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About Ryan
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I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
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I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
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In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
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You are here: Experts > Teens > Teen Advice > Teen Dating Issues > dating/ parents hate guy you like
Expert: Ryan
Date: 5/22/2008
Subject: dating/ parents hate guy you like
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QUESTION: how old do you have to be to date a 19 year old guy in PA?
how do you get your parents to like him when they hate him just because hes older by 3 years?
ANSWER: Emily,
There are no rules/laws saying when you are able to date someone. Elementary children "date".
However, if there is sex involved, it's a different story. PA laws say you have to be 16 to legally consent to sex, and the age difference can not be more than 4 years apart.
Your parents are acting like many parents do. He's older, so they may think that he is going to pressure you into doing things he's old enough to do. They may also think that older guys want sex, as opposed to younger guys (your age) who just want girlfriends.
I had a similar situation. I was 21, and my girlfriend was 18. Our birthdates were very close, but it still seems like a 3 year difference. Her parents weren't too fond of it, but after a while, they got used to it. If you do like him, then you need to talk to your parents and explain why you like/love/have feelings for him. Reassure them that he does not control your actions, you do.
-Ryan
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QUESTION: so my parents can't tell me i can't date him as long as we don't have sex right?
Answer
Emily,
That is true. However, your parents may be able to try and tell you who you can and can not date if you're living under their roof. This is why I'd talk to them, and explain why you like him so much. Telling them that you won't be having sex with him is something they will want to hear as well.
-Ryan
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