AboutRyan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
Experience I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Question hey, im in love with ma mates gf, me and her are like best friends, and i no she still likes her ex, i dunno what to do? i can never get her off ma mind, but im scared tellin her will ruin our friendship, what do you suggest?
Answer Jacob,
It's a tough situation you're in. I wouldn't rush into anything and tell her how you feel. It may ruin the friendship with her, and it may ruin the friendship with your friend.
I'd wait it out for a while, occupy yourself with others, and other things. If the feelings don't subside, then maybe you should talk to her. Tell her that you don't want to come between the two of them, but you had to get it off your chest. Remind her that even if she doesn't have the same feelings for you, it's fine, and you'll be good with just being friends.
