About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
Publications I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com
Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
Awards and Honors I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.
Question My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8months but 3 months ago I had called him and his dad answered and told me he was seeing another girl I couldn't handle it so i hung up the phone about a month later he came to my house crying so we put it all in the past.Ever since I have been rude to him and irritated by him.I love him and I don't wanna loose him but if I keep this up I'm scared I will.so please answer me back and tell me why I'm acting like this.
Answer Hi Lauren..
Okay, wow.. I'm sorry you had to find out by your boyfriend's own FATHER, that he's seeing another girl besides you.. It's nice of you to keep wanting to be with him though..
You're acting like this because he hurt you very bad by cheating on you with another girl.. It's not a first time it's happend to someone in life, and it certainly won't be a last.
Have you asked him about if he's seeing another girl or not, and if it's true? If you're wanting this relationship to keep-balanced though and you both to stay together, you have to stop what you're doing. Stop being rude, etc., because the chances are that if he DOES care about the relationship at all, and you, he will break-up with you..
Ask him if he did it, how long he's been doing it, and ask why. Assure him that you're willing to give him another chance to be faithful, and tell him that you're wanting to stay with him. Let him know however; that if you're going to stay together, that he has to break-off all other relationships with any other girlfriends, and it can never happen again.
If he can abide by these terms and conditions, then give him another chance.. However; if anything like this happens again, I advise you to break-off the relationship. Whether you choose to do it now or later; either temporary or permanently, is you're choice..
If you want to stay with him, you've got to be willing to place a little more trust in him again.. Two things that Relationships REQUIRE, are "Trust/Honesty, and Committment/Loyalty."
I wish you the best, and hope it all turns out good for you both..
