AboutTyler Expertise I can answer most questions on all aspects of teenage dating, including sex, the way teens think, breaking up, cheating, first dates, date ideas, dealing with parents, etc... I do not condone teenage sex before the age of sixteen.
The one requirement I have of anyone asking a question is that the question be written in proper English, with no Internet jargon (ur, b4, lol, etc...). If I receive a question with improper English, I will reject the question so you can re-ask in proper English. I'm here to help, but not if it gives me a major headache trying to decipher what you mean. This counts towards proper grammar: you know...paragraphing. I don't want to read a huge block of text.
Experience I'm a teenager myself, and I have been through most, if not all, of the trials and tribulations all teenagers face. I'm the go-to guy for advice in my school. I have the ability to see both the male and female side of the issues.
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Education/Credentials Graduating senior from high school, attending SUNY Geneseo in fall 2008.
Question hello, can you help me? im 14 and have had a few boyfriends but i have never kissed with tongues because i dont know how to and i dont want to make a fool of myself can you please please give me a detailed description of how to kiss with tongues. thank you from zoe!
Answer Hi Zoe,
Personally, the way I learned was through trial and error, but I can give you the basics.
1) While you're kissing (closed-mouthed, of course), gently open your mouth and press your tongue to his lips. Kind of lick them gently. You have to tease his lips open.
2) Once you tease his lips open, gently move your tongue around his mouth, you can always try tracing the roof of his mouth or the outline of his own tongue.
There are a few things you should be wary about:
1) Don't shove your tongue all the way into his mouth. That activates the gag reflex, and that is NOT good, especially if he ate. I know that from experience.
2) It takes LOTS of practice. It's a learned experience, so you'll need to do it time and time again. It's always good if your partner has already done it and knows how to do it. Have him teach you.
3) You'll learn a rhythm with your boyfriend that has a tug-of-war feel to it. If his tongue pulls back, push your tongue forward, but not too much! If he pushes his tongue forward, pull your tongue back.
