are going through is not easy. It's commonplace to miss someone like you do, when ...
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| can phone sex cause attachment? | 9/4/2008 |
Q: my name is sarah , I am 24 and the guy is 23 my question is that ive known this guy for about 5 ...
A: Phone sex alone won't make you fall in love with someone. I'm not denying that you are in love. But, ...
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| I messed up. | 9/2/2008 |
Q: I was hanging out with my new boyfriend Kiel, we were at his house hanging out, and as the night ...
A: It mans that Kiel is jealous, and is upset that there may still be something going on between you ...
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| mixed signals, opinion needed... | 8/31/2008 |
Q: i waited a month to have sex with him. he lives about 25 30 minutes from me. we see eachother once a ...
A: No, don't ignore him. That's not going to make things better. At best, it MIGHT wake him up to how ...
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| Relationship Problem | 8/31/2008 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for the past year now with someone I have known as my friend since I ...
A: So, since you've known him for 27 years, is this new behavior, or has he always been like this? How ...
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| Please Help | 8/27/2008 |
Q: I and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 4 months and lately it’s not going that well. I ...
A: You two have not been dating very long just yet, although it may feel like quite some time right ...
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| my girlfriend and i are going thur a ruff time | 8/19/2008 |
Q: hay my name is mike and all get down to it . my girlfriend and i just moved in with eachother and we ...
A: The way to show her that you are more responsible is just by doing it. If you've shown her a pattern ...
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| Break or a break up? | 8/15/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: Angelina, It really depends on what you two think? A month sounds about right. But, I've heard some ...
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| Break or a break up? | 8/14/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ...
A: I'd go for the break, first. It shows that you are at least giving it another shot, rather than just ...
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| Confused | 8/10/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little bit over a year now. Of course, like any other ...
A: My opinion: from what you've told me, I don't think your boyfriend is making a conscious effort to ...
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| please help me! please | 8/9/2008 |
Q: okay...ill go straight to the point. here it is! am in a relationship with a guy for like five ...
A: First question I had when I read this was, "How long was it between the break with his ex, and you ...
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| Confusion, once again. | 8/7/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ...
A: Ryan, She's putting upon you the feelings she has for you, saying that you are in love with her, ...
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| Getting him to come around | 8/6/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, I know you feel like you need to figure out what to do or to say to convince him that you ...
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| Confusion, once again. | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ...
A: Ryan, From what you are telling me... NOTHING. If that's the whole story, hen she's got some issues ...
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| how can i strengthen our relationship | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Me n my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years, a month after we started dating I got ...
A: The spark naturally fizzles out usually between 6 and 18 months. Read this to get more information ...
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| not sure what to do | 7/27/2008 |
Q: I have a beautiful girlfriend that is 17 years old, im 19 and we've been going out for about almost ...
A: Just for your information, I'm not a doctor (though I play one on the internet). But, feel free to ...
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| On a break | 7/26/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ...
A: April, You're right. No honest person fakes being in love. So, therefore, we must conclude that he ...
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| Getting him to come around | 7/26/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, First, I would recommend not going to this meeting with the intent of reconciling. Go at it ...
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| Getting him to come around | 7/25/2008 |
Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ...
A: Alice, This sounds like a game of poker and he just may be bluffing. He's keeping his poker face ...
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| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ...
A: Jack, It's such a scary position to be in, not knowing what the future holds, and where this ...
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| paranoid? | 7/24/2008 |
Q: Im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. I know its a big age difference but im just not comfortable around ...
A: Your concern makes perfect sense to me because you have been cheated on before. If you get bitten ...
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| On a break | 7/24/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ...
A: You guys sound pretty healthy in many ways. I love that you have used his break to grow and learn ...
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| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ...
A: What does she mean that things are worse since being on the break? Didn't she ask for it? If things ...
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| After all we've been through should I just let him go? | 7/23/2008 |
Q: I have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've known each other for about 3 ...
A: You may very well have Mr. Right right now, but the problem is, that your relationship is so fresh ...
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| how to get my BF back to me? | 7/22/2008 |
Q: This is was my 1st relationship to experience. at 1st my boyfriend loved me so much but i wasnt ...
A: The good news is that he didn't break up with you and just move on. He was hurt. You hurt his ...
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| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/22/2008 |
Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ...
A: Faye, I believe your boyfriend loves you , but it sounds like he'll take the free buffet wherever ...
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| arguements in a relationship | 7/21/2008 |
Q: My name is Cale. I'm in a perfect relationship with my girlfriend. We been through a lot. We been ...
A: Has she given you any indication why she's acting this way? Does she tell you that she's bored, ...
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| Feels like it's over. | 7/21/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. I'm 26 and he is 27 if that makes ...
A: Sounds like he's become quite the self-centered jerk these last few months. Granted, you may have ...
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| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ...
A: I wish you had asked me this question a year from now. I'm currently writing a book about how to ...
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| Love | 7/20/2008 |
Q: hey thanks for you time im just looking for any advice, i dont really have much to turn to...my ...
A: Greg, You will feel a bit off balance and out of sorts at first, because things won't feel "right". ...
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| Confusion, again. | 7/20/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ...
A: Ryan, The pain is still right there under the surface. So, little things like that bring them to ...
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| Getting through the tough times | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. He owns a business and works a lot of hours ...
A: You sure have had it rough as of late. Hang in there. You will get through the medical stuff, the ...
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| taking a break | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ...
A: Jennifer, As far as advice, yes, it will be hard, especially in the beginning. It's only been a few ...
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| it's complicated... | 7/18/2008 |
Q: I am 30 years old, and my boyfriend, who I've been dating for 9 months, is 38. It is the longest, ...
A: I like your motto of not settling, and waiting for the right person. You are right. You're in the ...
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| Fires out. | 7/17/2008 |
Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ...
A: Nick, Then, what I think I would do is just take a step back, not approach her for a kiss or a hug. ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: Alice, I'm glad you approached him on this and told him how you were feeling. You should have no ...
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| Fires out. | 7/16/2008 |
Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ...
A: That's a tough situation you are in. You know something is up, yet you both go through the motions, ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/16/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: Alice, Well, you can't stop him. He's got to make his own decision about this. And, he may just ...
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| Confusion, again. | 7/16/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ...
A: Ryan, If I remember correctly, you two have always said that you would love each other forever. I ...
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| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/15/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ...
A: First, let me tell you that nine months is right smack dab in the midst of when the "honeymoon ...
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| Frustration | 7/15/2008 |
Q: My name is Sara and I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years. Because of the ...
A: I think I can better help advise you if I know a little bit more. If are comfortable with telling ...
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| taking a break | 7/14/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ...
A: From what you've said, I think a break may be in order. You care about each other, but have gotten ...
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| Marriage Needing Some Help | 7/14/2008 |
Q: Wow, how to say what needs to be said without writing a book...here goes...My husband and I have ...
A: You are not alone, my friend. I wrote a book for pregnant couples about keeping romance alive during ...
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| Keeping Relationships Interesting | 7/14/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 1. We don't fight much, ...
A: If you are feeling this way, odds are, he is, too. But, let me assure you, although it doesn't make ...
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| what should I do? | 7/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ...
A: Sandy, Reading between the lines is a difficult skill, and I don't pretend to be an expert at it, ...
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| keeping the relationship | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I am a 20 yr old female and I am really worried my boyfriend of almost 3 years might break up with ...
A: It is absolutely normal for couples to lose that romantic spark. You say it drifted after about two ...
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| what should I do? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ...
A: You asked what you should do. My question is, what do you want to do? I mean, you are in a ...
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| Break up | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Please advise what you think about my situation and on my chances and ways to bring my ex boyfriend ...
A: So there are lots of issues here, and a few questions I need cleared up. Let's go right down your ...
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| Going on a "Break" | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. We met online playing a game ...
A: You have great questions about the break. Most of them I cannot answer because it depends on the ...
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| What do I do? | 7/11/2008 |
Q: Not sure if i'm in the right place or not but maybe you can help me. I'm 17 and i'm 20 weeks ...
A: I would venture to guess that your boyfriend is probably feeling a bit nervous, scared or uneasy ...
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| Need rekindling for relationship | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I would like to rekindle me and my fiances relationship together but have no idea how, we both still ...
A: There are lots of ways to rekindle your relationship. Here's a link about getting passion back ...
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| What to do?? | 7/10/2008 |
Q: So me and this guy I have been hanging out for a while now. At first, he wasn't genuinely ...
A: Yes, he could be playing you, but then again, he might not. You can always look at the negative side ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 |
Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ...
A: A lot of how we handle a relationship is due to the way we were raised. What we saw in our own ...
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| critical question | 7/9/2008 |
Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ...
A: I'm sorry, but my conscience will not allow me to help you to cheat on your wife. I will be glad to ...
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| My bf and I seem not to get along. | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 6 months now. I am 21 and he is 28. Most of the time we get along but ...
A: Usually right around this time in a relationship (6 to 18 months), things start to change from ...
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| on a break | 7/8/2008 |
Q: I know this is a boring problem, seems like everyone goes through it, but that doesn't make it less ...
A: There are no problems too boring. I love that you and your boyfriend are mature enough to ...
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| critical question | 7/8/2008 |
Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ...
A: Hold up. Are you telling me that you are married, but have fallen in love with another woman and you ...
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| Am I over reacting... | 7/7/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend has been together for almost 10 months now, we live in different cities but we ...
A: You know, people move at different speeds in relationship. Ten months can be a relatively short ...
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| well..... | 7/3/2008 |
Q: hey leon thanks for that answer you gave me it really helped and i told him about it. so he has made ...
A: Gaby, You sounded like you wanted this to work, at first. Now, you say you are pushing him away. ...
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| Confussed | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ...
A: Mimmi, It sounds precisely like you are taking a break. Like I said, could be a very good thing. ...
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| Girlfriend says she loves me? | 7/2/2008 |
Q: I was asked out by this great girl 4 months ago. She says she loves me and thinks I'm a great ...
A: It's very hard in a relationship when both people are looking at things from different points of ...
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| Lack of commuication | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I don't know if this should be in this section or in the friends section because its mainly about ...
A: Your lack of communication and shyness, could be a combination of your upbringing as well as your ...
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| Confussed | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ...
A: First, you two were speaking of marriage so early because you wee under a "spell". The brain ...
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| is okay that we are back together???? | 6/30/2008 |
Q: okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 5 months. the relationship was very ...
A: Yikes! There's so much going on here. I'm kind of torn with how to advise you. See, you two seem to ...
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| What happens now? | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I am a 19 year old girl and I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy the same age as me. We've ...
A: I hear you and understand where you are coming from. The "honeymoon stage" is over and reality is ...
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| he wants some space/break | 6/29/2008 |
Q: Me & my boyfriend met in college last December ('07). He was a senior and I was a sophomore. We ...
A: First off, yes, it is normal, for a number of reasons. Let me start off by telling you that where ...
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| Affection | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I have been going out my 15 year old boyfriend for over two months now and lately it hasn’t been ...
A: Do you take any meds for your ADHD? If so, are they working? If not, have you just decided to deal ...
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| is he cheating or am i paranoid??? | 6/26/2008 |
Q: WEll im 17 and have a boyfriend 19 who i love very much he is the love of my life we have been going ...
A: Well, first I would have to recommend that you guys extend your engagement a little past December. ...
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| Can we fix this? | 6/25/2008 |
Q: I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend. There is no doubt about it, and I am sure he loves me ...
A: Right around 18 months into a relationship (if not earlier) couples generally realize that the ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/19/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: Mark, Good job with getting involved with other things and toning down the alcohol consumption. Of ...
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| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ...
A: Anthony, First, you both should be thankful that you are not going to be parents right now, not ...
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| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ...
A: What you do is wait. You two need time to simmer down. I mean, my goodness, this relationship is on ...
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| is it time to break up | 6/12/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 1/2 years. I am 27 and he is 31. We have lived together for ...
A: What does he mean, "on his terms". Marriage is not about one person's terms. You go into it ...
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| army relationship | 6/12/2008 |
Q: me and my boyfriend have been together two years..we love each other very much...he is going to Iraq ...
A: To make the time go faster, you're going to have to fill your time up with activities. You ever ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/9/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: Mark, You can't do anything, really, accept try to move on and wait until things simmer down with ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/7/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: Al, So, if what you say about the kiss from the ex is accurate, then your girlfriend is really ...
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| love vs compatibility. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I know there are a lot of ways to answer this question but you may be able to help me. I am ...
A: You can go to places online that will offer you and your partner "compatibility testing". But, the ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/5/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: Al, It sounds to me that you're leaving part of this story out. It doesn't add it, to me. It's ...
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| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ...
A: You've got a bit of the jealous bug. You are pretty darn sure that she's not doing these things, but ...
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| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/3/2008 |
Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ...
A: A few things, first, it's fine to talk about marriage, but I wouldn't recommend couples to look at ...
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| my past n him? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: since you're a guy i figure maybe you could help me better. am in a 3 months relationship with my ...
A: You are absolutely right, Dori. If you are not ready, you are not ready. But, I do understand that ...
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| How do I stop ruining good relationships? | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ...
A: I'm so glad that yo see what's happening. You choose these guys who treat you poorly. Then, when you ...
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| How do I get my girlfriend back | 6/2/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend were going out for one year, nine months, 15 days. I thought everything was ...
A: Well, I'm sorry to tell you, that it's not about what you do, although things would be easier if it ...
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| We just got back together...now what? | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I am 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We had been together for 7 months when we split up for more than a ...
A: It's normal to have a decline in the relationship about 6 to 18 months into it. Your brain chemistry ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: Zak, Of course, you're hurting, Zak. And, it's not going to feel very god for awhile. But, as you ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: Zak, It sounds like you are looking at this in as positive of a light as you can. If she's done ...
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| Pls advise me | 5/26/2008 |
Q: i have a problem which i hope u can help me. i am 28 years old and i've known my boyfriend for ...
A: I don't think he does this because he's bored and has nothing to do after work. If that's the case, ...
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| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ...
A: You know that your ex didn't mean all those things. She was just angry... really angry, and, at the ...
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| She's leaving | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ...
A: Chris, Yes, you are right. Love isn't always playful and fun as it is at the beginning. Love can be ...
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| She's leaving | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ...
A: One of two things could be happening here. See, the first 6 to 18 months of a relationship usually ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Conner, Drop her a quick text, something like "You up to talking to me tonight?" If she is, ...
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| Relationship Trouble | 5/12/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about 5 years, lately he has absolutely no interest in me. We ...
A: If he's not talking to you, making love, going out, and is looking for singles online, trying to let ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/11/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: Andy, This is one I can't really tell you what to do. You kind of need to call this one on your ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/10/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Conner, I'm glad your family friend confirmed my suspicions. Now, it's just a waiting game. It's a ...
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| I really messed up - Part 2 | 5/10/2008 |
Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ...
A: Karen, Your boyfriend is going to in for quite a shock, looking for a relationship that doesn't ...
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| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/9/2008 |
Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ...
A: Here's the part that may surprise you... she's just as confused as you (it sounds). She sounds as ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/8/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: Andy, There's no universal wrong or right way to act in this situation. Really it comes down to ...
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| I really messed up | 5/8/2008 |
Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ...
A: You didn't make a mistake. If he proposed to you, and you said, "no", then the next day he's going ...
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| girlfriend wants a break | 5/7/2008 |
Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ...
A: It sounds like Candice really wants to be with you in the end, but isn't ready for that commitment ...
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| Escaping her past | 5/6/2008 |
Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ...
A: Edward, It's okay to feel the way you are feeling. Like I said, with time, it will subside. But, if ...
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| Day girlfriend | 5/4/2008 |
Q: Leon, I have been dating a girl whose job is satisfying other men at night (one month now). She took ...
A: Before I answer your question, let me understand a few things first: Do you mean that by satisfying ...
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| Escaping her past | 5/3/2008 |
Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ...
A: Before I address the situation, I want to know about two things: 1) what stupid thing do you think ...
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| theres something awkward between us | 5/2/2008 |
Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ...
A: Well, here's the thing, Brian. You told me that you both are in the same place, but it sounds as ...
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| theres something awkward between us | 4/30/2008 |
Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ...
A: This is perfect, absolutely perfect! Do not worry, my friend. Nothing is wrong... it just feels that ...
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| ref: question | 4/26/2008 |
Q: Good day, In any relationship there is give and take. In trying to develop a relationship, how does ...
A: Be open and admit your faults right up. Don't shy away from them: "Okay, Sara, I need your help. I ...
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| Break (up) | 4/25/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: So here are your options: you stay together in the relationship you have now, which you both agree ...
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| How to deal with this break? | 4/25/2008 |
Q: I came into college as a freshman in 2006. I met a girl Jan. of my freshman year named Brynn, she is ...
A: Brynn sounds like she may be unsure of what she wants right now. You are at a crossroads. The ...
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| Saving The Relationship | 4/23/2008 |
Q: My problem is simple but I can't quite explain my behavior. My girlfriend of nine months feels that ...
A: This might be easier than you think. First, let me just assure you that love is love, no matter what ...
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| love | 4/23/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Mariah, Of course he's upset when you tell him you're thinking of dating someone else. Then, he's ...
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| Break (up) | 4/23/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ...
A: If everything you've said is accurate, you ABSOLUTELY can fix this. Let me first tell you that the ...
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| Relationship in limbo | 4/23/2008 |
Q: I have been with a woman for almost 2 years now (Sept 06 - Current). When we first started dating we ...
A: First, don't get married in August. The postponing of the wedding sounds like the best idea. Sure, ...
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| keeping a relationship | 4/22/2008 |
Q: Me and my Fiancé are 2 years and 7 months and we always fiting about small things which is not ...
A: What you are going through is incredibly common. You are in love, but the excitement is gone. It's ...
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| Break-up. | 4/21/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: Ryan, I know it's hard. This kind of thing always is. There's really no easy way to get through it, ...
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| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: Ryan, You know her better than I. It sounds like the best thing is to give her the space she's ...
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| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ...
A: First, I do think that whenever there is a break, ground rules should be set. Here's a report that ...
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| love | 4/18/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Mariah, Like I said, it sounds to me that if you two "date" via long-distance, he may still end up ...
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| Relationship issues | 4/17/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ...
A: I know that the choice you've made is hard for you, but it's not selfish at all. You re giving her ...
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| love | 4/15/2008 |
Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ...
A: Does he claim that he has a girlfriend because the two of you are too far apart to date? If that's ...
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| Relationship issues | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ...
A: Wow! It sounds like she's still working through some issues, because you are the first guy she's ...
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| Help Repair My Relationship | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for a year and a half now, and we have been through quite a few things ...
A: You seem to have fallen into the very common category called "The Passion Is Gone". This is so ...
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| I think I lost my girlfriend | 4/12/2008 |
Q: Well this is a first for me but I really love my girlfriend but idk what the hell is going wrong ...
A: I'm not much of a believer of falling out of love. Either she never loved you and just thought she ...
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| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ...
A: Joanna, I'm almost with you here, but before I offer my advice about what you might say to him, I'm ...
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| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ...
A: This is all a bit confusing. There are so many issues here: he doesn't want to be in love, he wants ...
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| Need another chance to prove myself | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I have been living with my girlfriend for more than 3 years now. She has an 11 year old son. We both ...
A: You know she doesn't want this either, don't you? She wants to believe in you. She wants to trust ...
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| Rekindle a currently rocky relationship with my girlfriend | 4/7/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'm after some advice of what to do in my relationship - we've been together nearly seven ...
A: Yours is the most common question I get, Matt. that's good news for you. That means it's normal. ...
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| i dont know what to do | 4/7/2008 |
Q: im a vey young but i don know whhat 2 do i met this girl about the beginning of my junior year in ...
A: This is bigger than the two of you right now. If she's clinically depressed, the problem is that she ...
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| is time off in a relationship bad? | 4/3/2008 |
Q: I am on a 3 year relationship with my bf from US, i am in Mexico and he actually moved here to be ...
A: I don't know if the 100 questions was the trigger for this way he's been acting or i it merely is ...
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| Leon Please Help! THANK U!! | 4/1/2008 |
Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ...
A: I can't tell you for sure what Bryan's deal is, but I can assume that he is pretty darn gun-shy. ...
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| My boyfriend doesn't work and it's hard on me | 4/1/2008 |
Q: I met my boyfriend in December but we were friends first. He didn't have a job then but I was ok ...
A: Yikes! Things sure seem to have gotten uncomfortable quickly. He's already coming to your house, ...
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| my boyfriend | 3/31/2008 |
Q: my name is shelby, and I am 12 years old. I was wondering, if my boyfriend, Benji, and I, will be ...
A: Shelby, I don't have the power to know how someone feels, but I would think since he is your ...
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| Advice needed | 3/29/2008 |
Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ...
A: It's obvious to me that you are very intelligent and on the ball. You understand where you came from ...
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| Advice needed | 3/28/2008 |
Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ...
A: I know that you love your boyfriend. But, as you've learned in the past, love really is not enough ...
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| Am I over reacting? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: Leon, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month now. We met in 1997 and went to 7th ...
A: I think you're reading into this because you don't have much else to go on. Sure you've technically ...
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| My relationship with my boyfriend | 3/23/2008 |
Q: How can I strengthen my relationship with my boyfriend after I cheated on him? I've been with my ...
A: You need to start by trying to figure out why you cheated in the first place. Because, until you do, ...
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| STRENGTHEN MY RELATIONSHIP | 3/22/2008 |
Q: How do i stop being selfish and start giving my all to my relationship. Note, i have had a bad ...
A: You say that you are being selfish and not giving your all. Then, you go on to say that this man ...
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| NEED OPINION | 3/19/2008 |
Q: I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP OF 5 1/2 YEARS AND I'M CURRENTLY IN THE MILITARY, WHEN I GO HOME ON VACATION ...
A: Being away from each other, be it due to the military or other reasons, is tough on a relationship. ...
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| Some problems.. | 3/18/2008 |
Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ...
A: Brycen, She's not taking a break from you because of her friends, Brycen. Her friends are just ...
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| My boyfriend | 3/17/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend works as a security guard and is either working nights or catching up with sleep. He ...
A: Ideally, if he changed his job or work hours, that would make time together much easier. But, I'm ...
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| Some problems.. | 3/17/2008 |
Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ...
A: Wait a sec here. So, you trust her with all your heart, but she is sneaking email messages with an ...
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| strengthen my relationship | 3/16/2008 |
Q: am about to lose the love of my life any day now we have been dating for two years now we're been ...
A: I have a belief that if you love someone it's extremely rare to fall out of love. It can happen, but ...
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| Relationship- trust | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I, in a way, feel foolish for having to take my problem outside of my relationship. But sometimes ...
A: Let me just set the record straight: going outside to seek help for your relationship is nothing to ...
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| Military lifestyle | 3/13/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend of 2 years is a United States Marine. He has been gone for his 3 month boot camp ...
A: Being in a long distance relationship is very tough for anyone, but for the partners of military ...
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| ex | 3/11/2008 |
Q: my girl friend and I dated for almost 6 months. 2 months into our relationship, she asked me to ...
A: It sounds to me that she just feels hurt. She obviously had very strong feelings for you. She wanted ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: Linda, It's great that he's stepping up and telling everyone to get out of your business, because ...
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| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ...
A: This sounds awfully complicated and convoluted, with his parents, black magic, your parents, a ...
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| Sabatical | 3/9/2008 |
Q: This is Mitch - we corresponded on several occasions last summer, with my last being in July. At ...
A: Mitch, You're going to come out on the other side of this a better person, a stronger person and a ...
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| Can this be salvaged? | 3/9/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we used to get along just fine but I don't think I love ...
A: To answer the question in your topic: yes, yes and YES! Why am I so adamant about it? Because I ...
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| she wants to take a "break" | 3/7/2008 |
Q: hey me and my girl has been dating going on 4 months! here recently i lost my job. and her mom and ...
A: So there are a few things we should address here. First, she's going through a tough time right now, ...
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| Is it time to give it up? | 3/5/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I'm 28, he's 27. We've been living together for 3 ...
A: Take the next day that the two of you have off and hit the nearest amusement park. Get out of your ...
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| other girls | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Hey!!!!!!! Im Alexandra.....and I have a bf(boyfriend)named Charles.We've been dating for close to ...
A: You know, friendships are friendships no matter if their boys or girls. If he were going to boys' ...
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| Out of love | 3/3/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old and are about to graduate from college in May. My boyfriend ...
A: There are a couple of things that we could look at here. One is that you were going out for 14 ...
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| No patients | 3/2/2008 |
Q: My baby's mamma is 34 and both parents deceased. We have a 4 1/2 y/o boy who is very active. Mom has ...
A: I am so happy that you are trying to figure out how to make this relationship work. What is she ...
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| Is a break a good thing? | 3/1/2008 |
Q: i have been dating my girlfriend for a year now I'm 17 turning 18 very soon and shes 16 turning 17 ...
A: Of course I don't know the entire situation, but from what you're telling me, it sounds legit; I ...
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| Wow... | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I am in the bad situation: My boyfriend now views family, marriage, sex, and relationships as bad. ...
A: It sounds like your boyfriend was struggling finding his place in life, in the world, before he came ...
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| He's uncertcain about his feelings | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I’ve been dating this man 9 yrs my senior (he’s 34, I’m 25) for the past 6 months. He lives in NY ...
A: First, let me assure you that the whole "drifting" thing is quite normal at the beginning of ...
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| what to do | 2/21/2008 |
Q: Im Kayla and I have a boyfriend named Caleb. We have been dating for 9 and a half months. I know we ...
A: What a great question. I love the fact that you are being proactive with your relationship, trying ...
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| Can I get her back? | 2/19/2008 |
Q: Alright,so,I've been in a relationship with this girl for 14 and a half months,we weren't friends ...
A: Long messages, deserve full responses. There's a lot going on here that I want to discuss with you. ...
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| confused | 2/19/2008 |
Q: I am totally confused about everything my boyfriend signals. We have been on a break for 2 months. ...
A: Alicia, No, it is not wrong for couples to discuss their feelings, even if they know that their ...
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| How do I teach my boyfriend to be affectionate? | 2/15/2008 |
Q: I’m 25 years old with very little experience on relationships. The relationship I’m currently in is ...
A: First off, I'm glad that you realize that TV and movie relationships are mostly fantasy. If we ...
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| should I move on? | 2/14/2008 |
Q: I am 21yr old girl working in an IT firm as an engineer.I fell in love with a guy in college and we ...
A: It sounds like there may be two issues that are causing this obstacle in your relationship. The ...
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| friendship lost | 2/13/2008 |
Q: i have been with my fiancee for a little over a yr and we had an inseperable relationship for the ...
A: You could be the victims of two situations. First, you are right at the point that most ...
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| Love or no? | 2/13/2008 |
Q: Baxter, i have a true situation. I met this girl couple years back and i was physically attracted ...
A: I admire you for seeking help rather than just letting the relationship wither or by cheating on ...
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| keeping her interested | 2/10/2008 |
Q: Leon, i haven't been with my girlfriend for that long but long enough to realize how special she is ...
A: I wonder how long the two of you have been dating. This kind of lull in a relationship is very ...
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| How to move forward together... | 2/8/2008 |
Q: I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for just over one year and have a really good ...
A: That must have been very hard to put your heart out on the line like that and not get the same in ...
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| Confused | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I am a 30 year old divorced woman. My ex and I have a 4 year old together and are still good ...
A: It seems so cut and dry. It's time to move on. But, it's obvious that it's not as easy as that, ...
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| Communication | 2/7/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 9 months now and we're beginning to fight a lot ...
A: You know, by putting her first and trying to give her different things, you are showing her that she ...
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| Life has become routine | 2/6/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and our love life has become so routine. We both ...
A: After being married for nine years, it is quite normal for your love life to become routine. Most ...
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| my boyfriend, john | 2/6/2008 |
Q: Hey! I have a boyfriend named John and a close friend named Lisa. Today, I have found out that Lisa ...
A: Just because Lisa likes John, don't punish him. He never said he liked her, and he has said he's ...
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| Don't want to lose her | 2/4/2008 |
Q: Leon, I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. I've been dating this girl for about three months now and it ...
A: It sounds like you both want this to work, but there's a glitch that's keeping you from ...
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| on a break | 2/3/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, My boyfriend and I both have been on a break for one month. I know that one month is not a ...
A: Here's a report that I think may be of some help ...
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| My boyfriend and commitment | 2/1/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ...
A: Kim, What can you do, Kim? I mean, you've told him how you feel, so now the ball is in his court. ...
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| Starting Over | 1/31/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for six months and have been living together for four. It was ...
A: I can understand how you might feel devastated by the events that took place. I'm so sorry for what ...
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| Dear Leon | 1/30/2008 |
Q: Ok I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 5 months! Everything was great for awhile ...
A: You can't be tying to read her mind and hope that you make the right move. You need to get down to ...
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| My boyfriend and commitment | 1/30/2008 |
Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ...
A: What have his past relationships been like? Has he ever been in a serious relationship that ended ...
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| Regaining trust | 1/29/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend thinks I violated his trust which I didn't but I want to know how to REGAIN his trust. ...
A: Cari, His response doesn't seem to be as mature as it should be. He shouldn't be getting other ...
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| my boyfriend | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I have a boyfriend that i have dated for more than 8 monthes.I have three questions: 1)I have a ...
A: 1) Jealousy is a normal human trait, but we must tried to control it and think about it logically if ...
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| I don't want to lose her. | 1/26/2008 |
Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ...
A: William, So, I don't think that the problem is so much that this guy has come back into her life. ...
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| another girl | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend that lives 61 miles away from me. I love her more than anything, but there's ...
A: When you are thinking of this other girl, is it more of a fantasy or is it more like you're secretly ...
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| the break | 1/25/2008 |
Q: Leon, My girlfriend and I have dated for almost two years. However, at the beginning, I think we may ...
A: Strange as it may seem, with me giving advice on keeping relationships together, I'm actually a huge ...
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| I don't want to lose her. | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ...
A: It sounds like your girlfriend gets scared when she sees that there's a true potential, that ...
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| Not COMPLETELY sure how I feel. | 1/25/2008 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for almost seven months. I'm 17 and she's 16. They've been quite good, ...
A: You sound a bit indecisive, Josh. You say that you care about your gf, and that you don't want to ...
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| five month relationship | 1/24/2008 |
Q: I met a guy about five months ago. At the time I was dating three guys and decided I wanted to be ...
A: From what you've told me, I don't feel as though you are being taken advantage of. Losing family ...
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| long distance and dull love | 1/24/2008 |
Q: My partner and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He works away from home and I only see ...
A: Moving out of the Honeymoon Stage is quite common. It's all about chemistry and hormones. Take a ...
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| not sure. | 1/21/2008 |
Q: Hey Leon, I'm sure you hate it when people write you long and over extensive messages, but please ...
A: There are a lot of things I would like to touch on. First, it's incredibly common for couples to ...
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| boyfriend | 1/19/2008 |
Q: I am 43 and my boy friend sites on chair and looks at a TV what about me
A: It sounds like the problem here is more than a relationship problem. It appears that your boyfriend ...
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| My Girlfriend and I | 1/19/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we live together. We used to ...
A: It sounds as if your girlfriend is going through some kind of change right now. Could be anything: ...
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| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ...
A: Diana, First off, twenty-seven definitely isn't over-the-hill yet. Right now, you are in your ...
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| Friend with benefit when thing change (feelings) | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I was in a friend with benefits for 8 months with a guy. He gave me ever signal that he was ready ...
A: It appears he's giving you a huge signal: "I am interested in sex, but I don't want to be in a ...
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| How to Strengthen my Relationship | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I've known him for 5 years. The last 2 weeks have ...
A: I very rarely push my book when someone asks for advice, but you two are THE PERFECT CANDIDATES for ...
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| How to I try again succesffuly? | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now, it will be 3 this year. I am 22, he is ...
A: I think that you are being asked to move out of your place of comfort and it feels really ...
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| heart broken | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I've been in one relationsip all of my life.I am 27years old.I married my first love and after 10 ...
A: I'll be completely honest with you. I think the only way to save this second relationship is to step ...
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| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ...
A: Wow, you certainly are in a pickle. It sounds like this guy truly loves you. And, I can tell you ...
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| Short relationships | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old guy and I consider myself attractive. My problem is that my relationships tend to ...
A: It could be that you're just not ready for a long-term, "serious" relationship right now. And, ...
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| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ...
A: Rich, I'm guessing that you're lying because you want to be sure you say or do the "right" thing so ...
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| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ...
A: Tell me a little more. Are you dating face-to-face or only online? How are you lying to her? What ...
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| Communicationg with my boyfriend | 12/31/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend has told me that I don't communicate with him. I do talk to him, we live together...he ...
A: It appears that your parents' relationship may be what's affecting you today. Very often children ...
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| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/20/2007 |
Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ...
A: Peter, Well, that 10 minute rule doesn't seem to really be working for you. The idea is that after ...
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| 4 Yrs and problems | 12/19/2007 |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs. We split up and i lost over 100 pounds. now we are ...
A: The hardest part about what I do, is that I sometimes have to make pretty crucial decisions about a ...
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| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/17/2007 |
Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ...
A: Before I give you tips on strengthening this relationship, what else is going on? Because it sounds ...
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| Stupid, little fights. | 12/14/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ...
A: Conner, I really can't tell you why Mom acts this way. Could be something as deep-seeded as anger ...
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| Boyfriend of 5 years does not talk about marriage | 12/11/2007 |
Q: Well, first off, I am going a single mom and I have been divorced for 8 years. I started seeing my ...
A: So, let me see if I've got this straight. You've been together almost six years. He won't talk to ...
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| Stupid, little fights. | 12/9/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ...
A: Conner, I hope you had the chance to look at this report regarding long-distance relationships ...
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| Stupid, little fights. | 12/8/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ...
A: You're treating your girlfriend like this because you love her. It sounds like you're frustrated ...
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| My Boyfriend :) | 12/8/2007 |
Q: To skip through all the details we are 100% in love. I know this for a fact and there is no doubt in ...
A: I don't doubt that you are in love either. Take a look at this report about what love is ...
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| Mr I-dont-do-romance | 12/6/2007 |
Q: I hope you can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him like nothing ...
A: Mwenya, I'm not going to tell you to break up with him or not, but based on your last message to ...
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| Being "unavailable" | 12/3/2007 |
Q: I have being going out with an amazing women for a short amount of time (6 months) and in these 6 ...
A: I think the idea of becoming "unavailable" is one that some authors are pushing when courting or ...
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| lost trust | 12/1/2007 |
Q: My wife and i have been married for almost 5 years. We have two children together, I love my wife ...
A: To answer question number one, you are right to be aware and on your toes. She has told you that ...
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| misunderstanding problem | 11/28/2007 |
Q: Hey, well urrm,..first of all,i know i was wrong about the problem,it started when...she told me if ...
A: Aiyad, What's been your relationship before this incident? I understand you went on a first date. ...
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| i feel like im so alone( its very long, sorry) | 11/27/2007 |
Q: my boyfreind and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ...
A: Ashlee, Did you read the report I suggested? It will help you answer most of your concerns ...
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| misunderstanding problem | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Hey, well urrm,..first of all,i know i was wrong about the problem,it started when...she told me if ...
A: I'm a little confused. I'm not exactly sure what happened and who said what. Is this person your ...
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| i feel like im so alone( its very long, sorry) | 11/26/2007 |
Q: my boyfreind and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ...
A: I can tell that you really love your boyfriend. I would guess this is the longest you've gone out ...
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| Mr I-dont-do-romance | 11/23/2007 |
Q: I hope you can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him like nothing ...
A: I bet you that your boyfriend really DOES DO romance, but neither of you may be recognizing it. ...
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| Nice guy | 11/21/2007 |
Q: Hey, Im sam, and im 15. I think/know I am to much of a nice guy. I have a backbone, but usually will ...
A: I learned that whenever I went "looking" to find a girlfriend, it was always harder than when I ...
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| Getting Married | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I am 27 years old and have been dating a 33 year old guy for almost 2 years. We have a really good ...
A: You are in a tough place. You sound like you have a terrific relationship with a man who shares your ...
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| relationship help ASAP. | 11/18/2007 |
Q: Baxter, My boyfriend and I have been together for years now on and off. It started out beautifully. ...
A: Your boyfriend doesn't seem to respect you the way he used to or the way that he should. He may be ...
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| bitch girl friend | 11/15/2007 |
Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ...
A: Victor, Hey, I'm glad to hear that she's starting to put some effort into this relationship. So, ...
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| depression, fustration and love | 11/14/2007 |
Q: i'm with this girl for 9 months now. i'm 18 and she's 16. pretty young :). so, it was so beautiful ...
A: First, it's not about the sex. Although you are only two years apart in age, that's a world of ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: Courtney, Let me ask you this: how would you feel if you didn't call or text him and he never ...
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| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ...
A: Don't be afraid of scaring him off by trying to move this relationship out of the bedroom. You want ...
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| Break: | 11/5/2007 |
Q: Hey my names di and I have a big problem, me and my girl have been together for almost 5 months and ...
A: Well to answer your question, you and your girlfriend need to define the terms of your break. What ...
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| Fizzling Love Life | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I love my husband dearly but lately I'm just not getting excited. Our physical relationship has ...
A: Sex is a lot like romance. At the beginning, whatever you do is fun, exciting, memorable and ...
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| bitch girl friend | 11/2/2007 |
Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ...
A: Victor, I think you are absolutely right. She is trying to be controlling. You've only been dating ...
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| Replying back to last question | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I have never abused her in a physical way or mental why! We just have fights about little things! ...
A: I hope you were not offended by my questions. Since I don't know the backgrounds of the people I ...
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| bitch girl friend | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ...
A: I think you've contacted the wrong guy. It sounds like you're trying to get through to "The Pick-Up ...
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| My Relationship | 10/30/2007 |
Q: My relationship has its flaws. My Girlfriend and I fight over stupid things. Whether big or small, ...
A: I am so glad to see that you are aware of what you are doing and how it affects your relationship. ...
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| someone! | 10/29/2007 |
Q: me and my bf go uot when he gets paid,but sometimes thats not good enough for us...when we first met ...
A: Let me tell it to you straight. Because you have a child involved, you need to figure this out REAL ...
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| how to save my relationship | 10/26/2007 |
Q: HOW DO I SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP? i AM TRULY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ...
A: I have some questions for you. Did she treat you this way from the start of your relationship, or ...
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| Starting over! A fresh start! | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I'm a woman and I have been in a relationship with a woman for almost 4 years! we've been trough ...
A: Before I answer your question, I need you to clarify it a bit. If you've been through both good and ...
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| Sexual Satisfaction in a Semi-Abstinent Relationship | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I have a similar question as that of another user who previously posted, although my inquiry has ...
A: Kacie, So, physiologically you are able to have orgasms. Good. It's just with your boyfriend, that ...
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| How long before? | 10/24/2007 |
Q: . My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. I'm 20 and she's 19. We've known each ...
A: You two are obviously very aware of where you are in your relationship and where it is leading. ...
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| relationship | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I was dating this girl for five years, I love her and i always will, I found out she cheated on me ...
A: You want my honest opinion, right? I don't think she is "the one". I'll tell you why. This ...
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| Sexual Satisfaction in a Semi-Abstinent Relationship | 10/23/2007 |
Q: I have a similar question as that of another user who previously posted, although my inquiry has ...
A: I'd like to know if you have had an orgasm with your boyfriend ever. I was a little confused. At one ...
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| how do i fix this? | 10/22/2007 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months now. When we first met it was so much fun about ...
A: Couple of questions: how many relationships has your girlfriend had before this one? Also, do I ...
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| I need advice please | 10/20/2007 |
Q: I am a female in my middle 20's. I am currently in a relationship with another female just a ...
A: If she tells you she loves you and you've been dating for four years, believe it. She loves you. ...
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| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ...
A: Mich, So, at this point, you've pretty much stated your interest and intentions. My suggestion: ...
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| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ...
A: Mich, Do you think he's upset because you didn't call back when you promised? Could this be ...
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| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ...
A: Unfortunately I can't tell you what's on his mind, but maybe together we can make a close guess. ...
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| Love turning into best friends? | 10/19/2007 |
Q: Ok me and my GF have been together for about 7 months and we both feel very strongly about each ...
A: This sounds like she's trying to protect herself (and maybe even you), by starting to build up a ...
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| I don't know what to do | 10/13/2007 |
Q: Ok i have been in a relationship for a year in and six months. recently the relationship has been ...
A: Doryan, Well, first, are you two on an official break? Have you decided to take time apart for a ...
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| How do you know if a guy is serious about you? | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I've been with my b/f for almost 5 years. He hasn't given me a copy of the keys to his apartment ...
A: Well, to answer your question succinctly, "How do you know if a guy is serious about you?" I say, if ...
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| my boy friend is cheap | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I'm a single mom with 4 years old daughter i don't have too much education,but very much want to get ...
A: It does sound like he may be hesitant to be seen with you right now. If I were you, I'd try to get ...
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| I need help and fast | 10/6/2007 |
Q: Ok i have been in a relationship for a year in and six months. recently the relationship has been ...
A: You are in the midst of a transition, my friend. Most relationships start off exciting and fun and ...
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| troubled... | 10/3/2007 |
Q: my gf and i have come to the point where we hurt each other physically...we say nasty things to ...
A: It's time to get help! You two need to see a professional, because it sounds like this is coming ...
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| Long Distance | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ...
A: Sometimes we have to live on edge at times, not knowing exactly where we stand, so we can appreciate ...
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| Long Distance | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ...
A: Ryan, Don't be scared. Relationships go through a natural ebb and flow. It can't (and won't) always ...
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| What should i do? | 9/28/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years,i was 19 he was 25.. when we first met i ...
A: La'Star, I don't know very much about your history, but how did you get him out last time? The way ...
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| What should i do? | 9/26/2007 |
Q: Leon, I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years,i was 19 he was 25.. when we first met i ...
A: You know exactly what to do, and you just want me to support you with it and maybe give you a route. ...
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| Should we live with reason. | 9/25/2007 |
Q: My gf&I are 23. I knew&have been together with this lady over 2yrs.When we start everyth seem so ...
A: It sounds like you two need a kick in the seat of your romance pants. Things were going well until ...
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| strength | 9/22/2007 |
Q: hey im going out with a girl and she has told me that she needs some room and that we hang out to ...
A: Give me a little more info so I can best try and help you. How long have you been going out? What's ...
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| marriage | 9/19/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: Yasir, I agree that when someone has gotten to the point of striking someone they love that they ...
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| marriage | 9/18/2007 |
Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ...
A: Let me start by telling you that I am not familiar with customs of Pakistan. But, I can tell that ...
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| I let too much out the bag how do I fix this situation? | 9/13/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year, I'm 24 and he's 26. What happens is that ...
A: It seems like two issues are compounded to create your situation here. First, your boyfriend was ...
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| Belongings | 9/13/2007 |
Q: So My friend phoned me and said she dropped off the belongings. But she kept all the expensive stuff ...
A: You have the right to get back your belongings. If they are truly yours and not gifts, and she ...
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| over and done | 9/12/2007 |
Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ...
A: Kai, Yes, I think it's time to contact her. But, you'll need to keep it about getting your stuff ...
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| Ideas on pillowtalk | 9/8/2007 |
Q: I met a cute lady called Anna two weeks ago.She says she will call me next on Tuesday night.I would ...
A: It sounds like you just need some topics to help you two decide if you want to start a relationship. ...
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| over and done | 9/8/2007 |
Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ...
A: Kai, I am sorry to hear that it's ended this way. It's always hard to end a relationship, ...
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| really struggling to figure this out | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I am 38, hubby is 40. We have been married 11 years. We have three daughters, two big dogs, a ...
A: I can understand how this can be a frustrating situation for you. On the positive side, it sounds ...
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| over and done | 9/7/2007 |
Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ...
A: Kai, I think you know how I will react to this. She needs space. But, is that going to be too late ...
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| Long Distance | 9/6/2007 |
Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ...
A: Ryan, She shouldn't compare how she feels to how others "say" they feel. Sometimes words aren't ...
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| Wishes not as expected | 9/6/2007 |
Q: it's my birthday today the 6th of september, and she did not phone me, she has in fact sms'ed me, ...
A: Kai, Like I've been saying, I think you've been jumping the gun on this break. You're not letting ...
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| Sexual strife already? | 9/4/2007 |
Q: I recently started dating a long time friend of mine (after ending a 6 year relationship with ...
A: You two just have different sex drives. But, because he's not into it as often as you are, you feel ...
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| Break | 9/4/2007 |
Q: me again, so my friend ended up speaking to her yesterday end he confirmed that she was very ...
A: Kai, Seeing that in South Africa it's customary to return the ring after an engagement is broken ...
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| talking | 9/4/2007 |
Q: A little background. I met my boyfriend online around Christmas last year. We lived in different ...
A: First of all, the safety of the internet and a telephone make communicating and opening up to ...
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| I dont know where its going! | 9/3/2007 |
Q: My ex and I have decided to give it another try. We have been on and off for almost a year now, and ...
A: The good news is that you know his potential. You've been together off and on for three years. So, ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 9/3/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, Great! If things are meant to be, they will work out. You need to believe that everything ...
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| sex | 9/1/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for a year. He's 29 and was raised by his mother. He prides ...
A: Isis, So, there seemed to be a negative association with sex, possibly due to the type of sex his ...
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| sex | 8/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for a year. He's 29 and was raised by his mother. He prides ...
A: Tell me, Isis, have you and your husband had sex? If so, how often and how has it turned out? Did he ...
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| Keeping the flame burning | 8/28/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a month. I've been in a few relationships ...
A: I wouldn't say that you were working too hard. New relationships are usually filled with excitement ...
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| Past echos in the present | 8/28/2007 |
Q: Well, I guess I'll start off by telling you a little bit about my boyfriend and I. I'm twenty three ...
A: I understand what he's saying. You're kind of going back and forth, and he's confused. I understand ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/26/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, You really sound like you are maturing, Ryan. It's great that you are able to miss Kay ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/24/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, The easiest way for you to get over this jealousy is plowing right through it. Let yourself ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/22/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, I know if "feels" like you may not be able to survive this, but if you can look past the ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/19/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, If you've never gone through an experience that you weren't sure how you were going to ...
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| How to save my critical relationship? | 8/18/2007 |
Q: My name is Xavier and I am 22 years old. My girl friend and I have been together for 1 year. We had ...
A: Wow, that's got to be tough. You have two things going against you. One, you two are at a critical ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/18/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, Of course you're sad. You're "losing" what you have and love so much. But, you knew it was ...
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| Please give me advice before I make things worse.. | 8/16/2007 |
Q: Hey Leon! My story is pretty long but Im going to keep it as short as I can. Ok, me and Gene had ...
A: Sorry to say, but you need to move on! This guy wasn't right for you when he was talking to your ...
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| Help me | 8/14/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend (now fiance) have been together for almost a year and a half and recently we have been ...
A: Sure you can. You CAN stop fighting with him. It just takes practice and strength. I can tell you ...
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| trust and love | 8/11/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I, have been dating for almost 4 months now. We were together for 6 and then had a ...
A: It sounds like you have two issues here: one, he doesn't trust you, and two, he's keeping things ...
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| truth and encouragement | 8/10/2007 |
Q: I'm dating a beautiful girl. She thinks I'm handsome, hardworking, honorable, fun, smart, teachable, ...
A: It sounds as though your girlfriend is hell-bent on not being good enough. As a result, she ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/7/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, Like I've been saying from the beginning, don't get too over anxious. Let things progress ...
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| Wife and insecurity | 8/7/2007 |
Q: I have been married seven months and going through some jealousy issue. For the past months my wife ...
A: First, you should know that it is 100 percent natural for both men and women to look at things of ...
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| mowe on or let go | 8/7/2007 |
Q: I have been involved in a relationship for1 year and 6 months to a man who has a child by a woman of ...
A: Stephanie, I think you've hit the nail square on the head. If you can make it through this, you can ...
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| Can this relationship be fixed? | 8/6/2007 |
Q: How do I handle this? My boyfriend is still contacting me since he broke up w/me in Feb (after 4 ...
A: It sounds to me that you still love this guy, but you don't trust him. It also sounds like he still ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/6/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: Ryan, Glad to know things seem to be falling into place. You said you thought she'd fallen out of ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/6/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, Wow, so do you think you've changed much over these past few weeks? She obviously sees something ...
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| Love Making | 8/3/2007 |
Q: She made love once (and I believe her) she's 25 when we make love she doesn't really feel me.? ...
A: I think you're asking me about the tightness of your lady friend's vagina. You appear concerned that ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 8/3/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, That sounds pretty darn good to me, too. I'm so pleased it went well for the two of you. It's ...
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| surviving the storm | 8/2/2007 |
Q: I met this girl 2 months ago. Her family hates my guts. They say I am not the man for her. They do ...
A: I think she sounds terrific. She's obviously attractive, sounds kind, and is undoubtedly smart. It ...
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| Help! | 8/2/2007 |
Q: Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2.5 years. I am 18 and getting ready to start ...
A: Have you spoken to your boyfriend about getting out of this rut? Is he up to getting out with you? ...
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| mowe on or let go | 8/1/2007 |
Q: I have been involved in a relationship for1 year and 6 months to a man who has a child by a woman of ...
A: Does your boyfriend have any legal rights to visit his daughter without the mom present? Because, if ...
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| relationship | 8/1/2007 |
Q: me and my boyfriend always argue. i always start it by getting agitated about what he does and end ...
A: So, it seems to me that you believe that your snapping at your boyfriend may be the catalyst that ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/30/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, You are welcome, R. Sounds like things went well, all-in-all. And, the comment about you hooking ...
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| Relationship Advice | 7/29/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for the past 7 years. We have had our share of ...
A: It sounds like the two of you have a true and deep connection. I'm sure you love each other and want ...
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| The next day | 7/29/2007 |
Q: Hey Leon, I hope you remember me, i woke up today and ive been in bed the whole day because i ...
A: Yarline, Of course I remember you. You've had a pretty tough 48 hours. You're in the beginning ...
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| dialogue | 7/28/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend Marc cheated on me and left me for another woman. At the time he said he had to break ...
A: To be honest with you, it's not obvious to me from this conversation that he was cheating on you. ...
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| Please help me im in serious pain | 7/28/2007 |
Q: Finally i can speak to some one that can help me an that views perfectly the points as a guy. Look ...
A: Yarline, I am so proud of you. You showed incredible strength doing what you did tonight. Not only ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/28/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, I am so glad that you made the right choice. Just take things easy and be sure to keep your word ...
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| Please help me im in serious pain | 7/28/2007 |
Q: Finally i can speak to some one that can help me an that views perfectly the points as a guy. Look ...
A: Unfortunately, I can't tell you if I think he will return to you or not. But, I do have other ...
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| Is she gone? | 7/27/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ...
A: Dipesh, I think you should just step back and see where this thing goes. No matter how much you ...
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| parents | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 years old (female)and i'm having a lot of issues with my parents. i stayed with my friend at ...
A: You know, A, it seems like this may be the time for "The Big Talk". It's so hard for a parent to let ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/26/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, Yikes. Quite the quandary you are in. You know Kay better than I. Maybe you can surmise the best ...
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| Is she gone? | 7/25/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ...
A: Dipesh, I don't know if she's lost interest in you. You've told me in past postings that she still ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/24/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, I think you are handling this extremely well. I mean, I know how you feel about Kay, yet you're ...
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| Back again :( | 7/24/2007 |
Q: and I've been dating this 36-yr old woman since last October. We do live about 2 hours from each ...
A: Mitch, If I'm not mistaken, a counselor could help you with this. Counselors and therapists don't ...
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| Is she gone? | 7/24/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ...
A: Dipesh, It doesn't necessarily mean you're being taken for a fool. It means that you have more ...
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| Is she gone? | 7/24/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ...
A: Dipesh, To be honest, I think you stand at her mercy. I don't mean to sound harsh, but right now ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/23/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, You're an intelligent guy, R. You know that you can't do that kind of stuff now, but your heart ...
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| Is she gone? | 7/23/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ...
A: I can't tell you how long she wants her space, but if I'm understanding you correctly, it shouldn't ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/23/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, You asked if spending days in silence really helps. It definitely can really help Kay to think ...
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| being cheated on | 7/19/2007 |
Q: Five months ago I was cheated on and left for the other woman. I am very sad. How do I get over ...
A: I can't tell you if he will ever regret what he's done to you. Hopefully he has a conscience, and if ...
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| Relationship in limbo due to trust issues. | 7/19/2007 |
Q: I've been dating a man for approximately 1 yer. As a matter of fact, we are taking a cruise next ...
A: I always ask people in situations like yours if they have reason to doubt their partner. You do. You ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/18/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, Although it seems like forever, two weeks is far from an eternity. Things are still unsettled ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/17/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, I'm sorry she is being put through all of this, but I'm so pleased that you two understand the ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/16/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: R, What you're feeling is totally natural and normal. You have strong feelings for this young lady, ...
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| broken engagement | 7/14/2007 |
Q: My fiance and I have been together for over a year. We are each other's best friends. Of course we ...
A: It sounds like your fiance loves you dearly, but right now he's unhappy or confused about something ...
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| Break, who knows now..... | 7/13/2007 |
Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ...
A: I hate to rely on cliches to help me administer my advice, but there's a saying: If you love ...
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| Confusion | 7/13/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and three months now and everything has been ...
A: It sounds to me that your girlfriend has some unresolved issues with her ex. After over a year apart ...
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| Shy Guy | 7/12/2007 |
Q: I have a crush on a guy and he likes me back. The problem is that he is extermly shy and so am I.We ...
A: Irene, I am sooo happy that my advice could be of some help to the two of you. You've taken the ...
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| Shy Guy | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I have a crush on a guy and he likes me back. The problem is that he is extermly shy and so am I.We ...
A: I like you. I very rarely find someone able to make me laugh like you have with your "ice is still ...
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| keeping love alive | 7/10/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and myself have been in this relationship for almost 14 months. For the last 6 months ...
A: Monique, You seem to be telling me that it's time for this relationship to be taken to the next ...
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| Sex isnt what it used to be | 7/9/2007 |
Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for a 1.5 years and Im already feeling bored with sex. We do live ...
A: Well, you are right there where sex becomes humdrum in a relationship. See, when you first start a ...
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| Scared | 7/2/2007 |
Q: I have been dating this girl for 6 months now. She was telling me that I was acting different in ...
A: We've all been where you are. We have feelings for someone, but they break our heart, and the pain ...
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| conversation and connection | 7/1/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months, but lately we have been so caught up ...
A: I'm not exactly sure what you mean when you say you're so caught up in the lovestruck stage that ...
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| losing interest | 6/25/2007 |
Q: I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and we have been together a little over a year. But now, ...
A: What you are going through now is really not uncommon at all. When we first start a relationship, ...
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| Ugh | 6/22/2007 |
Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together over two years. Lately, he's not been saying "I ...
A: It sounds like your boyfriend loves you, but he's embarrassed or ashamed to show his feelings in ...
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| Unfaithfulness | 6/18/2007 |
Q: I am in my mid 20's & my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs is in his early 30's. I lost my virginity to him ...
A: This can definitely work. At first I thought you were going to tell me that you were having ...
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| Men . . . *sigh* , , , | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for going on two years now, and he is a wonderful, wonderful guy . . . ...
A: Why is it, you think, that you need so much attention? Why do you need people to notice you? And, ...
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| My boyfriend has a problem with committment because of his past divorce | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I have been dating a 37 year old divorced man for about 6 months now. He has a 6 year old son. We ...
A: It sounds like your boyfriend was really hurt by the divorce and he hasn't been able to move passed ...
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| army relationship | 6/12/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of three years is going into the Army Reserve and is about to leave in July for six ...
A: Wow, what a difficult situation to be in for the two of you. Like any other long-distance ...
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| getting the spark back | 6/11/2007 |
Q: I hope you can advise me on a rather difficult matter. My husband and myself have been married for ...
A: Having sex more infrequently is not uncommon as a relationship continues. Some reasons include loss ...
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| i really need advice | 6/5/2007 |
Q: heres my story...am 27 been in a relationship for a year and a half and we live together....my ...
A: You are in a tough situation. First, your relationship has reached the point where it generally goes ...
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| flame burned out | 5/30/2007 |
Q: Iam a 59 yr old man,married 25 years to my 53 yr old wife. In the beginning, sex was great. It was ...
A: It's not uncommon for there to be a loss of intimacy during pregnancy and parenthood. Children take ...
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| Love and confusion | 5/30/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend i broke up like a week ago and our relationship was not long.WOW where so i start well ...
A: Angel, Wow, so you have some choices to make here. If you want to hold out and see what all he's ...
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| Lost Sex Appeal | 5/30/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years told me the other day that she is not sexually attracted to me any ...
A: It's very normal for folks to be attracted to someone other than their partners. Just because we're ...
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| Love and confusion | 5/29/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend i broke up like a week ago and our relationship was not long.WOW where so i start well ...
A: It sounds like you've given all of the power to this guy. He tells you it's over. He tells you when ...
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| HELP | 5/29/2007 |
Q: my name is Lexi I am 12 and my boyfriend is also 12. We have gone out for the past 2 years breaking ...
A: Lexi, I can't tell you for sure what's going on in your boyfriend's head. But, seeing that you've ...
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| i want her back | 5/29/2007 |
Q: sir i am loving a girl.she is my classmate.how ever we are good friends.we used to chat through ...
A: Yeshwanth, You've got to be realistic about this, my friend. She was uncomfortable at first when ...
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| HELP | 5/29/2007 |
Q: my name is Lexi I am 12 and my boyfriend is also 12. We have gone out for the past 2 years breaking ...
A: You are in such a tough situation. It's obvious that you two care about each other, or you wouldn't ...
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| after 13 years i dont know what to do | 5/20/2007 |
Q: Ive been in a realtionship for the past 13 yrs. We have 3 children. He got into some trouble and ...
A: It sounds like he's being selfish, thinking of himself before the well-being of you, the kids, or ...
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| My Girlfriend | 5/13/2007 |
Q: Latley my girlfriend has been saying that i've been acting weird or strange around her while i dont ...
A: First, you probably both are justified in feeling that the other is changing. The reason is twofold. ...
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| I'm at wits end | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We've known each other for about 5. We became a ...
A: It sounds like your boyfriend expresses love differently than you would like him to. It doesn't ...
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| Emotionally Unavailable Man | 5/4/2007 |
Q: I recently broke off a 10 month relationship with a guy due to his inability to show any type of ...
A: Jackie, I am so sorry for how things have turned out. I know it hurts. It always does. But, keep ...
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| Emotionally Unavailable Man | 5/2/2007 |
Q: I recently broke off a 10 month relationship with a guy due to his inability to show any type of ...
A: It could be, Jackie, that he just didn't know how to express himself to you. How did he react when ...
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| Losing interest? | 5/1/2007 |
Q: and I've been dating this 36-yr old woman since last October. We do live about 2 hours from each ...
A: The short answer: yes, there is absolutely hope. Here are a couple of reasons why. First, she's ...
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| TRUST | 5/1/2007 |
Q: I have a difficult time coping with the following issues, I found out that she checks her ex's ...
A: From the little I know it sounds like there are trust issues that you're dealing with in your ...
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| lazy | 4/30/2007 |
Q: I have a minor problem, my boyfriend/roommate, ( more or less my roommate),,is living with me for ...
A: Ally, Your question definitely is about your relationship, but less about a romantic relationship ...
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| lazy | 4/29/2007 |
Q: I have a minor problem, my boyfriend/roommate, ( more or less my roommate),,is living with me for ...
A: I wonder why you want him working so badly. I have nothing against working, but are you afraid that ...
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| relationship problems. | 4/27/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend (maurice) and I have knew each other since 2004 we dated for 6mths and then I left him ...
A: I speak to pregnant couples at seminars and at local hospitals about the importance of building ...
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| relationship | 4/24/2007 |
Q: Hey i have just started to see a girl that i really like, Theres only one problem and its driving me ...
A: It's completely natural. You are obviously attracted to this girl. Mother Nature is bombarding you ...
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| How to make the relationship fresh again? | 4/23/2007 |
Q: She's 26 and I'm 24. Our relationship has been 2 years old and a few struggling months. She ...
A: It sounds like your girlfriend has some issues. She may be someone who is difficult to satisfy. If ...
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| We are on a break, what now? | 4/16/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge ...
A: I think you should ask him to clarify what he means by, "I need time to figure things out." It's ...
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| Will we be ok? | 4/14/2007 |
Q: I'm 21. My Boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. For all of this time it has ...
A: I don't know if you contacted the right person, because it looks like you were looking for Sharon. ...
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| personality | 4/11/2007 |
Q: I have sent this question to a few other experts but they seemed to be maxed out unfortuantely. I ...
A: What a difficult situation you are in. It's hard, though, for me to tell you why he is acting like ...
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| How? | 4/11/2007 |
Q: I just got a new boyfriend. I only recently found out he liked me, and i decided i liked him also. ...
A: The best relationships are those that start out as friendships first. But, other relationships can ...
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| not sure | 4/5/2007 |
Q: Recently my boyfriend (we go to law school together) told me "we need a break" because his boards ...
A: I can only answer this question with the limited information you've given me, but I would say there ...
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| help me with my problems | 4/4/2007 |
Q: How do i tell my boyfriend that it is ok to go do what he wants without my feelings getting hurt? He ...
A: Forgive me, but I'm not exactly sure what you are asking. Is he hurting your feelings by going out ...
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| ? | 3/30/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ...
A: Wow, what an ordeal! It sounds like you had the makings (and maybe started building the foundation) ...
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| how do i make my relationship fresh again? | 3/29/2007 |
Q: I am 24 and my partner 22, we have been together 2 years coming in June, i met him on the internet ...
A: Your situation is not uncommon. I know that doesn't make it any better, but know that you are not ...
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| What's up with my boyfriend? | 3/23/2007 |
Q: I'm hoping you can shed some light on this problem I've been having. I have known my boyfriend for ...
A: You've got the makings for what could potentially be a wonderful romantic relationship. I'm a ...
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| How do I be more controlling? | 3/23/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months now and we do think we will be in this ...
A: Would you consider yourself passive and non-confrontational? If so, she probably wants you to be a ...
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| Relationship! | 3/20/2007 |
Q: I'm 20. Turning 21 in about 6 days. And this weekend I feel like I can not connect with my ...
A: Jillian, Let's take one thing at a time. Sounds like sex has become humdrum. It's time to change ...
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| Relationship! | 3/19/2007 |
Q: I'm 20. Turning 21 in about 6 days. And this weekend I feel like I can not connect with my ...
A: Its sounds like you and your boyfriend may be looking for different things in a relationship now. It ...
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| what to do | 3/17/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a couple months. We were really happy together, laughed every moment we ...
A: I think it's absolutely appropriate to email him a birthday card. Just be sure it's not laced with ...
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| Growing apart... | 3/16/2007 |
Q: Wow, it's hard to begin. I'm sorry if this is long, but I'm confused and I need some solid, honest ...
A: So, I don't know for sure the reason why he's acting this way. I can speculate, though. Could be ...
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| how can i make her to come back? | 3/15/2007 |
Q: yeah.hi again..we talked what happened and stuff before and i figured since she is going online i ...
A: Danny, It looks like she's ready to move on. Either she really is over you and wants to get on with ...
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| how can i make her to come back? | 3/11/2007 |
Q: yeah,as you saying she keeps stuff to remember me but it doesnt mean she is gonna come back.i ...
A: Danny, You are right. Only time will tell where this goes. But, I'd wait a month or so and go ahead ...
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| how can i make her to come back? | 3/10/2007 |
Q: ok. i will try to do it.but i really didnt want to follow her or i didnt follow her.i just wanted to ...
A: Danny, It does sound like there were definitely feelings there. She may want to have time away from ...
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| how can i make her to come back? | 3/10/2007 |
Q: I Dont know. my girl just left me a month ago.i am from another country and i got married one girl ...
A: FYI: It's just me answering your question. Not a bunch of us. To answer your question bluntly... do ...
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| how?????? | 3/7/2007 |
Q: look i have this boyfriend that I really like but i dont think im not doing a very good job in ...
A: It sounds like you may be reading into this a bit too much. You're so worried about making him happy ...
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| How do I keep my girlfriend interested in me? | 3/5/2007 |
Q: Hey Leon, my name is Garret and I was wondering if you can help me. Is there any way I can get my ...
A: I wonder how long you've been with your girlfriend and if you're just wondering about this for ...
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| Sharing souls | 2/28/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering if you knew how my girlfriend and I would be able to share our souls with each ...
A: At he beginning of relationships (first six to twelve months) we often try to put on our best face ...
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| growing apart | 2/27/2007 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.He is right now at college 4 hours away ...
A: Long distance relationships are very tricky because we often grow apart. When we are together daily ...
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| relationship- break | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I love my boyfriend and we recently decided to take a break. when we first got together, I was ...
A: It's great that you see how you were controlling this relationship in a way that could be ...
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| getting over the past | 2/9/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of two years and I have been through a lot. When we first met, it was completely like ...
A: It sounds like there are other issues that are far deeper and more complicated than your ...
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| endless arguement | 2/8/2007 |
Q: no he does not do anything to relieve himself. He just lets himself sit there and suffer. Sex for ...
A: Joanna, Do you think that if he was able to conquer his early sexual release that he might be more ...
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| endless arguement | 2/8/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of two years has recently chosen a religion that has convined him that sex is nothing ...
A: I think you're treading in some murky water here. This is a tough one. But let me start off by ...
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| how to make things better | 2/5/2007 |
Q: I have a few more questions and i wanted to answer the question you asked me... Yes there has been ...
A: Rachel, Yes, it does make sense. We often hurt the ones closest to us. The reason: we're ...
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| how to make things better | 2/4/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Everything was working out great until ...
A: It seems like there a few a few issues here to deal with. You say your boyfriend has changed for no ...
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| I need some tips | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I been dating this guy with whom I been knowing for 2years and 5months... We been dating for about ...
A: I'm glad you wrote me. If I'm understanding you right, it sounds like he's playing you. He's been ...
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| My boyfriend | 1/3/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend have been together for the last 3 and a half years. i love him dearly and he says he ...
A: First things first, put off the wedding plans until you get this worked out. You would be doing ...
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| What can i do? Its making me Feel so ill inside! | 1/2/2007 |
Q: Oh Great what a nice way to celebrate 2007 with my Girl Friend with me at home with my family. ...
A: Okay, before you do anything, you have to be absolutely sure that she took your money. If there is a ...
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| help | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I am 33 yrs old and I have been dating a wonderful woman for about six months now , we have been ...
A: Bill, It sounds like you have everything needed for a truly strong and long-lasting relationship. ...
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| i want her back | 12/23/2006 |
Q: I was with this girl and it sure didnt last too long but we deff. had a deep passion for each other ...
A: The short answer to yournothing. I know, not what you wanted to hear, was it? But, see, you can't ...
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| How to make my realtionship strong. | 12/18/2006 |
Q: I have been with my fiancee for over three years and it just seems that we have lost the love for ...
A: It's not uncommon to feel the way you do after being with your partner for three years. Let me first ...
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| taking a break | 12/15/2006 |
Q: hey again! so...im pretty confused on what to do now. the entire me freaking out, my obsessing ...
A: You and I are becoming old buddies online. :) Chris, I think you need to just try and process a ...
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| I got too drunk | 12/14/2006 |
Q: Mr. Baxter , I am dating a wonderful woman who I have been friends with for about seven years , only ...
A: First, if we were talking I'd ask if you've had alcohol related issues in the past. If so, this may ...
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| week long break and then some... | 12/14/2006 |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend for about 14 months now. we have a great relationship. we have our ...
A: You seem so practical and straight to the point. To answer your question, you need to look at why ...
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| taking a break | 12/14/2006 |
Q: I mean everyone is telling me it's extremely good that she aimed me/myspace comments me...because if ...
A: Chris, As you know, I can only respond based on what you've told me. I can't be sure of any of ...
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| Taking a break | 12/13/2006 |
Q: I understand what you're saying. So my next question is this: What do I do in the meantime? I don't ...
A: Anthony, To answer your question, I need to ask you awhat do you do to fill your time when you're ...
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| taking a break | 12/12/2006 |
Q: ..Im just kind of confused. I was AFK when she aimed me, so I responded late...anyways im not ...
A: Chris, I wouldn't jump out there and tell her you miss her. I'd just try to sit back, play it cool ...
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| taking a break | 12/12/2006 |
Q: hey again! okay so... we're almost at the one month mark. we didnt say anything for awhile, then a ...
A: Chris, Hey, I'm glad you're starting to get the results you were hoping for. Sounds like she may be ...
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| Taking a break | 12/11/2006 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman for 10 months now. We've had only a few problems, mostly ...
A: I know what you're going through is difficult. Unfortunately, I can't tell you how this will end up. ...
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| What should I do? | 12/6/2006 |
Q: I 20 yrs old and currently engaged going on 6 months. About a month ago my fiance got a new job in ...
A: To answer your question simply.. NO! It's not time to move on. If you are in love with this woman, I ...
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| what do i do! | 12/3/2006 |
Q: my relationship is ok. We have a great love making life as well. We have been together now for 5 ...
A: I wish you had come to me three months ago. I would have advised you to wait a bit longer before ...
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| i want to get her back | 12/3/2006 |
Q: i need you one final time time here please.we had a chat last night on the phone.she still cares ...
A: Greg, This one you're going to have to make the call on. You have to decide what you're willing to ...
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| i want to get her back | 12/1/2006 |
Q: im all at sea on this one.but i will go and see her,but when im there,do i act cool?or do i talk ...
A: Greg, I would just follow her lead. She invited you over. You might as well let her take the lead ...
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| i want to get her back | 11/28/2006 |
Q: last night she sent me a text saying"hi greggie if you not busy after work tomo do u want to come ...
A: Greg, Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I was having computer issues. Also, you've referred to ...
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| taking a break | 11/26/2006 |
Q: hey again so its been almost 2 weeks and I havent said anything to my girlfriend and vice versa. ...
A: Chris, No one can tell you for sure what will happen in this scenario. Just know that when you look ...
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| how to spice it up | 11/26/2006 |
Q: Me and my bf have been dating for over a month he's amazing plus he's great it bed....we do it all ...
A: I'm afraid I'm not exactly sure what you are asking. It sounds like you and your boyfriend have a ...
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| taking a break | 11/22/2006 |
Q: sorry for the excessive questioning, I just really really hold your advice with a high regard now. ...
A: Chris, You know, Chris, I think you might want to bring up my suggestions to your psychologist. ...
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| I need your help! | 11/22/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend mike and I have been going out for the past three years. A couple months ago we broke ...
A: First off, was your jealousy valid? Was it an innocent visit between your boyfriend and this other ...
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| taking a break | 11/21/2006 |
Q: One of my problems was that I constantly nagged/freaked out on her about dumb things, and I always ...
A: Chris, I have had some personal experience with OCD. Actually, I wrote a children's book about it, ...
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| taking a break | 11/20/2006 |
Q: hey! My name is Chris im 20, and my girlfriend is 19. I met her two years ago at school, we dated ...
A: Chris, You sound like such a grounded guy, so caring, and really understanding. It's such a ...
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| i want to get her back | 11/14/2006 |
Q: i have given her the space she has asked for for 4 weeks with no communication whatsoever.in that ...
A: Greg, You're probably right. It does seem like she's trying to get a reaction out of you. I can ...
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| i want to get her back | 11/12/2006 |
Q: youve seen all the text messages she has sent me etc.a lot of people are saying to me if she was ...
A: Greg, Of course I can't be sure, but from the information you've given me, she either really wants ...
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| i want to get her back | 11/11/2006 |
Q: a friend told me that even though she left she will be finding it very difficult as well,because we ...
A: Greg, Yes, I believe your friend. Like I said, this is going to be hard for her, also. It can be ...
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| i want to get her back | 11/10/2006 |
Q: im 43 my girlfriend 40.the past 19 mths have been great then in the past 8 weeks she has been moody ...
A: Wow, what a hard situation you're going through. It can be so painful when you feel one way for ...
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| I backed away but now so has he...what do I do now? | 11/3/2006 |
Q: I think you might be right, but I did give him space and he accused me of neglecting him and not ...
A: Sabrina, Sounds like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I'm a bit perplexed from what ...
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| relationship | 11/1/2006 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 1/2 years and things are starting to get boring! I feel ...
A: Don't split on account of boredom. You've got what everyone else wants. You two have love. It's just ...
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| Can I back away without compromising the relationship? | 10/31/2006 |
Q: "I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months, and every thing was going great. We were ...
A: Your feelings of making your boyfriend your top priority are not only okay, but 100 percent ...
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| hey | 10/30/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting back together.... I want to keep the spark alive if ...
A: I'd love to know what broke the two of you up the first time, and what you two have planned to do so ...
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| my ex-boyfriend | 10/27/2006 |
Q: ok..my ex boyfriend say he likes me and wants to go back out with me but he is afraid its goin to be ...
A: The question is, what do you want? Do you think he's valid in saying the last relationship was too ...
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| Long Distance | 10/26/2006 |
Q: How do i show my long distance relationship girlfreind that i love her without seeing her? ...
A: Matt, Is there any reason she shouldn't? Most relationships are trusting unless there is a history ...
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| why do i feel like this? | 10/24/2006 |
Q: I know it hasn't been even up to a week yet. However, while waiting for your response I talked to a ...
A: Stacey, I can only imagine how much it's wearing on you. I am so pleased that you went to the ...
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| why do i feel like this? | 10/23/2006 |
Q: I've been in a commited relationship with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now.. and he's talking alot ...
A: I'm not sure I can completely answer your question. I may need a bit more information, but I'll ...
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| me and my loved one! | 10/22/2006 |
Q: my name is Jessica and I am 18 years old in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 ...
A: Puppy love is awesome, isn't it? It occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It's warm and its ...
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| I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend | 10/22/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years, we have an ok relationship. He is a ...
A: If you are absolutely sure that you no longer want to have a relationship with your boyfriend (which ...
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| relationship | 10/11/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now... I have had some issues that I am ...
A: I think you made such a wise choice to seek counseling for the issues in your life. Many young men ...
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| Girlfriend of 2.5years, feels lonely | 10/10/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for two and half years. We have been through alot. We are ...
A: It sounds like you're dating Cinderella. She lives with two sisters who aren't the most respectful, ...
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| Will we ever trust eachother? | 10/9/2006 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfreind for 4 years now. To start this mess we began as an ...
A: "Should I just drop this loser and get on with my life, and enjoy my kids more instead of worrying ...
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| growing apart | 10/2/2006 |
Q: I have been with my bf for 3 years.We had a good relationship and we were so close together.Hes 28 ...
A: You and your boyfriend are definitely in the midst of a change. Sometimes that can be a hard thing ...
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| Ideas on conversations | 9/29/2006 |
Q: I met this guy at a singles convention about a year ago. I really didn't think about him until I ...
A: It sounds like you met a great guy. I'm so pleased you've realized that there can be a strong ...
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| save my relationship | 9/18/2006 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together almost nine months... When we met and started dating we were ...
A: What a difficult situation you are in. You love your boyfriend, but it sounds like he may not be ...
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