AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 6/28/2008 Subject: me ,my bf and sex??
Question well here it goes i love my bf and i know he loves me too we always do things you know sexual things ,but not sex not yet.We've talked about it and we both wanted it and we wont plan it and he said he will wait till I'm ready , i told him to get condoms just in case. I'm still a virgin and i know this feelings are normal at this age (17) ,and i also know you might tell me no wait he's probably not the guy and you're still young don't use your body like that i know ,but i feel ready i feel like he's the guy I never in my life felt so sure with a guy like felt so open and so good i trust him and i know if it happens he wont be a jerk and leave me he will be by my side all the time.So i was just wondering like what will it feel like it ,will it hurt to much, and for how long and for how long will i bleed??
Answer everyone is different. if you think you are ready for sex then go for it. it might hurt and you might bleed but thats normal. be open with him and let him know if it hurts or if he is doing something that doesnt feel good. you might want to use some extra lubricent as well.
