Question Hi Jaime, I am a second year teacher and I teach middle school. Every time my academic coach comes in to observe me she criticizes me to the point where I feel inadequate and as though I am doing a disservice to my students. I put all of me into my classroom as well as my students so this leaves me completely broken. Many times I feel as though I am not good enough to be doing this job, even though God has given me this gift. Maybe with more time I will have more confidence in my abilities, however, I am really struggling with my own confidence day in and day out. Any advice?
Answer 1.) If she is criticizing you, ask for help with what she expects, maybe even ask for an "assignment" that she can come in and watch the day or next week. Get something concrete that you can build on. Just being criticized doesn't help if there is no positive suggestion to balance it.
2.) On the other hand, maybe your coach is giving you positive feedback about how you can improve. If this is the case, listen to her and try to do what she suggests.
3.) Another thought is that she might be wrong. She might be pushing you away from your natural teaching style and beliefs and philosophy. If this is the case, you need to explain to her why you are doing what you do and the way you do it.
4.) Is she just nasty and critical without cause?
Jamie, which of these four do you think it is? If you can identify which of the four it is, then write back to me and let's look at this in more depth.
I remember being a new teacher too, and it is stressful. But you should not be demeaned by the help that is offered to you. Let's talk some more.
