About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
Publications I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com
Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
Awards and Honors I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.
Expert: Matt Date: 5/27/2008 Subject: Can you help me?
Question Hi Matt, I'm 16 and a sophomore in High school.
How do you talk to girls in person and on the phone without having to think of what to say before you talk to them?
I mean, I talk to girls all the time but I'm tired of having to plan out/think of what to say to them beforehand and now I just want to be able to be myself and talk to them naturally.
As for the phone, I guess I'm one of those guys who's afraid to talk to girls on the phone.
Can you help me?
Answer Hello Paul.
Sorry to say; but for this question, there isn't really much of an answer I can give you.
Just talk. You don't need to plan things out entirely. Sure; it may seem like you might need to, but you really don't. I mean; do you think the girl has it all planned out when she's getting a phone-call at a random time of the day? Or you just randomly bump into eachother at the nearest Wal-Mart? Unless she's a TRUE psychic, and knows what is going to be said or happen, the answer is NO. She don't know what is going to be said or happen during the call or at the store.
Just talk. Be carefree and worry-less. Use sarcasm at appropriate times, be serious when necessary. Go from there and have fun! If you possibly sound like an idiot at some points, don't worry about it! ^_^ Everyone sounds like an idiot at one time or another in there life. Best not to worry about it, and just have fun instead.
I hope this has been somewhat helpful, but only you can really decide what you do and how you feel/react. Just be yourself!
Goodluck. Feel free to ask any Follow-Up Questions, or leave any comments. Thanks, -Matty-
