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I can answer most questions on dating from male or female perspective, straight or gay as i believe every person goes through the same problems in life but on different scales.
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I've always given people advice, its something i'm good at, i'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,i don't think our relationships perfect but its healthy. I give my female friends advice and they say i'm good because i'm honest, its not always the thing they want to hear but in the end it makes for happiness. My relationship started out long distance and we now live together, so i can give personal advice on a lot of issues which i have dealt with. I'm a nice, polite guy and i'm applying as i really want to help people with personal issues.
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You are here: Experts > Teens > Teen Advice > Teen Dating Issues > Could My Girlfriend Cheat again?
Expert: James
Date: 6/10/2008
Subject: Could My Girlfriend Cheat again?
Question
Hi Samantha, Here's my Problem Hope you can help. I've been with this girl Named Charlene for 2 years now, We started going out 7/1/06 I got with her when she was 13 years old and I was 15. Our relationship seemed almost perfect, ofcourse with little arguments here and there but nothing out of the usual, until November of 2007 when I found out she was cheating on me over the summer. She cheated on me pretty bad, The Guy she was cheating on me with was a guy from her block and he was 18 years old when she was only 14 at the time. She had sex with this guy about 8 times (By the way I was her first - I took her virginity). They stopped Messing around in september because he didn't want to have anything to do with her (He obviously used her) and Rumor has it she really liked him and wanted to be with him. I came to find this out in November from a friend of the guy she cheated on me with, I confronted Charlene about it and she denied it all the way in the beginning, but than she told me it was true. I stould with her and forgived her for what she's done in the past, she's really made me feel that she regrets what she's done. Charlene recently moved to another town and we are still together, but I really don't think I can trust her now being she moved and all. And on top of all this I think I'm starting to like this girl who's really sweet and really really likes me. Please Give me advise on what I should do.
Answer
Hey Gabriel,
I'm not Samantha obviously but i saw your question and understood where you were coming from, only you can make the final decision based on how you feel, but this is my personal opinion, she slept with this guy more than once and then lied to you and didn't tell you, i completely understand your reasons for not trusting her now she's moved so I'm sure people would understand your reasoning IF you did decide to break up with her, and you obviously care for this new girl, it all comes down to wether you want to; Trust Charlene as a relationship will deteriorate if there's no trust, or if you want to embark on a relationship with this new girl, either way a decision that can only be made by you but i hope i put things into perspective for you.
Really hope things end up well and happy for you, all my best wishes.
James
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