About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
Publications I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com
Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
Awards and Honors I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.
Question Hey Matt... hi.. well i have liked this boy and me and him r like so close.. well we wrote notes and i asked him if he liked me he said yes. and my friends dont like him, they think he is a fag. they said if i dated him they would never talk to me again even if i broke up with him. But he asked me out and we r goin out now, and i am not gonna tell my friends and he is not gonna tell anyone either. Is that the right thing to do? and me and him were walkin around and he was fliritn with my friend that doesnt care what i do!! is that right?? and i grabbed him and kissed him on the cheek was that a good choice?? Help i dont no if i am makin the right choice and i dont know if he really likes me!!
Answer Hello Lexi.
Oh wow; typical drama. -.-' I've done soo well without it these past few years.
So; you this boy likes you, asked you out, and you accepted? Your friends once told you that if you were to date him, they'd never talk to you again, even if you were to breakup?
Okay. I am sorry to say; but they're not TRUE friends.. If they would stop being your friend just because you're dating someone of your CHOOSING, that's just wrong and immature. That should tell you to move on, and forget them friends. If they friends; they may disagree with your decision, but wouldn't stop being your friend because of it though.
The way they're acting about it, is almost breaching Article V of the Constitution of the U.S.
I say that you do what you want. Let them know if you want, or don't. It's up to you. In my opinion; it's not right to hide a relationship though, just because of arrogance of others.
You're doing fine; it's just everyone else causing the problems.
If you would like; feel free to as a follow-up, or comment on anything. Thanks, and I wish you well.
--Matty--
