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Expert: Dan Date: 2/15/2008 Subject: I love a girl who only likes me as a friend
Question Hello! MY name is Dan, and i am from Bulgaria, and i am 20 years old.
So, i am at this university, at a special section, in which we are taught everything in english. And i met this girl (which is from greece and she has come here to study, her grandfather lives here, so she is staying at him) , -which is not from my group, but she is from the same year, and we only do the courses together, not the seminars. And I was lucky enough to see that she goes home, with the same tramm I do. And so i said hello and we started to become friends. What i did, is that because i liked her, I did only nice things, i always helped her with the courses, tried to give her some papers she wasn't able to print because she lacked a printer in the first month of the semester. And at the ball i tried to dance with her more closer than average... and she told me that: "I never had a boyfriend before, and i think it's too early"and all i did was to try and dance closer .. hmm, i also bought her 2 drinks that night and brought her to the ball with the taxi and then i sacrificed my time there, because i wanted to stay more, but she had to be home at 4 o'clock , so i took her with the taxi back, because she din't want to go alone with maybe some crazy taxi driver.
So i continued to be a nice guy, helped her when i thought she needed something and stuff. I always asked her out to a movie and stuff.. at first she said that she has to study, din't want to go out, but then she finally accepted. We went several times, we had a great time, but i need to say that we went with friends , not only the 2 of us. And the time came, that i confessed the thing that I LOVE HER. And at first, she told me that: her mother told her to study and that she musnt' get involved with bulgarian guys and stuff. + after this, she told me that she tried to like me more than a friend but she couldn't.because she once had a boyfriend, and he tricked her and din't treat her well and she was heart broken since then. - -- I asked her to give me a chance , because she must develope feelings for me , but she said that the only chance she is giving me is to continue on being friends and to see if something will happen in the time that has to come.
So, after reading this, you noticed she came up with 3 excuses: 1) she never ever had a boyfriend and it's to early to have one, 2)her mother told her not to get involed and study & that she tried to like me more than a friend 3) she got hurt and stuff and she cannot forget that.
Now we are very good friends, and use to hang out weekly, with also some friends, but the problem is i still love her and i realy need some TIPS/HINTS in how to make her like me more than a friend;
I know that if a girl likes u only as a friend, there is no chance to make her find u attractive and like you more.
But this is why i ask you, because she is everything for me, i love her and i cannot live without her, i need to be with her... but it's soo difficult. SO i need your help, in telling me what to do, what to continue on doing, how should i aproach her, to make her love me :)
Thank you.!
Answer Hi,
Taking it slow is super important. Don't rush into dating with this person. I recommend our "How to make the right move area". Notice I say don't rush into dating with her. Stay her friend for a drop longer before the dating idea comes up again. Please ask follow ups
