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Experience High school graduate
I have studied psychology for a number of years
Expert: Dan Date: 2/2/2008 Subject: She is way to young
Question QUESTION: I am 18 years old and there is a girl at my school who is obsessed with me. The problem is that she is 13. I don't really understand why she likes me I have done nothing to lead her on or anything like that. I know there is no way I could date her. I just don't know how to tell her that there is no way this would ever workout. We ride the same bus(public transportation) home, one day it was snowing so I let her wait for her mom in my car. Now I am afraid that if I tell her that it would never workout that it will end in accusations that I raped her or something like that, I never touched her or anything, but she might be crazy. How do I tell her so that it doesn't end with me in trouble with the law?
ANSWER: I recommend to speak to your parents and a trusted teacher about this. She sounds like she has a problem that needs a professional. I recommend speaking also to my coworker James Windell Parenting Teen expert. He's a expert in the psychology of teens. I also want to tell you I had a friend who had a similar problem to yours. The parents weren't happy about him, yet the trusted teacher did help him out.
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P.S. Can I ask your state?
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QUESTION: Thanks, I will talk to James Windell. I talked to my school councilor about it before I asked here and all that really did was make me paranoid about the law. I will talk to him again now that I have more Information.
I live in Colorado
Feel free to ask any other questions you would find useful.
Thanks a million
~Josh
Answer Your school councilor should be able to help you. Yes, there is a law issue and this is where it gets tricky for my self to advise you. As I am not a lawyer and I don't want to say something that will make this "obsessed person" be more mad at you, I feel it is better to have your local team work with you on this. You should ask a lawyer for all legal advice. I cannot advise on legal advice nor can I give more than my two cents worth of advice.
Your local team should be your parents, school, councilor, and a trusted teacher. Her parents may be unhappy with this, yet if they care about her, they need to know about this and get her help soon.
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P.S. In my state they allow certain types of recordings to be done without the other person or party's approval(unless the law has changed). Many state's however have a policy at hand that local citizens cannot do such anymore. I am not a lawyer in your state so I cannot state this is legal or illegal in your state, yet you may want to check into the law.
The recording law helped my father in a legal disagreement a number of years ago when I was younger. The above is not legal advice and recording without approval when not allowed under the law could be a violation of the law and may get you in serious trouble. Also the recording idea may not fix any of your problems if allowed.
