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Expert: Ryan Date: 6/13/2008 Subject: I dont know ..
Question Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and we don't go to the same school. We USED to call eachother all the time and make plans to see eachother but then we all of sudden stopped talking. Like whenever i signed on msn , he wouldn't make a move to instant message me and when i made a move to message him , it would take him a half hour to reply then he would have to go by then. On nexopia , that's the only time we talk and its not even everyday , its more like once a week for 15 minutes . I don't know where we went wrong , everything was amazing and great then all of sudden , we stopped talking . When we do talk , its like , akward and boring and he doesn't even act like his chatty self and i asked him if anything was wrong and he would say no i love you and or something like that, i don't know, I tried to make it work but i cant be with someone i barely talk to . The thing is ... i still have strong feelings for him and i cant dump him and he wont dump me for some reason. I would rather him dump me, then be other way around and he wont , i even tried making him mad and that didn't work either. Where both 15 , if that helps and I don't know .. to make a confusing , rambling on story short : We where fine , people wished they had what me and him had , we stopped talking suddenly , i tried to ask him i anything was bothering him , he said no and that he loves me , i haven't properly talked to him in 2 weeks and i cant dump him cause i still like him and he wont dump me. I'm not sure what to do or if i should end it , no matter how hard it'll be .?
Answer Caterinaa,
It sounds like something is bothering your boyfriend. It may be something with you, his family, friends, or something you'd least suspect.
You need to have a heart-to-heart to see what's going on. I'd do it in person, or at least on the phone. Tell him you know something is wrong, and it's bothering/worrying you, and affecting you feelings. Make it known you want full honesty, no matter what it is, but, don't be hostile or demanding.
