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Expert: Sandi Date: 1/9/2008 Subject: sex for the first time
Question ok me and my girlfriend have been talking about sex and it has hurt when ever we tried letting me push in at all. so what im really asking is what we need to know so we can do it right. i do know that it will hurt her but we think i may have put in the wrong on or some thing but i would like to know so what step by step the kind of thing that should happen so where ready to do it and then can have sex.
Answer let me start by saying, please use protection! :)
lubrication is very important especially when having sex for the first time. there is no right or wrong way when "putting it in". you basically have two choices :)
anyway, just remember to go slow and use lubrication if its needed. KY works great. Please write me back if you want to talk more.