AboutRyan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
Experience I have been through numerous relationships, long distance relationships, and loving ones. I know how to handle every situation in the manner it should be.
Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Question I'm in a long distance relatinship and have been in it for nine months. I really like the guy i'm with and we really do love each other. yea, i did say LOVE.
The sad thing about this relationship is i've grown tired of always getting in arguments with him over stupid little things. And lately i've gotten quite bored of him, a bit.
The real reason i'm writing is because the other day my friend, who's a friend of his too, was on myspace and was looking at his new pics. She saw a comment a friend of his left about a pic of him smoking. My friend, being a nosy Haitian like she is, went to his friend's pg and found a short clip of him kissing her.
I always had a feeling they had something going on or they used to adte once or sumthing. And I always asked him about her.......................... anyways. I went on her pg and saw it with my own two eyes and no, i wasn't upset. It was him kissing her.
I broke up with him, yesterday but he made me listen to his excuse. we're still together. so idk. can you plz tell me what to do. should I just break up w/ him and b done w/ it?
Answer Nenou,
Long distance relationships are tough. You said you were bored. I can relate, I had a similar situation when I was in a long distance relationship. The arguments came about too, and they were over the most minuscule things.
The boredom and arguing is most likely you both missing each other. However, he now has kissed another girl. You took him back, so his excuse must have been VERY good. Don't stay in the relationship just to do it. You need to talk to him about the fighting/boredom if you truly are looking past the kissing that happened, and really want the relationship to work.
