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How to Strengthen Your Relationship/Questions Answered by Expert Leon Scott Baxter:
| Subject | Date Asked |
| I want to help. | 2/10/2012 |
| Q: So I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now and I am his first relationship ... A: I would guess that your freaking out did not cause his depression, but I'm sure it doesn't help. So, ... | |
| Can my relationship be saved | 2/6/2012 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over two years now and I fear that she is going to ... A: The relationship is not necessarily too far gone to be saved, but there are a lot of variables and ... | |
| Confused | 2/6/2012 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for just about 4 years and we have been living together for ... A: It sounds to me that he loves you and wants to desire you the way he once did, but is not sure why ... | |
| should i get fucked in the ass by my husband? | 1/31/2012 |
| Q: hey, i'm 21 and my husband wants to fuck me in the ass. first of all, me and my husband are ... A: For couples who haven't had anal sex yet, it might be best to progress slowly, because if you share ... | |
| Jealous Over Video Games | 1/13/2012 |
| Q: I am in an amazing relationship with a guy I adore. Unfortunately, we don’t share a lot of hobbies. ... A: My biggest concern is the line where you say, "I can only entertain myself for so long." It makes it ... | |
| So, what now? | 1/9/2012 |
| Q: I think this is the end of what I started...but, after the text and no response from Christmas and ... A: Jamie, I know we spoke before, but could you give me a quick recap? I don't recall all of the ... | |
| Beginning and Ending....Middle. | 12/30/2011 |
| Q: I'm not sure if you remember my story as it looks like you assist a lot of people (I'm the surgery, ... A: Jamie, Yes, I do think it's a bit odd that he hasn't responded back with a holiday wish for you. ... | |
| Break | 12/29/2011 |
| Q: I am in my mid thirties, have a great full time job, and seeking advice on my current relationship ... A: Petrina, So, you are staying with him because you are afraid you can't get anything better because ... | |
| Break | 12/18/2011 |
| Q: I am in my mid thirties, have a great full time job, and seeking advice on my current relationship ... A: Are you trying to get him back? I know you love him and have invested time and energy into this ... | |
| keeping a relationship from being boring.. | 12/16/2011 |
| Q: To whom this may concern My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and well i seemed to ... A: It's common for relationships to lose some excitement and passion somewhere between 6 and 18 months. ... | |
| I Want My Husband To Piss On Me | 12/15/2011 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for quite a while now and we have a very healthy sex life. ... A: Be careful what you wish for. You might be opening Pandora's Box. You've got a relatively submissive ... | |
| I am totally lost and do not know what to do to make my relationship with my boyfriend become better due to many serious problems that we have and which torment both of us (though we truly love each other). | 12/14/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are together since two years now and we are in a long distance relationship! We ... A: First off, long-distance relationships are tough for EVERYONE. I'd like to you to read more about ... | |
| Is this a normal relationship? | 12/14/2011 |
| Q: I met my bf at a club through a mutual friends birthday. Ever since that night he spent 4 years ... A: He chased you for four years, and because it was a chase, he was interested. Men thrive on ... | |
| He's frustrated with my depression. | 12/9/2011 |
| Q: I've been with my guy for just over two years. We began dating in our senior year of high school and ... A: First, I'm glad that you have been diagnosed and your professional is not content with a med that ... | |
| Beginning and Ending | 12/6/2011 |
| Q: Well, here we go....I have been dating a guy and we're headed for our 6th date. On a side note what ... A: Jamie, So glad that you two are headed in the same direction. Good luck with your surgery and keep ... | |
| How Should I Think About This? | 12/6/2011 |
| Q: I just recently discovered that my boyfriend has a masturbation/porn addiction. He was honest with ... A: Anna, Based on a man's upbringing, there can be a lot of guilt associated with masturbation. It can ... | |
| How Should I Think About This? | 12/5/2011 |
| Q: I just recently discovered that my boyfriend has a masturbation/porn addiction. He was honest with ... A: I wonder what constitutes an addiction? Has he seen a professional? is it impeding upon his life? ... | |
| What to do?!? | 12/4/2011 |
| Q: So May of 2010 I met this woman on a dating site. We pretty much hit it off quick. We would date ... A: I would bet the first break up was somewhere between 6 and 18 months into your relationship, when ... | |
| Beginning and Ending | 12/1/2011 |
| Q: Well, here we go....I have been dating a guy and we're headed for our 6th date. On a side note what ... A: Jamie, I thank you for answering my questions. They were not rhetorical. I was hoping to read your ... | |
| Beginning and Ending | 11/30/2011 |
| Q: Well, here we go....I have been dating a guy and we're headed for our 6th date. On a side note what ... A: So, you've had six dates, but how long have you dated, and did you know one another beforehand? How ... | |
| my girlfriends parents just got divorced...she asked for space...I need advice | 11/23/2011 |
| Q: My gf is like me in which she is very close to her family . We have been dating for 2 1/2-3 months. ... A: First, keep in mind that this relationship is still relatively new. Although you know each other, ... | |
| Giving Exciting Blowjobs | 11/18/2011 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year now and our sex life is so boring! My husband ... A: I don't know if I'm interpreting this correctly, but from what you have written, it sounds as though ... | |
| net relationship | 11/9/2011 |
| Q: my name is josef i'm 22 yo i know a girl she's the same age with me i've known her in the net and i ... A: You should see if you can meet this young lady face-to-face. You can only know someone so much over ... | |
| He wont let me spice up our sex life. | 11/8/2011 |
| Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and plan on being with him ... A: First, it's very common for the frequency of sex to diminish as we get more comfortable in our ... | |
| To Be, or not to be? | 11/2/2011 |
| Q: I'm asking for advice because I want to strengthen my relationship with my boyfriend and I need a ... A: I can't tell you for sure what's going on. Could be that he's tiring of the relationship or is ... | |
| getting past the constant arguing of who is doing more in the house | 10/21/2011 |
| Q: How do you get past the point in marriage where it's a big point of contention of who is doing more ... A: Most of the time when someone in a couple starts comparing who is doing more and who is doing less, ... | |
| How to make it past the break in a roller-coaster of relationship | 10/21/2011 |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months. It wasn't a very clean start, she had a boyfriend of 6 ... A: I think that the first issue is that she went from a long committed relationship straight to you. ... | |
| Not saying I love you anymore. | 10/20/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 yrs. We have broken up 2 times in the course of ... A: S., You can talk to the guy. Look, you've been together (on and off) for three years. Sit the guy ... | |
| Need some advice on a break!! | 10/20/2011 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, I am 26 and he has recently turned 28. Before I ... A: Victoria, I can't say if it's you or not, but I can surmise that he is being pulled in two ... | |
| Need some advice on a break!! | 10/19/2011 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, I am 26 and he has recently turned 28. Before I ... A: I think he is sending mixed messages. I would bet that emotionally he wants to be with you. he wants ... | |
| Fighting about kids | 10/18/2011 |
| Q: I have an amazing 1-year plus relationship with the guy of my dreams. He is the best person I know, ... A: Here's the deal. If you are ABSOLUTELY sure that you will never want to have kids, and if he ... | |
| obstacle | 10/17/2011 |
| Q: I recently met a woman whilst working overseas. We spent 6 months together, and in that time, to the ... A: Yes, I would be a bit cautious, here. The first red light was when she said that her family still ... | |
| Problem in relationship | 10/10/2011 |
| Q: We write as a couple, and we will try to summarize our current problem, although it is not easy to ... A: This is the first couple message I have ever had the privilege of responding to. So, the first and ... | |
| relaionship | 10/4/2011 |
| Q: i have been in a relationship for about 6 months and i have recently felt like i do not enjoy the ... A: I think the biggest factor here is that you are no longer in the honeymoon stage. Read more on this ... | |
| what to make out of this? | 10/3/2011 |
| Q: ok so my ex boyfriend told me that he really cares about me, that im def the type of girl for him ... A: Tell me first why he's your ex. What happened? How long did you date? How long have you been apart? ... | |
| Actions speak louder than words, and my boyfriend says he loves me, but does not want to spend time with me | 9/25/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have reached a crossroads, and I would like some outside perspective... I am 26, ... A: You are not necessarily wasting your time. The guy says he loves you, but it's true. He may be ... | |
| Breaking up | 9/23/2011 |
| Q: I know this doesn't exactly fit the description you set, but I felt you already knew much about my ... A: Gabriel, I am so sorry that you are going through this. It's an awful feeling. You feel betrayed ... | |
| Girlfriend losing interest - 2 | 9/8/2011 |
| Q: I enjoyed your advice from a few weeks ago, so I decided to come back for more, hope you don't mind. ... A: Gabriel, I can't tell you what will happen or what she's feeling. I can tell you though that it can ... | |
| Break | 9/7/2011 |
| Q: This past Monday my boyfriend of 10 months and I decided to go on a break. 2 weeks prior to Monday, ... A: A break can be the BEST thing for a relationship... but that's not a guarantee. I would like you to ... | |
| realy in prob. | 9/4/2011 |
| Q: sir i got a relation with a girl,she was already engaged but i do love her, now she had broke up ... A: Danish, I know it's tough to prepare for exams when your heart is concerned about being in love. ... | |
| love problems | 9/2/2011 |
| Q: I been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. But before we were best friends for about 2 years. In ... A: The great thing is that you are in a relationship with your best friend. So often, these are the ... | |
| What to do , what to do... | 9/1/2011 |
| Q: Leon, First of all hope u are well & thank you. Your advise has been amazing. and after just ... A: Joel, I am so happy that your patience has paid off. I don't know what kind of relationship you ... | |
| realy in prob. | 8/31/2011 |
| Q: sir i got a relation with a girl,she was already engaged but i do love her, now she had broke up ... A: I don't think you will like my answer, but you need to give her some time if you are to ever have a ... | |
| I dont know what to do | 8/28/2011 |
| Q: my name is kristina and i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, who is n the US army, for ... A: Look, from where I am sitting, this is pretty much a no-brainer: either you two go get some serious ... | |
| Girlfriend losing interest | 8/27/2011 |
| Q: I'll start with some info, then move on to my questions. I'm 17 and am currently in a 17 month ... A: Let me first start with this report about passion fading ... | |
| want her so badly | 8/18/2011 |
| Q: I loved a girl who was already engaged for almost 2 years.she was in contact with me because she ... A: Danish, Then, I suggest you tell her that you would love to marry her at some point, but you want ... | |
| engagement pressure | 8/17/2011 |
| Q: my name is Stacee and I am 22 years old living in New York City. I am a senior at my last year in ... A: I don't want to take sides, but I do want to offer you the perspective that he may have in this ... | |
| Can 'friends' lead back to something more? | 8/12/2011 |
| Q: So I've met this girl last summer, and we've been seeing each other casually on and off since then. ... A: Cody, I have a feeling that there is something in her past that you don't know about, or that she ... | |
| Jealousy and Communication | 8/10/2011 |
| Q: I originally sent this question to Sharon Crandall, but also want a your perspective. My boyfriend ... A: The Bandaid for this situation is for you to invite your boyfriend to come along with you as long as ... | |
| Can 'friends' lead back to something more? | 8/9/2011 |
| Q: So I've met this girl last summer, and we've been seeing each other casually on and off since then. ... A: Cody, She does sound as though her life is very busy and she does have many responsibilities, but I ... | |
| is there any hope? | 8/9/2011 |
| Q: Im 29 and have been with my girl (23) for more than 2 yrs now. we were really gud friends for almost ... A: I know it hurts you and that you want her back, but it's obvious this is the best thing right now. I ... | |
| want her so badly | 8/8/2011 |
| Q: I loved a girl who was already engaged for almost 2 years.she was in contact with me because she ... A: Danish, Have you met her face-to-face? -- Leon Scott Baxter (America's Romance Guru) Author of ... | |
| love relation ship | 8/7/2011 |
| Q: she came to her home after 6 months, and she was from same located where i shifted, we had ... A: You know exactly what to do. You brain is telling you something is not right, but your heart doesn't ... | |
| want her so badly | 8/6/2011 |
| Q: I loved a girl who was already engaged for almost 2 years.she was in contact with me because she ... A: I'm a little confused. Let me tell you what I think I understand: She was engaged for two years, ... | |
| Can 'friends' lead back to something more? | 8/4/2011 |
| Q: So I've met this girl last summer, and we've been seeing each other casually on and off since then. ... A: You should only take her up on the "friends" thing if you think you can handle being only friends. ... | |
| My distant love with married man | 8/3/2011 |
| Q: I do appreciate your answer to other persons. Your answers are useful for me and I want to ask ... A: You probably won't like what I have to say, but I am going to be open and honest with you. This man ... | |
| My relationship are not like we used to be. | 7/23/2011 |
| Q: Greetings, i would like to save my relationship,but i'm not sure if its worth saving it or not. the ... A: Izura, You say you want to build the spark back, but that's not the real issue. Your real issue is ... | |
| My relationship are not like we used to be. | 7/19/2011 |
| Q: Greetings, i would like to save my relationship,but i'm not sure if its worth saving it or not. the ... A: Before I address your question, I need to know if you have contacted me before. Your name is ... | |
| me and my girlfriend were planning on moving into a new place, but now she just wants to move | 7/11/2011 |
| Q: me and my girl have been living together for over a year now, and we have had our problems through ... A: First, you should realize that there are many ways to date and have romantic times on a budget. ... | |
| I've i lost her??? | 7/8/2011 |
| Q: Well, im dating this girl for over 3months now. she was my junior way back in school, we met on face ... A: Okay, a few things here. First, it's not uncommon for someone to feel that they have found "the one" ... | |
| My boyfriend and I are falling apart | 7/7/2011 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up for about 4 months and just recently got ... A: Wow, there are a lot of issues going on with your relationship. First, I am soooo glad that you ... | |
| Long distance now living together | 7/5/2011 |
| Q: Mr. Baxter, My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. we spent everyday together ... A: Mae, As for having to take medication, you are an adult and you get to decide to take meds or not. ... | |
| Long distance now living together | 7/4/2011 |
| Q: Mr. Baxter, My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. we spent everyday together ... A: First let me show you a couple of reports. The first is about why long-distance relationships are ... | |
| Slowly going downhill... | 7/3/2011 |
| Q: I think this is going to be pretty long, but I am in desperate need advice other than my ... A: I don't doubt that he is a great guy and that he really loves you. I bet he really does men it when ... | |
| will this make my relationship stronger | 6/24/2011 |
| Q: I met someone online in november..and he proclaimed his love for me within a month of the ... A: I'd love to know a few things. Have you two ever met face-to-face? How old are each of you? Have ... | |
| Best way to get her re-attracted to me? | 6/24/2011 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I were dating for almost three years and had our share of ups and downs which ... A: I think contacting her via snail mail might be the best way to go. And, having her birthday coming ... | |
| Oral/Sex early in relationship ? | 6/21/2011 |
| Q: Is sex or oral sex bad to do early in a new relationship ? A: I think that if you are shooting for a real relationship and not just an opportunity to get sexual, ... | |
| Girl is so distant.... | 6/20/2011 |
| Q: First off let me tell you that your advice has helped me so much!!!! as I am sure it has done the ... A: Joel, I think that it's tough for both of you for different reasons. She is dealing with loss and ... | |
| Communication Blocks | 6/15/2011 |
| Q: I just don't know what to do. My main issue is communication problems but there are situations that ... A: So, let me start by saying that I may be a little out of my element here, because from your ... | |
| Don't know what to do | 6/10/2011 |
| Q: So me and my boyfriend have been on and off since march of '10 but have been dating since '08. The ... A: So, it's a bummer that he cheated on you with two young ladies in March. That's not long ago. The ... | |
| Lying, personality disorder or both? | 6/7/2011 |
| Q: My wife cheated with a co worker. Thousands of texts per month were exchanged. After I found out she ... A: I can't tell you if she has a personality disorder or not, but I can tell you, that if you didn't ... | |
| Boredom in Relationship | 6/7/2011 |
| Q: I am 18 years old with a same age boyfriend.We have been together for almost two years. When we ... A: It sounds like you really care about this guy and don't want to lose the comfort you have ... | |
| prob with ma gal | 6/6/2011 |
| Q: How to Impress a Girl Again After a Small Fight.. How 2 Prevent Her from Choosing Another Guy? she's ... A: I need to know a little more, please. How long have you dated? How old are the two of you? Have you ... | |
| Romantic ideas for a long term relationship | 6/5/2011 |
| Q: I'm 16, and my girlfriend moved to singapore. (i live in england) and since she's going to come to ... A: I admire your dedication to one another and your vow to hang in there for one another. Long-distance ... | |
| Wokring things out with Girlfriend | 6/4/2011 |
| Q: my name is Chris I'm kinda at my wits end for helping my girlfriend's depression at the moment we ... A: Chris, But, I think that if she's going through depression, your attempts don't work and she may ... | |
| Wokring things out with Girlfriend | 6/4/2011 |
| Q: my name is Chris I'm kinda at my wits end for helping my girlfriend's depression at the moment we ... A: First, let me start by offering you this report on long-distance relationships (LDRs) and why they ... | |
| strengthening my marriage | 6/2/2011 |
| Q: Mike and I are newly weds. He's in the marines and stationed in California. I'm here in his home ... A: There are two issues that need to be addressed here: 1) trust, and 2) distance. Let's start with ... | |
| My Relationship | 6/1/2011 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months & 6 days now. Before we got together we used to spend a ... A: Let me just get one thing clear, what would be the point of cheating? Would you do it to hurt him? ... | |
| what to do now | 6/1/2011 |
| Q: I am hoping that you can help me with an issue i am facing. I (D) am 27 years old and so is my wife ... A: Wow, that's what nighttime evening dramas are made of. I think the best thing you could have done at ... | |
| Confused about what my husband has been doing? | 5/30/2011 |
| Q: We are a young white couple both in our late 20s. I have been very confused lately. My husband and I ... A: First, let me explain that watching porn and having a great sex life are not related in a man's ... | |
| are we okay? | 5/28/2011 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating since last august, and have "officially" been a couple since ... A: It's really tough for most couples to start another serious relationship when they've recently come ... | |
| Best Way Forward? | 5/27/2011 |
| Q: Ok, here's the situation. My SO has been acting off since January. He says he feels like he's there ... A: Meah, Please forgive my mental lapse. Here's the link ... | |
| Love | 5/25/2011 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been on and off for 3 years now, at first we were together for 1 year, but ... A: Let me just start with my two-cents regarding psychics. They may be interesting, but I wouldn't put ... | |
| Should i reconsider about this relationship? | 5/25/2011 |
| Q: Greetings, I have been dating this guy for 3 years and by the end of this year, we are planning to ... A: The short answer to yourhe is not to be trusted (at least not yet). The long version: give me a ... | |
| Best Way Forward? | 5/24/2011 |
| Q: Ok, here's the situation. My SO has been acting off since January. He says he feels like he's there ... A: It sounds like he is taking on the role of the martyr. "Poor me. I do everything for everyone and no ... | |
| Sudden "Weirdness" | 5/21/2011 |
| Q: Alright, so I asked this boy I like to Prom a while back. A week or so later he asked me out. So ... A: First, let me say that your comment, though just a joke, touched something in him because it was ... | |
| Girl is so distant.... | 5/20/2011 |
| Q: First off let me tell you that your advice has helped me so much!!!! as I am sure it has done the ... A: Joel, It's a bummer for you, but much more for her. Her step-dad has just died and her mom is ... | |
| add on to question sorry | 5/18/2011 |
| Q: Hey Leon, When she said if you were fucking normal things would be different.. How can we interpret ... A: RT, I'm going answer both of your posts here. You don't need to give her a final good-bye letter. ... | |
| On a break: it's complicated | 5/17/2011 |
| Q: I am 32 and have been separated from my wife for a year and 3 months(Feb 2010). We are now in the ... A: Mark, First of all, how could you have chosen her first, when you didn't even know her when you ... | |
| Why doesn't he want to see me? | 5/16/2011 |
| Q: I met a man two months ago, he asked me out and very quickly the relationship developed to a deep ... A: Lucy, That "honeymoon stage" is only a general average. Some couples will extend that honeymoon ... | |
| Why doesn't he want to see me? | 5/14/2011 |
| Q: I met a man two months ago, he asked me out and very quickly the relationship developed to a deep ... A: I wish I could tell you what was really going on, but, like you, I don't know. I can tell you, ... | |
| On a break: it's complicated | 5/12/2011 |
| Q: I am 32 and have been separated from my wife for a year and 3 months(Feb 2010). We are now in the ... A: It's kind of funny that you are considering putting restrictions on her choice to kiss someone when ... | |
| boyfriend won't give me a key.. | 5/2/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, he bought a house 8 months ago- and I stay ... A: My first concern is that he has something to hide. Then, on second thought it could be he's just not ... | |
| Paranoia | 4/30/2011 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend were together for nearly two years, and all through that time I was extremely ... A: If the two of you had been together for awhile and the paranoia started after you two had ... | |
| honest to goodness | 4/28/2011 |
| Q: Three important keys to any relationship are communication, trust, honesty and the act of ... A: First off, I understand your concern with trust. Although things are improving, because what she had ... | |
| finding myself again | 4/22/2011 |
| Q: I met the man of my dreams again after 20 something years.. He was back in my life and we were ... A: Crying, Of course you wonder, but think about it. You have a memory of the man he used to be. It's ... | |
| love | 4/21/2011 |
| Q: my boyfriend wont find time for me......he says he is busy like playing games,watching ... A: Sameera, Have you considered that these changes have to do with the fact that he needs money? I ... | |
| problems in relations | 4/21/2011 |
| Q: hey i m soohan...... i and ma boyfriend are in relation......only sometime ago............ i just ... A: I would be glad to advise you, but I am not sure exactly what you are asking of me. How long have ... | |
| finding myself again | 4/21/2011 |
| Q: I met the man of my dreams again after 20 something years.. He was back in my life and we were ... A: I am so sorry to know how badly you have been hurt. But, I would like to know a little more. You say ... | |
| why he withdraw from me only | 4/20/2011 |
| Q: He and I have been close friends, we are always happy teasing each other and engaged in heavy ... A: Mandy, I think it's best for you to just ask him, "Are you repulsed by me, confused, or is the way ... | |
| relationship on the verge of breakdown | 4/19/2011 |
| Q: After three very happy years together with little conflict, my boyfriend and I had a huge row over ... A: It's got to be frustrating to know that he has been feeling that there have been issues, but didn't ... | |
| why he withdraw from me only | 4/18/2011 |
| Q: He and I have been close friends, we are always happy teasing each other and engaged in heavy ... A: Mandy, To be perfectly honest, I think he needs to mourn his loss and get over her before he spends ... | |
| love | 4/18/2011 |
| Q: my boyfriend wont find time for me......he says he is busy like playing games,watching ... A: Sameera, I don't understand "he did not agree" when it comes to breaking up. Unlike most things in ... | |
| Troubled... | 4/16/2011 |
| Q: I've been in my relationship with my guy for almost 2 years. but there are some stipulations to it. ... A: I can understand that you may be wary of trusting him seeing that he cheated on his partner with ... | |
| Ex girlfriend has got me confused. | 4/14/2011 |
| Q: Joel here again... I've been fighting to win my ex back for 6months now, I have written to you ... A: Joel, So, she appears to be holding all the cards at this point. She's in the driver's seat. She ... | |
| I am miserable | 4/14/2011 |
| Q: I am in a love with a man whom I met a year ago, our friendship developed into love and he immensely ... A: Gita, It's hard to answer your question if I don't know what he stopped communicating with you. If ... | |
| why he withdraw from me only | 4/14/2011 |
| Q: He and I have been close friends, we are always happy teasing each other and engaged in heavy ... A: So, you say you two are not a couple, but are merely friends. Yet, you two engage in heaving ... | |
| Ex girlfriend has got me confused. | 4/11/2011 |
| Q: Joel here again... I've been fighting to win my ex back for 6months now, I have written to you ... A: Joel, First, there really are no boundaries since you two have not set any. Both of you have the ... | |
| Confused with girlfriends attitude | 4/10/2011 |
| Q: I usually don't do this kind of things but I kinda feel that I'm running out of options and every ... A: So, one thing you learned is that moving in together too early can really rock a relationship. I am ... | |
| what to do now | 4/7/2011 |
| Q: ok so ive been talkn 2 dis girl 4 a while now & we havent officially called ourselves a couple yet ... A: Landon, I'm glad you confronted her and laid your cards on the table. Now she can relax a bit and ... | |
| Keeping alive relationship | 4/7/2011 |
| Q: Generaly i want to ask single question, before my question here is my situation i and my girlfriend ... A: Your relationship is not supposed to stay the same. It changes over time. That's natural. The ... | |
| what to do now | 4/7/2011 |
| Q: ok so ive been talkn 2 dis girl 4 a while now & we havent officially called ourselves a couple yet ... A: I know you want to strengthen this, but I don't think you are going to like my response, because ... | |
| what happened? | 4/6/2011 |
| Q: I'm a doctor and I recently met a man online who was a lawyer. He was very handsome and smart and ... A: First off, dating sites are so accepted and commonplace nowadays. They no longer have the stigma ... | |
| Ex girlfriend has got me confused. | 4/4/2011 |
| Q: Joel here again... I've been fighting to win my ex back for 6months now, I have written to you ... A: Joel, First of all, when you told me that you two slept together again, my first instinct was that ... | |
| Future Proposal? | 4/4/2011 |
| Q: I been seeing this guy for a long time and he happens to be a dear friend of mine. He has a hard ... A: Alison, I wish you the very best. :) -- Leon Scott Baxter (America's Romance Guru) Author of "A ... | |
| Future Proposal? | 4/3/2011 |
| Q: I been seeing this guy for a long time and he happens to be a dear friend of mine. He has a hard ... A: Alison, He may be hinting at the possibility to let you know that he is interested down the line, ... | |
| time and communication | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2yrs and are going to be 3 in July. we are a long distance ... A: I never think anyone is wrong for feeling certain ways. That's your right. Where I think someone may ... | |
| sad situation | 3/29/2011 |
| Q: I have lived with my boyfriend for 3 years now, both of us are over 40. We were great friends when ... A: A dwindling fire is not uncommon after three years. In fact, after 6 to 18 months into a new ... | |
| long distance relationship | 3/29/2011 |
| Q: ..i m in long dist relationship from last 3 years.my girlfriend loves me lot and i also love her ... A: Chetan, I think that when you don't speak with one another, you are missing an integral part of a ... | |
| long distance relationship | 3/27/2011 |
| Q: ..i m in long dist relationship from last 3 years.my girlfriend loves me lot and i also love her ... A: Long distance relationships (LDRs) are tough. There's no two ways about it. First, let me just offer ... | |
| A break up and is there still hope? | 3/27/2011 |
| Q: I put the history of our conversation below because I had to ask a new question. I hope I'm not ... A: Scott, Old habits are hard to break. She found herself falling into the old patterns and old roles ... | |
| Dying Relationship | 3/25/2011 |
| Q: I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Recently, our relationship has been ... A: There are a couple of things working against you here. The first you already know; your off hours ... | |
| A break up and is there still hope? | 3/23/2011 |
| Q: I'll make this as short as possible but still try and get the point across. About two weeks ago my ... A: Scott, I don't think that there is a hidden message here. She sounds as though she doesn't want to ... | |
| marital storm | 3/21/2011 |
| Q: i have been married to my husband for 5 years but have known him for 10.in the beginning it was ... A: You have worded it so very well. I hear no blame in your description, just a tired, dull pain, one ... | |
| Does my girlfriend not appreciate me so much? Or is she just shy | 3/20/2011 |
| Q: I don't know if i'm just being insecure, the girl i love is shy or she's leading me on... I'm 16, ... A: First, you need to realize that she is having a totally different experience than you, so you can't ... | |
| problems with girlfriend | 3/19/2011 |
| Q: Let me get straight tot he point, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 and a half months ... A: Max, This sounds like a bigger issue than you can solve on your own, and it may be too much for ... | |
| I like it straight up..but, that's not how it always works. | 3/18/2011 |
| Q: A couple months ago I started online dating. I met someone who is a Doctor and lives about an hour ... A: My sentiments are the same. Let him know you want to see him and try to set something up. Then the ... | |
| win her back | 3/17/2011 |
| Q: My ex fiancee left me 4 months ago. We had been together for over 3 years and have 2 daughters ... A: I'm not so sure it's about what you can do to win her back. I would wager that she has some ... | |
| I like it straight up..but, that's not how it always works. | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: A couple months ago I started online dating. I met someone who is a Doctor and lives about an hour ... A: So, a couple things may be going on here. First, you may need to take him at his word. Could be that ... | |
| A break up and is there still hope? | 3/16/2011 |
| Q: I'll make this as short as possible but still try and get the point across. About two weeks ago my ... A: Scott, You say the blow-ups take place AFTER a break-up. Other than the most recent, then what are ... | |
| Holding On | 3/14/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year now. We have taken two breaks, lasting roughly a ... A: I wonder what it was that allowed this relationship to take off in the first place. Did it work at ... | |
| problems with girlfriend | 3/14/2011 |
| Q: Let me get straight tot he point, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 and a half months ... A: Max, In no way was I implying that you have been abusive. I asked if there was anything else, ... | |
| A break up and is there still hope? | 3/13/2011 |
| Q: I'll make this as short as possible but still try and get the point across. About two weeks ago my ... A: I can't tell you if this break will be like the last ones. It could be that you two are just going ... | |
| problems with girlfriend | 3/11/2011 |
| Q: Let me get straight tot he point, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 and a half months ... A: There are a few things that you touch upon here. First, you say you are romantic, but she doesn't ... | |
| Advanced dating | 3/7/2011 |
| Q: how're you doing?It's Siavash.Nice to have you here! Already I have had 4 dates with this girl ... A: Personally, I love to suggest dates that include a bit of adventure. I don't know what you two ... | |
| Does my Ex really want to be just Friends? | 3/7/2011 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend of roughly 2 years, broke up about 5 months ago. We broke up because i broke ... A: Joel, I think you should ask her what she wants. Ask her if it's okay you call now and again, or ... | |
| Just started seeing her... | 3/5/2011 |
| Q: It has been a week and we have been seeing eachother almost every day. Four days ago on the third ... A: Jeff, It's a learning opportunity. Yes, maybe you two had too much to drink. Yes, next time you ... | |
| Trust Issues | 3/4/2011 |
| Q: I’ve been with my girl about a year now and it has been up and down having broken up 3 times in the ... A: There are two things going on here. First, you have trust issues with her. Although she has made ... | |
| Does my Ex really want to be just Friends? | 3/3/2011 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend of roughly 2 years, broke up about 5 months ago. We broke up because i broke ... A: Yes, she really means this. Right now she can't deal with having a relationship with you. Although ... | |
| How to Get Him out of His Cave? | 2/26/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been having some communication issues which we both mutually agreed to work ... A: Abi, Is there more going on? What do you know about his emotional stability? Has he always felt ... | |
| Just started seeing her... | 2/25/2011 |
| Q: It has been a week and we have been seeing eachother almost every day. Four days ago on the third ... A: I thought you were going to ask me about your child or hers, or maybe about the bisexaul issue or ... | |
| my relationship | 2/22/2011 |
| Q: i feel recently my relationship with my boyfriend has lost its buz we always argue and if we not ... A: Give me a little info first. How long have you dated? When did the change take place? How old are ... | |
| Confused | 2/21/2011 |
| Q: I am in a relationship for only 2 weeks. I already know half of his friends, his cousin and he ... A: You asked how to save this relationship. Please don't take this wrong, but it's not quite developed ... | |
| i ran out of things to say | 2/13/2011 |
| Q: ! I'm dating this guy.we have been dating for four months. I always have the same problem, I run ... A: The reason you have so much trouble talking around him is because your filter is on full blast. you ... | |
| Is it just me? | 2/9/2011 |
| Q: My name is Keke and I am 20 years old and my boyfriend is also 20. We have been together for almost ... A: When I first started reading this I got the impression that your boyfriend was "growing up". He's in ... | |
| I really don't know what's wrong?! | 2/8/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 13 months now. And I know I love him, and want our ... A: It sounds as though you love one another, but are at different stages of life. he appears to still ... | |
| how to continue a good relationship... | 2/8/2011 |
| Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend now for just about 6 months, however it seems to have gone ... A: I love that you are putting out the effort in this relationship. You have control over that. You ... | |
| my boyfriend is not as affectionate as he once was | 2/7/2011 |
| Q: I have a feeling that you may hear this from many woman as it seems to be a common issue in ... A: Maybe he just needs a reminder. When you two were first dating in the Honeymoon stage, passion and ... | |
| Re: Relationship Crossroad | 2/6/2011 |
| Q: It is always appreciated, and very helpful. Perhaps the main problem then is that neither of us have ... A: Cora, If trust is the issue, first you need to be open with him and NOT tell him you have moved on ... | |
| After a few dates, he says distance is too much? | 2/6/2011 |
| Q: I began dating a new guy about six weeks ago. We live about an hour apart. Initially, he said the ... A: I would have to guess that it was something else, only because the relationship was still so new. ... | |
| Relationship Crossroad | 2/2/2011 |
| Q: I should preface all by saying, that while I am confused i love my boyfriend and I am sure beyond ... A: First, I would be concerned with him having texted other girls and joining a dating site behind your ... | |
| rough patch in serious relationship | 1/30/2011 |
| Q: I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We definitely are in love with ... A: You are in such a normal situation, but I know that it doesn't feel right. Most couples go through ... | |
| Help me please. | 1/29/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. However, he says things feel different. He ... A: If you two are to conquer this obstacle in your relationship, it really needs to be identified. ... | |
| Getting my feelings across | 1/27/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I started dating 3 years ago at the end of highschool, and go to college together ... A: A strange thing happens when we go off to college from high school. It's a big step in our lives. We ... | |
| Help me and my boyfriend are constantly arguing | 1/25/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for just over six months. At first everything was amazing, we ... A: Usually between 6 and 18 months the passion and excitement of a relationship dwindles. There's a ... | |
| need help with relationship | 1/23/2011 |
| Q: i really need help with my relationship me and my gf have been together for 8 months long distance ... A: So, you are being hit with a double-whammee. You may be experiencing an end to the honeymoon stage ... | |
| My girlfriend and I can't get along | 1/22/2011 |
| Q: Me an my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 7 months now. Right around Christmas we ... A: Joe, I know you told me not to reply. But, I just wanted to tell you that it's going to be rough ... | |
| I have forgiven, but not forgotten! | 1/21/2011 |
| Q: To start, I will give you the basic demographics. I am 19 years old guy and I am dating an 18 year ... A: First, why push her to find out if more happened than she claimed? If she's telling the truth, you ... | |
| my relationship is failing | 1/19/2011 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 4 months we have been living together for ... A: That's pretty common to find the spark missing in your relationship right around the 9 month mark. ... | |
| The thrill is gone | 1/19/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and met under sucky circumstances (he was ... A: I don't necessarily think that your differences (age, ethnicities, etc.) are the cause to your ... | |
| My girlfriend and I can't get along | 1/18/2011 |
| Q: Me an my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 7 months now. Right around Christmas we ... A: Joe, Glad to hear things seem to be panning out. Let me know how everything goes. Leon Scott ... | |
| My girlfriend and I can't get along | 1/17/2011 |
| Q: Me an my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 7 months now. Right around Christmas we ... A: It sounds as though the two of you may need a little official time apart from one another to ... | |
| Relationship downward spiral | 1/15/2011 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4years, our anniversary just passed. We are almost ... A: It sounds as though you two truly love one another and when things are god, their great. yet , on ... | |
| Negative behavior | 1/14/2011 |
| Q: I have been having probelms with my relationship with my gf. Weve been dating seriously for 2 years, ... A: Here's the deal. You are not going to change and NEVER go back the way you were. Anxiety disorders ... | |
| Something weird happened... | 1/14/2011 |
| Q: Yes time will certainly tell, however I may see him again this summer since I been planning on ... A: Alison, Yes, let me know when you know. -- Leon Scott Baxter (America's Romance Guru) Author of ... | |
| troubled times | 1/14/2011 |
| Q: I was just wondering if it would be possible for you to help me out or at least lead me in the right ... A: Breaking up is NOT the answer to strengthening your relationship, but taking a break very well may ... | |
| Something weird happened... | 1/13/2011 |
| Q: Yes time will certainly tell, however I may see him again this summer since I been planning on ... A: Alison, You may be right. Could have been him, and he got nervous, but also be sure you consider ... | |
| Am I playing the fool? | 1/12/2011 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for 2 years now. I worked with my boyfriend for 2 years before we ... A: The honeymoon stage generally lasts 6 to 18 months, and, as you have discovered, can be quite a jar ... | |
| My Ex | 1/11/2011 |
| Q: Hey, well I need some help if you can offer, my ex well we was going to get back together my mate ... A: You have every right to see someone else. Your life is not slated to stop because he has ... | |
| Another update... | 1/11/2011 |
| Q: Hey I saw him today. I looked very nice as always but not over doing it you know what I mean. I wore ... A: Alison, I think time will tell. You questions will be answered and your curiosity satiated in due ... | |
| Another update... | 1/11/2011 |
| Q: Hey I saw him today. I looked very nice as always but not over doing it you know what I mean. I wore ... A: Alison, If he wanted to have you alone, wouldn't he have asked you to return before April? If you ... | |
| Another update... | 1/10/2011 |
| Q: Hey I saw him today. I looked very nice as always but not over doing it you know what I mean. I wore ... A: Alison, I think that maybe he's uncomfortable because there's this tension between the two of you ... | |
| how to continue a good relationship... | 1/10/2011 |
| Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend now for just about 6 months, however it seems to have gone ... A: Well, you are right. It sounds as though the honeymoon stage is over, but that's okay. It's normal, ... | |
| Confused | 1/9/2011 |
| Q: Let me start by giving you a little bit of background information on my situation. My bf and I have ... A: There are many variables in this equation. Let me start by saying that you two were smitten at ... | |
| x-boyfriend problems | 1/9/2011 |
| Q: my x-boyfriend broke up with me almost one year ago. We dated for two months. At one point, after ... A: I think your ex is attracted to you enough to want to have sex with you with no strings attached. ... | |
| unhappy | 1/7/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. He is 22 and Im 20. Latley Ive been having ... A: Is he working on moving out of the house? I think hat might give him a broader perspective of the ... | |
| Yes it is great. | 1/7/2011 |
| Q: Yes it is great. I sort of feel bad that I left Michael behind. He still calls me but we can be ... A: Alison, Yes, keep me updated. Best of luck. -- Leon Scott Baxter (America's Romance Guru) Author ... | |
| Yes it is great. | 1/7/2011 |
| Q: Yes it is great. I sort of feel bad that I left Michael behind. He still calls me but we can be ... A: Alison, You are correct. Sex is easy. Connection is invaluable. I know you know what your DON'T ... | |
| Yes it is great. | 1/6/2011 |
| Q: Yes it is great. I sort of feel bad that I left Michael behind. He still calls me but we can be ... A: Alison, I'm so pleased that you were able to move on passed Michael. And, it appears that you are ... | |
| Communication | 1/5/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend has recently stopped talking to me. He won't relpy to texts or inboxes and i don't know ... A: Why not call him or stop by his home? Leon Scott Baxter (America's Romance Guru) Author of "A ... | |
| To break up. Or not to break up. | 1/4/2011 |
| Q: I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for five months. I’m sixteen in March, and he’s eighteen in ... A: As I read your post I was hearing all of the reasons you were giving me for breaking up with him. It ... | |
| Update. | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: This is Alison again and I wanted to give you an update. :) Michael and I started speaking to one ... A: Ali, I am so happy for you. What I love most about your update is that you realize that even if ... | |
| Bruce 12-2-69 | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: will he ask me to marry him or will he leave me for another woman. my bday is 04-15-63 . Thank you ... A: Sorry Dina, I don't do that kind of romance advise. I can't read the stars or use numerology nor ... | |
| Drifting Apart for no apparent reason? | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for the last 16 months. I have my bachelor's in accounting, and he is ... A: First I think it's interesting that although you both feel as though something is "wrong" neither of ... | |
| Girlfriend has called a Break. | 1/2/2011 |
| Q: my name is Nick and I have been dating this girl for 4 months now, seeing her for about 10. So, on ... A: It sounds as though she cares for you, but is conflicted because she feels smothered. So, she wants ... | |
| relationships | 1/2/2011 |
| Q: I hope you can help. Well the thing is I've been on and of with this quy since may our relationships ... A: You two are not ready to make this a serious relationship just yet. You are trying too hard and ... | |
| What to do? | 12/30/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now and we are already having some ... A: It sounds as though the two of you are great when together, but it's the time apart that you are at ... | |
| How do I get my girlfriend back and get our lives back on track | 12/30/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating this girl for about 2 yrs. She was separated from her husband and he died and she ... A: First off, I am so glad she declined your proposal. You two have some real issues and if you got ... | |
| How to stop loving him, wanting,thinking about | 12/30/2010 |
| Q: My husband of twenty years is divorcing me right now. He says he wants a change. Whatever. He ... A: Silky, I know it's hard to go cold turkey. But, if you are going to try and remove him from your ... | |
| Please help | 12/28/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend of 3 years have asked me for space almost 3 months ago. He has major trust issues due ... A: I think that by you two backing off a little is probably enough and a good idea. I'm thinking ... | |
| gifts | 12/12/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend Zac and I have been together for a year and we have been best friends for 3 years for ... A: As you say, it's not important what others think of your relationship. So, it's obvious that what's ... | |
| Why isn't he that interested any-more? | 12/9/2010 |
| Q: Hey my name is Jennie, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now, we have a son ... A: Am I right in assuming that you two are a young couple? It takes men longer to mature than women, so ... | |
| Unsure. | 12/8/2010 |
| Q: I'm 17 and I'm in my first relationship with this boy. It's been 3 months, but it hasn't been a ... A: It sounds to me that you're just out to spend some time with a great guy, but you are not ... | |
| Update. | 12/6/2010 |
| Q: This is Alison again and I wanted to give you an update. :) Michael and I started speaking to one ... A: Alison, I firmly and adamantly believe that if is meant to be, your relationship will come out on ... | |
| How to stop loving him, wanting,thinking about | 12/5/2010 |
| Q: My husband of twenty years is divorcing me right now. He says he wants a change. Whatever. He ... A: In your post to me you mentioned many things about yourself or your life that you "hate". You have ... | |
| keepin the Flame Alive | 12/2/2010 |
| Q: my name is kenya i have been talking to this i guy i met we've become very close. our relationship ... A: Did you look at that like I gave you? I think your best bet is to just continue to get to know him ... | |
| keepin the Flame Alive | 12/1/2010 |
| Q: my name is kenya i have been talking to this i guy i met we've become very close. our relationship ... A: Did you know him before he was incarcerated? I ask because like any relationship where you have not ... | |
| canceling a wedding... | 12/1/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2.5 years. We were engaged in June 2009 and the wedding was ... A: First I am sorry for your lost. I lost my grandmother five weeks ago, and I don't think I could have ... | |
| Ridiculous part of my love life | 11/25/2010 |
| Q: Leon.. Call me Bela.. I'm well educated girl and had well educated ex-boyfriend (we are in same ... A: Bela, Because he is emotionally attached to you does not necessarily mean that he still wants you. ... | |
| Failing relationship Please HELP | 11/24/2010 |
| Q: I Hope you can help me, well i first started talking to a guy online then he came to my country ... A: First, let me scream this to you: "DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH HIM ANY TIME SOON!" You two are not ready ... | |
| Is it me or is it her? | 11/24/2010 |
| Q: i hope i can know and understand my situation better by sharing what i have been experiencing for ... A: That battle between heart and head is quite tough. The heart is strong, but often the head is ... | |
| relationship | 11/23/2010 |
| Q: I am 13 years old and I've bin dating this guy for almost a year. I fell that the spark in are ... A: If you have been dating for a year and you are 13, this relationship has been a big part of your ... | |
| Ridiculous part of my love life | 11/22/2010 |
| Q: Leon.. Call me Bela.. I'm well educated girl and had well educated ex-boyfriend (we are in same ... A: It sounds as though your relationship was a good one, but that something was going on in his head ... | |
| My girlfriend feels bad about talking to her friends while I'm around. | 11/21/2010 |
| Q: !! I really appreciate it! :) :) :) Recently this past week up until today my girlfriend has been ... A: It's strange, but with high school relationships, sometimes things like this happen. There's this ... | |
| Update. | 11/20/2010 |
| Q: This is Alison again and I wanted to give you an update. :) Michael and I started speaking to one ... A: Alison, I can't tell you how Michael will react when he sees he may lose you. But, really the ... | |
| Bad moods | 11/17/2010 |
| Q: I met and have been seeing a really great guy for almost 4 months, and in this time there have been ... A: I would be really concerned if he is already feeling comfortable enough with you to be acting this ... | |
| RELATIONSHIP | 11/9/2010 |
| Q: "My name is Yusra. I am an 19 years girl but I am in love with a 26 years Mman he is a very good ... A: What you need to do is make a decision based on what YOU want, need, and feel, not what you think ... | |
| I have boyfriend problems, a little help? | 11/6/2010 |
| Q: Ok so here's the problem: I just went out with this guy, name Steven. Before we went out, we were ... A: Before I offer any advice,let me know a few things that I think will make a difference: 1) How old ... | |
| Should I stay in this relationship? | 11/4/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and we have a 10 month old son. In the ... A: It sounds to me that you two are not ready for a really serious, committed relationship, but because ... | |
| Conflicting feelings | 11/4/2010 |
| Q: I’m writing you for advice because I feel like giving up. My girlfriend and I have drifted apart ... A: First off, I'm going to give it to you straight. You need to step it up in the maturity arena. You ... | |
| how do i fix us? | 10/25/2010 |
| Q: I’m a 25yr old female and my BF is 30. We’ve been to together for 7yrs, three of which have been ... A: So, there's a lot for me to comment on. First, if you've been dating seven years and he's only ... | |
| Follow up. Got in a huge fight. | 10/25/2010 |
| Q: Its me again and I wanted to update you on what is going on. I still haven't heard from him and he ... A: Allison, He either really doesn't want to make this relationship romantic again, or he does, but ... | |
| Question | 10/24/2010 |
| Q: I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks but we re not official or anything, and I am wondering ... A: It's perfectly okay to date other guys if you two have only been dating for a few weeks and since ... | |
| how to reconnect with the women i love | 10/19/2010 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend have a child together we got into trouble and are now on probation and she ... A: You need to let me in a little bit more as to what's going on. What do you mean you got into ... | |
| Phone Calls | 10/18/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now and I feel like we already have problems ... A: Jess, Well, here's the deal. You need to rise above his childish behavior, and not let him bring ... | |
| Phone Calls | 10/16/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now and I feel like we already have problems ... A: You can't make him do anything. Here's the deal. It sounds to me that he is just not the type to ... | |
| Getting the spark back | 10/13/2010 |
| Q: My wife and I have been separated for a year and she has seen other men during this time. We are now ... A: I am so pleased to hear that your relationship seems to have been made stronger through a break ... | |
| Boyfriend and I are going through a rough spot | 10/12/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and we have been very very happy for quite ... A: I'd love to know how long the two of you have been dating. Also, you say that you've gone through ... | |
| Confused | 10/11/2010 |
| Q: i'm a 22 years old female, my boyfriend is turning 26 in November, we met almost 3 years ago and ... A: First off, he may very well have been flirting with his coworker, but of course I can't be sure of ... | |
| Follow up. Got in a huge fight. | 10/11/2010 |
| Q: Its me again and I wanted to update you on what is going on. I still haven't heard from him and he ... A: Allison, It's important to have a balance of power in a relationship. If he is hoarding that ... | |
| i am loosing my boyfriend | 10/11/2010 |
| Q: i don't understand why i act like this but i do. Normally it is hard for me to get over stuff and i ... A: I want to know if that is only how you act with him or is this a pattern in your life? Have you ... | |
| Follow up. Got in a huge fight. | 10/10/2010 |
| Q: Its me again and I wanted to update you on what is going on. I still haven't heard from him and he ... A: Alison, First of all, Alison, I know you already know this, but don't call someone you are upset or ... | |
| Should this take a break? | 10/7/2010 |
| Q: my name is Rei and I am 21 years old. I have been with my boyfriend Stephen since I was 17 ( we are ... A: I am pretty familiar with OCD, and I am wondering if this quandary you are in, is really valid, if ... | |
| Got in a huge fight... | 10/2/2010 |
| Q: We went through a lot together and this is not the first time that we have gotten in a fight but ... A: Alison, He doesn't have the right to punish you. He is not your father. So, if he wants to attempt ... | |
| another twist to my story | 10/2/2010 |
| Q: You aleady know my situation quite well so I 'll cut to the chase. My wife invited this guy to our ... A: Chris, Sure, she could be feeling guilty. Or, maybe she's just proud of herself and wants praise ... | |
| Stuck | 10/1/2010 |
| Q: My goal in writing this question is to help me decide whether the dating relationship I'm currently ... A: Sid, As for question number one, if someone is treating you poorly and you accept it and take them ... | |
| Newlywed help | 10/1/2010 |
| Q: I'm 28 and married for a year. A few months ago my husband developed exzema on his lips and warts ... A: Christy, Again, I think the best thing to do is ask if he's been masturbating. That would explain ... | |
| Got in a huge fight... | 9/30/2010 |
| Q: We went through a lot together and this is not the first time that we have gotten in a fight but ... A: Alison, Let me ask you, what do YOU want to do? I know you love him, but you also know that this is ... | |
| How do I fix my dying relationship? | 9/30/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now, and he recently asked me to marry him. ... A: First, don't marry the guy... at least not yet. He may be great and you may love him, but there are ... | |
| I need your help with my relationship. | 9/29/2010 |
| Q: I am a freshman in high school and I am dating a senior. I love my boyfriend and he makes me so ... A: It's so hard when you are a teen to accept that your significant other can have friends of the ... | |
| will she text me | 9/29/2010 |
| Q: I have been seeing this girl for mounths we been up and down evey week yesterday she sayed she was ... A: You be patient and you wait and get yourself composed. Wait a few days. She should contact you. If ... | |
| confused | 9/29/2010 |
| Q: so i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. we get on brilliant, have had a few disagrements, ... A: Well, you seem ambivalent about a lot of little things, but the big picture reveals that you are in ... | |
| is it me? | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 16year old girl soon to be 17 and my boyfriend has just turned 20 I love him to bits and I ... A: If this is serious, and it sounds like it is, then you definitely need to communicate with him. ... | |
| When to give up or keep fighting | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: I am 22 years old and I have a 3 month old daughter. Her father is two years younger than me and I ... A: It sounds like you really understand the importance of raising your daughter in a strong family ... | |
| The hardest decision of my life | 9/27/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years (since I was 17, I am now 25). Overall we've had a good ... A: Why do you need to make such a drastic decision right now? You tell me you have a home together. ... | |
| Idk Help me | 9/27/2010 |
| Q: let me explain both our situations that we are in right now so you have more insite sorry this may ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend really has grown close to you quickly. From what you have told me I am ... | |
| Got in a huge fight... | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: We went through a lot together and this is not the first time that we have gotten in a fight but ... A: I don't think you need to grovel. You've apologized already. He knows you want to make amends, but ... | |
| Faith? | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: My name is Ruben and I live in Amsterdam. I'm 25 and I've never been in love or had a relationship ... A: It sounds like you met an incredible woman, but that was an amazing moment when two lives crossed ... | |
| advice for the past | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: I am currently in a relationship that I care very much about. However, my boyfriend is very upset ... A: So, if you two come from the same circle of friends, he knew at least a bit about your past going ... | |
| Is it too late to save?? | 9/25/2010 |
| Q: Yet again I have to ask you for your advice. I'm writing to ask you if my situation is salvageble ... A: Chris, You have been pushed too far, and as a result you went over the line. I know that you know ... | |
| Stuck | 9/24/2010 |
| Q: My goal in writing this question is to help me decide whether the dating relationship I'm currently ... A: from what you have told me, I would give him the benefit of the doubt. It sounds as though he's into ... | |
| I need a lot of help! FAST!!! | 9/22/2010 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for a bit more than 5 months now and she met like this other ... A: So, it sounds like she loves you, but is looking for the attention of someone else. that probably ... | |
| Army Relationship | 9/21/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend is in the U.S Army and away at Ft. Hood. We're within three hours of eachother but he ... A: Long distance relationships (LDRs) are notoriously tough, but not impossible. You just need to know ... | |
| Help? | 9/20/2010 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for the last two years. I really love this girl, she's become such a ... A: Long distance relationships are so hard to survive, but not impossible. It's because the two of you ... | |
| rebuilding confidence in my relationship | 9/16/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (of 5 years) went through a rocky time while I was pregnant for our son (now 5 ... A: Trust is a tough thing to get under control. It's so easy to lose, but can be tough to get back. I ... | |
| Sex less marriage | 9/16/2010 |
| Q: I am 50 years old and my wife is 45. We are married for 20 years but I dont find my wife sexually ... A: Laxman, Do you not find her attractive because of her size? The women you fantasize about, are they ... | |
| Sex less marriage | 9/15/2010 |
| Q: I am 50 years old and my wife is 45. We are married for 20 years but I dont find my wife sexually ... A: I have some questions first. Do both of you still have sexual urges? If so, what are you currently ... | |
| Need advice | 9/14/2010 |
| Q: I am single parent, having a daughter who is 6.5 yr old. Both of us stay together. I have been thru ... A: Madhvi, I think you should tell him what you told me. Your concern was that you don't see this ... | |
| can I be with my BF forever? | 9/14/2010 |
| Q: Im 37, I was married and divorced in 2007. And now, I've been in relationship for about 10 months. ... A: You are absolutely right. He's taking out what his exes did to him on you. They cheated, but he ... | |
| He's ready to change...now what? | 9/13/2010 |
| Q: My fiance and I are currently on a break--and now that he's faced with losing me, he really does ... A: First off, you should know that after 6 to 18 months in a relationship, very often the passion fades ... | |
| Need advice | 9/13/2010 |
| Q: I am single parent, having a daughter who is 6.5 yr old. Both of us stay together. I have been thru ... A: My concern is that you are drawn to a man who has told you he cannot commit to you and who already ... | |
| should i stay or go? | 9/5/2010 |
| Q: I'm not married but still in a relationship with my boyfriend,the father of my son. For now i've ... A: Let me start by telling you that although you should consider your family's opinions, ultimately ... | |
| Boyfriend in law school | 9/2/2010 |
| Q: my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 6 years. He recently started law school so we ... A: Have you talked with him about how you feel? That's your first step. You need to be sure to ... | |
| Help Us | 8/31/2010 |
| Q: I feel that my husband loves me but i am not sure if i feel it anymore. He feels so distance and not ... A: How long have you been together? When did this change start? Was it slow or sudden? How do you know ... | |
| Its Hard | 8/30/2010 |
| Q: Me and my gf have been together over 8 months and in the past i used to trip about petty stuff and i ... A: First off, it's hard to believe that she left you for a "minor incident". What else has been going ... | |
| army relationship | 8/30/2010 |
| Q: I just recently got back in touch with an old friend of mine. We have always had a thing for each ... A: I think that in this circumstance I would suggest you hold off on telling him you love him. It could ... | |
| i love my boyfriend but... | 8/29/2010 |
| Q: whenever i look online for "how to tell if he's your soul mate" or whatever there's always one that ... A: It's great that experts in the field of love, like myself, offer insight to couples about what true ... | |
| Lack of communication, intimacy , in new relationship | 8/27/2010 |
| Q: I just enter a new relationship, he only text message me. I never makes any efforts to call me on ... A: The most glaring statement you made in your correspondence to me was you suspect him to be a cheater ... | |
| Long distance relationship. | 8/25/2010 |
| Q: I come today to seeking help and advice for my relationship with my girlfriend. As the subject ... A: Yes, I certainly do. My suggestion is that the two of you DO something as quickly as possible. When ... | |
| fiance might not trust me? | 8/23/2010 |
| Q: I was just talking to my fiance on an instant messenger. Everything was going fine and our ... A: There's probably some other issue that's going on that you are not aware of. This incidental ... | |
| Lost Interest in sex | 8/21/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating a guy for about a year and half. We used to have sex a good amount, it felt like ... A: Sex is ALWAYS exciting at the beginning of a relationship, because it's new. you're with a new ... | |
| Long distance relationship. | 8/21/2010 |
| Q: I come today to seeking help and advice for my relationship with my girlfriend. As the subject ... A: Long distance relationships (LDRs) are ALWAYS tough. Please read this to get the whole scoop on why ... | |
| unaffection... | 8/21/2010 |
| Q: I'm 30 and my Girlfriend is 24. We have been together for just over 18 months. We moved in together ... A: There are a lot of variables to look at in your situation. First, I would be a bit wary if my 24 ... | |
| I don't know what to do | 8/21/2010 |
| Q: Hey, this is Claire. The same one that asked you about the whole boyfriend going to college next ... A: You are incredibly mature to have the control not to confront her. Yes, what she did was wrong, but ... | |
| Relationships | 8/15/2010 |
| Q: Well to start off, I'm 15 and I'm a Sophomore in high school. I've been with my boyfriend for almost ... A: I am going to be perfectly blunt with you. The situation you two are about to embark upon is very ... | |
| Is he with me through choice or weakness? | 8/13/2010 |
| Q: Il make it breif as possible. I am a 20 year old woman, in a year long relationship with a 30 year ... A: First, some questions: How long have you two dated? What indication has he given you that might ... | |
| How to get reassurance without seeming needy... | 8/12/2010 |
| Q: I am in a three-year relationship with a wonderful man. We are both in our late twenties, both ... A: It sounds as though things have been going well for quite some time. Now, that there are two new ... | |
| withdrawn angry boyfriend | 8/7/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (30s) have lived together for several yrs. His parents divorced when he was a ... A: Emily, Try the Saban Free Clinic. This is the new name of the LA Free clinics. They have free ... | |
| Can this relationship be saved? | 8/6/2010 |
| Q: I have been in a committed relationship for two years now. I'm uncertain of my boyfriend's ... A: It sounds to me as though he feels as though he is being pulled in two different directions. His ... | |
| withdrawn angry boyfriend | 8/5/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (30s) have lived together for several yrs. His parents divorced when he was a ... A: Emily, Look, you need to tell him that NOT getting help is guaranteed not to fix his predicament, ... | |
| Help | 8/4/2010 |
| Q: I am in a long distance relationship. My partner has many friends of the opposite sex (whom I do not ... A: To be honest, that question can't be answered with a blanket statement. It really depends on the ... | |
| Advise needed PLEASE | 8/3/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half I am 24 and he is 26. He lives 25 minutes away ... A: I think your boyfriend really likes you (if not loves you). But that's not enough, because I think ... | |
| 7 year relationship.. make it or break it | 7/29/2010 |
| Q: to start off with, my boyfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In ... A: The biggest issue here, I believe, is that you two have been a couple for one-third of your lives. ... | |
| We are falling apart. | 7/25/2010 |
| Q: My partner (25) and I (30) have a 2 year old daughter. My partner works away and is either home ... A: It sounds like you two have fallen into the old stand-by roles of a husband an wife. You take care ... | |
| amor e paixão | 7/24/2010 |
| Q: Eu comecei a gostar de uma pessoa do meu trabalho há quase um mês,quer dizer,eu percebi que estava ... A: Oi Everton, Se eu o entendo corretamente, soa como você sente-se que você perde interesse e ... | |
| withdrawn angry boyfriend | 7/22/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (30s) have lived together for several yrs. His parents divorced when he was a ... A: It appears that your boyfriend is a good guy with a good heart who wants to love you right, but he's ... | |
| can this marriage be saved | 7/20/2010 |
| Q: In August my husband and I will be married 7 years. You need to know that my children are my ... A: Lots of couples I know are experiencing problems right now in their relationships due to the ... | |
| Do I let him go | 7/15/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up. we have always been very open about talking about issues. He has ... A: It sounds like there are a couple of issues working against the two of you right now. First, he may ... | |
| self esteem and trust | 7/15/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 years or so and for the most part we have a very ... A: You should know right off the bat, that when a man is looking at porn, it absolutely does NOT ... | |
| is it me or is it her | 7/14/2010 |
| Q: iv been going with my girlfriend almost 3 years and iv put the biggest part into the hole thing. she ... A: So, can you tell me a few things first? How old are the two of you? What does going on the pill have ... | |
| He's not in love with me anymore | 7/14/2010 |
| Q: My name is Kathy and I am 21 years old. My fiance and I have been together since we were 14, and we ... A: You seem so understanding of this situation. So many others would be really angry and upset. I know ... | |
| Relationship problems! | 7/12/2010 |
| Q: Leon, My name Is Justin and Ive been with my girlfriend "who Is also my high school sweetheart"for a ... A: Yikes, couple of major faux pas, there, Justin. you've been lying to your girlfriend for no apparent ... | |
| Relationship | 7/11/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have dated for about four years now. we are both students and will graduate from ... A: He's right. If it's destiny's will, then the relationship will work-out. But, destiny is not a genie ... | |
| Compromising and being more involved | 7/10/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my fiance for almost 2 years and out of the blue he stopped talking to me for two ... A: So, it sounds like this distance is what's causing strain on this relationship. This is common for ... | |
| am confused | 7/9/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have known each other for about five years but we only started dating like a year ... A: Do you two live close to one another, or is this a long-distance relationship (LDR)? If it's an LDR, ... | |
| Helpp.? | 7/8/2010 |
| Q: Okay well,I just moved to a new school district 4 months ago and I became really good friends with ... A: Well, if he is shy, he may get cold feet. I mean a summer can feel like an eternity. So, I think you ... | |
| Is he cheating? | 7/7/2010 |
| Q: Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years.We've been on a off and on relationship ... A: Your first question kind of trumps all of the others. You asked if you should just leave him or take ... | |
| Just don't know how I feel anymore | 7/5/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 18 months. The whole relationship has been a bit of a ... A: Until you can get over your ex from ten years ago, you will never find someone who you will feel ... | |
| relationship akwardness!? | 7/2/2010 |
| Q: PLEASE HELP! So i have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 months now, and we still have ... A: Danny, Anything with perceived danger or that is thrilling will work, even going to one of those ... | |
| relationship akwardness!? | 6/30/2010 |
| Q: PLEASE HELP! So i have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 months now, and we still have ... A: It's tough at the beginning of relationships, especially if you are rather young or haven't had many ... | |
| Developing trust, all over again | 6/30/2010 |
| Q: I'm going to thank you in advance for reading my message and responding to your best ability. My ex ... A: Becky, Well, first, it's good that you don't have another guy in your life right now to "take your ... | |
| My relationship has lose all the sparks | 6/20/2010 |
| Q: my partner & i used to be so happy before and he will do anything just to make me happy.but now,i'm ... A: I think knowing how much time you have invested in this relationship would be important, but seeing ... | |
| personality clash | 6/16/2010 |
| Q: What is your opinion on the importance of shared interests in a dating relationship? My boyfriend ... A: I know that a relationship like yours can absolutely work out, but that's no guarantee that it will. ... | |
| Indefinite break | 6/15/2010 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I recently broke up as we could not resolve the issues we were facing and she ... A: I would shoot her an email or test and ask what she would feel comfortable with. Let her know that ... | |
| HOw to keep the sparks alive | 6/11/2010 |
| Q: Hello. My names Vanessa. Im 22yrs old. My question to you is How may I keep the sparks alive? I ... A: It sounds like he feels a bit "stuck", not stuck in a relationship he wants to get out of, but stuck ... | |
| Losing the Faith | 6/11/2010 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year, and the first year has been the best. ... A: Karina, So, here's my "armchair psychology": it appears that you have difficulty trusting ... | |
| Losing the Faith | 6/10/2010 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year, and the first year has been the best. ... A: I wonder if you still have some residual negativity from your last relationship, if you might be ... | |
| Dealing with ex-girlfriends amung other things... | 6/8/2010 |
| Q: I’m struggling… with it seems like a mountain full of issues and I’m looking for some clarity. My ... A: Desiree, I don't doubt he loves you and doesn't want you to leave, and that he wants this to work ... | |
| Losing the Faith | 6/7/2010 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year, and the first year has been the best. ... A: Tell me some things. What happened with you in previous relationships? How did they end? How long ... | |
| Dealing with ex-girlfriends amung other things... | 6/4/2010 |
| Q: I’m struggling… with it seems like a mountain full of issues and I’m looking for some clarity. My ... A: You say you are not jealous, but you are. You're very jealous, and rightly so! You say you are not ... | |
| people's problem | 5/31/2010 |
| Q: i wanna ask that when me and my girlfriend are together,why people see us with bad eyes.if we are ... A: Aditya, If she is frustrated by what others are saying, I would think clinging to you and the ... | |
| people's problem | 5/30/2010 |
| Q: i wanna ask that when me and my girlfriend are together,why people see us with bad eyes.if we are ... A: Aditya, I'm confused. How does this connect to your first question? Is she asking you to leave her? ... | |
| How to make my wife fall for me again | 5/28/2010 |
| Q: I'm separated from my wife of 4 years. Our marriage suffered due to my not tending to her needs or ... A: Andy, I don't know if I would suggest moving away from her, especially since you have a daughter ... | |
| people's problem | 5/27/2010 |
| Q: i wanna ask that when me and my girlfriend are together,why people see us with bad eyes.if we are ... A: Even more important than why they act that way, is "Why do you care?" Really. If you two are a happy ... | |
| boyfriend lies | 5/26/2010 |
| Q: he is not allowed to drink or do anything that will keep him from being stupid, well on 4,20 he got ... A: How long have you two been dating? I ask because if you have an extensive history, and this is a ... | |
| I don't think my girlfriend loves me anymore! | 5/25/2010 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. She used to always send me cute text ... A: Sorry, Carlos, but her feelings ARE changing toward you. But, if it's any consolation, they are ... | |
| boyfriend drama | 5/19/2010 |
| Q: Well, me and my boyfriend fight A LOT and i don't know what to do about it. I love him dearly but I ... A: I'd wager that it hasn't always been this way, has it, Brittni? Did you guys fight this much when ... | |
| How to feel more Confadent about my relationship. | 5/17/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for all most 2 years now and i love him with all my heart. Our ... A: As long as you have doubts like that, I think you re right. It will interfere with you wanting to be ... | |
| trusting your partner | 5/16/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend has major trust issues. His last gf cheated on him for three years and now he thinks ... A: So, there are few things I want to touch on with you. First, is he clinically diagnosed as bipolar ... | |
| Casual to committed | 5/13/2010 |
| Q: I've sent you a question before and thought you might be able to offer me some insight here as well ... A: Sid, So, it seems like there are some things you want out of this relationship (like becoming more ... | |
| would you buy an xbox for someone that lives miles away | 5/13/2010 |
| Q: my ex boyfriend is in this relationship with this girl name kathy that lives miles away she lives in ... A: So to answer your question, I don't think it's odd at all to buy an X-Box for someone living away ... | |
| relationship is broken | 5/11/2010 |
| Q: hello well I've been in this relationship for about 2 years and i have a son by him well anyway hes ... A: You may have bigger fish to fry than just this relationship. I think you have some serious ... | |
| Casual to committed | 5/10/2010 |
| Q: I've sent you a question before and thought you might be able to offer me some insight here as well ... A: Sid, To be honest, I'm not exactly sure what the problem is. Allow me to rephrase what I thin you ... | |
| boyfriend help | 5/6/2010 |
| Q: hey my name is stephanie im 16 years and i need help with my boyfriend..we been together for 1year ... A: Stephanie, But, there seems to have been a change, right? Things were better before, weren't they? ... | |
| should i break up with my boyfriend | 5/4/2010 |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, i have been very happy the majority of the time,we fight ... A: If you feel like this is not right after fie years, I'm guessing this is not a rash decision, a ... | |
| boyfriend help | 4/29/2010 |
| Q: hey my name is stephanie im 16 years and i need help with my boyfriend..we been together for 1year ... A: There are a few issues here we should address. The first is that you've been together 16 months, and ... | |
| My relationship is falling apart. | 4/28/2010 |
| Q: I am in a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me. We have been together for almost ... A: Get the heck out now! Who does he think he is? He tells you he's going to leave you, but he can't ... | |
| My relationship is falling apart | 4/24/2010 |
| Q: I am in a relationship with a man who is 20 years older than me. We have been together for almost ... A: I don't see any correlation between how he's treating you and your difference in age. But, to answer ... | |
| Broken up but I want to make it work | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: Mr. Leon Baxter, I've been with my boyfriend since November of 2007. During the time period before ... A: To answer your question succinctly...wait. you need to let him get away from this, because right ... | |
| will a break up really work | 4/20/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He always gave me everything i asked for, he ... A: I don't know if this break will help you realize this, because you already know it. I get the ... | |
| Re-connecting | 4/19/2010 |
| Q: Me and my fiance have been together for some time now, and due to wedding planning we've been ... A: A wedding can be a very stressful event to arrange. It's great practice for your life together as a ... | |
| how to strengthen my relationship | 4/15/2010 |
| Q: i have been with my partner for 1 and a half years now and things are hard. i have previously been ... A: It seems to me that there are a few issues to be addressed here. First, because you've been in a ... | |
| What should I do, am I overreacting? | 4/8/2010 |
| Q: The guy I've been seeing exclusively for a few months had a short romance with a girl who lives out ... A: To answer your question, if I were in your situation, I would feel betrayed and not feel fully ... | |
| What to do? | 4/7/2010 |
| Q: My name is Jack and I have a problem, Heres how it started, a new girl came from a another state ... A: Not too lengthy at all, Jack. Here's what you need to do. Ask her if next Tuesday at 6pm or Thursday ... | |
| Keeping relationship | 4/7/2010 |
| Q: I see premarital sex to be a sin. But almost all the relationships i stumble into would always ... A: If you see premarital sex as a sin and once you are involved with a man sexually your feelings for ... | |
| relationship | 4/4/2010 |
| Q: I'm 22 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We are currently living together. ... A: You are not ready yet to settle down. You may love your man fully, but having been with him since ... | |
| Change | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend of two years has cheated and lied to me throughout most of our relationship. He told ... A: Darn it, Cortney, you're making it difficult to advise you. Let me explain why. You tell me your man ... | |
| ex-wife | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years and been together 4 years. he has sole ... A: I admire you for loving these children like your own. Your husband's ex is obviously holding some ... | |
| Reply to answer: Relationship nose dive | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: Sorry I didn't add enough detail. The night I left: I headed home after work, packed up everything ... A: Amy, Here are some suggestions. First, take a look at this report ... | |
| Reply to answer: Relationship nose dive | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: Sorry I didn't add enough detail. The night I left: I headed home after work, packed up everything ... A: I really think the idea of counseling will really be great for the two of you, regardless. If you go ... | |
| help me befor love end in same month | 3/24/2010 |
| Q: i started love with one girl only one month i met her only 4 or 5 times , kiss and hug only i call ... A: I think you should slow things down a bit. The beginning of a relationship can be very intense. ... | |
| Strengthening a Relationship | 3/21/2010 |
| Q: I believe that my boyfriend of three years and I have different views of how a couple should be or ... A: So your boyfriend likes the idea of being with you long-term, but he doesn't sound at all ready for ... | |
| my boyfriend | 3/13/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for just about two years. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me, ... A: The biggest issue I'm seeing here is trust. Trust is so easy to lose, and tough to regain. Please ... | |
| We broke up | 3/11/2010 |
| Q: Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going through some things for the past couple of weeks after ... A: Miss A, I don't know if he is interested or not. But, if he's saying he hates you, then you catch ... | |
| Please help me save us | 3/10/2010 |
| Q: Ok, here goes. I met him 2 years ago and we started dating about 1 1/2 years ago. Shortly after we ... A: Sylvia, I think what you have written is strong and powerful and shows how very much you love him ... | |
| Please help me save us | 3/10/2010 |
| Q: Ok, here goes. I met him 2 years ago and we started dating about 1 1/2 years ago. Shortly after we ... A: Sylvia, So, do you think he has erectile dysfunction? If that's the case, it can really explain a ... | |
| relationship | 3/10/2010 |
| Q: Ok me and my friend we had been talking for almost a year. Well after after almost 3 months here he ... A: Jewell, I think your situation calls fro a clean break for the time being, meaning no contact for ... | |
| Help with my girlfriend | 3/9/2010 |
| Q: .I want to know how can I handle my girlfriend..our relationship is good and shes in love with me ... A: Jonathan, I think the two of you may be using the internet for safety. You've been cheated on and ... | |
| Please help me save us | 3/9/2010 |
| Q: Ok, here goes. I met him 2 years ago and we started dating about 1 1/2 years ago. Shortly after we ... A: The first thing I want to know is if there was any affection at the beginning, maybe when he first ... | |
| relationship | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: Ok me and my friend we had been talking for almost a year. Well after after almost 3 months here he ... A: Jewell, Based on what you have told me (not seeing him, him being in training, having broken up in ... | |
| Help with my girlfriend | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: .I want to know how can I handle my girlfriend..our relationship is good and shes in love with me ... A: What do you mean you want to be more interesting? What makes you think you are not? How long have ... | |
| love | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: i and my Girlfriend are in in relation from about 2 and half years,but we cant marry as her elder ... A: I can only answer your question from my cultural point of view. I know that in India the connection ... | |
| relationship | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: Ok me and my friend we had been talking for almost a year. Well after after almost 3 months here he ... A: Well, I have a specific definition of what taking a break means. So, if it were me, i would have ... | |
| My GF and I | 3/6/2010 |
| Q: Hey Guru, So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for little over two months now and I have never ... A: I love it! Your question, Todd, is the kind that is so fun for me... ah, young love! Yes, I do truly ... | |
| Hurt and Betrayed | 3/5/2010 |
| Q: I am in deep pain and despair after finding out that my boyfriend has been texting and communicating ... A: I am so sorry to hear that you are in such pain. But, I need a little more information to help you. ... | |
| Official? | 3/4/2010 |
| Q: so i've been dating this guy for almost two years. But I feel like we are not 'official' because he ... A: We men are notorious for not committing unless we are put into the position where we must make a ... | |
| Taking a "Break" | 2/25/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years now and recently we decided to take a break. The ... A: There are a few things that I think you should be familiar with It sounds like she started losing ... | |
| is my boyfriend loosing interest?? | 2/18/2010 |
| Q: at the start of the relationship he would tell friends etc hes still single,its only the past month ... A: Could be a lot of things. What comes to my mind first and foremost is maybe the stress of being in ... | |
| He doesn't know what he wants | 2/14/2010 |
| Q: Background information: My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 16 months. I noticed ... A: I think your maturity in the face of this difficult situation is to be applauded. Since you two got ... | |
| How to fix a terrible relationship | 2/11/2010 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I got together in November of 2008. Outside of a 2-month long falling out, we've ... A: The good news is that she is very aware of what she is doing. She apologizes and promises it won't ... | |
| The Parents! | 2/7/2010 |
| Q: A lot has happened since the last time i wrote to you. I left the guy I was with and met someone ... A: Ray, I know that it bothers you, and you can't ignore it completely. But, when it gets to you, have ... | |
| My boyfriend says our relationship is boring | 2/4/2010 |
| Q: Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going through some things for the past couple of weeks after ... A: , Ask him! Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. If you are hearing that he's ... | |
| Lets make this better? :/ | 1/30/2010 |
| Q: I was friends with my boyfriend for 5 months before we dated. I feel like we're best friends. But ... A: I can understand that you are concerned that maybe there's too much "friends" and not enough ... | |
| The Rules of Taking a "BREAK" | 1/28/2010 |
| Q: Could you please tell me the rules for taking a relationship "break" and I don't mean being able to ... A: It sounds like you two are thinking all of this through clearly, and I believe you are doing the ... | |
| Can this be saved | 1/25/2010 |
| Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over 6 months,we met online, and everything seemed ... A: I'm not feeling too comfortable for you in this situation, buddy. Look, it's a long-distance ... | |
| pre-engagement problems. | 1/24/2010 |
| Q: im 25 and my girl is 21 and we've been dating for 5 years.Due to University studies we ussualy ... A: Does she live with her mother, or is she out on her own? If she's living with Mom and Mom's paying ... | |
| relationship fighting | 1/20/2010 |
| Q: my girlfriend and i wont stop fighting everyday. we all ways fight everyday. she keeps telling me to ... A: How long have you been dating? And, when did the fighting start? Is the fighting usually about the ... | |
| Confused after 2 year relationship | 1/16/2010 |
| Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now. I'm almost 24 and he's 25. In the beginning ... A: I have said this for years, and I stand by it: "Don't settle." I almost did once. I wasn't sure how ... | |
| Friends with my Ex. Is it worth it? | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: Here's the "short" version of my situation...I was in a 10 yr. relationship with my ex. The last 3 ... A: I guess I could be wrong, but from my point of view, you are being used. And, the truth is, he may ... | |
| new to relationships | 1/11/2010 |
| Q: My name is Darryn and I am new to the dating scene and I just started going out with the most ... A: How long have you two been dating? How old are you? How long did you know one another? What makes ... | |
| Am I wasting my time? | 1/8/2010 |
| Q: I am 26 and have been in a four year relationship with a man that is 11 years older than me. I work ... A: Where's he living? Roommates? Parents? I'm glad that you have chosen not to move in with him and ... | |
| reply to previous question | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: Yes she has had a few rocky relationships.When i met her she told me that she had been married 2 ... A: Andrew, I am not suggesting you walk away from the relationship, but instead to take a step back ... | |
| She does not know what she wants | 1/6/2010 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i had been seeing each other for almost 2 years before we decided to move in ... A: I believe her completely. She does not want to hurt you and she believed all the things she had ... | |
| pls help me :( | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: m 23 yrs old girl, i met a guy online, his age is 29 yrs. we fall in luv, he came to meet me. nd ... A: It looks as though you may have asked me a question on my website, but you didn't include an email ... | |
| Feeling Foolish | 1/4/2010 |
| Q: I began dating my ex when we I was a junior and he was a senior in high school. We broke up about 3 ... A: Is there any way to save this? Sure, but it's not really up to you. He's the one who is so ... | |
| do i still love my grlfreind? | 1/3/2010 |
| Q: I've dated my girlfriend 9 months now i love her but i have lots of doubts and i don't feel were ... A: First, let me just tell you, since neither of you have had sex before, please don't try sex as a way ... | |
| He just doesn't get it | 12/28/2009 |
| Q: Okay so I have been dating this man for almost a year and things became "serious" very quickly. By ... A: It's been a year as a couple and three as friends. You should feel comfortable talking to ... | |
| Tough | 12/17/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and 1/2 months now.He was a virgin and I was ... A: Anne, So, it sounds like he had been broken up with his girlfriend of 2 1/2 years only 4 or 5 ... | |
| Im trying to recover my relationship | 12/17/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I started dating when i was 14 yrs old(he was 16). I am now turning 18, and i feel ... A: What he's doing is very common. He's lost that spark for you and the relationship. So, when he comes ... | |
| Do we still have hope | 12/16/2009 |
| Q: And that he has been feeling this way for a long time. My question is do we still have hope can we ... A: First, you two have quite a history together. I'm sure he doesn't want to throw all of that away. ... | |
| getting that old thing back | 12/16/2009 |
| Q: Leon. How are you? I'll cut right to the chase: I'm headed into a 4-year relationship & I really ... A: It's normal to have had a great beginning to a relationship, only to feel as though it's fizzling ... | |
| Tough | 12/14/2009 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 and 1/2 months now.He was a virgin and I was ... A: If I'm understanding this correctly, it sounds to me that he's not yet over his ex. If that's the ... | |
| conffused | 12/12/2009 |
| Q: i have knowsn my boyfriend for a year and we enjoy our time alot we are looking forward to get ... A: Duna, Then don't leave him if you are not ready, but don't consider taking the next step, because ... | |
| conffused | 12/11/2009 |
| Q: i have knowsn my boyfriend for a year and we enjoy our time alot we are looking forward to get ... A: If you are unsure, then you are not ready for either yet. And, that's not a bad thing. It's okay. It ... | |
| Boyfriend Unease | 12/8/2009 |
| Q: We have problems. Tons and I am wondering if I should even be with him. I feel as though I have ... A: I tell people all the time that there is a misconception about love: If you have love then that's ... | |
| my girlfriend | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: ok so this is my problem, today was me and my girlfriends 1 year anniversary and i really want to ... A: I'm sorry to hear about your frustrations, but it doesn't sound like there is a fundamental problem ... | |
| Confused | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I was asked Todd, but unfortunately he couldn't answer my question and he recomended me to you. My ... A: You two have some major trust issues! He is going behind your back with his ex. To what extent, I do ... | |
| need quick help | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: I am Tarnjot 21 yrs old from India and my girlfriend 22 yrs old lives in WA USA. Today when i talked ... A: I would like to know first, why it is so important for her to love you. I ask this because it seems ... | |
| I'm losing touch with my gf | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: Its been 6 months and everything has been great. It has went from a summer fling to a total ... A: Sounds like you two have moved out of the honeymoon stage, and now reality is setting in. Now that ... | |
| how to get spark back in my relationship | 11/20/2009 |
| Q: Leon, I am 18 years old and me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little bit over 2 years ... A: There are two common issues that are taking place in your relationship, causing this difficulty. the ... | |
| My Relationship is heading South | 11/19/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years come Dec. 23rd. We've always been good together, and ... A: Well, if you look at when the difficulties began, it was just about a year and a half into your ... | |
| Drifting upart | 11/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ... A: Jaydee, Just from your response, it appears that he may have issues with commitment. I mean, he's ... | |
| I don't get Him sometimes! | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: Look I don't go out and I really don't ask to I rather be a good Mother/Step and the best wife I ... A: It sounds like you have a few issues going on here: his daughters, your son and the whole "family" ... | |
| can we be together again? | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: A year ago I was in a relationship for two years and we were very much in love. We were only in ... A: So, why are you afraid of rejection? He's telling you he misses you and thinks of you all the time ... | |
| does he still want me? | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ... A: Kath, My advice is to get out. I'm standing by that, but if you refuse to take my advice (you ... | |
| Getting bored? | 11/15/2009 |
| Q: I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 11 months now, and this is by far the best ... A: This is not uncommon with people in college. When someone heads off to college, they often feel as ... | |
| How to keep it going.... | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: I am 28 yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs. Lately, I don't were the relationship ... A: So, it doesn't sound as if there is any profound difficulty in the relationship: cheating, annoyed ... | |
| Drifting upart | 11/13/2009 |
| Q: Hey, Its been around 2 months since i have last spoken to my boyfriend and seen him last. Nothing ... A: Well, I wouldn't just drop this thing. You need to have answers to your questions, have the loose ... | |
| does he still want me? | 11/12/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we live together, I commute every day but he does shorter ... A: Move out! That's your first step. All of this stuff about money and lack of sex are problems, but ... | |
| is he losing interest or am I losing my mind? | 11/10/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 21 year old girl. I recently moved in with my boyfriend, whom I've been with a little over a ... A: It's funny. Before I got to the end of your message, I started thinking that maybe this guy is ... | |
| Keeping my girlfriend interested | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: Me and my girlfreind have been off and on for 7 months, three times she has left me and all three ... A: So, it sounds to me like you want to know how to be a bit stronger because you don't want her ... | |
| keeping it alive | 11/1/2009 |
| Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ... A: Byron, That could be it. If that's the case, you need to stop worrying about reaching your parents' ... | |
| keeping it alive | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: In reference to why I may be sabotaging the relationship, I'm not sure why. I guess I have a habit ... A: Byron, What I wonder, though, is why. Can you pinpoint a reason for this fear? It's not always, but ... | |
| keeping it alive | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ... A: Byron, You don't expect this relationship to last.. and it is. So, subconsciously (or consciously) ... | |
| keeping it alive | 10/27/2009 |
| Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ... A: Byron, So, first, now you understand why you might have had those feelings of your relationship ... | |
| He just doesn't seem like he wants to see me. | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: Okay, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17. I love him dearly and he just doesn't seem the same. He tells ... A: This is the most common question I get. It's normal to feel that the relationship has changed, that ... | |
| keeping it alive | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: Hey there I need some help. Me and my partner have been through some really rough patches recently ... A: Why have you two broken up? And, why have you returned? What are these black thoughts you are ... | |
| what to do now | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: I have been in an exclusive relationship with this woman from day two of meeting her, we were ... A: Two things come to mind. Here's the first. Could it be that she feels as though you just want her ... | |
| Getting past relationship mistakes | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: My boy friend and I have been together for about 3 years now. The first 2 and a half of it were long ... A: First I would suggest you two learn a bit more about what "love" means to the other. If you haven't ... | |
| confused | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ... A: Farrah, If you can be sure that it was him, without a doubt, then not only has he been deceptive ... | |
| Relationship advice | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: recently after 6 months of being in a relationship my boyfriend and I have been having real bad ... A: First, you should know that between 6 and 18 months into a relationship, there is a drop in ... | |
| My relationship is in serious trouble!http://www.couplescommittedtolove.com/ | 10/24/2009 |
| Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we've been through a lot but now I find ... A: There are a few issues at play here. First, you two are going through the slump all couples ... | |
| confused | 10/24/2009 |
| Q: my name is Farah. my boyfriend and I been going on and off lately. also, 3 weeks ago, i caught him ... A: I think that he's not ready for the serious stuff you two have talked about. He still longs for his ... | |
| How do i take the step forward in my relationship? | 10/22/2009 |
| Q: i was looking for a place where i could share my problems and get expert advice and found this great ... A: I'm not so sure you relationship is ready for "the next step". i think it first needs to be ... | |
| Insecure relationship | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for a little longer than two years. I always ask him to plan stuff for ... A: He's getting a rush going out with his friends, but he's not feeling the same way about spending ... | |
| New BF too busy for me | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: Good Day - I starting dating a really great guy single father of 3 young kids....since June'09. We ... A: He seems like a respectful man who really cares for others. He's had a lot of obstacles thrown in ... | |
| Again... | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ... A: Ryan, Do I know what she's thinking? of course not, but from the many correspondences we've had ... | |
| Don't even know what to write here | 10/19/2009 |
| Q: Here is my speel, I've dated this guy for the past six years (i'm 22 he's 24) he has been my only ... A: To say the least, your boyfriend is homo-curious. He may be gay, but unwilling to accept it, or ... | |
| Again... | 10/19/2009 |
| Q: Leon, It's Ryan again. If you can remember back that far, Kay and I began dating last October again ... A: Ryan, Getting over a love is a very tough thing. It's painful. Some can move on faster than others. ... | |
| Lost as to what to do? | 10/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm 20 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. A year ago my ... A: For many guys (and women for that matter), it takes time to really be ready to fully commit. Since ... | |
| always fighting | 10/13/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i love eachother very much, though as much as we do we never seem to go on without ... A: How long have you dated? Has he ever hurt you? Has anyone else? I ask because you say he scares you. ... | |
| Husbands Low - I mean NO Sex Drive | 10/8/2009 |
| Q: My husbands sex drive has been getting lower and lower over the last 2 - 3 years up to the point now ... A: So, was his sex drive running up to par when you first started dating and at the beginning of your ... | |
| Spark going away | 10/8/2009 |
| Q: Hope you can help me with the cooling off of my relationship. My boyfriend and I are both 25 and ... A: I'm not so sure that the factor that we should be looking at is sex (although it may be, but you ... | |
| overwhelmed? | 10/7/2009 |
| Q: Here is a short explanation of my situation and I need your help fast please! My boyfriend and I ... A: I can't tell you why he would push that out of his life? I don't know. Maybe it truly is just too ... | |
| How can we make this work for us? | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: I am aspiring actress and have worked to get to drama school for a few years now but yet to be ... A: There are a few things we should address here. First, you two had this intense relationship for a ... | |
| Lost connection with eachother | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for couple years. We attend college together, and live ... A: First, let me say that all long-term, committed relationships hit an obstacle like this, usually 6 ... | |
| Ex boyfriend | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: I just met the most wonderful women a little over a month ago. I was actually on a blind date when I ... A: When you find a person you click with it can eel so right, so perfect. What happens is chemical and ... | |
| dying love? | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: I am having trouble with my relationship. I cureently don't feel happy but i do not want to end the ... A: It sounds like a couple of things may be happening in your relationship. The first is that he is ... | |
| boyfriends porn problem | 10/3/2009 |
| Q: Baxter, I'm 21 years old with an issue with my boyfriend of 2 years. When i first met "bob" i ... A: So, I'm reading your message to me, and I'm formulating my response. Then, you hit me square in the ... | |
| I want to spice things up | 10/3/2009 |
| Q: Leon Scott Baxter, I am 23 yrs old and my boyfriend is 4 months younger to me. We have been dating ... A: Long distance relationships are tough and very hard to survive. You should be pleased that you two ... | |
| Relationships | 10/2/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend just lost the place he was living and a job. On top of all this my mom and ... A: So, the first thing I want to know is why your family doesn't like him and why they would say he's ... | |
| "I Lost Me" | 9/30/2009 |
| Q: I am crazy over him we can laugh and talk about anything, we share the same dreams and our children ... A: Temple, I'm not telling to hate this guy at all. Hate just wastes your energy on something that you ... | |
| Should I stay or should I go? | 9/29/2009 |
| Q: Leon, I am 20 a sophomore in college, and have been dating this guy for about a year and a half. I ... A: There are three things I would like to touch on in your situation. First, you have reached that ... | |
| Will he ever be able to express himself? | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: I have been with this guy for over a year. He's 22, I'm 23. He is my first love and serious ... A: I wonder what it is about him that makes him keep things closed in. I wonder what happened in his ... | |
| Please help... | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: So I like my best friend's sister. (My best friend is also a girl.)Last Friday we had our first ... A: Sam, It's true, you can't force love and shouldn't try. Yet, on the other hand, if you fall in ... | |
| Getting back together w an ex | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: I am writing you this question because your profile blurb aligns alot with my own goals for dating. ... A: Initial impression: don't take him back. Keep in mind, this is based solely on the little info I get ... | |
| Broke up in August and unhappy | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: This has been spooking around in my head for the last 6 weeks, since the break-up occured. I was ... A: Each of us defines love differently, based on our experiences and expectations ... | |
| is space the solution? | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: My name is Christina and i've been very blessed with a wonderful love with a wonderful man. We have ... A: I don't know if you need to create any more space than you already have, what with you being ... | |
| boyfriend issues | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: Why are some men so insecure A: The same reason some women are, past relationships. We become insecure in our relationships when we ... | |
| ? | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: KERI 22 i have been with my boyfriend going on about 1 1/2 years here and we have known each other ... A: So, it's perfectly normal for passion (the "hot and heavy" you mentioned) to subside somewhere ... | |
| Communication Issue | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things suddenly went down a month ago. He's been ... A: It sounds to me as though there may be a little fault lying with him also. I mean, if you two were ... | |
| Butterflies Missing | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ... A: Mark, Here is a site that offer kissing tips (http://www.kissingbooth.com/kiss.htm). Maybe this ... | |
| Putting The Spark Back Into Our Relationship | 9/10/2009 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now, and I feel that he is starting to pull away, I ... A: As you know, this is quite normal. It all comes down to hormones and brain chemistry. Usually about ... | |
| "Stuck Between An Rock and Hard Place" | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: I am crazy over him we can laugh and talk about anything, we share the same dreams and our children ... A: How long have the two of you dated? What do you think has made him start to push away? Is there ... | |
| relationship problem | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: hey,iv been with my bf for almost 2 years now im 19 and hes 27 i love him to peices at the start of ... A: Hayley, Do you think you can live t]like this? You definitely shouldn't have to. If you realize ... | |
| Should I go visit him? | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm having trouble deciding on what to do in this situation and help would be much appreciated. I ... A: You sound as though you are really making the most of this break, working on yourself, getting out ... | |
| Butterflies Missing | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for just over a year. Her longest relationship prior to ... A: You are absolutely right. The butterflies do naturally flutter away in relationships, and that ... | |
| im scared | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ... A: Ben, So, she sounds as though she's just confused right now. She loves you but treats you poorly. ... | |
| strengthening our relationsjip | 8/30/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend (35yr never married) and I (41yr been married) have been dating 11mo. We meet right ... A: Having less time together physically does not necessarily mean that you two will grow apart. On the ... | |
| I need advice on whats best to do. | 8/25/2009 |
| Q: Ok so I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than 4 years, hes 20 im 19... we ... A: Wow, there's a lot going on here, Leyla. First, after four years and being the age you two are, it's ... | |
| making it better | 8/24/2009 |
| Q: me and my fiance always argue because she's addicted to the high life. like fashion and clothes. its ... A: r., This relationship has issues that need to resolved before you two jump back into the ring. I'd ... | |
| Boyfriend troubles | 8/24/2009 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend on the internet 3 months ago. We met up in person and spent a week at his parents ... A: You know, I have seen a decent amount of internet relationships fall prey to this kind of outcome. ... | |
| Question re Boyfriend/Partner | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: About five months ago I met a man my age, just months apart in age. We both have reasonable ... A: Miel, Have you considered that he still may be feeling gun-shy after his ex left him? You feel as ... | |
| Question re Boyfriend/Partner | 8/19/2009 |
| Q: About five months ago I met a man my age, just months apart in age. We both have reasonable ... A: What a great name... "Honey". What strikes me immediately is that you two appeared to be traveling ... | |
| im scared | 8/18/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ... A: Ben, Sexuality is often the easiest area of compatibility, because, though emotional, it's very ... | |
| im scared | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my gf 3yrs we have been really good recently up til 2weeks ago were we had a big ... A: It's hard after a blow-up like you two have had. You can't help but tread lightly for fear that ... | |
| What is going on?!?!? | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: Well let's get right down to it...my boyfriend and I are having MASSIVE problems and, in complete ... A: He's acting like this because he's sad and hurt. He's starting to build up a protective wall, ... | |
| my gf | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: my girl friend told me that shes thinkin if she wants to stay with me.I really like her but she said ... A: What I get from this is that she's pretty ambivalent about this relationship. She's not sure if she ... | |
| need help! | 8/9/2009 |
| Q: My name is Kay I'm 26yrs old and my boyfriend of 7yrs is 30. I have been living with him and his ... A: So, why not move out?! What's stopping you? You've been with this guy for seven years and you still ... | |
| boyfriend | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for almost four years now. Our relationship has been long and ... A: I say you have a right to be concerned based on his past actions and he obviously hasn't proven to ... | |
| Am I being unreasonable? | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: My partner have been in a relationship for 2.5 years and he has been separated from his ex-wife for ... A: The situation you are in is really not healthy, and it should have been "fixed" long ago. Now, that ... | |
| Only i see a problem | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: a little background about the situation is me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and ... A: I don't know if he's telling you the truth, but do you have reason to think he's not? I mean, he's ... | |
| my girlfriend | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: my girlfriend who says she can never love any guy again deeply text to later that she truly love me. ... A: Why would you doubt her? has she given you any reason to? If not, then I would believe her. When ... | |
| am i losing my girl friend | 8/1/2009 |
| Q: me and my girl friend have been living together for 2 years and in the recent months she has grown ... A: It sounds to me that she is conflicted with her emotions. Things don't feel the way they used to and ... | |
| Please Help!! | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: Ok,me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and a half and at first things were going ... A: So, first off, most relationships fall into a rut somewhere between 6 to 18 months into them. Read ... | |
| space in a relationship | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: me and my girlfreind have been dating for 7 months and i love her more than anything in the whole ... A: First of all, it's normal for relationships to take a bit of a turn between 6 to 18 months into ... | |
| fading or just my imagination | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ... A: Kaitlyn, I am sorry that the relationship didn't work out. I know that it's painful, but you sound ... | |
| how to get the spark back? | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and 9 months. We have been ... A: This is not uncommon at all. Usually this kind of "numbness" occurs about 6 to 18 months into a ... | |
| i'm depressed | 7/23/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 and a half yrs. when we first started dating he ... A: Did he start acting differently when you became pregnant? If so, good chance he doesn't feel 100 ... | |
| shes bin hurt in the past(cheated on) and i made a dumb joke. | 7/21/2009 |
| Q: im sorry to bother you but i really need help. im sure everyone tells you that. but me and my gf ... A: Let me start by saying if you can find a silver-lining in this, it's that not having asked her to ... | |
| Confused | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. about six months ago, he brought up spicing ... A: Getting another couple involved in your relationship is very tricky and can be dangerous. There are ... | |
| Confused | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: Well, Now I had been in this relationship with this guy for nearly 2 years now. I have never been in ... A: Unfortunately, arguing is pretty common among many relationships, but it's definitely not healthy, ... | |
| fading or just my imagination | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ... A: Kaitlyn, So, there are a lot of things to address here: Did you read that report I linked for you ... | |
| fading or just my imagination | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: so me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were 5. We went out in 7th grade but that ... A: You say you don't want him thinking you don't trust him, but the truth is, you don't. She can be as ... | |
| Relationship Blues | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: Baxter, I've never actually asked anyone for advice like this in a relationship, but I need help ... A: I think you should listen to both your mother and your friend. You two need a break. Read this ... | |
| Inconsistencies | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ... A: Aurelia, I asked if you are ready to be committed to one another, because it appears that the two ... | |
| How to fix a relationship | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ... A: Greg, I wouldn't write a letter to her family. You don't want to have them get in the middle of ... | |
| How to fix a relationship | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ... A: Greg, It sounds like you have nothing redeem. It sounds more like she has to get over her issues of ... | |
| Inconsistencies | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ... A: So, why is it that you pushed the non-monogamous thing? Had he shown signs of straying during your ... | |
| Pls Help | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: wen we first started dating it ws the best relation i could ever ask for.we both are dating for the ... A: Sandra, Why not try refraining from sex for the next month and see what happens? You don't have to ... | |
| "Its not it you really is me". =[ please help | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: Hey leon, god i hope you can help me,okay so here it goes Im 18 he is 17, we live in a country ... A: You say it over and over in your post to me: "There's nothing wrong with the relationship." So, I ... | |
| How to fix a relationship | 7/7/2009 |
| Q: I was recently in a relationship where we based our relationship on trust and honesty. A topic came ... A: Why wouldn't she believe you? Have you had trust issues with her in the past? Has she had other ... | |
| How do we get past this? | 7/7/2009 |
| Q: Well me and my partner are both young. I'm only 16 and he is 18. Although, we are both very mature. ... A: You may not like my advice, but it seems very obvious to me from an outsider's point of view. You ... | |
| Pls Help | 7/6/2009 |
| Q: wen we first started dating it ws the best relation i could ever ask for.we both are dating for the ... A: I would tend not to think that this change has to do with sex. I could be wrong, but the reason I ... | |
| I think we are drifting apart... | 6/27/2009 |
| Q: "My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half months now.....At first, our friends we're ... A: Can you tell me how old you and your boyfriend are? Have either of you had relationships before this ... | |
| How to save a broken relationship? | 6/27/2009 |
| Q: I had asked Sharon the below mentioned matter to her and further below is her answer, now that shes ... A: When someone is hurt by someone else, they instinctively try to defend themselves from further pain. ... | |
| love. | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: hmm.. first of all.. i think that she doesn`t really care about me.. she tell me that she care about ... A: How long have you been together? What makes you think she doesn't care? What would you expect her to ... | |
| I Believe I'm In Love.. | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: First of all my name is Nicole and I'm only 15.. hence why I'm so confused. I'm going out with a ... A: So, first let me offer you a link to a report that tells you what love is ... | |
| continue or end?? | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: I am so confused. I have been dating a man for 2 1/2 years. We've had some rocky roads but have ... A: Part of me says that this could work out, because he's taking steps to go to counseling with you and ... | |
| 8 months? still love? | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I spoke the other night. He said to me first, that he loved me and missed me. ... A: When I speak to couples I make a distinction between a break and a break up. A break up is calling ... | |
| bored sexually | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: i am 27 yrs old and my partners 36 we have been together for nearly two years he wants to sleep with ... A: You seemed to have opened Pandora's Box when you agreed to have a threesome with your partner. For ... | |
| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ... A: I can only speculate why he's doing this. He's very shy, so maybe he has something he's keeping to ... | |
| I blew it!!?! Maybe?! I think so!! | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: I'm 39yrs old never married! While on vacation a couple of months ago I met this fabulous man our ... A: Let me first reassure you that you didn't sabotage this relationship in any way. If he's reacted to ... | |
| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ... A: Catie, Here's the deal, if a person is truly connected to another, they will do whatever they can ... | |
| work relationships? | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ... A: Kim, What was the reason he gave you for moving out after living together for so long? That could ... | |
| viagra and masturbation | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: Here is my question...does it make sense to you that a man would pack viagra for his 40th high ... A: Kay, I think going to counseling is a great idea. He sounds like a great guy except for the ... | |
| viagra and masturbation | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: Here is my question...does it make sense to you that a man would pack viagra for his 40th high ... A: I'm not buying it either. Could I be wrong? Sure, but the information you've given me leads me to ... | |
| i need relationship help fast | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and we broke up for 7 months and got back ... A: You can't make anyone believe anything they don't want to believe. You can give him a list of ... | |
| work relationships? | 6/12/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating a guy for about 3 years we have some issues.. I am in my mid twentys him a few ... A: I'm not sure if you are reading too much into this or not. I need to know why after three years you ... | |
| What the hell? | 6/11/2009 |
| Q: I've known this girl D for a month and we've gotten pretty physical and stuff (I won't go into ... A: I'll be honest, Kyle. I think you should avoid getting involved with D until she is available. I ... | |
| Am I Needy? How do I change? | 6/10/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 yrs. Overall we have a great relationship. He has been ... A: I don't know if you are needy, but you miss him. My first question, though, is why do you feel as ... | |
| words and strength | 6/7/2009 |
| Q: ..i haven't done this before so forgive me if i ramble .... the guy i like(love..a lot) says i dont ... A: Candy, I know that you really want this relationship, and he's put himself in a position where if ... | |
| break in a relationship | 6/7/2009 |
| Q: last month my girlfriend and i broke up. it was fairly mutual and civil as we decided we were ... A: First off, letting me know you were at 15 months is significant. That's just about the time most ... | |
| HELP!!! | 6/4/2009 |
| Q: ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months and we have had sex multiple ... A: Good question. Have you asked? Every person is different from the next, but in general, most men are ... | |
| words and strength | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: ..i haven't done this before so forgive me if i ramble .... the guy i like(love..a lot) says i dont ... A: I know you want to support your man in every way possible, but it's not your responsibility to give ... | |
| Online relationship | 5/31/2009 |
| Q: Hey Mr. Baxter, It's me again, Alisha, the disabled woman with the rare disease. I told you about ... A: Alisha, So, first, you know him better than I do. Each person will react differently to different ... | |
| take her breath away? | 5/30/2009 |
| Q: Mr Baxter, thanks for taking the time to read my question if you're reading it right now, i ... A: This site gives you 15 cheap and fun dates ... | |
| in love | 5/29/2009 |
| Q: me and my babydaddy had been dating for 5years then i had his baby now our love for eachother has ... A: Putting a baby into a relationship absolutely changes it. You can't just be a couple with all the ... | |
| Is this real? | 5/29/2009 |
| Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ... A: Alisha, First, I'm really out of my area of expertise when it comes to talking about ... | |
| dating | 5/29/2009 |
| Q: I was thinking that maybe I'll just try again, I don't think he will call again been a month now... ... A: Joann, I think it was good that you didn't leave a message. And, no, I don't think you should text ... | |
| dating | 5/28/2009 |
| Q: I was thinking that maybe I'll just try again, I don't think he will call again been a month now... ... A: Joann, truthfully, I think if he didn't call you already, he's probably got a reason. Could be ... | |
| He doesn't seem to want to spend time with me anymore | 5/27/2009 |
| Q: First off, there is a large age difference between the two of us, with him being 17 years older than ... A: I agree; age doesn't necessarily have to make a difference in a relationship, but it could make a ... | |
| Is this real? | 5/27/2009 |
| Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ... A: Alisha, I'm not able to get you exactly what you are looking for, but I have found a way to start. ... | |
| Question | 5/26/2009 |
| Q: So i have been dating this girl for about 10 months, she has been living with me and not paying ... A: First off, have you asked her why? What does she say? If I had to venture a guess, there's a good ... | |
| Is this real? | 5/26/2009 |
| Q: Okay. So, I am 23 years old. I'll be 24 tomorrow. My b/f just turned 22 a couple months ago. ... A: You say that you are seeing doctors for your speech and health. Do you see anyone for your ... | |
| Past Relationship's | 5/26/2009 |
| Q: I have been seeing this man for 18mths... he told me in the begining of our relationship that his ... A: He may just be a really nice guy. But, he doesn't seem to have had much time to heal from this. And, ... | |
| My Boyfriend-What's Going On In His Mind? | 5/25/2009 |
| Q: Ok I want to try to describe my relationship first.... I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been ... A: It sounds to me that he's just dealing right now at his level of comfort. You say that you are both ... | |
| dating | 5/25/2009 |
| Q: I have a close friend that I saw a few days ago...I'm wondering why he didn't call to talk to me for ... A: If he's a close friend, you should have no trouble confronting him, "Hey, what's going on here? ... | |
| dating | 5/25/2009 |
| Q: I have a close friend that I saw a few days ago...I'm wondering why he didn't call to talk to me for ... A: Joann, Well, what kind of relationship do you have, just friends or more? If you are only friends, ... | |
| Confused, but in love | 5/23/2009 |
| Q: it is Sasha again and I have been thinking hard about our conversations regarding the man in my ... A: Sasha, Yes, definitely. Losing your father could very well leave you with abandonment issues. You ... | |
| dating | 5/22/2009 |
| Q: I've been going to this casino to see the bands almost every weekend. I missed a few weeks and I ... A: Joann, Give him a couple more days. Then, if he doesn't call, try again, but this time don't leave ... | |
| Marriage | 5/21/2009 |
| Q: Why is it that a guy says he loves you so much, he wants to be with u for the rest of his life, has ... A: Because he is scared of that part of the future. Some guys are gun-shy of marriage because it seems ... | |
| dating | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: I've been going to this casino to see the bands almost every weekend. I missed a few weeks and I ... A: Could be that he doesn't think that you are interested in him as more than friends. Could also be ... | |
| my sons father/boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: I am 23 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15. We have a 3 year old ... A: Summer, I don't doubt that he loves you, but marriage won't fix what's going on. Love alone is not ... | |
| Emotional Disconnected | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years.I lost my job in feb.2009 and since then our ... A: You know, when we get stressed, we often take it out on the people we care about most. With the ... | |
| my sons father/boyfriend | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I am 23 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15. We have a 3 year old ... A: What does he say the problem is? Have you asked him? I mean you don't just go from being a happy ... | |
| Stay and try to work more or leave it? | 5/15/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. It has been so rocky. when we first go together it ... A: See if you can finish the book, but because he's a slow reader and it doesn't really seem to be ... | |
| Is my relationship worth working on anymore? | 5/13/2009 |
| Q: I’m 25 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. From the very beginning ... A: At first I was going to recommend a book for the two of you, because you seem to express love so ... | |
| My boyfriend has become a jerk. | 5/13/2009 |
| Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ... A: Short answer: no. You can't change him. He need to want to change. What if this was not happening to ... | |
| Independent guy I am dating won't open up | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating a guy for about a month now. He is very independent, being 35 years old, into ... A: It sounds like you really like this guy, but consider that's it's still only been a month. That's ... | |
| Is it necessary to text or call your bf everday? | 5/11/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my bf for almost 3 years now. We have a 5 month old son together however we do not ... A: It's absolutely not necessary to be texting everyday or calling if you two aren't connected that ... | |
| Stay or go? | 5/8/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and he still has not said he loves me. We ... A: So, one line of what you wrote has told me that you should not let this relationship go just yet. ... | |
| Getting back with an ex | 5/7/2009 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with this girl, Katie, for about 3 1/2 years. It started off perfectly, ... A: Andre, I'm so glad to hear that you are taking steps in the right direction. Keep at it. You'll ... | |
| helpp!!! | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost three years, we had lot of ups and down, ... A: You say if you talk to him about this he'll just think you're jealous, but you're not. What do you ... | |
| rekindling | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months now and we seem happy. But at the ... A: Good, don't give up on this relationship. What you are going through is so common it makes the cold ... | |
| Getting back with an ex | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with this girl, Katie, for about 3 1/2 years. It started off perfectly, ... A: Okay, if you want this thing to get patched up, first thing you must do is come to grips with what ... | |
| Boyfriend issues | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: I wrote to you the other day and I loved your quick response and the knowledge you had on the ... A: Sasha, Are you looking forward to being married again, or are you looking forward to a wedding? I ... | |
| I want to work it out, he's not sure | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now. Our anniversary was last week and he ... A: He's confused and conflicted and quite honestly needs to suck it up. It's time for him to grow up ... | |
| Problems with my boyfriend | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: We have been dating close to 2 years. Since the economy and other world issues have caused people to ... A: Do you think that you are not seeing each other as much as before because of the world issues, or ... | |
| igniting HER flame (mine is already a buring fire) | 4/28/2009 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and i am in my first real dating relationship (because i have not wanted to date a ... A: Alec, Did you ever go to the quiz? I think that seeing those results might help you better ... | |
| Trust issue with partner | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: Its been 2 months i married to a girl and we both love each other though at times we gets fed up ... A: Let me first start by asking some questions. How old are the two of you? What kinds of relationships ... | |
| Confused & Miserable | 4/23/2009 |
| Q: Where to begin? Ok firstly I caught my fiance cheating on me with a girl that he was involved with ... A: I am so sorry for this situation that you have found yourself in. But, I think you are asking me the ... | |
| igniting HER flame (mine is already a buring fire) | 4/21/2009 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and i am in my first real dating relationship (because i have not wanted to date ... A: She could just be incapable NOW of loving deeply (or at your level) because she hasn't had enough ... | |
| need help with my relationship | 4/20/2009 |
| Q: i have been dating the same girl for over a year now we love each other dearly but she all of a ... A: I looked at the lyrics ... | |
| boyfriend troubles | 4/19/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, but he has been starting to act weird. We go to ... A: How old are you guys and what is the dating history for each of you before this relationship? I ask ... | |
| i want him to be there when i need him... | 4/17/2009 |
| Q: ..i have a boyfriend and we hav been together for past 2 and a half years...the problem i hav with ... A: There are a few issues we should address, Zaaro. First, this sounds like along-distance relationship ... | |
| I dnt knw y he has changed | 4/16/2009 |
| Q: We have studied in the same school and he had asked me out when we were in the 8 std and i had said ... A: You need to understand that all relationships (I mean ALL) hit this snag in the road. It's ... | |
| Is the relationship right? | 4/15/2009 |
| Q: I have been living with my current boyfriend for almost 9 months. I have never before had a serious ... A: Wow, there are a few things I want to touch on with you, Heather. First, you claim you are unsure if ... | |
| getting the "spark" back. | 4/15/2009 |
| Q: The other day I went over my boyfriend's house. we've been going out for over 8 months, but last ... A: This is so incredibly common, yet rarely mentioned. The excitement and passion and playfulness ... | |
| abandoned | 4/14/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. We live together, we've been living together ... A: How long have you been dating? How long have you been living together? How old are each of you? And, ... | |
| My Husband to be | 4/14/2009 |
| Q: My fiance have known each other for almost all of our lives, and have been engaged for 2 ... A: Sorry to say it, but you two are already like an old married couple, coming home, watching TV, maybe ... | |
| friendship | 4/13/2009 |
| Q: I know this guy as a friend, if you can call it that. I've tried to call him numerious times and ... A: Is he just a friend or are you hoping this will be more? I'm guessing you want more, because with ... | |
| I want to save my relationship before it is too late. | 4/13/2009 |
| Q: firstly i would just like to say i have read a few of your answers to people's questions and they ... A: As you have noted, your "honeymoon stage" looks like it's coming to an end. But, the good news is ... | |
| relationship | 4/12/2009 |
| Q: I've dating this guy for almost two months. When we first met we would talk for hours, and when we ... A: When you spent time with him, were you intimate? And, if so, was it the first time with him? Next, ... | |
| reason for break? | 4/12/2009 |
| Q: I've been reading your advice to others especially in regards to a break in a relationship. Now I ... A: I have to assume that you have already looked at my report on taking breaks ... | |
| relationship stuck | 4/8/2009 |
| Q: My man and I finally found who we were meant to be with after so many of years of failure for both. ... A: First, I am sorry about this situation. I'm sure you've already told him this. But, getting a kick ... | |
| Can I get him to stay? | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: My name is Danyelle and I'm lost right now. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now and ... A: So, you're saying he's already called this relationship off, but you want to know how to convince ... | |
| Closeness | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend loves me very much and I am the first guy in her life but the problem with my ... A: Sandip, So, she's pretty inexperienced when it comes to relationships. It's a brand new ... | |
| Closeness | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend loves me very much and I am the first guy in her life but the problem with my ... A: Where does this come from? Is it cultural, from her family? Is it her first relationship? Was she ... | |
| starting a relationship over after four years.. will it work? | 3/30/2009 |
| Q: See me and my ex have been on and off for the past four years and i suggested that we go ahead and ... A: It's not about what I think or about how badly you want him. It really comes down to what he wants ... | |
| Feeling different | 3/29/2009 |
| Q: my name is Elisa. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and this is also my longest ... A: Elisa, If you are feeling repulsed by his touch and the idea of kissing him, then it's time to get ... | |
| Lost Attraction | 3/28/2009 |
| Q: Okay my thing is that I've been with my girl for a little of a year now. We just had a little boy ... A: So, good, you understand her trepidation, and why she might second guess you. You've come to grips ... | |
| Feeling different | 3/26/2009 |
| Q: my name is Elisa. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and this is also my longest ... A: You are not in an unusual circumstance by any means. This being the longest relationship you've been ... | |
| Taking an odd break | 3/23/2009 |
| Q: First of all I think I should inform you that my girlfriend lives in NYC but I live in Georgia, so ... A: First of all, long distance relationships are so tough to survive, but not impossible. Read this ... | |
| How to reduce the distance and make him want me | 3/22/2009 |
| Q: Ok so me and my fiance Michael have been together for 1yr and 4 months and living together for a ... A: First, let me just make you aware that you two are within the critical time when passion generally ... | |
| even steven | 3/18/2009 |
| Q: I recently started dating a guy...I am 21, he's 22...we've been together for about 2 months now and ... A: You say things are going well in one breath, but in the other you say "I don't know how to fix ... | |
| 3 month mark of LDr relationship - fearing break-up | 3/16/2009 |
| Q: 3 month mark LDR, fear break up with her soon Hello, I'm 20, she's 19. I'm in South Korea, She's in ... A: I do think that too many compliments and apologies and showering your partner with gifts, especially ... | |
| how can i get his interest again ? | 3/15/2009 |
| Q: ok, I know I'm young but I rather start preparing now then later. I am 17 years old and five been in ... A: You are never to young to feel love. So, don't worry about your age. You two are just where most ... | |
| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/13/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ... A: Jill, I'm glad things seem to be getting better for you, but I am still concerned because it ... | |
| Will my relationship recover from this break? | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He is 28 and I am 23. He just recently told me he ... A: Sally, You're still dating. I'd call him and ask if he has plans or his birthday, because if not, ... | |
| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ... A: Jill, So, have you had to deal with issues like this in the past, where you can't get passed ... | |
| Make things better | 3/8/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a month and things are going great. Being with her ... A: Mike, Glad you didn't jump in there and tell her that you loved her. She's obviously not ready to ... | |
| Waiting on him | 3/6/2009 |
| Q: I am a 22 year old college graduate and my boyfriend is a 21 year old college senior. We met his ... A: First let me say that I'm glad that you got your intimacy issues taken care of. But, as a result of ... | |
| narcissistic bitchiness? | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. We're both about 23. I'm not even sure ... A: First, let me just get this out of the way... that other relationship, IT'S OVER. Your focus on what ... | |
| Troubles.. and excitement gone | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating about 6 months now. We used to never be able to not talk to ... A: Let me start just by sending you to a report that explains what you two are probably going through. ... | |
| Make things better | 3/4/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a month and things are going great. Being with her ... A: I know just how you feel, Mike. I've been where you are with a girl years ago. And, it turns out she ... | |
| Getting back what we used to have | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: SO... i've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years, this is our second go at it, the first time was 3 ... A: Yes, absolutely. It is possible and probable for you two to get some spice back into this humdrum ... | |
| Will my relationship recover from this break? | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He is 28 and I am 23. He just recently told me he ... A: First off, taking a break because you are busy is really not a valid excuse. Couples in love support ... | |
| At a crossroad | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: My relationship with my boyfriend has recently been progressing into a deep downward spiral and I'm ... A: So, first let me just direct you to this report about how relationships change during the first 6 to ... | |
| Realtionship issues need some guideance | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: alright, I'm currently dating my best friend, its been 4 months. We were happy, we still talk about ... A: First of all, I am so pleased that you have fallen in love with your best friend. This is one of the ... | |
| relationship | 3/1/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been together for 7 months. although, we fight alot. reason being most of ... A: Things change right around 6 to 18 months into a relationship. This is the time when you find out if ... | |
| Keeping romance alive while apart | 2/25/2009 |
| Q: What are things I can do to keep it going while I am gone and she is there. Things to keep the spark ... A: Congratulations on the relationship. Doesn't it feel terrific?! You're in a tough place, though, ... | |
| Strengthen my relationship | 2/24/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We moved in together in the summer time and ... A: That conversation must have been tough, but what I think is even more uncomfortable is still trying ... | |
| RELATIONSHIPS PROBLEMS | 2/13/2009 |
| Q: I live in London and I have 23 years old boyfriend. We have been together since 1 year and a half. I ... A: There are a lot of issues here that seem to be chipping away at the foundation of this relationship: ... | |
| My life | 2/8/2009 |
| Q: Me and my fiancee have been together for almost 2 years. we got pregnant with our son when we had ... A: I can't know for sure, but it sounds to me that he may feel trapped. You two only dated five months ... | |
| On the Fringe | 2/7/2009 |
| Q: Where to start? Kyle and I have been dating for nearly two years. It was pretty great for the first ... A: You have a couple of obstacles to overcome. The first is that you are at that point when most all ... | |
| Relationship | 2/5/2009 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend been dating for over a year. Well i did alot of crazy things in the relationship ... A: Tell me more about the history of this relationship. What's happened in the past that has made you ... | |
| I think I'm over analizing, but i still need some advice | 2/2/2009 |
| Q: So I have been officially in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 months. I know that may seem ... A: You have every right to question him. That is 100 percent natural. Trust is such an easy thing to ... | |
| Please help me! Where do I start? | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ... A: AJB, You need to not worry so much about what every action or word means. Just try not to analyze ... | |
| Please help me! Where do I start? | 1/30/2009 |
| Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ... A: AJB, If you can't move away physically, then start focusing on finding a new social circle, so that ... | |
| I'm losing him.. | 1/30/2009 |
| Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months.. We started out amazingly and he ... A: First, let me assure you that you would not be completely ruined if he left you for another girl. ... | |
| Please help me! Where do I start? | 1/29/2009 |
| Q: Okay first before I tell my relationship problem, I have to say that I have read lots and lots of ... A: I think you two have jumped into this moving in thing a bit prematurely. You are not married, yet ... | |
| Suddenly Everything Makes Sense | 1/29/2009 |
| Q: Hey Leon, Its Rachel again! So my boyfriend called me the other day to cancel plans for that ... A: Rachel, Yes, it does all make sense now. What you can do for him is to tell him what you told me, ... | |
| Afraid of Being Alone | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: ), I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a ... A: Rachel, Heck no! No relationship that lasts can stay in the honeymoon stage... Thank God! Mother ... | |
| emotional problems affecting relationship | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about five months now and the situation is very ... A: You know, it sounds like you two are on two totally different planes in your life right now. You've ... | |
| Taking a break- now what? | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: Leon- My ex and I have decided to take one month off - no communication, no texts, phone calls or ... A: Chris, I think you have a firm grasp on reality, Chris. You understand your new perspective and you ... | |
| Taking a break- now what? | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: Leon- My ex and I have decided to take one month off - no communication, no texts, phone calls or ... A: I like that you two decided to take a break for the right reasons. You set the ground rules (no ... | |
| everything | 1/15/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years officially. We have been seeing eachother for ... A: Eva-Rae You seem to be struggling with issues of self-confidence. You know that you need to do ... | |
| everything | 1/13/2009 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years officially. We have been seeing eachother for ... A: First off, let me tell you that the time things started to change in your relationship, falls right ... | |
| Rocky!!! | 1/12/2009 |
| Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ... A: Sammy, So, if you are both committed and sick of the arguing, but can't seem to stop, it's time to ... | |
| My girlfriend is losing interest in me | 1/11/2009 |
| Q: me and my gf have been dating for 3 or 4 months now, and lately shes been acting differently towards ... A: Danny, Since you've said you are considering taking a break, I suggest you read this report first ... | |
| Again.... | 1/11/2009 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ... A: Ryan, Sounds like you are making wonderful progress and maturing in ways you should be very proud ... | |
| Rocky!!! | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ... A: Sammy, Well, you two fall right in the time frame where most "new" relationships experience ... | |
| work relationship | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ... A: Gloria, Of course I cannot know what he is thinking, but I can tell you from experience, that when ... | |
| My girlfriend is losing interest in me | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: me and my gf have been dating for 3 or 4 months now, and lately shes been acting differently towards ... A: Have you talked to her about this? If so, what does she say? How old are you guys? What are your ... | |
| work relationship | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ... A: Gloria, I can't say for sure, because I'm not there. You are right; it could be that he's just not ... | |
| work relationship | 1/7/2009 |
| Q: I am writing to ask for your advice regarding the guy that is in my work place. I would like to ... A: It sounds like you just don't know how to take this relationship to the next stage, bridging it from ... | |
| Rocky!!! | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: I am having issues with my boyfriend that I have been with for a little over a year now. Lately I ... A: Can I ask you a few questions before I advise: How long have you two dated? How old are you? Have ... | |
| I know there has to be a way to fix this between me and my boyfriend | 1/5/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite some time now, almost a year and a half. Things have ... A: You are in an incredibly common situation. When couples have been dating between 6 and 18 months, ... | |
| Again.... | 1/4/2009 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ... A: Ryan, Yes, it's tough, but you seem to be handling this well, and you also seem to be able to look ... | |
| Again.... | 1/3/2009 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. Things with Kay and I never got better. I didn't call her, just like ... A: Ryan, I am so sorry that things have taken this turn. You are right. Kay is not over you. She ... | |
| should i stay with him? | 1/3/2009 |
| Q: we will have been together for two years this June. and like it always goes the beginning was ... A: It sounds like the classic case of the end of the honeymoon stage. This is so incredibly common, but ... | |
| Is he losing interest or am I thinking too much? | 1/2/2009 |
| Q: Okay.. so this guy and I have been on and off for about three years. We are both 19 and officially a ... A: First, let me tell you that my first initial reaction is that this is not a healthy relationship ... | |
| Is he still interested in me? | 1/1/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are both 19. We have been together for 2 months and have been on and off for ... A: First, I'd like to know what you mean by having been together for two months, but on and off for ... | |
| Out of love and fed up | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ... A: Ty, She's being pretty civil with you, thanking you for the flowers and such, but she's also trying ... | |
| is my boyfriend just killing time with me? | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: Ok so me and my boyfriend have only been dating for a short amount of time 5 months now. The problem ... A: Well that really depends upon your wants, needs desires and time frame. If you can handle waiting ... | |
| Again.... | 12/16/2008 |
| Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ... A: Ryan, You really need to avoid getting advice from someone with a track record like that of your ... | |
| Again.... | 12/14/2008 |
| Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ... A: Ryan, You know her better than I. If she gets annoyed when you try to impede upon her "cool off" ... | |
| Again.... | 12/14/2008 |
| Q: Leon, It's Ryan, again. If you can remember from the last time I asked for advice, Kay and I were ... A: Ryan, Of course I can't tell you what she is thinking, but I'm concerned that she jumps to "bailing ... | |
| needy | 12/12/2008 |
| Q: I think I made the mistake by taking to him about us. He may believe that I am needy and clingy. I ... A: Ray, I think you may want to consider seeing a professional: a counselor or therapist. Someone who ... | |
| help me please | 12/11/2008 |
| Q: My ex and i have been broken up for about a month now and i cant get her out of my mind we talk ... A: Trust is a tricky thing. It's something so easily lost, and so difficult to find again. She ... | |
| Out of love and fed up | 12/11/2008 |
| Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ... A: Ty, If you send her flowers, what you do next is wait for a thank you. If you don't get one, take ... | |
| Out of love and fed up | 12/9/2008 |
| Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ... A: Ty, If she doesn't call, don't push it. She's not ready. It's not like she has forgotten. She may ... | |
| Dating | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ... A: Joann, Like I said, it's fine to call. If you call as a friend, fine. If you call because you want ... | |
| keep the love going | 12/5/2008 |
| Q: my husband and i have been together for 3 years, married 2. we have always had a wonderful ... A: First I would suggest you try to look back at how your relationship used to be, and what has changed ... | |
| Dating | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ... A: It is absolutely okay to call a friend. If he sees it as a friendship and you accept that, then a ... | |
| Dating | 12/3/2008 |
| Q: I have a male friend, who seems to call me only if I call..The last time we spoke he asked me to go ... A: It sounds like he enjoys your company, but maybe isn't interested in you the way you are of him. If ... | |
| Don't know what to do! | 12/2/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 10 months. Our relationship has been rather good. No ... A: First, I don't think that the difference in beliefs is necessarily associated with the struggles you ... | |
| How can i stop feeling what i feel everytime im around him ? | 12/2/2008 |
| Q: Well, usually im going out with this guy named Jose and he like sooo fucking love me like A LOT. He ... A: You can't make yourself love someone if it's not there. It sounds like you really like Jose. You're ... | |
| Should I stay with him? Should I end it? | 11/29/2008 |
| Q: I've been in the realtionship with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now. I met him when I was 16 ... A: What you really need is to find out what's caused your boyfriend to change so drastically. And, he ... | |
| Do people find their way back after 6 years? | 11/25/2008 |
| Q: My ex and I were together for 6 years. Everything felt so right. He would talk marriage and kids and ... A: I know you are hurt. This can be such a tough and emotional ting to go through. Of course I don't ... | |
| College Romance | 11/19/2008 |
| Q: I'm only 20 years old, this is my second year of college. I met my current boyfriend a year ago at ... A: He's already set things up for a break when he moves to Japan. He's warned you, so there will be no ... | |
| Will he want a divorce? | 11/18/2008 |
| Q: My husband asked Do I want to be with him for the rest of our lives.This was my answer.- Do I want ... A: Corrina, You sound very confused and I'm not exactly sure why. If you love him now, you love him ... | |
| Will he divorce me now? | 11/18/2008 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: Okay, what's really going on here? What has gotten you all riled up to question your relationship? ... | |
| My ex and what he wants? | 11/16/2008 |
| Q: I'm not sure whether you will remember me or not. I sent you a fair few emails/questions July time ... A: Alice, It seems apparent to me that he still cares for you, but care for you or not, if he's in a ... | |
| will it ever be the same again? | 11/14/2008 |
| Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ... A: Diana, Great, thank you for the information. I think it just confirms what I said initially. I ... | |
| will it ever be the same again? | 11/13/2008 |
| Q: I met my current bf online, a little more than 7 years ago. He lives in the USA, I'm in Canada. We ... A: I won't necessarily tell you to let him go. But, I would like to know a few things. Have either of ... | |
| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
| Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ... A: Joann, Just goes right along with what I've been telling you. His interest level doesn't match ... | |
| Hello | 11/10/2008 |
| Q: well in answer to your question. I went out with him just two weeks ago....I was thinking of ... A: Joann, The reason I think you need to wait, is because you have this fixation with a man, who ... | |
| dating | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ... A: Joann, If you feel comfortable texting, then try it down the road. If not, give him a call. But, ... | |
| dating | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: In response to your last answer, i don't know if that was part of why, the touching but, he still ... A: I never asked, but how old are you? I don't know if you told me how old he was. I know he's "older". ... | |
| trust and hurt | 11/6/2008 |
| Q: my names eric and the love of my life is megan i need some help me and her are perfect together but ... A: Trust is a crazy thing. It can take a second to lose, but so much time to get back. You've lost her ... | |
| how to let it go | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. In the beginning things were great. We both are ... A: You shouldn't feel guilty about ending this relationship. These three months you've shared were ... | |
| Getting that 'spark' back | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: and thank you in advance for your advice. My wife and I have been together for over three years now ... A: It sounds like you two should definitely look into couple's counseling. This doesn't sound like ... | |
| Phone Sex Becoming Too Frequent? | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been very close over the last year and ... A: Phone sex, like any other kind of sex, can become routine and tiresome. And, just like physical ... | |
| dating | 11/3/2008 |
| Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ... A: Joann, I wouldn't even push it. He knows you are interested. If he is interested, too, he will call ... | |
| dating | 11/3/2008 |
| Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ... A: Joann, So, it sounds like his response is telling you that he really is unsure of what he wants ... | |
| Reply to your previous questions | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: You asked how the issue of him not wanting to have sex with me came up- We hadn't had sex in a while ... A: So, if it's just a low libido, you may want to add some spice to your intimacy. A great book is ... | |
| dating | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: I have a male companion who I've seen gone out to movies, he didn't call me after the date and I ... A: I think we've discussed this before just a week or two ago. Yes, there is a chance that he will call ... | |
| am i parranoid | 11/1/2008 |
| Q: i get really nervouse when any lass talks to my lad and i get angry when i see messages on his phone ... A: Let me ask you some questions first. Has he ever cheated on you or a former girlfriend (that you ... | |
| love and relationships | 10/30/2008 |
| Q: .. my feelings are very weird. For the first maybe 4-5 months of our relationship I always worried ... A: There's no guarantee that you will not have feelings like this again, but the good news is that you ... | |
| Girlfriend doesn't want the same things | 10/29/2008 |
| Q: I stumbled across this site and have, for quite some time now, been thinking that my girlfriend does ... A: As far as palm reading, believe it or not, nothing can create your future but you. So, maybe she was ... | |
| need advice | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ... A: Milli, Why not wait a few more days so he'll have time to receive the letter, read it and process ... | |
| This New Girl | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: Ok I just met this girl like a couple weeks ago it was weird. She was at wk this boy gave his number ... A: So, let's address these issues one at a time. First, let me just advise you, no matter where the ... | |
| need advice | 10/27/2008 |
| Q: My bf actually broke up with me last tuesday. It hurts. He says he feels that he is not in love ... A: Wow, you hit it right on. You said just what I would have. Maybe you should be sitting here. Yes, ... | |
| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ... A: Ryan, It doesn't sound like she was put off by your text. And, more importantly, she wasn't ... | |
| Again... | 10/24/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ... A: Ryan, I would say so. If it wasn't her, you just let know what you told me, and that you just ... | |
| Relationship | 10/23/2008 |
| Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ... A: Joann, So, it sounds like he's not really opening up to you. So, I wouldn't push it. He's either ... | |
| Get her back: Complicated | 10/22/2008 |
| Q: Ok, Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3.5 years. We were high school sweet hearts. ... A: Yes, you give her the space she needs. College often does this to relationships. One or both ... | |
| Relationship | 10/21/2008 |
| Q: My question is I am kind of friendly with this older man who is 54. He doesn't call me unless I ... A: Knowing a bit more about the relationship would make this a little easier for me, but with what ... | |
| Again... | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, again. It's been a little over 2-months since Kay and I saw each other/had a ... A: Ryan, Look back at those messages I sent you a few months ago. I told you that she will always care ... | |
| What can i do? | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. We have had many ups and downs throughout ... A: How did this not wanting to have sex with you issue come up? What preceded it, and what followed? ... | |
| *** Can we fix it? *** | 10/18/2008 |
| Q: In the past month or so me and my girlfriend for 2 years broke up. Before we broke up fully we ... A: There's really not much you can do right now. There's really nothing to prove to her. It's not so ... | |
| Whats wrong with me? | 10/18/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ... A: Salena, I am so pleased to hear that you two have talked this out and that you are on the same ... | |
| Out of love and fed up | 10/18/2008 |
| Q: I met Stephanie last year around this time and we had a good time. She found a job in my hometown 40 ... A: This is really less about what you can DO, to get her back, and more about her coming to terms with ... | |
| Need advice on what feeling my boyfriend has for me | 10/17/2008 |
| Q: I am 21 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for about 13 months. We get along great ... A: From what you are telling me, it doesn't sound like he's quite where you are (or where you want to ... | |
| Whats wrong with me? | 10/17/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ... A: Salena, So, what I'm hearing is that you lost your father at 11 and your mom had substance abuse ... | |
| taking a break/breaking up in a long distance relationship | 10/17/2008 |
| Q: my name is Julian, I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. Right before i left for my freshman ... A: Julian, Great question. It's the question everyone who is in your position asks: What do I do now? ... | |
| My gf is bored | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: My gf called me and told me she is bored of the relationship. We've been together for a year now and ... A: You are experiencing what most couples experience somewhere between 6 and 18 months into their ... | |
| Whats wrong with me? | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a month. Things are great! He treats me like I should be ... A: I can't tell you why you are acting this way for sure, but my guess is that you are sabotaging this ... | |
| Me an my boyfriend | 10/15/2008 |
| Q: My partner an i have been together for 3 years now an we have a baby who is 5months. Lately I've ... A: Parenthood can be a strain on a relationship, especially one where the couple was only two people ... | |
| my boyfriend and his ex | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, we have a good and honest relationship. a few days ... A: You are in a bit of a tough spot. The reason: you know of what he did, but because of the way you ... | |
| Her attention, where is it. | 10/13/2008 |
| Q: ..My fiance' and I have been engaged for awhile and just passed our 5 yr. anniversary from the day ... A: No matter what you ultimately decide, you can't move forward with this relationship in the state ... | |
| dating | 10/8/2008 |
| Q: it's me again, I have another question about the same subject. I haven't spoke to my friend since ... A: Joann, I wouldn't suggest calling him and asking him why he didn't call back. The reason: you don't ... | |
| dating | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ... A: Joann, So, it sounds to me that the two of you may be looking at this relationship differently. ... | |
| dating | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ... A: It sounds to me that this is not an exclusive relationship yet. You hadn't dated in four months. ... | |
| dating | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: If a man only sees you once in a while is there any way to change that??? but doesn't talk that ... A: Talk to him. Ask him what gives? Are you two just dating? Are you exclusive? What happens when you ... | |
| distrust | 10/6/2008 |
| Q: I am 21, he is 22, we've been together 3 and half years, and living together for a year and a half. ... A: The simple answer is to get away from him. That's it. You two need time apart. You've been together ... | |
| BREAK | 10/6/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. Until about four months ago ... A: It's incredibly common for couples to find themselves in a relationship rut between 6 and 18 months ... | |
| HELP !! | 10/5/2008 |
| Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ... A: Alessandra, Does she appear to be sexually aroused when she is pleasing you? Did she enjoy sexual ... | |
| my brother | 10/5/2008 |
| Q: My problem is my brother and his wife.They have been married for 6 years now and they have a 5 year ... A: The best thing for him to do is stay focused and strong for his daughter. He needs to keep his eye ... | |
| HELP !! | 10/2/2008 |
| Q: ok my question is quite interesting. I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. Ive been with her for ... A: Alessandra, Have you spoken about this yet? Does she give you any reason for why she feels this ... | |
| rethinking our relationship | 9/30/2008 |
| Q: Leon! My name is Elizabeth and I have a very loving boyfriend named Chris. We have been dating for a ... A: It sounds like you are dating a great guy, but, at least right now, he doesn't sound like he may be ... | |
| 2 Years. | 9/27/2008 |
| Q: my girlfriend (Diana) and I will have been dating for 2 years on Oct. 2nd. I am 22, she is 20. We ... A: What you two are going through is so common, yet not so commonly spoken of. Of all the questions I ... | |
| need some serious help | 9/25/2008 |
| Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ... A: Alexandra, How did you find out? Did she explain why this happened? Did it happen more than once? ... | |
| my relationship | 9/23/2008 |
| Q: I have had a rocky past and have know my girlfriend my whole life well just recently i got into a ... A: Without much details I can only give you some general advice. You may need to show her that you mean ... | |
| Long distance love | 9/21/2008 |
| Q: Leon I am planning on visiting my girlfriend in Ukraine next month. She is having a minor back ... A: Long-distance relationships are tough. There's no two ways about it. So, if you can manage and ... | |
| What Should i do? | 9/20/2008 |
| Q: I even asked her why our relationship feels so much different. She said she thinks that we lost our ... A: Well, what you are experiencing is very common. Most young people (and many who are older) are ... | |
| need some serious help | 9/19/2008 |
| Q: ok here is my question .. i am a girl and i have a girlfriend. i was best friends with my girlfriend ... A: If I'm reading this right, this is not so much about her promiscuity early on or that she gets hit ... | |
| does my bf still has feelings for his ex | 9/16/2008 |
| Q: we are together for past 5 months now. initially he used to talk to his ex which he stopped after i ... A: It's obvious to me that he's still not quite over her. that doesn't necessarily mean that he wants ... | |
| does she want me | 9/16/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ... A: CC, I'm glad to hear things sound like they are starting to work out better. Be patient and the ... | |
| does she want me | 9/15/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girl have been together for a while I know is perfect for me. its been great but lately ... A: I'd like to know how long you two have been dating. Also, what are your past dating histories like? ... | |
| relationship | 9/13/2008 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ... A: Agnies, From what you are telling me, it sounds like you may never have really been in love with ... | |
| relationship | 9/12/2008 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We've known each other for 4 years, living ... A: Wow, Agnies, you have a lot of different issues we need to touch upon to help you discover what ... | |
| Again... | 9/8/2008 |
| Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ... A: Ryan, I think your friend gave you some good advice. And, you know it, too. Although you feel ... | |
| My Paranoid Husband | 9/7/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ... A: The easiest way to put this all to rest is to get both of you checked.. period! If you know that you ... | |
| Should I try to get back with my boyfriend? | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: A few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend and for the first 2 days I felt pretty good, but now I ... A: So, some things immediately popped into my head as I was reading your message. You say that your ... | |
| Regretted saying "Do I still love you?" | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: Good day to you. I thank you for your time reading this letter. My name is Mariel, I'm 24 years ... A: First, take a deep breath. Relax. You are making this into something bigger than it is. In the heat ... | |
| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ... A: Ryan, No, of course I remember you and her situation. Friendship is the bond to make any ... | |
| Again... | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: Leon, Ryan again. I talked to you about a month ago about my ex, Kay. If you can remember, we ... A: Ryan, What you are going through is not easy. It's commonplace to miss someone like you do, when ... | |
| can phone sex cause attachment? | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: my name is sarah , I am 24 and the guy is 23 my question is that ive known this guy for about 5 ... A: Phone sex alone won't make you fall in love with someone. I'm not denying that you are in love. But, ... | |
| I messed up. | 9/2/2008 |
| Q: I was hanging out with my new boyfriend Kiel, we were at his house hanging out, and as the night ... A: It mans that Kiel is jealous, and is upset that there may still be something going on between you ... | |
| mixed signals, opinion needed... | 8/31/2008 |
| Q: i waited a month to have sex with him. he lives about 25 30 minutes from me. we see eachother once a ... A: No, don't ignore him. That's not going to make things better. At best, it MIGHT wake him up to how ... | |
| Relationship Problem | 8/31/2008 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for the past year now with someone I have known as my friend since I ... A: So, since you've known him for 27 years, is this new behavior, or has he always been like this? How ... | |
| Please Help | 8/27/2008 |
| Q: I and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 4 months and lately it’s not going that well. I ... A: You two have not been dating very long just yet, although it may feel like quite some time right ... | |
| my girlfriend and i are going thur a ruff time | 8/19/2008 |
| Q: hay my name is mike and all get down to it . my girlfriend and i just moved in with eachother and we ... A: The way to show her that you are more responsible is just by doing it. If you've shown her a pattern ... | |
| Break or a break up? | 8/15/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ... A: Angelina, It really depends on what you two think? A month sounds about right. But, I've heard some ... | |
| Break or a break up? | 8/14/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating this guy for over a year now and about a month and a half before our year mark, I ... A: I'd go for the break, first. It shows that you are at least giving it another shot, rather than just ... | |
| Confused | 8/10/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little bit over a year now. Of course, like any other ... A: My opinion: from what you've told me, I don't think your boyfriend is making a conscious effort to ... | |
| please help me! please | 8/9/2008 |
| Q: okay...ill go straight to the point. here it is! am in a relationship with a guy for like five ... A: First question I had when I read this was, "How long was it between the break with his ex, and you ... | |
| Confusion, once again. | 8/7/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ... A: Ryan, She's putting upon you the feelings she has for you, saying that you are in love with her, ... | |
| Getting him to come around | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ... A: Alice, I know you feel like you need to figure out what to do or to say to convince him that you ... | |
| Confusion, once again. | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, It's Ryan, you told me to let you know how the talk went, etc. Kay and I talked, ... A: Ryan, From what you are telling me... NOTHING. If that's the whole story, hen she's got some issues ... | |
| how can i strengthen our relationship | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: Me n my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years, a month after we started dating I got ... A: The spark naturally fizzles out usually between 6 and 18 months. Read this to get more information ... | |
| not sure what to do | 7/27/2008 |
| Q: I have a beautiful girlfriend that is 17 years old, im 19 and we've been going out for about almost ... A: Just for your information, I'm not a doctor (though I play one on the internet). But, feel free to ... | |
| On a break | 7/26/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ... A: April, You're right. No honest person fakes being in love. So, therefore, we must conclude that he ... | |
| Getting him to come around | 7/26/2008 |
| Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ... A: Alice, First, I would recommend not going to this meeting with the intent of reconciling. Go at it ... | |
| Getting him to come around | 7/25/2008 |
| Q: If you can remember my previous questions, if not: ... A: Alice, This sounds like a game of poker and he just may be bluffing. He's keeping his poker face ... | |
| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ... A: Jack, It's such a scary position to be in, not knowing what the future holds, and where this ... | |
| paranoid? | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: Im 17 and my boyfriend is 21. I know its a big age difference but im just not comfortable around ... A: Your concern makes perfect sense to me because you have been cheated on before. If you get bitten ... | |
| On a break | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (both 23) have been together for a year and a half. We were friends for several ... A: You guys sound pretty healthy in many ways. I love that you have used his break to grow and learn ... | |
| Girlfriend wants a break. | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6months. I love her a lot and we've been happy. Recently ... A: What does she mean that things are worse since being on the break? Didn't she ask for it? If things ... | |
| After all we've been through should I just let him go? | 7/23/2008 |
| Q: I have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've known each other for about 3 ... A: You may very well have Mr. Right right now, but the problem is, that your relationship is so fresh ... | |
| how to get my BF back to me? | 7/22/2008 |
| Q: This is was my 1st relationship to experience. at 1st my boyfriend loved me so much but i wasnt ... A: The good news is that he didn't break up with you and just move on. He was hurt. You hurt his ... | |
| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/22/2008 |
| Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ... A: Faye, I believe your boyfriend loves you , but it sounds like he'll take the free buffet wherever ... | |
| arguements in a relationship | 7/21/2008 |
| Q: My name is Cale. I'm in a perfect relationship with my girlfriend. We been through a lot. We been ... A: Has she given you any indication why she's acting this way? Does she tell you that she's bored, ... | |
| Feels like it's over. | 7/21/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. I'm 26 and he is 27 if that makes ... A: Sounds like he's become quite the self-centered jerk these last few months. Granted, you may have ... | |
| Financial Deal Breaker | 7/21/2008 |
| Q: I am in a long-term, long distance relationship. I am very much in love with Mike, but as he begun ... A: I wish you had asked me this question a year from now. I'm currently writing a book about how to ... | |
| Love | 7/20/2008 |
| Q: hey thanks for you time im just looking for any advice, i dont really have much to turn to...my ... A: Greg, You will feel a bit off balance and out of sorts at first, because things won't feel "right". ... | |
| Confusion, again. | 7/20/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ... A: Ryan, The pain is still right there under the surface. So, little things like that bring them to ... | |
| Getting through the tough times | 7/19/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. He owns a business and works a lot of hours ... A: You sure have had it rough as of late. Hang in there. You will get through the medical stuff, the ... | |
| taking a break | 7/19/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ... A: Jennifer, As far as advice, yes, it will be hard, especially in the beginning. It's only been a few ... | |
| it's complicated... | 7/18/2008 |
| Q: I am 30 years old, and my boyfriend, who I've been dating for 9 months, is 38. It is the longest, ... A: I like your motto of not settling, and waiting for the right person. You are right. You're in the ... | |
| Fires out. | 7/17/2008 |
| Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ... A: Nick, Then, what I think I would do is just take a step back, not approach her for a kiss or a hug. ... | |
| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/17/2008 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ... A: Alice, I'm glad you approached him on this and told him how you were feeling. You should have no ... | |
| Fires out. | 7/16/2008 |
| Q: Well I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and for the first 2 months me and her ... A: That's a tough situation you are in. You know something is up, yet you both go through the motions, ... | |
| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/16/2008 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ... A: Alice, Well, you can't stop him. He's got to make his own decision about this. And, he may just ... | |
| Confusion, again. | 7/16/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, I wrote to you a while back while my gf Kay and I were dating, and when we broke up. A ... A: Ryan, If I remember correctly, you two have always said that you would love each other forever. I ... | |
| Trust issues from previous relatiomnships | 7/15/2008 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 9 months when we split, just as things were starting to get ... A: First, let me tell you that nine months is right smack dab in the midst of when the "honeymoon ... | |
| Frustration | 7/15/2008 |
| Q: My name is Sara and I have been in a serious relationship with a man for 4 years. Because of the ... A: I think I can better help advise you if I know a little bit more. If are comfortable with telling ... | |
| taking a break | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. I find ... A: From what you've said, I think a break may be in order. You care about each other, but have gotten ... | |
| Marriage Needing Some Help | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: Wow, how to say what needs to be said without writing a book...here goes...My husband and I have ... A: You are not alone, my friend. I wrote a book for pregnant couples about keeping romance alive during ... | |
| Keeping Relationships Interesting | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 1. We don't fight much, ... A: If you are feeling this way, odds are, he is, too. But, let me assure you, although it doesn't make ... | |
| what should I do? | 7/13/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ... A: Sandy, Reading between the lines is a difficult skill, and I don't pretend to be an expert at it, ... | |
| keeping the relationship | 7/12/2008 |
| Q: I am a 20 yr old female and I am really worried my boyfriend of almost 3 years might break up with ... A: It is absolutely normal for couples to lose that romantic spark. You say it drifted after about two ... | |
| what should I do? | 7/12/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend & I have been dating on & off for almost 4 yrs. we fight so much about stupid stuff. i ... A: You asked what you should do. My question is, what do you want to do? I mean, you are in a ... | |
| Break up | 7/11/2008 |
| Q: Please advise what you think about my situation and on my chances and ways to bring my ex boyfriend ... A: So there are lots of issues here, and a few questions I need cleared up. Let's go right down your ... | |
| Going on a "Break" | 7/11/2008 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. We met online playing a game ... A: You have great questions about the break. Most of them I cannot answer because it depends on the ... | |
| What do I do? | 7/11/2008 |
| Q: Not sure if i'm in the right place or not but maybe you can help me. I'm 17 and i'm 20 weeks ... A: I would venture to guess that your boyfriend is probably feeling a bit nervous, scared or uneasy ... | |
| Need rekindling for relationship | 7/11/2008 |
| Q: I would like to rekindle me and my fiances relationship together but have no idea how, we both still ... A: There are lots of ways to rekindle your relationship. Here's a link about getting passion back ... | |
| What to do?? | 7/10/2008 |
| Q: So me and this guy I have been hanging out for a while now. At first, he wasn't genuinely ... A: Yes, he could be playing you, but then again, he might not. You can always look at the negative side ... | |
| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/10/2008 |
| Q: Many women are well educated and career oriented in Saudi Arabia and Arab countries. They use their ... A: A lot of how we handle a relationship is due to the way we were raised. What we saw in our own ... | |
| critical question | 7/9/2008 |
| Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ... A: I'm sorry, but my conscience will not allow me to help you to cheat on your wife. I will be glad to ... | |
| My bf and I seem not to get along. | 7/9/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating my bf for 6 months now. I am 21 and he is 28. Most of the time we get along but ... A: Usually right around this time in a relationship (6 to 18 months), things start to change from ... | |
| on a break | 7/8/2008 |
| Q: I know this is a boring problem, seems like everyone goes through it, but that doesn't make it less ... A: There are no problems too boring. I love that you and your boyfriend are mature enough to ... | |
| critical question | 7/8/2008 |
| Q: i am a married man who got a new relation with a lovely girl that afterwards i told her that i am ... A: Hold up. Are you telling me that you are married, but have fallen in love with another woman and you ... | |
| Am I over reacting... | 7/7/2008 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend has been together for almost 10 months now, we live in different cities but we ... A: You know, people move at different speeds in relationship. Ten months can be a relatively short ... | |
| well..... | 7/3/2008 |
| Q: hey leon thanks for that answer you gave me it really helped and i told him about it. so he has made ... A: Gaby, You sounded like you wanted this to work, at first. Now, you say you are pushing him away. ... | |
| Confussed | 7/2/2008 |
| Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ... A: Mimmi, It sounds precisely like you are taking a break. Like I said, could be a very good thing. ... | |
| Girlfriend says she loves me? | 7/2/2008 |
| Q: I was asked out by this great girl 4 months ago. She says she loves me and thinks I'm a great ... A: It's very hard in a relationship when both people are looking at things from different points of ... | |
| Lack of commuication | 7/1/2008 |
| Q: I don't know if this should be in this section or in the friends section because its mainly about ... A: Your lack of communication and shyness, could be a combination of your upbringing as well as your ... | |
| Confussed | 6/30/2008 |
| Q: I meet my boyfriend in Sept 08. I am 29, and he is 35. We live over an hour apart. He has a very ... A: First, you two were speaking of marriage so early because you wee under a "spell". The brain ... | |
| is okay that we are back together???? | 6/30/2008 |
| Q: okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 5 months. the relationship was very ... A: Yikes! There's so much going on here. I'm kind of torn with how to advise you. See, you two seem to ... | |
| What happens now? | 6/29/2008 |
| Q: I am a 19 year old girl and I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy the same age as me. We've ... A: I hear you and understand where you are coming from. The "honeymoon stage" is over and reality is ... | |
| he wants some space/break | 6/29/2008 |
| Q: Me & my boyfriend met in college last December ('07). He was a senior and I was a sophomore. We ... A: First off, yes, it is normal, for a number of reasons. Let me start off by telling you that where ... | |
| Affection | 6/26/2008 |
| Q: I have been going out my 15 year old boyfriend for over two months now and lately it hasn’t been ... A: Do you take any meds for your ADHD? If so, are they working? If not, have you just decided to deal ... | |
| is he cheating or am i paranoid??? | 6/26/2008 |
| Q: WEll im 17 and have a boyfriend 19 who i love very much he is the love of my life we have been going ... A: Well, first I would have to recommend that you guys extend your engagement a little past December. ... | |
| Can we fix this? | 6/25/2008 |
| Q: I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend. There is no doubt about it, and I am sure he loves me ... A: Right around 18 months into a relationship (if not earlier) couples generally realize that the ... | |
| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/19/2008 |
| Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ... A: Mark, Good job with getting involved with other things and toning down the alcohol consumption. Of ... | |
| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
| Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ... A: Anthony, First, you both should be thankful that you are not going to be parents right now, not ... | |
| What Do I DO With Her? | 6/15/2008 |
| Q: Well I have been with this girl for over a year and a half which i know isn't very long but it isn't ... A: What you do is wait. You two need time to simmer down. I mean, my goodness, this relationship is on ... | |
| is it time to break up | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 1/2 years. I am 27 and he is 31. We have lived together for ... A: What does he mean, "on his terms". Marriage is not about one person's terms. You go into it ... | |
| army relationship | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend have been together two years..we love each other very much...he is going to Iraq ... A: To make the time go faster, you're going to have to fill your time up with activities. You ever ... | |
| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/9/2008 |
| Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ... A: Mark, You can't do anything, really, accept try to move on and wait until things simmer down with ... | |
| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/7/2008 |
| Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ... A: Al, So, if what you say about the kiss from the ex is accurate, then your girlfriend is really ... | |
| love vs compatibility. | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: I know there are a lot of ways to answer this question but you may be able to help me. I am ... A: You can go to places online that will offer you and your partner "compatibility testing". But, the ... | |
| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ... A: Al, It sounds to me that you're leaving part of this story out. It doesn't add it, to me. It's ... | |
| Weird thoughts about ex. | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: I hope you can help. I dated my ex for 2 years, and a few months. About a month ago, we broke up. ... A: You've got a bit of the jealous bug. You are pretty darn sure that she's not doing these things, but ... | |
| Me and my girlfriend are on a break | 6/3/2008 |
| Q: To start off I really suck at typing but ill try my best to ask my question. My question I have is ... A: A few things, first, it's fine to talk about marriage, but I wouldn't recommend couples to look at ... | |
| my past n him? | 6/3/2008 |
| Q: since you're a guy i figure maybe you could help me better. am in a 3 months relationship with my ... A: You are absolutely right, Dori. If you are not ready, you are not ready. But, I do understand that ... | |
| How do I stop ruining good relationships? | 6/3/2008 |
| Q: I was wondering if you can please help me. Ive been in many relationships over the years, a lot ... A: I'm so glad that yo see what's happening. You choose these guys who treat you poorly. Then, when you ... | |
| How do I get my girlfriend back | 6/2/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend were going out for one year, nine months, 15 days. I thought everything was ... A: Well, I'm sorry to tell you, that it's not about what you do, although things would be easier if it ... | |
| We just got back together...now what? | 6/1/2008 |
| Q: I am 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We had been together for 7 months when we split up for more than a ... A: It's normal to have a decline in the relationship about 6 to 18 months into it. Your brain chemistry ... | |
| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/29/2008 |
| Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ... A: Zak, Of course, you're hurting, Zak. And, it's not going to feel very god for awhile. But, as you ... | |
| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/27/2008 |
| Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ... A: Zak, It sounds like you are looking at this in as positive of a light as you can. If she's done ... | |
| Pls advise me | 5/26/2008 |
| Q: i have a problem which i hope u can help me. i am 28 years old and i've known my boyfriend for ... A: I don't think he does this because he's bored and has nothing to do after work. If that's the case, ... | |
| Relationship, friendship, now nothing. | 5/25/2008 |
| Q: I broke up with my gf of 2 years about a month ago. We stayed good friends and hung out/talked ... A: You know that your ex didn't mean all those things. She was just angry... really angry, and, at the ... | |
| She's leaving | 5/25/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ... A: Chris, Yes, you are right. Love isn't always playful and fun as it is at the beginning. Love can be ... | |
| She's leaving | 5/21/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and she broke up with me a few days ago. She says the ... A: One of two things could be happening here. See, the first 6 to 18 months of a relationship usually ... | |
| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/20/2008 |
| Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ... A: Conner, Drop her a quick text, something like "You up to talking to me tonight?" If she is, ... | |
| Relationship Trouble | 5/12/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about 5 years, lately he has absolutely no interest in me. We ... A: If he's not talking to you, making love, going out, and is looking for singles online, trying to let ... | |
| girlfriend wants a break | 5/11/2008 |
| Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ... A: Andy, This is one I can't really tell you what to do. You kind of need to call this one on your ... | |
| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/10/2008 |
| Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ... A: Conner, I'm glad your family friend confirmed my suspicions. Now, it's just a waiting game. It's a ... | |
| I really messed up - Part 2 | 5/10/2008 |
| Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ... A: Karen, Your boyfriend is going to in for quite a shock, looking for a relationship that doesn't ... | |
| I have no clue what's going on. | 5/9/2008 |
| Q: I'll start off with a brief history. My gf and I have dated for about 2 years, we're a little more ... A: Here's the part that may surprise you... she's just as confused as you (it sounds). She sounds as ... | |
| girlfriend wants a break | 5/8/2008 |
| Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ... A: Andy, There's no universal wrong or right way to act in this situation. Really it comes down to ... | |
| I really messed up | 5/8/2008 |
| Q: Baxter, I really hope you can help me on this one. First some backround. Back in 2004 I was going ... A: You didn't make a mistake. If he proposed to you, and you said, "no", then the next day he's going ... | |
| girlfriend wants a break | 5/7/2008 |
| Q: well i have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. her name is candice, she is awesome, the ... A: It sounds like Candice really wants to be with you in the end, but isn't ready for that commitment ... | |
| Escaping her past | 5/6/2008 |
| Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ... A: Edward, It's okay to feel the way you are feeling. Like I said, with time, it will subside. But, if ... | |
| Day girlfriend | 5/4/2008 |
| Q: Leon, I have been dating a girl whose job is satisfying other men at night (one month now). She took ... A: Before I answer your question, let me understand a few things first: Do you mean that by satisfying ... | |
| Escaping her past | 5/3/2008 |
| Q: Hey there, I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a relationship that's been going on for about four ... A: Before I address the situation, I want to know about two things: 1) what stupid thing do you think ... | |
| theres something awkward between us | 5/2/2008 |
| Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ... A: Well, here's the thing, Brian. You told me that you both are in the same place, but it sounds as ... | |
| theres something awkward between us | 4/30/2008 |
| Q: Heres my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months. Things have been ... A: This is perfect, absolutely perfect! Do not worry, my friend. Nothing is wrong... it just feels that ... | |
| ref: question | 4/26/2008 |
| Q: Good day, In any relationship there is give and take. In trying to develop a relationship, how does ... A: Be open and admit your faults right up. Don't shy away from them: "Okay, Sara, I need your help. I ... | |
| Break (up) | 4/25/2008 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ... A: So here are your options: you stay together in the relationship you have now, which you both agree ... | |
| How to deal with this break? | 4/25/2008 |
| Q: I came into college as a freshman in 2006. I met a girl Jan. of my freshman year named Brynn, she is ... A: Brynn sounds like she may be unsure of what she wants right now. You are at a crossroads. The ... | |
| Saving The Relationship | 4/23/2008 |
| Q: My problem is simple but I can't quite explain my behavior. My girlfriend of nine months feels that ... A: This might be easier than you think. First, let me just assure you that love is love, no matter what ... | |
| love | 4/23/2008 |
| Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ... A: Mariah, Of course he's upset when you tell him you're thinking of dating someone else. Then, he's ... | |
| Break (up) | 4/23/2008 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend just broke up but we want some time to think and meet up again in some time (1 ... A: If everything you've said is accurate, you ABSOLUTELY can fix this. Let me first tell you that the ... | |
| Relationship in limbo | 4/23/2008 |
| Q: I have been with a woman for almost 2 years now (Sept 06 - Current). When we first started dating we ... A: First, don't get married in August. The postponing of the wedding sounds like the best idea. Sure, ... | |
| keeping a relationship | 4/22/2008 |
| Q: Me and my Fiancé are 2 years and 7 months and we always fiting about small things which is not ... A: What you are going through is incredibly common. You are in love, but the excitement is gone. It's ... | |
| Break-up. | 4/21/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ... A: Ryan, I know it's hard. This kind of thing always is. There's really no easy way to get through it, ... | |
| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ... A: Ryan, You know her better than I. It sounds like the best thing is to give her the space she's ... | |
| Break-up. | 4/20/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. She goes to school about 200 miles away, I go ... A: First, I do think that whenever there is a break, ground rules should be set. Here's a report that ... | |
| love | 4/18/2008 |
| Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ... A: Mariah, Like I said, it sounds to me that if you two "date" via long-distance, he may still end up ... | |
| Relationship issues | 4/17/2008 |
| Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ... A: I know that the choice you've made is hard for you, but it's not selfish at all. You re giving her ... | |
| love | 4/15/2008 |
| Q: okay, i am 15 years old and i am in love with this boy.he has a girlfriend but he says all the time ... A: Does he claim that he has a girlfriend because the two of you are too far apart to date? If that's ... | |
| Relationship issues | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: I am a 22 yr old male and my ex is a 21 yr old female. She absolutely thrives on the honeymoon stage ... A: Wow! It sounds like she's still working through some issues, because you are the first guy she's ... | |
| Help Repair My Relationship | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating this girl for a year and a half now, and we have been through quite a few things ... A: You seem to have fallen into the very common category called "The Passion Is Gone". This is so ... | |
| I think I lost my girlfriend | 4/12/2008 |
| Q: Well this is a first for me but I really love my girlfriend but idk what the hell is going wrong ... A: I'm not much of a believer of falling out of love. Either she never loved you and just thought she ... | |
| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ... A: Joanna, I'm almost with you here, but before I offer my advice about what you might say to him, I'm ... | |
| Hmm... | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: Well to make a long story short, I'm 20 he's 21, we've been together for three years. The first two ... A: This is all a bit confusing. There are so many issues here: he doesn't want to be in love, he wants ... | |
| Need another chance to prove myself | 4/8/2008 |
| Q: I have been living with my girlfriend for more than 3 years now. She has an 11 year old son. We both ... A: You know she doesn't want this either, don't you? She wants to believe in you. She wants to trust ... | |
| Rekindle a currently rocky relationship with my girlfriend | 4/7/2008 |
| Q: Hey, I'm after some advice of what to do in my relationship - we've been together nearly seven ... A: Yours is the most common question I get, Matt. that's good news for you. That means it's normal. ... | |
| i dont know what to do | 4/7/2008 |
| Q: im a vey young but i don know whhat 2 do i met this girl about the beginning of my junior year in ... A: This is bigger than the two of you right now. If she's clinically depressed, the problem is that she ... | |
| is time off in a relationship bad? | 4/3/2008 |
| Q: I am on a 3 year relationship with my bf from US, i am in Mexico and he actually moved here to be ... A: I don't know if the 100 questions was the trigger for this way he's been acting or i it merely is ... | |
| Leon Please Help! THANK U!! | 4/1/2008 |
| Q: First of all thank you so much for taking in my question. I am under a lot of duress, and issues. My ... A: I can't tell you for sure what Bryan's deal is, but I can assume that he is pretty darn gun-shy. ... | |
| My boyfriend doesn't work and it's hard on me | 4/1/2008 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend in December but we were friends first. He didn't have a job then but I was ok ... A: Yikes! Things sure seem to have gotten uncomfortable quickly. He's already coming to your house, ... | |
| my boyfriend | 3/31/2008 |
| Q: my name is shelby, and I am 12 years old. I was wondering, if my boyfriend, Benji, and I, will be ... A: Shelby, I don't have the power to know how someone feels, but I would think since he is your ... | |
| Advice needed | 3/29/2008 |
| Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ... A: It's obvious to me that you are very intelligent and on the ball. You understand where you came from ... | |
| Advice needed | 3/28/2008 |
| Q: Baxter, Hello. This will prove to be a long letter, and I apologize in advance, but I wanted ... A: I know that you love your boyfriend. But, as you've learned in the past, love really is not enough ... | |
| Am I over reacting? | 3/26/2008 |
| Q: Leon, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month now. We met in 1997 and went to 7th ... A: I think you're reading into this because you don't have much else to go on. Sure you've technically ... | |
| My relationship with my boyfriend | 3/23/2008 |
| Q: How can I strengthen my relationship with my boyfriend after I cheated on him? I've been with my ... A: You need to start by trying to figure out why you cheated in the first place. Because, until you do, ... | |
| STRENGTHEN MY RELATIONSHIP | 3/22/2008 |
| Q: How do i stop being selfish and start giving my all to my relationship. Note, i have had a bad ... A: You say that you are being selfish and not giving your all. Then, you go on to say that this man ... | |
| NEED OPINION | 3/19/2008 |
| Q: I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP OF 5 1/2 YEARS AND I'M CURRENTLY IN THE MILITARY, WHEN I GO HOME ON VACATION ... A: Being away from each other, be it due to the military or other reasons, is tough on a relationship. ... | |
| Some problems.. | 3/18/2008 |
| Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ... A: Brycen, She's not taking a break from you because of her friends, Brycen. Her friends are just ... | |
| My boyfriend | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend works as a security guard and is either working nights or catching up with sleep. He ... A: Ideally, if he changed his job or work hours, that would make time together much easier. But, I'm ... | |
| Some problems.. | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: Hey.. I was hoping I could get some help on this if you don't mind.. Well about 9 months ago.. I ... A: Wait a sec here. So, you trust her with all your heart, but she is sneaking email messages with an ... | |
| strengthen my relationship | 3/16/2008 |
| Q: am about to lose the love of my life any day now we have been dating for two years now we're been ... A: I have a belief that if you love someone it's extremely rare to fall out of love. It can happen, but ... | |
| Relationship- trust | 3/14/2008 |
| Q: I, in a way, feel foolish for having to take my problem outside of my relationship. But sometimes ... A: Let me just set the record straight: going outside to seek help for your relationship is nothing to ... | |
| Military lifestyle | 3/13/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend of 2 years is a United States Marine. He has been gone for his 3 month boot camp ... A: Being in a long distance relationship is very tough for anyone, but for the partners of military ... | |
| ex | 3/11/2008 |
| Q: my girl friend and I dated for almost 6 months. 2 months into our relationship, she asked me to ... A: It sounds to me that she just feels hurt. She obviously had very strong feelings for you. She wanted ... | |
| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ... A: Linda, It's great that he's stepping up and telling everyone to get out of your business, because ... | |
| What should i do? | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: I and my bf have been dating almost 1 year and we got along pretty well until his mum made up some ... A: This sounds awfully complicated and convoluted, with his parents, black magic, your parents, a ... | |
| Sabatical | 3/9/2008 |
| Q: This is Mitch - we corresponded on several occasions last summer, with my last being in July. At ... A: Mitch, You're going to come out on the other side of this a better person, a stronger person and a ... | |
| Can this be salvaged? | 3/9/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we used to get along just fine but I don't think I love ... A: To answer the question in your topic: yes, yes and YES! Why am I so adamant about it? Because I ... | |
| she wants to take a "break" | 3/7/2008 |
| Q: hey me and my girl has been dating going on 4 months! here recently i lost my job. and her mom and ... A: So there are a few things we should address here. First, she's going through a tough time right now, ... | |
| Is it time to give it up? | 3/5/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I'm 28, he's 27. We've been living together for 3 ... A: Take the next day that the two of you have off and hit the nearest amusement park. Get out of your ... | |
| other girls | 3/4/2008 |
| Q: Hey!!!!!!! Im Alexandra.....and I have a bf(boyfriend)named Charles.We've been dating for close to ... A: You know, friendships are friendships no matter if their boys or girls. If he were going to boys' ... | |
| Out of love | 3/3/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old and are about to graduate from college in May. My boyfriend ... A: There are a couple of things that we could look at here. One is that you were going out for 14 ... | |
| No patients | 3/2/2008 |
| Q: My baby's mamma is 34 and both parents deceased. We have a 4 1/2 y/o boy who is very active. Mom has ... A: I am so happy that you are trying to figure out how to make this relationship work. What is she ... | |
| Is a break a good thing? | 3/1/2008 |
| Q: i have been dating my girlfriend for a year now I'm 17 turning 18 very soon and shes 16 turning 17 ... A: Of course I don't know the entire situation, but from what you're telling me, it sounds legit; I ... | |
| Wow... | 2/23/2008 |
| Q: I am in the bad situation: My boyfriend now views family, marriage, sex, and relationships as bad. ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend was struggling finding his place in life, in the world, before he came ... | |
| He's uncertcain about his feelings | 2/22/2008 |
| Q: I’ve been dating this man 9 yrs my senior (he’s 34, I’m 25) for the past 6 months. He lives in NY ... A: First, let me assure you that the whole "drifting" thing is quite normal at the beginning of ... | |
| what to do | 2/21/2008 |
| Q: Im Kayla and I have a boyfriend named Caleb. We have been dating for 9 and a half months. I know we ... A: What a great question. I love the fact that you are being proactive with your relationship, trying ... | |
| Can I get her back? | 2/19/2008 |
| Q: Alright,so,I've been in a relationship with this girl for 14 and a half months,we weren't friends ... A: Long messages, deserve full responses. There's a lot going on here that I want to discuss with you. ... | |
| confused | 2/19/2008 |
| Q: I am totally confused about everything my boyfriend signals. We have been on a break for 2 months. ... A: Alicia, No, it is not wrong for couples to discuss their feelings, even if they know that their ... | |
| How do I teach my boyfriend to be affectionate? | 2/15/2008 |
| Q: I’m 25 years old with very little experience on relationships. The relationship I’m currently in is ... A: First off, I'm glad that you realize that TV and movie relationships are mostly fantasy. If we ... | |
| should I move on? | 2/14/2008 |
| Q: I am 21yr old girl working in an IT firm as an engineer.I fell in love with a guy in college and we ... A: It sounds like there may be two issues that are causing this obstacle in your relationship. The ... | |
| friendship lost | 2/13/2008 |
| Q: i have been with my fiancee for a little over a yr and we had an inseperable relationship for the ... A: You could be the victims of two situations. First, you are right at the point that most ... | |
| Love or no? | 2/13/2008 |
| Q: Baxter, i have a true situation. I met this girl couple years back and i was physically attracted ... A: I admire you for seeking help rather than just letting the relationship wither or by cheating on ... | |
| keeping her interested | 2/10/2008 |
| Q: Leon, i haven't been with my girlfriend for that long but long enough to realize how special she is ... A: I wonder how long the two of you have been dating. This kind of lull in a relationship is very ... | |
| How to move forward together... | 2/8/2008 |
| Q: I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for just over one year and have a really good ... A: That must have been very hard to put your heart out on the line like that and not get the same in ... | |
| Confused | 2/7/2008 |
| Q: I am a 30 year old divorced woman. My ex and I have a 4 year old together and are still good ... A: It seems so cut and dry. It's time to move on. But, it's obvious that it's not as easy as that, ... | |
| Communication | 2/7/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 9 months now and we're beginning to fight a lot ... A: You know, by putting her first and trying to give her different things, you are showing her that she ... | |
| Life has become routine | 2/6/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for 9 years, and our love life has become so routine. We both ... A: After being married for nine years, it is quite normal for your love life to become routine. Most ... | |
| my boyfriend, john | 2/6/2008 |
| Q: Hey! I have a boyfriend named John and a close friend named Lisa. Today, I have found out that Lisa ... A: Just because Lisa likes John, don't punish him. He never said he liked her, and he has said he's ... | |
| Don't want to lose her | 2/4/2008 |
| Q: Leon, I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. I've been dating this girl for about three months now and it ... A: It sounds like you both want this to work, but there's a glitch that's keeping you from ... | |
| on a break | 2/3/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, My boyfriend and I both have been on a break for one month. I know that one month is not a ... A: Here's a report that I think may be of some help ... | |
| My boyfriend and commitment | 2/1/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ... A: Kim, What can you do, Kim? I mean, you've told him how you feel, so now the ball is in his court. ... | |
| Starting Over | 1/31/2008 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for six months and have been living together for four. It was ... A: I can understand how you might feel devastated by the events that took place. I'm so sorry for what ... | |
| Dear Leon | 1/30/2008 |
| Q: Ok I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 5 months! Everything was great for awhile ... A: You can't be tying to read her mind and hope that you make the right move. You need to get down to ... | |
| My boyfriend and commitment | 1/30/2008 |
| Q: I have been dating my bf for 2 years and a few months now. I just moved in with him about 4 months ... A: What have his past relationships been like? Has he ever been in a serious relationship that ended ... | |
| Regaining trust | 1/29/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend thinks I violated his trust which I didn't but I want to know how to REGAIN his trust. ... A: Cari, His response doesn't seem to be as mature as it should be. He shouldn't be getting other ... | |
| my boyfriend | 1/27/2008 |
| Q: I have a boyfriend that i have dated for more than 8 monthes.I have three questions: 1)I have a ... A: 1) Jealousy is a normal human trait, but we must tried to control it and think about it logically if ... | |
| I don't want to lose her. | 1/26/2008 |
| Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ... A: William, So, I don't think that the problem is so much that this guy has come back into her life. ... | |
| another girl | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: I have a girlfriend that lives 61 miles away from me. I love her more than anything, but there's ... A: When you are thinking of this other girl, is it more of a fantasy or is it more like you're secretly ... | |
| the break | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: Leon, My girlfriend and I have dated for almost two years. However, at the beginning, I think we may ... A: Strange as it may seem, with me giving advice on keeping relationships together, I'm actually a huge ... | |
| I don't want to lose her. | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: I dated my girlfriend for 9 months and then all of a sudden we broke up. We were apart for a little ... A: It sounds like your girlfriend gets scared when she sees that there's a true potential, that ... | |
| Not COMPLETELY sure how I feel. | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for almost seven months. I'm 17 and she's 16. They've been quite good, ... A: You sound a bit indecisive, Josh. You say that you care about your gf, and that you don't want to ... | |
| five month relationship | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: I met a guy about five months ago. At the time I was dating three guys and decided I wanted to be ... A: From what you've told me, I don't feel as though you are being taken advantage of. Losing family ... | |
| long distance and dull love | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: My partner and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He works away from home and I only see ... A: Moving out of the Honeymoon Stage is quite common. It's all about chemistry and hormones. Take a ... | |
| not sure. | 1/21/2008 |
| Q: Hey Leon, I'm sure you hate it when people write you long and over extensive messages, but please ... A: There are a lot of things I would like to touch on. First, it's incredibly common for couples to ... | |
| boyfriend | 1/19/2008 |
| Q: I am 43 and my boy friend sites on chair and looks at a TV what about me A: It sounds like the problem here is more than a relationship problem. It appears that your boyfriend ... | |
| My Girlfriend and I | 1/19/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we live together. We used to ... A: It sounds as if your girlfriend is going through some kind of change right now. Could be anything: ... | |
| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/14/2008 |
| Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ... A: Diana, First off, twenty-seven definitely isn't over-the-hill yet. Right now, you are in your ... | |
| Friend with benefit when thing change (feelings) | 1/14/2008 |
| Q: I was in a friend with benefits for 8 months with a guy. He gave me ever signal that he was ready ... A: It appears he's giving you a huge signal: "I am interested in sex, but I don't want to be in a ... | |
| How to Strengthen my Relationship | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I've known him for 5 years. The last 2 weeks have ... A: I very rarely push my book when someone asks for advice, but you two are THE PERFECT CANDIDATES for ... | |
| How to I try again succesffuly? | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now, it will be 3 this year. I am 22, he is ... A: I think that you are being asked to move out of your place of comfort and it feels really ... | |
| heart broken | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: I've been in one relationsip all of my life.I am 27years old.I married my first love and after 10 ... A: I'll be completely honest with you. I think the only way to save this second relationship is to step ... | |
| 8 year relationship..may have to call it quits! | 1/8/2008 |
| Q: I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now. I am a 27 year old ... A: Wow, you certainly are in a pickle. It sounds like this guy truly loves you. And, I can tell you ... | |
| Short relationships | 1/8/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 20 year old guy and I consider myself attractive. My problem is that my relationships tend to ... A: It could be that you're just not ready for a long-term, "serious" relationship right now. And, ... | |
| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
| Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ... A: Rich, I'm guessing that you're lying because you want to be sure you say or do the "right" thing so ... | |
| love sick | 1/4/2008 |
| Q: my ex was online one night and met this women and said that i should meet and her and i did. I am ... A: Tell me a little more. Are you dating face-to-face or only online? How are you lying to her? What ... | |
| Communicationg with my boyfriend | 12/31/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend has told me that I don't communicate with him. I do talk to him, we live together...he ... A: It appears that your parents' relationship may be what's affecting you today. Very often children ... | |
| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/20/2007 |
| Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ... A: Peter, Well, that 10 minute rule doesn't seem to really be working for you. The idea is that after ... | |
| 4 Yrs and problems | 12/19/2007 |
| Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs. We split up and i lost over 100 pounds. now we are ... A: The hardest part about what I do, is that I sometimes have to make pretty crucial decisions about a ... | |
| hi Leon i need to strengthen my relationship with my girlfriend | 12/17/2007 |
| Q: We just got into a huge fight last night and we were about to break up over something stupid. It ... A: Before I give you tips on strengthening this relationship, what else is going on? Because it sounds ... | |
| Stupid, little fights. | 12/14/2007 |
| Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ... A: Conner, I really can't tell you why Mom acts this way. Could be something as deep-seeded as anger ... | |
| Boyfriend of 5 years does not talk about marriage | 12/11/2007 |
| Q: Well, first off, I am going a single mom and I have been divorced for 8 years. I started seeing my ... A: So, let me see if I've got this straight. You've been together almost six years. He won't talk to ... | |
| Stupid, little fights. | 12/9/2007 |
| Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ... A: Conner, I hope you had the chance to look at this report regarding long-distance relationships ... | |
| Stupid, little fights. | 12/8/2007 |
| Q: Leon, I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half. We started off in September of last year, ... A: You're treating your girlfriend like this because you love her. It sounds like you're frustrated ... | |
| My Boyfriend :) | 12/8/2007 |
| Q: To skip through all the details we are 100% in love. I know this for a fact and there is no doubt in ... A: I don't doubt that you are in love either. Take a look at this report about what love is ... | |
| Mr I-dont-do-romance | 12/6/2007 |
| Q: I hope you can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him like nothing ... A: Mwenya, I'm not going to tell you to break up with him or not, but based on your last message to ... | |
| Being "unavailable" | 12/3/2007 |
| Q: I have being going out with an amazing women for a short amount of time (6 months) and in these 6 ... A: I think the idea of becoming "unavailable" is one that some authors are pushing when courting or ... | |
| lost trust | 12/1/2007 |
| Q: My wife and i have been married for almost 5 years. We have two children together, I love my wife ... A: To answer question number one, you are right to be aware and on your toes. She has told you that ... | |
| misunderstanding problem | 11/28/2007 |
| Q: Hey, well urrm,..first of all,i know i was wrong about the problem,it started when...she told me if ... A: Aiyad, What's been your relationship before this incident? I understand you went on a first date. ... | |
| i feel like im so alone( its very long, sorry) | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: my boyfreind and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ... A: Ashlee, Did you read the report I suggested? It will help you answer most of your concerns ... | |
| misunderstanding problem | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: Hey, well urrm,..first of all,i know i was wrong about the problem,it started when...she told me if ... A: I'm a little confused. I'm not exactly sure what happened and who said what. Is this person your ... | |
| i feel like im so alone( its very long, sorry) | 11/26/2007 |
| Q: my boyfreind and i have been dating for a year and 2 months, he means the most to me in the world. ... A: I can tell that you really love your boyfriend. I would guess this is the longest you've gone out ... | |
| Mr I-dont-do-romance | 11/23/2007 |
| Q: I hope you can help me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I love him like nothing ... A: I bet you that your boyfriend really DOES DO romance, but neither of you may be recognizing it. ... | |
| Nice guy | 11/21/2007 |
| Q: Hey, Im sam, and im 15. I think/know I am to much of a nice guy. I have a backbone, but usually will ... A: I learned that whenever I went "looking" to find a girlfriend, it was always harder than when I ... | |
| Getting Married | 11/21/2007 |
| Q: I am 27 years old and have been dating a 33 year old guy for almost 2 years. We have a really good ... A: You are in a tough place. You sound like you have a terrific relationship with a man who shares your ... | |
| relationship help ASAP. | 11/18/2007 |
| Q: Baxter, My boyfriend and I have been together for years now on and off. It started out beautifully. ... A: Your boyfriend doesn't seem to respect you the way he used to or the way that he should. He may be ... | |
| bitch girl friend | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ... A: Victor, Hey, I'm glad to hear that she's starting to put some effort into this relationship. So, ... | |
| depression, fustration and love | 11/14/2007 |
| Q: i'm with this girl for 9 months now. i'm 18 and she's 16. pretty young :). so, it was so beautiful ... A: First, it's not about the sex. Although you are only two years apart in age, that's a world of ... | |
| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
| Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ... A: Courtney, Let me ask you this: how would you feel if you didn't call or text him and he never ... | |
| Important question | 11/5/2007 |
| Q: I need you help. I am 21 years old have been seeing this guy who is 25 years old, from my son's ... A: Don't be afraid of scaring him off by trying to move this relationship out of the bedroom. You want ... | |
| Break: | 11/5/2007 |
| Q: Hey my names di and I have a big problem, me and my girl have been together for almost 5 months and ... A: Well to answer your question, you and your girlfriend need to define the terms of your break. What ... | |
| Fizzling Love Life | 11/3/2007 |
| Q: I love my husband dearly but lately I'm just not getting excited. Our physical relationship has ... A: Sex is a lot like romance. At the beginning, whatever you do is fun, exciting, memorable and ... | |
| bitch girl friend | 11/2/2007 |
| Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ... A: Victor, I think you are absolutely right. She is trying to be controlling. You've only been dating ... | |
| Replying back to last question | 10/31/2007 |
| Q: I have never abused her in a physical way or mental why! We just have fights about little things! ... A: I hope you were not offended by my questions. Since I don't know the backgrounds of the people I ... | |
| bitch girl friend | 10/31/2007 |
| Q: I NEED YOUR HELP so i used everything ive learned from your ebook and advance dating techiques ... A: I think you've contacted the wrong guy. It sounds like you're trying to get through to "The Pick-Up ... | |
| My Relationship | 10/30/2007 |
| Q: My relationship has its flaws. My Girlfriend and I fight over stupid things. Whether big or small, ... A: I am so glad to see that you are aware of what you are doing and how it affects your relationship. ... | |
| someone! | 10/29/2007 |
| Q: me and my bf go uot when he gets paid,but sometimes thats not good enough for us...when we first met ... A: Let me tell it to you straight. Because you have a child involved, you need to figure this out REAL ... | |
| how to save my relationship | 10/26/2007 |
| Q: HOW DO I SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP? i AM TRULY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ... A: I have some questions for you. Did she treat you this way from the start of your relationship, or ... | |
| Starting over! A fresh start! | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: I'm a woman and I have been in a relationship with a woman for almost 4 years! we've been trough ... A: Before I answer your question, I need you to clarify it a bit. If you've been through both good and ... | |
| Sexual Satisfaction in a Semi-Abstinent Relationship | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: I have a similar question as that of another user who previously posted, although my inquiry has ... A: Kacie, So, physiologically you are able to have orgasms. Good. It's just with your boyfriend, that ... | |
| How long before? | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: . My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. I'm 20 and she's 19. We've known each ... A: You two are obviously very aware of where you are in your relationship and where it is leading. ... | |
| relationship | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: I was dating this girl for five years, I love her and i always will, I found out she cheated on me ... A: You want my honest opinion, right? I don't think she is "the one". I'll tell you why. This ... | |
| Sexual Satisfaction in a Semi-Abstinent Relationship | 10/23/2007 |
| Q: I have a similar question as that of another user who previously posted, although my inquiry has ... A: I'd like to know if you have had an orgasm with your boyfriend ever. I was a little confused. At one ... | |
| how do i fix this? | 10/22/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months now. When we first met it was so much fun about ... A: Couple of questions: how many relationships has your girlfriend had before this one? Also, do I ... | |
| I need advice please | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: I am a female in my middle 20's. I am currently in a relationship with another female just a ... A: If she tells you she loves you and you've been dating for four years, believe it. She loves you. ... | |
| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ... A: Mich, So, at this point, you've pretty much stated your interest and intentions. My suggestion: ... | |
| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ... A: Mich, Do you think he's upset because you didn't call back when you promised? Could this be ... | |
| Confused | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm in a long distance relationship and has been the entire 4 months of this new relationship. I met ... A: Unfortunately I can't tell you what's on his mind, but maybe together we can make a close guess. ... | |
| Love turning into best friends? | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: Ok me and my GF have been together for about 7 months and we both feel very strongly about each ... A: This sounds like she's trying to protect herself (and maybe even you), by starting to build up a ... | |
| I don't know what to do | 10/13/2007 |
| Q: Ok i have been in a relationship for a year in and six months. recently the relationship has been ... A: Doryan, Well, first, are you two on an official break? Have you decided to take time apart for a ... | |
| How do you know if a guy is serious about you? | 10/13/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my b/f for almost 5 years. He hasn't given me a copy of the keys to his apartment ... A: Well, to answer your question succinctly, "How do you know if a guy is serious about you?" I say, if ... | |
| my boy friend is cheap | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: I'm a single mom with 4 years old daughter i don't have too much education,but very much want to get ... A: It does sound like he may be hesitant to be seen with you right now. If I were you, I'd try to get ... | |
| I need help and fast | 10/6/2007 |
| Q: Ok i have been in a relationship for a year in and six months. recently the relationship has been ... A: You are in the midst of a transition, my friend. Most relationships start off exciting and fun and ... | |
| troubled... | 10/3/2007 |
| Q: my gf and i have come to the point where we hurt each other physically...we say nasty things to ... A: It's time to get help! You two need to see a professional, because it sounds like this is coming ... | |
| Long Distance | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ... A: Sometimes we have to live on edge at times, not knowing exactly where we stand, so we can appreciate ... | |
| Long Distance | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ... A: Ryan, Don't be scared. Relationships go through a natural ebb and flow. It can't (and won't) always ... | |
| What should i do? | 9/28/2007 |
| Q: Leon, I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years,i was 19 he was 25.. when we first met i ... A: La'Star, I don't know very much about your history, but how did you get him out last time? The way ... | |
| What should i do? | 9/26/2007 |
| Q: Leon, I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years,i was 19 he was 25.. when we first met i ... A: You know exactly what to do, and you just want me to support you with it and maybe give you a route. ... | |
| Should we live with reason. | 9/25/2007 |
| Q: My gf&I are 23. I knew&have been together with this lady over 2yrs.When we start everyth seem so ... A: It sounds like you two need a kick in the seat of your romance pants. Things were going well until ... | |
| strength | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: hey im going out with a girl and she has told me that she needs some room and that we hang out to ... A: Give me a little more info so I can best try and help you. How long have you been going out? What's ... | |
| marriage | 9/19/2007 |
| Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ... A: Yasir, I agree that when someone has gotten to the point of striking someone they love that they ... | |
| marriage | 9/18/2007 |
| Q: Being 26 years old male, I have got married with my first maternal cousin who is 8 months elder than ... A: Let me start by telling you that I am not familiar with customs of Pakistan. But, I can tell that ... | |
| I let too much out the bag how do I fix this situation? | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year, I'm 24 and he's 26. What happens is that ... A: It seems like two issues are compounded to create your situation here. First, your boyfriend was ... | |
| Belongings | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: So My friend phoned me and said she dropped off the belongings. But she kept all the expensive stuff ... A: You have the right to get back your belongings. If they are truly yours and not gifts, and she ... | |
| over and done | 9/12/2007 |
| Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ... A: Kai, Yes, I think it's time to contact her. But, you'll need to keep it about getting your stuff ... | |
| Ideas on pillowtalk | 9/8/2007 |
| Q: I met a cute lady called Anna two weeks ago.She says she will call me next on Tuesday night.I would ... A: It sounds like you just need some topics to help you two decide if you want to start a relationship. ... | |
| over and done | 9/8/2007 |
| Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ... A: Kai, I am sorry to hear that it's ended this way. It's always hard to end a relationship, ... | |
| really struggling to figure this out | 9/7/2007 |
| Q: I am 38, hubby is 40. We have been married 11 years. We have three daughters, two big dogs, a ... A: I can understand how this can be a frustrating situation for you. On the positive side, it sounds ... | |
| over and done | 9/7/2007 |
| Q: I tried to sent my het the flowers, adn even sent an sms to say that "something" would be arriving - ... A: Kai, I think you know how I will react to this. She needs space. But, is that going to be too late ... | |
| Long Distance | 9/6/2007 |
| Q: Leon, It's me, Ryan, I have been writing to you under the other subject of "Break, who knows now" ... A: Ryan, She shouldn't compare how she feels to how others "say" they feel. Sometimes words aren't ... | |
| Wishes not as expected | 9/6/2007 |
| Q: it's my birthday today the 6th of september, and she did not phone me, she has in fact sms'ed me, ... A: Kai, Like I've been saying, I think you've been jumping the gun on this break. You're not letting ... | |
| Sexual strife already? | 9/4/2007 |
| Q: I recently started dating a long time friend of mine (after ending a 6 year relationship with ... A: You two just have different sex drives. But, because he's not into it as often as you are, you feel ... | |
| Break | 9/4/2007 |
| Q: me again, so my friend ended up speaking to her yesterday end he confirmed that she was very ... A: Kai, Seeing that in South Africa it's customary to return the ring after an engagement is broken ... | |
| talking | 9/4/2007 |
| Q: A little background. I met my boyfriend online around Christmas last year. We lived in different ... A: First of all, the safety of the internet and a telephone make communicating and opening up to ... | |
| I dont know where its going! | 9/3/2007 |
| Q: My ex and I have decided to give it another try. We have been on and off for almost a year now, and ... A: The good news is that you know his potential. You've been together off and on for three years. So, ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 9/3/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, Great! If things are meant to be, they will work out. You need to believe that everything ... | |
| sex | 9/1/2007 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for a year. He's 29 and was raised by his mother. He prides ... A: Isis, So, there seemed to be a negative association with sex, possibly due to the type of sex his ... | |
| sex | 8/30/2007 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for a year. He's 29 and was raised by his mother. He prides ... A: Tell me, Isis, have you and your husband had sex? If so, how often and how has it turned out? Did he ... | |
| Keeping the flame burning | 8/28/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a month. I've been in a few relationships ... A: I wouldn't say that you were working too hard. New relationships are usually filled with excitement ... | |
| Past echos in the present | 8/28/2007 |
| Q: Well, I guess I'll start off by telling you a little bit about my boyfriend and I. I'm twenty three ... A: I understand what he's saying. You're kind of going back and forth, and he's confused. I understand ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/26/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, You really sound like you are maturing, Ryan. It's great that you are able to miss Kay ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/24/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, The easiest way for you to get over this jealousy is plowing right through it. Let yourself ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/22/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, I know if "feels" like you may not be able to survive this, but if you can look past the ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/19/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, If you've never gone through an experience that you weren't sure how you were going to ... | |
| How to save my critical relationship? | 8/18/2007 |
| Q: My name is Xavier and I am 22 years old. My girl friend and I have been together for 1 year. We had ... A: Wow, that's got to be tough. You have two things going against you. One, you two are at a critical ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/18/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, Of course you're sad. You're "losing" what you have and love so much. But, you knew it was ... | |
| Please give me advice before I make things worse.. | 8/16/2007 |
| Q: Hey Leon! My story is pretty long but Im going to keep it as short as I can. Ok, me and Gene had ... A: Sorry to say, but you need to move on! This guy wasn't right for you when he was talking to your ... | |
| Help me | 8/14/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend (now fiance) have been together for almost a year and a half and recently we have been ... A: Sure you can. You CAN stop fighting with him. It just takes practice and strength. I can tell you ... | |
| trust and love | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I, have been dating for almost 4 months now. We were together for 6 and then had a ... A: It sounds like you have two issues here: one, he doesn't trust you, and two, he's keeping things ... | |
| truth and encouragement | 8/10/2007 |
| Q: I'm dating a beautiful girl. She thinks I'm handsome, hardworking, honorable, fun, smart, teachable, ... A: It sounds as though your girlfriend is hell-bent on not being good enough. As a result, she ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, Like I've been saying from the beginning, don't get too over anxious. Let things progress ... | |
| Wife and insecurity | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: I have been married seven months and going through some jealousy issue. For the past months my wife ... A: First, you should know that it is 100 percent natural for both men and women to look at things of ... | |
| mowe on or let go | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: I have been involved in a relationship for1 year and 6 months to a man who has a child by a woman of ... A: Stephanie, I think you've hit the nail square on the head. If you can make it through this, you can ... | |
| Can this relationship be fixed? | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: How do I handle this? My boyfriend is still contacting me since he broke up w/me in Feb (after 4 ... A: It sounds to me that you still love this guy, but you don't trust him. It also sounds like he still ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: Ryan, Glad to know things seem to be falling into place. You said you thought she'd fallen out of ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, Wow, so do you think you've changed much over these past few weeks? She obviously sees something ... | |
| Love Making | 8/3/2007 |
| Q: She made love once (and I believe her) she's 25 when we make love she doesn't really feel me.? ... A: I think you're asking me about the tightness of your lady friend's vagina. You appear concerned that ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 8/3/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, That sounds pretty darn good to me, too. I'm so pleased it went well for the two of you. It's ... | |
| surviving the storm | 8/2/2007 |
| Q: I met this girl 2 months ago. Her family hates my guts. They say I am not the man for her. They do ... A: I think she sounds terrific. She's obviously attractive, sounds kind, and is undoubtedly smart. It ... | |
| Help! | 8/2/2007 |
| Q: Ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2.5 years. I am 18 and getting ready to start ... A: Have you spoken to your boyfriend about getting out of this rut? Is he up to getting out with you? ... | |
| mowe on or let go | 8/1/2007 |
| Q: I have been involved in a relationship for1 year and 6 months to a man who has a child by a woman of ... A: Does your boyfriend have any legal rights to visit his daughter without the mom present? Because, if ... | |
| relationship | 8/1/2007 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend always argue. i always start it by getting agitated about what he does and end ... A: So, it seems to me that you believe that your snapping at your boyfriend may be the catalyst that ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/30/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, You are welcome, R. Sounds like things went well, all-in-all. And, the comment about you hooking ... | |
| Relationship Advice | 7/29/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for the past 7 years. We have had our share of ... A: It sounds like the two of you have a true and deep connection. I'm sure you love each other and want ... | |
| The next day | 7/29/2007 |
| Q: Hey Leon, I hope you remember me, i woke up today and ive been in bed the whole day because i ... A: Yarline, Of course I remember you. You've had a pretty tough 48 hours. You're in the beginning ... | |
| dialogue | 7/28/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend Marc cheated on me and left me for another woman. At the time he said he had to break ... A: To be honest with you, it's not obvious to me from this conversation that he was cheating on you. ... | |
| Please help me im in serious pain | 7/28/2007 |
| Q: Finally i can speak to some one that can help me an that views perfectly the points as a guy. Look ... A: Yarline, I am so proud of you. You showed incredible strength doing what you did tonight. Not only ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/28/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, I am so glad that you made the right choice. Just take things easy and be sure to keep your word ... | |
| Please help me im in serious pain | 7/28/2007 |
| Q: Finally i can speak to some one that can help me an that views perfectly the points as a guy. Look ... A: Unfortunately, I can't tell you if I think he will return to you or not. But, I do have other ... | |
| Is she gone? | 7/27/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ... A: Dipesh, I think you should just step back and see where this thing goes. No matter how much you ... | |
| parents | 7/26/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old (female)and i'm having a lot of issues with my parents. i stayed with my friend at ... A: You know, A, it seems like this may be the time for "The Big Talk". It's so hard for a parent to let ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/26/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, Yikes. Quite the quandary you are in. You know Kay better than I. Maybe you can surmise the best ... | |
| Is she gone? | 7/25/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ... A: Dipesh, I don't know if she's lost interest in you. You've told me in past postings that she still ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, I think you are handling this extremely well. I mean, I know how you feel about Kay, yet you're ... | |
| Back again :( | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: and I've been dating this 36-yr old woman since last October. We do live about 2 hours from each ... A: Mitch, If I'm not mistaken, a counselor could help you with this. Counselors and therapists don't ... | |
| Is she gone? | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ... A: Dipesh, It doesn't necessarily mean you're being taken for a fool. It means that you have more ... | |
| Is she gone? | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ... A: Dipesh, To be honest, I think you stand at her mercy. I don't mean to sound harsh, but right now ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/23/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, You're an intelligent guy, R. You know that you can't do that kind of stuff now, but your heart ... | |
| Is she gone? | 7/23/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 5 months ago we started off as friends 5 yrs ago then became ... A: I can't tell you how long she wants her space, but if I'm understanding you correctly, it shouldn't ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/23/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, You asked if spending days in silence really helps. It definitely can really help Kay to think ... | |
| being cheated on | 7/19/2007 |
| Q: Five months ago I was cheated on and left for the other woman. I am very sad. How do I get over ... A: I can't tell you if he will ever regret what he's done to you. Hopefully he has a conscience, and if ... | |
| Relationship in limbo due to trust issues. | 7/19/2007 |
| Q: I've been dating a man for approximately 1 yer. As a matter of fact, we are taking a cruise next ... A: I always ask people in situations like yours if they have reason to doubt their partner. You do. You ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/18/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, Although it seems like forever, two weeks is far from an eternity. Things are still unsettled ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, I'm sorry she is being put through all of this, but I'm so pleased that you two understand the ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: R, What you're feeling is totally natural and normal. You have strong feelings for this young lady, ... | |
| broken engagement | 7/14/2007 |
| Q: My fiance and I have been together for over a year. We are each other's best friends. Of course we ... A: It sounds like your fiance loves you dearly, but right now he's unhappy or confused about something ... | |
| Break, who knows now..... | 7/13/2007 |
| Q: First off, I'll explain my history with my gf. Her name is Kay. 2 years ago, I met her on myspace ... A: I hate to rely on cliches to help me administer my advice, but there's a saying: If you love ... | |
| Confusion | 7/13/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year and three months now and everything has been ... A: It sounds to me that your girlfriend has some unresolved issues with her ex. After over a year apart ... | |
| Shy Guy | 7/12/2007 |
| Q: I have a crush on a guy and he likes me back. The problem is that he is extermly shy and so am I.We ... A: Irene, I am sooo happy that my advice could be of some help to the two of you. You've taken the ... | |
| Shy Guy | 7/11/2007 |
| Q: I have a crush on a guy and he likes me back. The problem is that he is extermly shy and so am I.We ... A: I like you. I very rarely find someone able to make me laugh like you have with your "ice is still ... | |
| keeping love alive | 7/10/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and myself have been in this relationship for almost 14 months. For the last 6 months ... A: Monique, You seem to be telling me that it's time for this relationship to be taken to the next ... | |
| Sex isnt what it used to be | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for a 1.5 years and Im already feeling bored with sex. We do live ... A: Well, you are right there where sex becomes humdrum in a relationship. See, when you first start a ... | |
| Scared | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating this girl for 6 months now. She was telling me that I was acting different in ... A: We've all been where you are. We have feelings for someone, but they break our heart, and the pain ... | |
| conversation and connection | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months, but lately we have been so caught up ... A: I'm not exactly sure what you mean when you say you're so caught up in the lovestruck stage that ... | |
| losing interest | 6/25/2007 |
| Q: I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and we have been together a little over a year. But now, ... A: What you are going through now is really not uncommon at all. When we first start a relationship, ... | |
| Ugh | 6/22/2007 |
| Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together over two years. Lately, he's not been saying "I ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend loves you, but he's embarrassed or ashamed to show his feelings in ... | |
| Unfaithfulness | 6/18/2007 |
| Q: I am in my mid 20's & my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs is in his early 30's. I lost my virginity to him ... A: This can definitely work. At first I thought you were going to tell me that you were having ... | |
| Men . . . *sigh* , , , | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for going on two years now, and he is a wonderful, wonderful guy . . . ... A: Why is it, you think, that you need so much attention? Why do you need people to notice you? And, ... | |
| My boyfriend has a problem with committment because of his past divorce | 6/12/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating a 37 year old divorced man for about 6 months now. He has a 6 year old son. We ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend was really hurt by the divorce and he hasn't been able to move passed ... | |
| army relationship | 6/12/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend of three years is going into the Army Reserve and is about to leave in July for six ... A: Wow, what a difficult situation to be in for the two of you. Like any other long-distance ... | |
| getting the spark back | 6/11/2007 |
| Q: I hope you can advise me on a rather difficult matter. My husband and myself have been married for ... A: Having sex more infrequently is not uncommon as a relationship continues. Some reasons include loss ... | |
| i really need advice | 6/5/2007 |
| Q: heres my story...am 27 been in a relationship for a year and a half and we live together....my ... A: You are in a tough situation. First, your relationship has reached the point where it generally goes ... | |
| flame burned out | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: Iam a 59 yr old man,married 25 years to my 53 yr old wife. In the beginning, sex was great. It was ... A: It's not uncommon for there to be a loss of intimacy during pregnancy and parenthood. Children take ... | |
| Love and confusion | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend i broke up like a week ago and our relationship was not long.WOW where so i start well ... A: Angel, Wow, so you have some choices to make here. If you want to hold out and see what all he's ... | |
| Lost Sex Appeal | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years told me the other day that she is not sexually attracted to me any ... A: It's very normal for folks to be attracted to someone other than their partners. Just because we're ... | |
| Love and confusion | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend i broke up like a week ago and our relationship was not long.WOW where so i start well ... A: It sounds like you've given all of the power to this guy. He tells you it's over. He tells you when ... | |
| HELP | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: my name is Lexi I am 12 and my boyfriend is also 12. We have gone out for the past 2 years breaking ... A: Lexi, I can't tell you for sure what's going on in your boyfriend's head. But, seeing that you've ... | |
| i want her back | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: sir i am loving a girl.she is my classmate.how ever we are good friends.we used to chat through ... A: Yeshwanth, You've got to be realistic about this, my friend. She was uncomfortable at first when ... | |
| HELP | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: my name is Lexi I am 12 and my boyfriend is also 12. We have gone out for the past 2 years breaking ... A: You are in such a tough situation. It's obvious that you two care about each other, or you wouldn't ... | |
| after 13 years i dont know what to do | 5/20/2007 |
| Q: Ive been in a realtionship for the past 13 yrs. We have 3 children. He got into some trouble and ... A: It sounds like he's being selfish, thinking of himself before the well-being of you, the kids, or ... | |
| My Girlfriend | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: Latley my girlfriend has been saying that i've been acting weird or strange around her while i dont ... A: First, you probably both are justified in feeling that the other is changing. The reason is twofold. ... | |
| I'm at wits end | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. We've known each other for about 5. We became a ... A: It sounds like your boyfriend expresses love differently than you would like him to. It doesn't ... | |
| Emotionally Unavailable Man | 5/4/2007 |
| Q: I recently broke off a 10 month relationship with a guy due to his inability to show any type of ... A: Jackie, I am so sorry for how things have turned out. I know it hurts. It always does. But, keep ... | |
| Emotionally Unavailable Man | 5/2/2007 |
| Q: I recently broke off a 10 month relationship with a guy due to his inability to show any type of ... A: It could be, Jackie, that he just didn't know how to express himself to you. How did he react when ... | |
| Losing interest? | 5/1/2007 |
| Q: and I've been dating this 36-yr old woman since last October. We do live about 2 hours from each ... A: The short answer: yes, there is absolutely hope. Here are a couple of reasons why. First, she's ... | |
| TRUST | 5/1/2007 |
| Q: I have a difficult time coping with the following issues, I found out that she checks her ex's ... A: From the little I know it sounds like there are trust issues that you're dealing with in your ... | |
| lazy | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: I have a minor problem, my boyfriend/roommate, ( more or less my roommate),,is living with me for ... A: Ally, Your question definitely is about your relationship, but less about a romantic relationship ... | |
| lazy | 4/29/2007 |
| Q: I have a minor problem, my boyfriend/roommate, ( more or less my roommate),,is living with me for ... A: I wonder why you want him working so badly. I have nothing against working, but are you afraid that ... | |
| relationship problems. | 4/27/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend (maurice) and I have knew each other since 2004 we dated for 6mths and then I left him ... A: I speak to pregnant couples at seminars and at local hospitals about the importance of building ... | |
| relationship | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: Hey i have just started to see a girl that i really like, Theres only one problem and its driving me ... A: It's completely natural. You are obviously attracted to this girl. Mother Nature is bombarding you ... | |
| How to make the relationship fresh again? | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: She's 26 and I'm 24. Our relationship has been 2 years old and a few struggling months. She ... A: It sounds like your girlfriend has some issues. She may be someone who is difficult to satisfy. If ... | |
| We are on a break, what now? | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge ... A: I think you should ask him to clarify what he means by, "I need time to figure things out." It's ... | |
| Will we be ok? | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: I'm 21. My Boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. For all of this time it has ... A: I don't know if you contacted the right person, because it looks like you were looking for Sharon. ... | |
| personality | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I have sent this question to a few other experts but they seemed to be maxed out unfortuantely. I ... A: What a difficult situation you are in. It's hard, though, for me to tell you why he is acting like ... | |
| How? | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I just got a new boyfriend. I only recently found out he liked me, and i decided i liked him also. ... A: The best relationships are those that start out as friendships first. But, other relationships can ... | |
| not sure | 4/5/2007 |
| Q: Recently my boyfriend (we go to law school together) told me "we need a break" because his boards ... A: I can only answer this question with the limited information you've given me, but I would say there ... | |
| help me with my problems | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: How do i tell my boyfriend that it is ok to go do what he wants without my feelings getting hurt? He ... A: Forgive me, but I'm not exactly sure what you are asking. Is he hurting your feelings by going out ... | |
| ? | 3/30/2007 |
| Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ... A: Wow, what an ordeal! It sounds like you had the makings (and maybe started building the foundation) ... | |
| how do i make my relationship fresh again? | 3/29/2007 |
| Q: I am 24 and my partner 22, we have been together 2 years coming in June, i met him on the internet ... A: Your situation is not uncommon. I know that doesn't make it any better, but know that you are not ... | |
| What's up with my boyfriend? | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: I'm hoping you can shed some light on this problem I've been having. I have known my boyfriend for ... A: You've got the makings for what could potentially be a wonderful romantic relationship. I'm a ... | |
| How do I be more controlling? | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months now and we do think we will be in this ... A: Would you consider yourself passive and non-confrontational? If so, she probably wants you to be a ... | |
| Relationship! | 3/20/2007 |
| Q: I'm 20. Turning 21 in about 6 days. And this weekend I feel like I can not connect with my ... A: Jillian, Let's take one thing at a time. Sounds like sex has become humdrum. It's time to change ... | |
| Relationship! | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm 20. Turning 21 in about 6 days. And this weekend I feel like I can not connect with my ... A: Its sounds like you and your boyfriend may be looking for different things in a relationship now. It ... | |
| what to do | 3/17/2007 |
| Q: I was dating this guy for a couple months. We were really happy together, laughed every moment we ... A: I think it's absolutely appropriate to email him a birthday card. Just be sure it's not laced with ... | |
| Growing apart... | 3/16/2007 |
| Q: Wow, it's hard to begin. I'm sorry if this is long, but I'm confused and I need some solid, honest ... A: So, I don't know for sure the reason why he's acting this way. I can speculate, though. Could be ... | |
| how can i make her to come back? | 3/15/2007 |
| Q: yeah.hi again..we talked what happened and stuff before and i figured since she is going online i ... A: Danny, It looks like she's ready to move on. Either she really is over you and wants to get on with ... | |
| how can i make her to come back? | 3/11/2007 |
| Q: yeah,as you saying she keeps stuff to remember me but it doesnt mean she is gonna come back.i ... A: Danny, You are right. Only time will tell where this goes. But, I'd wait a month or so and go ahead ... | |
| how can i make her to come back? | 3/10/2007 |
| Q: ok. i will try to do it.but i really didnt want to follow her or i didnt follow her.i just wanted to ... A: Danny, It does sound like there were definitely feelings there. She may want to have time away from ... | |
| how can i make her to come back? | 3/10/2007 |
| Q: I Dont know. my girl just left me a month ago.i am from another country and i got married one girl ... A: FYI: It's just me answering your question. Not a bunch of us. To answer your question bluntly... do ... | |
| how?????? | 3/7/2007 |
| Q: look i have this boyfriend that I really like but i dont think im not doing a very good job in ... A: It sounds like you may be reading into this a bit too much. You're so worried about making him happy ... | |
| How do I keep my girlfriend interested in me? | 3/5/2007 |
| Q: Hey Leon, my name is Garret and I was wondering if you can help me. Is there any way I can get my ... A: I wonder how long you've been with your girlfriend and if you're just wondering about this for ... | |
| Sharing souls | 2/28/2007 |
| Q: I was just wondering if you knew how my girlfriend and I would be able to share our souls with each ... A: At he beginning of relationships (first six to twelve months) we often try to put on our best face ... | |
| growing apart | 2/27/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.He is right now at college 4 hours away ... A: Long distance relationships are very tricky because we often grow apart. When we are together daily ... | |
| relationship- break | 2/21/2007 |
| Q: I love my boyfriend and we recently decided to take a break. when we first got together, I was ... A: It's great that you see how you were controlling this relationship in a way that could be ... | |
| getting over the past | 2/9/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend of two years and I have been through a lot. When we first met, it was completely like ... A: It sounds like there are other issues that are far deeper and more complicated than your ... | |
| endless arguement | 2/8/2007 |
| Q: no he does not do anything to relieve himself. He just lets himself sit there and suffer. Sex for ... A: Joanna, Do you think that if he was able to conquer his early sexual release that he might be more ... | |
| endless arguement | 2/8/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend of two years has recently chosen a religion that has convined him that sex is nothing ... A: I think you're treading in some murky water here. This is a tough one. But let me start off by ... | |
| how to make things better | 2/5/2007 |
| Q: I have a few more questions and i wanted to answer the question you asked me... Yes there has been ... A: Rachel, Yes, it does make sense. We often hurt the ones closest to us. The reason: we're ... | |
| how to make things better | 2/4/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Everything was working out great until ... A: It seems like there a few a few issues here to deal with. You say your boyfriend has changed for no ... | |
| I need some tips | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: I been dating this guy with whom I been knowing for 2years and 5months... We been dating for about ... A: I'm glad you wrote me. If I'm understanding you right, it sounds like he's playing you. He's been ... | |
| My boyfriend | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend have been together for the last 3 and a half years. i love him dearly and he says he ... A: First things first, put off the wedding plans until you get this worked out. You would be doing ... | |
| What can i do? Its making me Feel so ill inside! | 1/2/2007 |
| Q: Oh Great what a nice way to celebrate 2007 with my Girl Friend with me at home with my family. ... A: Okay, before you do anything, you have to be absolutely sure that she took your money. If there is a ... | |
| help | 1/2/2007 |
| Q: I am 33 yrs old and I have been dating a wonderful woman for about six months now , we have been ... A: Bill, It sounds like you have everything needed for a truly strong and long-lasting relationship. ... | |
| i want her back | 12/23/2006 |
| Q: I was with this girl and it sure didnt last too long but we deff. had a deep passion for each other ... A: The short answer to yournothing. I know, not what you wanted to hear, was it? But, see, you can't ... | |
| How to make my realtionship strong. | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my fiancee for over three years and it just seems that we have lost the love for ... A: It's not uncommon to feel the way you do after being with your partner for three years. Let me first ... | |
| taking a break | 12/15/2006 |
| Q: hey again! so...im pretty confused on what to do now. the entire me freaking out, my obsessing ... A: You and I are becoming old buddies online. :) Chris, I think you need to just try and process a ... | |
| I got too drunk | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: Mr. Baxter , I am dating a wonderful woman who I have been friends with for about seven years , only ... A: First, if we were talking I'd ask if you've had alcohol related issues in the past. If so, this may ... | |
| week long break and then some... | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for about 14 months now. we have a great relationship. we have our ... A: You seem so practical and straight to the point. To answer your question, you need to look at why ... | |
| taking a break | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: I mean everyone is telling me it's extremely good that she aimed me/myspace comments me...because if ... A: Chris, As you know, I can only respond based on what you've told me. I can't be sure of any of ... | |
| Taking a break | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: I understand what you're saying. So my next question is this: What do I do in the meantime? I don't ... A: Anthony, To answer your question, I need to ask you awhat do you do to fill your time when you're ... | |
| taking a break | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: ..Im just kind of confused. I was AFK when she aimed me, so I responded late...anyways im not ... A: Chris, I wouldn't jump out there and tell her you miss her. I'd just try to sit back, play it cool ... | |
| taking a break | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: hey again! okay so... we're almost at the one month mark. we didnt say anything for awhile, then a ... A: Chris, Hey, I'm glad you're starting to get the results you were hoping for. Sounds like she may be ... | |
| Taking a break | 12/11/2006 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman for 10 months now. We've had only a few problems, mostly ... A: I know what you're going through is difficult. Unfortunately, I can't tell you how this will end up. ... | |
| What should I do? | 12/6/2006 |
| Q: I 20 yrs old and currently engaged going on 6 months. About a month ago my fiance got a new job in ... A: To answer your question simply.. NO! It's not time to move on. If you are in love with this woman, I ... | |
| what do i do! | 12/3/2006 |
| Q: my relationship is ok. We have a great love making life as well. We have been together now for 5 ... A: I wish you had come to me three months ago. I would have advised you to wait a bit longer before ... | |
| i want to get her back | 12/3/2006 |
| Q: i need you one final time time here please.we had a chat last night on the phone.she still cares ... A: Greg, This one you're going to have to make the call on. You have to decide what you're willing to ... | |
| i want to get her back | 12/1/2006 |
| Q: im all at sea on this one.but i will go and see her,but when im there,do i act cool?or do i talk ... A: Greg, I would just follow her lead. She invited you over. You might as well let her take the lead ... | |
| i want to get her back | 11/28/2006 |
| Q: last night she sent me a text saying"hi greggie if you not busy after work tomo do u want to come ... A: Greg, Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I was having computer issues. Also, you've referred to ... | |
| taking a break | 11/26/2006 |
| Q: hey again so its been almost 2 weeks and I havent said anything to my girlfriend and vice versa. ... A: Chris, No one can tell you for sure what will happen in this scenario. Just know that when you look ... | |
| how to spice it up | 11/26/2006 |
| Q: Me and my bf have been dating for over a month he's amazing plus he's great it bed....we do it all ... A: I'm afraid I'm not exactly sure what you are asking. It sounds like you and your boyfriend have a ... | |
| taking a break | 11/22/2006 |
| Q: sorry for the excessive questioning, I just really really hold your advice with a high regard now. ... A: Chris, You know, Chris, I think you might want to bring up my suggestions to your psychologist. ... | |
| I need your help! | 11/22/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend mike and I have been going out for the past three years. A couple months ago we broke ... A: First off, was your jealousy valid? Was it an innocent visit between your boyfriend and this other ... | |
| taking a break | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: One of my problems was that I constantly nagged/freaked out on her about dumb things, and I always ... A: Chris, I have had some personal experience with OCD. Actually, I wrote a children's book about it, ... | |
| taking a break | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: hey! My name is Chris im 20, and my girlfriend is 19. I met her two years ago at school, we dated ... A: Chris, You sound like such a grounded guy, so caring, and really understanding. It's such a ... | |
| i want to get her back | 11/14/2006 |
| Q: i have given her the space she has asked for for 4 weeks with no communication whatsoever.in that ... A: Greg, You're probably right. It does seem like she's trying to get a reaction out of you. I can ... | |
| i want to get her back | 11/12/2006 |
| Q: youve seen all the text messages she has sent me etc.a lot of people are saying to me if she was ... A: Greg, Of course I can't be sure, but from the information you've given me, she either really wants ... | |
| i want to get her back | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: a friend told me that even though she left she will be finding it very difficult as well,because we ... A: Greg, Yes, I believe your friend. Like I said, this is going to be hard for her, also. It can be ... | |
| i want to get her back | 11/10/2006 |
| Q: im 43 my girlfriend 40.the past 19 mths have been great then in the past 8 weeks she has been moody ... A: Wow, what a hard situation you're going through. It can be so painful when you feel one way for ... | |
| I backed away but now so has he...what do I do now? | 11/3/2006 |
| Q: I think you might be right, but I did give him space and he accused me of neglecting him and not ... A: Sabrina, Sounds like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I'm a bit perplexed from what ... | |
| relationship | 11/1/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 1/2 years and things are starting to get boring! I feel ... A: Don't split on account of boredom. You've got what everyone else wants. You two have love. It's just ... | |
| Can I back away without compromising the relationship? | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: "I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months, and every thing was going great. We were ... A: Your feelings of making your boyfriend your top priority are not only okay, but 100 percent ... | |
| hey | 10/30/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting back together.... I want to keep the spark alive if ... A: I'd love to know what broke the two of you up the first time, and what you two have planned to do so ... | |
| my ex-boyfriend | 10/27/2006 |
| Q: ok..my ex boyfriend say he likes me and wants to go back out with me but he is afraid its goin to be ... A: The question is, what do you want? Do you think he's valid in saying the last relationship was too ... | |
| Long Distance | 10/26/2006 |
| Q: How do i show my long distance relationship girlfreind that i love her without seeing her? ... A: Matt, Is there any reason she shouldn't? Most relationships are trusting unless there is a history ... | |
| why do i feel like this? | 10/24/2006 |
| Q: I know it hasn't been even up to a week yet. However, while waiting for your response I talked to a ... A: Stacey, I can only imagine how much it's wearing on you. I am so pleased that you went to the ... | |
| why do i feel like this? | 10/23/2006 |
| Q: I've been in a commited relationship with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now.. and he's talking alot ... A: I'm not sure I can completely answer your question. I may need a bit more information, but I'll ... | |
| me and my loved one! | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: my name is Jessica and I am 18 years old in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 ... A: Puppy love is awesome, isn't it? It occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It's warm and its ... | |
| I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years, we have an ok relationship. He is a ... A: If you are absolutely sure that you no longer want to have a relationship with your boyfriend (which ... | |
| relationship | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now... I have had some issues that I am ... A: I think you made such a wise choice to seek counseling for the issues in your life. Many young men ... | |
| Girlfriend of 2.5years, feels lonely | 10/10/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for two and half years. We have been through alot. We are ... A: It sounds like you're dating Cinderella. She lives with two sisters who aren't the most respectful, ... | |
| Will we ever trust eachother? | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship with my boyfreind for 4 years now. To start this mess we began as an ... A: "Should I just drop this loser and get on with my life, and enjoy my kids more instead of worrying ... | |
| growing apart | 10/2/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my bf for 3 years.We had a good relationship and we were so close together.Hes 28 ... A: You and your boyfriend are definitely in the midst of a change. Sometimes that can be a hard thing ... | |
| Ideas on conversations | 9/29/2006 |
| Q: I met this guy at a singles convention about a year ago. I really didn't think about him until I ... A: It sounds like you met a great guy. I'm so pleased you've realized that there can be a strong ... | |
| save my relationship | 9/18/2006 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together almost nine months... When we met and started dating we were ... A: What a difficult situation you are in. You love your boyfriend, but it sounds like he may not be ... | |
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