AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
Experience I'm a teen girl and have been in many relationships, both with guys and girls. I've been in many different situations and can give you great advice.
Question Allright heres the deal . I'm 14 and I've been dating this AMAZING guy, hes nice and sweet and really caring and hes older than me by a year and a half so hes more mature for his age and doesn't act like a retard. So anyway, I love him but then i started to get feelings for my other friend and he feels the same way about me and one day when we were hanging out he kissed me and I stopped him though but i wanted to kiss him so badly and the thing is, i still have feelings like that for my boyfriend. Its like .. I don't know i love them both. Its like this, my boyfriend loves me , my friend loves me and i love them both and i have no idea what to do because i feel depressed with my boyfriend because i want to be with my friend but i know ill be upset if me and my boyfriend break up and he wont talk to me anymore. It sounds bad , i know , but i cant control these feelings.
Answer your young and ahouldnt be tied doen to just one person. thats what dating is all about, seeing what you like and do not like. i think you should let your current bf know you are not ready for a committment. let him know you love him but you just feel like you need to see what else is out there. i wouldnt let him know you kissed anyone or that you might like someone else. good luck and please let me know if you want to talk more
