Tarot Card Readings/Love..


Hello Baihu, thank you so much for offering this. My name is Silvia (Female, DOB: April 2nd, '79); I have been trough a very difficult and painful break up 6 months ago. I was wodnering if you could give me some insight about my situation with this man I have recently met, Jose Luis (DOB: Feb 13th, '71). When we met I felt a strong connection, I think it s mutual but not sure where he stands and what he is looking for.
Thank you so much!!!! Take care, S.

On one hand, you ask an impossible question: Tarot can not tell what Jose is thinking or feeling. (like it says in my profile - no predictions) Even if it COULD do that, I WOULDN'T...think of the implications of what you are asking...

How would you feel if a stranger from the Internet read your mind and looked into your heart without your permission, and then turned around and told everything they saw to someone else...especially if that someone else isn't close to you?

On the other hand, I can do this much for you. I will pull one card as a MEDITATION reading. It is up to you to learn more about the card, think about it, meditate on it, and see if and how it applies to your romantic life in general, and also it's up to you to think how to apply that insight to how you feel you should approach Jose specifically.

Your card is THE QUEEN OF WANDS: This card typically means "nurturing". Many times it is a reminder to those in nurturing professions like teachers and nurses to remember to care for themselves. For you, I "hear" BE STRONG ("hear" meaning that the intuition comes as words, not mental images).

The sense I get for this is to be strong, and caring...but not a doormat. Work on your self-esteem, and make very sure you are healed from old hurts before you get into a new relationship. I get the feeling that being needy or dependent could be toxic to any new relationship. Also bringing old baggage...old hurts, habits, expectations from the old relationship could very easily poison this one if you are not strong, healed, fully your true and loving self...able to show you care, but strong enough that you won't allow yourself to be abused or taken advantage of...I don't know if it is Jose or not, but I get a sense that the "right one" for you, whoever he is, will respect that kind of self-confidence and health paired with loving, caring and compassion. You CAN be all of those things at one time.

Don't forget...there is no time limits to love. Hearts heal at their own pace - it might be 6 months, but it might take 6 years...time doesn't have anything to do with it...it is all about life lessons and love which don't exactly follow a calendar.

This is exactly the "daily meditation" reading I give on my website by e-mail for $5. In this holiday season, if you like your reading and find it helpful, in any way at all,  please pay it forward by donating $5 to the charity of your choice.

Good luck and best wishes to you and to Jose both!


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Ronda (Baihu) Snow


I give SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE AND ADVICE readings. I do not take questions that ask what will happen in the future or ask about other people's feelings & future actions. I do not accept pregnancy or medical questions (those must be handled by a medical professional) With a touch of spirit, the Modern Oracle style of Tarot is about inspiration, empowerment & personal growth. Modern Oracle helps you understand your situation, solve problems creatively, and make better choices to build a better future for yourself. I will do a one card Meditation Tarot, three card pathway Tarot, or short psychic cold reading whichever suits your question best.


Card reader since 1992. Professional reader since 2003. E-mail readings are my specialty. Published e-book author (#PeaceTarot, Bead Mindful, Begin Meditating, Triquetra: The Dance of Worlds), Tarot blogger (www.ModernOracleTarot.com) and co-host of "Menage A Tarot" podcast on iTunes, Stitcher and TuneIn.

Mobilize and Empower South Hills (2008), St. Clair Heights Citizens Committee (webmaster and newsletter editor 2009-2011) U.L.C. (preceptor - 2005). The Planetary Society (current) Please contribute to the American Red Cross!

Kindred Magazine, Point of Light Magazine; "Natures Echos" , "Quicksilver Moon", and "Treasured Poems of America 1994" poetry anthologies. "Tarotbytes" the ModernOracleTarot.com Blog, "Lens" the rondasnow.com blog, www.findyourpsychic.com magazine. My books "#PeaceTarot" and "Triquetra: The Dance of Worlds" are available on amazon.com for Kindle and at www.quirkandflotsam.etsy.com. "Bead Mindful, Begin Meditating" is a meditation how-to currently under development.

Ph.D. in Natural Health, Bachelor of Science in Medical Science, Reiki Master, self-published author, retired Tai Chi instructor

Awards and Honors
Outstanding Young Women of America 1988, 1997, Writer's Castle Poet of the Year 2004.

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