AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 1/15/2008 Subject: I NEED TO KNOW IF MY BESTFRIEND LIKES ME
Question WELL TO START OFF I WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU FOR TAKING UR TIME ON READING MY QUESTION..THANKS...WELL MY NAMES FERNANDO AND IM 17..ME AND MY BESTFRIEND ERIKA HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER LESS THEN A YEAR AND WEVE BEEN GOOD FRIENDS SINCE DAY ONE...WHEN I FIRST MET HER I REALY LIKED HER..WE STARTED TALKING TALKING BUT I NOTICED THAT SHE WAS STILL NOT OVER HER EX( AT THAT TIME HER AND HER EX HAD JUST BROKEN UP) AND I TOTALLY RESPECTED THE FACT THAT SHE STILL HAD FEELING FOR HER EX...I WASNT GONNA MAKE HER GET WITH ME IF I KNEW SHE STILL LIKED HER EX..SO I GAVE HER TIME...LOTS OF TIME...BUT IT GOT TO THE POINT WERE ME AND HER GOT REALY CLOSE...WE TELL EACHOTHER ALOT OF STUFF...WE EVEN LOST IT TO EACH OTHER..AND ITS WIERD BECAUSE IF SHE WAS WILLING TO LOSE IT TO ME THEN THERE HAS TO BE SOME TYPE OF FEELINGS...AND THATS THE THING..I REALY DONT KNOW
SHE TELLS ME ABOUT HOW MUCH SHE THINKS OTHER GUYS ARE CUTE AND STUFF..AND IT GETS TO ME BAD..I TRY NOT TO SHOW HER THAT IM JELOUSE BUT I AM...AND NOT TO LONG AGO I GOT CHANGED TO ANOTHER SCHOOL AND SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE MISSES ME ALOT...SHES SO CONFUSING BECAUSE SOMETIMES SHE MAKES me FEEL LIKE SHE LIKES ME BUT THEN AGAIN SHE MAKES IT SEEM LIKE SHE DOESNT...SHES THE MOST HONEST PERSON I KNOW AND I ASK HER IF SHE LIKES ANYBODY AND SHE SAYS SHE DOESNT BUT SHE THINKS SOME GUYS ARE CUTE......I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT HER..SO MY QUESTION IS ..DO U THINK SHE LIKES ME? AND IF SHE DOESNT WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET OVER HER?I DONT WANT OGET OVER HER BUT IF ITS MY ONLY OPTION
Answer i think the only way to know for sure if she likes you is to ask her. i wouldnt tell her how much you like her but maybe just say something like "im thinking i might be getting some feelings for you". see how she reacts. if she pulls back and says i just like you as a friend, then you know where she stands. just be prepated if she does say that. if you feel you need to pull back from her because you are falling for her then i think thats ok to do. just communicate with her your feelings so she doesnt think your just being a jerk. hope that helped.
