AboutMarie Expertise Hi everybody-I will answer any type of every day question-love,money,etc.,but can only give the timing of events in proximations. I use the Rider-Waite deck for confirmation of the information received, but I basically read intuitively. I've had advanced tarot card training, along with two years of offering accurate readings to querents.
Experience I have taken beginner and advanced tarot courses. People who I have already read for say that I am a very good reader, and can pick up a lot of details from just a few cards.
Education/Credentials I have taken beginner and advanced tarot courses at the local community college and new age shops in my locality.
Question QUESTION: hi Marie how are you? My name is Courtney McAllister, my dob is 9-22-86. I have asked you a question before, and you answer what amazing. I need a little direction with this, if you don't mind. The guy I spoke with you about was Ernest Pompey Jr. 1-7-83. Well alot has happened since I spoke with you. Ernest suddenly changed, calling more, wanting to see me and our child. He has event spent a couple night over. When he is with me, he tells me how much he loves and misses me. He hasn't said anything official about getting back together though. I do know that 80% of the cause of the breakup was my fault. However I don't think that he is putting in the adequate effort into getting back together. I don't know if its because he is scared and wants to take things slow? I just do not want to get my hopes up. i have been working so hard to improve my inner issues for myself and the relationship. can you please help me with what is going on with him?
Thank you so very much
Courtney McAllister
ANSWER: Hi Courtney! I'm so proud you are working on your inner issues and care so much for this guy. I got the Tower reversed-His time of healing is slower than yours. He's taking his time which is good. He's watching to make sure that the "old ways" don't creep in again between you two. You just go along with it, as you too are changing things about yourself. So don't rush yourself or him in any way. Just enjoy what you see right before you. He doesn't want any more slip ups, it would be too much for him. It seems like he's almost reeling from the last time. He's giving you another try in his heart, so learn S-L-O-W-L-Y from each other. Let him make an honest choice for himself in the end. I don't think you'll be dismayed! Thanks for your question-Marie
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QUESTION: Hi Marie, I thank you so very much for your past answer and how clear you were, I believe that you connected with me well. Sadly, I need to contact you again to help with my confusion... I hope you don't mind... It has been a while since you replied back to me and unfortuatly Ernest has almost returned back to how he was before, very short with me, and not even asking to see our son, Seeming to have lost interest completely. He is definitely not as harsh as before but the interest and caring that I saw before is not present. I sometimes feel as though I am wasting my energy in hoping that things will get better and stay better. Can you help me with this? How are things looking towards now into the summer? Is he still interested? Thank you very much for your help, you will be blessed for the help you are giving people.
Thank you again
Courtney
Answer You just have to stand back and let him be who he is. Enjoy the times you spend together and just let it be. Some guys these days would just
give up and leave, but he's special, so let him be the special guy he is and be PATIENT. Don't look for any outcomes at this point, just let things be. Since he is fearful, you have to let him make all the moves, and don't push or mention anything about the relationship. That
is so important if you want to keep him. Just respect him. You have mentioned that you have the progress you are looking for, so just keep
letting it progress. Be happy and content with the "now". There are books written on this stuff-living in the now.It's very important to enjoy what we see right before our eyes-today. When you keep living in the future, it's harder to appreciate life, now, today. It is a great show of confidence and maturity to let people be who they are. I had to learn that for myself as well. Thanks for writing Courtney. I hope I helped.-Marie