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Expert: Sandi
Date: 10/4/2008
Subject: First Major Break up
Question
I do not know what I did wrong? Why after such a long time just leave me in cold? Can you help me please? This is my story. We had been dating steady since we were 14 for 2.5 years. We went to different schools. After we first met I found out he had a horrible home situation where he and his dad would spend months living in car or off relatives off and on. I never told his secrets and always helped when he was in trouble and he helped me too if something happened. We fought sometimes, but nothing real bad. He came over just about everyday or I went to him so we saw each other alot just not at school He is really insecure about me and I always try to make him feel better because I know his life. Well out of the blue he texted me and situation. He told me they did not have money so I give him food and school supplies. His mom lived around the corner and he hated her for cheating on his Dad and blamed her for his life being what it is. I think he and his Dad talked alot and that why he always suspect me. Honestly, I seemed weird because I did not talk to any males at school..not even for fun because my boyfriend knows most because we all went to middle school together. We stared going out at the end of 8th grade and it is now 2 months into our junior year and he just breaks up with me. We weren't fighting or anything. For the passed 2 weeks he has texted me one day about how he misses me and we should get back together and then the next day he says nothing or tell me to never text him again. I get my hopes up and I am at the end of my rope because we had such dreams and it was the two of us together. The clincher was I went on myspace last night and saw him in a picture with another girl from his school. He says it happened after he broke up with me. He never told me why the break up. I am very used, confused and so so sad.
Answer
you deserve to know why he broke up with you. all you can do is ask him why. if he doesnt respond or doesnt want to tell you then i guess you just have to leave it alone and move on. he doesnt sound like greatest guy and im sure you could do much better then him.
sandi
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