About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
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Expert: Matt Date: 6/7/2008 Subject: umm.... i just got my first boyfriend...
Question ok i am 13(idk if you needed to know that) and i use to like this guy at the beginnning of the school year then yesterday(friday) he finally asked me out.. i said yes(why wouldnt i) and after that he screamed yes and ran off to tell the rest of his friends.Keep in mind that was in field day after field day ended we went to 5th period we really didnt talk that much... and i wanted to... but i guess he was to busy looking at my year book with me and my friend, after a few minutes his friend call him over to his table, me and my friend heard his friend ask why he hadnt touched me yet! and after that we had to go to a movie for this party for passing sols and i was stuck sitting between Jonathan(my boyfriend) and Sierra (my friend) and Terry(Jonathans friend)said rub up her(my)leg he said no intil his friend did it to their other friend Talyor and started calling him(Jonathan) a pussy then he did it but i dont want his friend to make him do all this stuff to me after we only started going out 2hours before this movie.... anyways i dont know what to do we only have 3 half days left of school and i dont see how we could talk on the phone or hang out if we can barely talk to each other in our classes. i have almost all my classes with him and his friend i dont want to be there when i friend isnt there i feel more safe when my friend is around but summer is going to start very soon! i even have to ride the bus with him! its hard to talk to him when we are both shy around each other. i dont know if i listed a exact question in this but can you help me with all of this because i love hanging out with him and all but his friend is going to cause problems... thanks so much for reading this i really hope you can tell me before monday i dont know what i would do if we didnt have pplz like you in the world once again thanks so much :)
Answer Hello Kristen.
Okay; hello there. This is kind of a different question; but I understand it just fine, so don't worry about not "directly asking a question".
Well apparently your boyfriend's friend (Terry), seems to be trying to control this relationship on your boyfriend's side of the line. This isn't too wise. I actually advise you to ask your boyfriend (Jonathan), to ask his friend (Terry) to stop trying to tell him what to do, when it comes to being with you, and what actions to take. Or if you like; you can tell it to Terry himself. Tell him that it's making you feel uncomfortable, and you dislike it, expecially since you just started going out recently. Hopefully this will solve the first problem.
As for your second problem. When it comes to girls; some guys are more shy in-person, and CAN talk some, but not frequently. Some perfer to talk on the phone; or computer. *Myself for example*. I mean; I CAN talk in-person just fine if I'm with people I know well, such as friends, or my girlfriend.. However; sometimes I perfer to talk on the phone or computer with friends that I don't know really well. I'm more of a 1-on-1 person in-person. I perfer talking 1-on-1 in-person, unless I'm with more people I DO know, than people I DON'T know. Perhaps your boyfriend is possibly the same way. Try calling him sometime; and find out for yourself; based on how he's acting.
I hope this answer/these answers were helpful, and I'm sorry if not. Feel free to ask Follow-Up Questions, or leave any comments. Thanks, and goodluck. -Matty-
