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Expert: Dan Date: 4/29/2008 Subject: is he just using me??
Question well ive been knowin this guy for a month or two..we went out last month for only 3 weeks..i liked him and he liked me..but after 2 days he asked me out..he started talking about having sex..i was confused..didnt kno wat to think..becuz im still a virgin..and hes not. he told me that can be a way for me to trust him. so i went along with it. started talking bout having sex in a public bathroom since we didnt have a free crib..i just didnt feel rite bout it..on the 3rd week of our relationship..he took me to a girls public bathroom at a local park..i didnt feel rite doin it..so i just said no..he was pretty upset at the fact..he was already in the mood..2 days later he broke up wit me sayin that it was best if we were on a break.. i was like fine..watever..a week later he texted me sayin hey wats up? he told me that he missed me and cudnt get me off his mind..i was like then y did u break up wit me?? he was like cuz it seemed that "i didnt like him any more" i said i did..but he told me that he likes me sooo much that he thinks he may be in love wit me..which i didnt believe. so he was just sayin if we cuz mess around for rite now..im like ok..cuz i still had feelings for him..so at skool we wud kiss..make out..but we werent goin out. i went to the park one day wit a friend..where he always plays handball..i saw him and he didnt say anythin to me after half an hour later..we were talkin and out of nowhere he said that he decided that he didnt want to do anything wit me[like have sex anymore] im like y?? and hes like becuz ur scared..and ur just unsure bout it..im like well i did tell u that i had a free crib all week but u didnt tell me anything..as soon as i said that he got up and said ok well lets go do it now..im like u serious and hes like yea come on..so i go..and im sooo scared..while we were walkin to my house..we stopped made out and he gave me a hickie..he later told me if i was down to give him head..since i didnt want him to think i was slacking..i said yea..he took me to this alley to do it..and i did..we left and he told me to do it again..in bak of a department store..so i did it once again..we walked to my house..and we were ready and everythin to have sex..but he took forever..and since i was still nervous..i was just waiting for him..and then my sister came..so he had to leave..he knew we didnt have alot of time..but he still wanted to do it. wen he went bak to the park..one of my friends told me that he said "damn that bitch is too scared"..he was mad and he said that he didnt care if my sister came..he just wanted to fuck..and yea after that we went to spring break..and all week he didnt talk to me at all..didnt call..text..IM...nothin..all my friends say that hes using me..but idk becuz he wants me to be able to trust him but i just cant..but part of me wants to but the other is unsure of his intensions
Answer You didn't say your ages, yet I question if you had a right to have sex with him under the law. If it's illegal report this. I recommend to speak to a doctor and get tested. My theory is he is a loser and pressured you into something he knew you didn't want to do. You can do better than him. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. Move on. You will find someone better than him. Please ask follow ups
