AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
Question I'm 20 and my girlfriend just turned 18 and is graduating in the summer. We dated through most of highschool. Atleast 1 year of highschool on and off. And once I graduated 2 years steady. Shes always said she loves me and that she wants to be with me no matter what. And then I told her I wanted to join the navy and ever since then she's been distant. We broke up about a month ago after I told her I enlisted. I work full time and she works part time and is consentrating on graduating so we don't talk much during the week maybe an hour everyother day if at all. I only see her on the weekends also. Once a week mostly. I'll ask her how her week was, what she did, etc. And she'll say alright school, work, etc. you know how it is. So I'll ask who she went out with or what they did. And she'll just say why does it matter, and will just avoid telling me. But whenever we she each other she still says she loves me and we always cuddle and do relationship centered things. Dinner and a movie stuff like that. And we are still having sex. But I'm concerned she is seeing another guy on the side. I asked her mom and she said she even thought so and asked but she said no. I don't know what to do since I'm leaving for the navy soon and she wants to go to college in the fall. Should I try to work things out or just walk away as hard as it is?
Answer its hard having a relationship when you cant see the other person that often. i think for now its probably best if you break up. i wouldnt say this if she was ok with you going away but since she is acting like this i would break up with her. good luck and please let me know if you want to talk more.
