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About James
Expertise
I can answer most questions on dating from male or female perspective, straight or gay as i believe every person goes through the same problems in life but on different scales.

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I've always given people advice, its something i'm good at, i'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,i don't think our relationships perfect but its healthy. I give my female friends advice and they say i'm good because i'm honest, its not always the thing they want to hear but in the end it makes for happiness. My relationship started out long distance and we now live together, so i can give personal advice on a lot of issues which i have dealt with. I'm a nice, polite guy and i'm applying as i really want to help people with personal issues.

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well i attended and passed secondary school (high school) but apart from that its just the school of life, i feel i naturally understand and relate to people, something no education could get you.

 
   

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Topic: Teen Dating Issues



Expert: James
Date: 6/24/2008
Subject: help!

Question
QUESTION: i like my best guy friend...and i told him i like him...apparently he told my best girl friend that he liked me too...but wen i asked him if he did...he said no...should i ask him out?


ANSWER: Hi Hailey,

Its very possible he may like you and was to shy to admit it when you asked or he may also have been telling the truth and may not have feelings for you in that way. I think its important to take his feelings for you out of the equation, because the only person who knows his true feelings is him, ask yourself if you like him enough to maybe face rejection or maybe a happy a relationship. Remember thats what's meant to be will be and if things don't work out the way you want them too now, in the long run things will work out. i hope this helped a little, if not feel free to write to me again.

fingers crossed for whatever you decide to do


James x

---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: dear James x...
i was talking online to my best guy friend...the one i like...and i asked him again if he said he liked me and if he really does like me...he said yes!now that i have taken our relationship to a new level...should i ask him out or wait for him to ask me?what would you do?
sincerely,
Hailey


Answer
hey hailey,

Its lovely to hear from you again. Now you know you both like each other, i feel it wouldn't matter who makes the first move, its almost certain either way to turn into a relationship. If you feel its right for you to ask him out then please do, life choices are all about what makes you happy. I really hope this helps a little.

best wishes

James

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