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Expert: Sandi Date: 4/12/2008 Subject: this girl i was almost with
Question ok, so this valentines day i gave a gift to this girl who i liked for so long. she gave me a gift as well, and we both said i love you to eachother. well after valentines day there was a 4-day weekend and on this weekend she was going on a ski trip. when she came back from her ski trip she wrote me an email which said she had been leading me on and that some of the stuff i've heard from her friends wasn't true. so when school started i talked to her face to face and she said that she liked someone else. she wasn't mean about it at all and i know she really cares about my feelings. after the confrontation at school she said we needed some time apart before we could b friends again. it's been almost 2 months now and we haven't talked since. i see her in the hall at school and she sometimes looks at me and i look at her. one time i saw her at a party and we just smiled at eachother. But now i think her and her friends(who were really good friends of mine) are blocking me on aim and i just think they don't want to be friends anymore. i've tried so hard to forget about her and saying i'm over her would mean i'm only lying to myself. i loved her very very much and now i'm confused and don't know what to do anymore. i thought letting this go would help but i just can't stop thinking about her. i still like her and everyone tells me to move on. please help me i've become very depressed and almost suicidal over this whole thing, and maybe i'm making to big a deal about this. i just worry that i won't find someone that makes me as happy as she does. plus i don't know if i could stand to see her with someone else. what should i do?
Answer first off...thinking of killing yourself over someone you havnent known that long is relaly not a very smart thing to do. second...you will find someone else who mkaes you as happy as she did. i know its hard when you have to see this person everyday. but you really have to talk to yourself and understand that this whole thing will eventually go away. school will soon be over and you both will move on. go out with friends and date other gilrs. thats the best way to get over her. good luck and please write me back if you want to talk more ;)
