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Expert: Sandi Date: 6/25/2008 Subject: my gfs parents are keeping us apart
Question how to deal with over protective paretns im 16 years old my gf is 15 going to turn 16 in july weve been together for 1 year her parents foudn out about us through a friend saw us together after skool and a whole bunch of dram happend she finally fessesed up about it and they threw a fit saying i must be so drug addict i better not be a rocker or gangster i hate being judged specailly if people dont know me i love this girl to death or else i wouldnt be with her at times ive waited months just to see her one time and they think all i want is sex which i dont i just wanna be with her shes never gotten in trouble and she always gets good grades but they cant trust her to have a bf since that happend its been about 3 months since i havnet seen her adn still patiently waiting i havent spoken to her in 4 days today i think her internet got dc im wiling to wait but i think its very unfair im the one who makes her happy cause her parents arguing in front of her all the time and it sucks not being with the one u love specailly after gonig through so much with her in 1 year weve only had 3 full dates adn for like 3 months i would go c her after skool just for 5 to 10 mins just to hug and kiss adn after all that they think all i want is sex? ive turned her life around like shes done to me im always getting on her case if she gets bad grades adn i make sure she brings them up but there to stubborn to c it that way which i hate i asked her to tell them that i want to talk to them adn they absolutely refuse to meet me adn i better not show up basically threating to do physical harm but i know they wouldnt but still i just cant go un announced so wat can i do i dont do drugs or drink alcohol my dad was all into that adn i saw the harm it cause a family wreck just always a problem thats y i will never do such things but they dont c me that way they just think i want sex and ill screw her up in grades adn everything but seriously i wanted sec i couldve gone out wit any girl instead of waiting 5 months just for our first date if i didnt care about her i wouldnt be on her case about her grades about her feelings always making her smile but they just dont c it my way thank u for taking the time to read my question
Answer for the most part you will just have to let this work out on its own. its her life and she will have to deal with her parents. you can support her and let her know you care for her and want to be with her. you could even go as far as letting her know you would be willing to meet her parents is that would help. maybe they would feel differently about you if you met them?
