About James Expertise I can answer most questions on dating from male or female perspective, straight or gay as i believe every person goes through the same problems in life but on different scales.
Experience I've always given people advice, its something i'm good at, i'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,i don't think our relationships perfect but its healthy. I give my female friends advice and they say i'm good because i'm honest, its not always the thing they want to hear but in the end it makes for happiness. My relationship started out long distance and we now live together, so i can give personal advice on a lot of issues which i have dealt with. I'm a nice, polite guy and i'm applying as i really want to help people with personal issues.
Education/Credentials well i attended and passed secondary school (high school) but apart from that its just the school of life, i feel i naturally understand and relate to people, something no education could get you.
Expert: James Date: 6/24/2008 Subject: What does he think of me?
Question QUESTION: There is this guy. We never hangout but we talk all the time over the computer. He's a really nice guy who treats every single person with respect and always wants to make girls happy. After a really long time, we finally hungout recently. We only got to hangout for a little while. He decided to pick me flowers. He wants to hangout more but its hard while we are both away at college. Its finally summer though and we have the chance and he says he really wants to hangout a lot. We have plans to hangout with him and his friends this weekend, although he did invite another girl who is close friends with his friends to go with us.
He told me a couple months ago he liked me and wanted to date me. He picked me flowers the last time we hung out and well guys usually don't do that lol. He likes to make fun of things I say too. He likes to copy me a lot.
What do you think his opinion is of me?
ANSWER: Well, he deffinately likes you, he's even said he wants to date you. It all depends on what you'd like to do now, i think you need to ask yourself if you like him and if you do then make steps from there, hope this helped a little.
James x
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QUESTION: I do like him. Recently he lost a friend tragically in a not so ordinary car accident. Its shaken him up a lot and yesterday I tried to help him feel better for almost 2 hours. Do you think maybe he sees me a lot differently now?
Answer Hi ya again,
I think it was so nice of you to try and help him grieve and that shows to him you care a lot. When i lost someone close to me, i found a new love for the people that tried to help me through, it showed to me they hated to see me sad and allowed me to get all my negative emotions out by giving me a shoulder to cry on. I think you should wait a little and stay friends while he is in these early stages of grief as you don't want a relationship based on the loss of his friend. Then once he has moved on and the feeling of losing his friend isn't so raw i would say if you still feel the same then i would support your quest to move your friendship to another level.
