AboutChris Harris Expertise I can help with referral questions regarding suicide prevention and treatment as well as problems finding support, speaking with loved ones about suicide, and accessing needed services. I do not give advice regarding medications or endorse any particular service group or organization.
Experience Out patient therapist, emergency room social worker, and drug and alcohol counselor
Education/Credentials masters degree in social work, State social work license
Expert: Chris Harris Date: 10/24/2007 Subject: please help me
Question hi...um....i have a problem that i need help with. theres this girl. shes absoulutly beautiful, but she just doesnt seem to notice me. now ive been trying to go after her for the longest time. i finally got the nerve to tell her how i feel and she told me that im creepy and i need to get a life. so last night i went home and cut myself with my mommys razor blade. feeling the pain made me feel so alive, but i dont want to be alive. i just want to leave this god forsaken place. i love her so much and i wish that she would feel the same way. ugh its too much. *tear*
Answer Jeremy,
Cutting yourself is more than just a problem with being rejected by this girl. It is a problem more deeply felt by you that you do not understand right now but with help you will. You need to talk with your parents or another responsible person like a school counselor or teacher about what is going on. It is going to take time but you will feel better.
Good luck,
Chris