AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
Question I'm currently very confused in my love life. Two years ago I met a girl at school named Lauren. As we started to talk and we started to date, pretty soon things got serious where we talked about having kids, getting married, etc. Well after a few months her mom found out that we had sex. Lauren was only 15 and I was 17 at the time. Her mom decided that we needed to be away from each other and not see each other at all and no communication. We would still see each other in school and after school when her mom wasn't home. Lauren is beautiful girl, smart, amazing everything that I could ask for. Well as time went on we slowly stopped talking. It got to the point to where we would only talk through AIM. As the summer came along I met another girl named Brittany. We started to talk and also in this relationship things got serious, but when Lauren found out about Brittany I left Brittany and ran back to Lauren. Lauren had some trust issues with me and Brittany never wanted to see or hear from me again. Well next year comes around and I decided to write a letter to Brittany asking for forgiveness for what I had done. She accepted the apology and we began to talk once again. At this time Lauren and I were still forbidden to talk or see each other. Well it ends up that Brittany is pregnant with my child. She is now 3 months pregnant. Lauren knows of the pregnancy and told me that she could not be with me if that child was born. Brittany is against abortion. Brittany took me back once again and we were planning on getting married. Well just a few days ago Lauren sent me a message asking where my heart resided, and I told her the truth it was with her (Lauren). I then told her that it didn't matter anymore because she wasn't going to be with me anyway's because of my kid. She said bye. Today she spoke with Brittany and told her what I had said. By the way Brittany knows that I love Lauren but I do have feelings for Brittany, after all she is having my baby. Brittany told me that if what Lauren had said was true then she was moving away and never speaking to me again. Lauren sent me a message today saying "If I were to say that I would still marry you even if you had a kid because I cant live without you..." I didn't reply. Both of these girl's would do and give anything for me. What should I do. I'm in college now. Brittany is 18 and Lauren is now 17 years old, and I'm 19. I'm very confused on what I should do and how I should deal with it? Thank you.
Answer either way you need to make sure you stand up to your responsibilities and take care of your baby. im assuming brittany has already had the baby? did she keep it or put it up for adoption? i wouldnt just stay with brittany because she has your child. if you really do not love her and want to be with lauran then thats what i would persue. just remember to always be in your kids life. please write back and answer those questions for me. thanks.
