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Expert: Faith
Date: 10/8/2008
Subject: confused / hurt
Question
i've known him for 5 years. we have always been crazy for eachother we were together every summer. but after the summer it would never work out - long distance. so this summer he wanted to try it out. probably the happiest day of my life. after 2 months he broke it off. and i want to know whats up with that?. he told me he loved me! the reasons he gave me were. he will never see me in the winter (its not winter yet!) he said we could be together maybe next spring/summer. you think i want to wait that long?. he said hes not ready for a relationship (but everything was perfect!) also he said that he doesin't want to get drunk at parties and fool around with girls and hurt me that way. now why would i want to hear that? after everything he has told me all the sweet things. it was bullshit! he told me that this would last forever he told me everything that makes a gril crazy in love with him he was a sweetheart. i thought i was falling for him. i just want to know what all that means! because right now im so confused im hurt ive lost my appetite and i cant sleep!. it just doesint seem right for him to do that i was shocked and it hurts cause he doesint show he cares. please help me its killing me!
Answer
hi sem,
i'm so sorry that you got your heart broken. unfortunately guys (and some girls) say things they don't really mean to get what they want. it's obvious he liked you before but he didn't like you enough. at least not as much as you deserved.
right now you're hurting but i promise it will get better. don't sit in your room and think about what you did wrong. you didn't do anything wrong. spend time with your friends and go back to enjoying your life before him. he's one of many boys you'll meet in life and you shouldn't waste another second on him. i think he was just too restless to be tied down which is silly because being in a relationship with someone you love and who really loves you is a great thing. but he wasn't ready for it. just be happy that it happened now instead of after several years together. you found out his true colors and now you can move on.
good luck!
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