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Expert: Sandi Date: 2/7/2008 Subject: does she like me?
Question I'm a sophmore in high school (15 yrs old), and there is this girl (freshman) at
my school that I really like. I've known her since I was 10 or 11, but we never
really talked then, and I never had any feelings for her until now. We don't
really have any classes together other than she's in my gym class, and we are
both in the band, and we don't really hang out much either, so I don't really
get to talk to her that much. Sometimes I think I see her looking in my
direction, but I can't tell if she is looking at me. She sits next to me in band,
and we always end up in a conversation about something, but it's usually very
short. Whenever I'm near her she is always very attentive to what I'm saying,
even if I'm not talking to her. Also she usually has a comment on what I'm
saying or something to add to it, and she usually agrees with me.
Occasionally she pokes fun at me, but she never really means anything
negative that she says to me. She is flirty in gym and occasionally will give
me a little push and then smile about it. She is a very talkative and outgoing
person in general. But, I can't tell if it's something more than that. I am
outgoing with friends, but I've always had trouble with girls that I have strong
feelings for. I want her to know that I like her, but I don't want to have to tell
her, and I don't want to ask someone to tell her for me. I would really, really
appreciate any advice you have on whether or not she likes me, and how I
might be able to let her know that I like her without having to tell her directly.
Thanks.
Answer i dont understand, why dont you just ask her out? what have you got to loose? i would think about what you want to say ahead of time and what your response will be if she says yes or no. play out the conversation in your head first before asking her. be calm and cool about it and just go for it! :) good luck and please let me know how it goes.