Tarot Card Readings/friend


I had a friend, K,  who I loved dearly. For some reason (he said something serious was going on but he didn't want to share) he contacted me a little, or not at all. I tried to get close to him and see what was going on but I couldn't. I didn't want to be a bother so I moved away. Can you give me some insight on this? Still not sure I did the right thing, however it was what felt right at that moment.
Thank you for your time and energy

Dear Lila,

K dwells within a maelstrom that leaves him unsure of where to direct his focus and energy; one impenetrable by you or others. In blinding himself to your support of, he has lost precious opportunities to avail himself of practical solutions. He will emerge before long, with the focus needed to move ahead, and despite his unwise choices regarding his relationships, those intentions will find employ in potent action.

Your choice to move away was made neither rashly, nor without consideration. It will insulate you from the chaos in which he is immersed. You will continue to belabour the decision and waver in your commitment to it. As he emerges, however,  the step you have taken will permit a reconnection with him on a far deeper level.

Patience is, at once, the hardest and most rewarding of virtues,


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