AboutRyan Expertise I can answer questions about long distance relationships, high school/college relationships, crushes, jealousy, heart break, love at a young age, sex at a young age and talking about marriage when you're in your teens. I can also help if your parents dissaprove of your bf/gf. I know all the lingo, I know Facebook, IMing, MySpace, etc., so hearing these words won't be new to me.
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Education/Credentials In college for engineering, have taken numerous psychology/sociology classes in college, as well as having a mother who is a psychiatrist.
Expert: Ryan Date: 6/3/2008 Subject: What should I do?
Question I have been talking to my bestie- guyfriend's older brother and I haven't told my boyfriend yet. It's not that i'm hidding it from him its just that it never comes to mind when we're talking.
well, my friend's older brother likes me and is trying to get me to go out with him n he knows by now I already have someone. My friend, who's his little brother, confessed to me he's had a crush on me since 2yrs ago and his upset about the fact that his brother's trying to date me and pushing him out of the picture.
2 brothers wanna date me and I have a boyfriend who i am in love with.
what should I do?
Answer Nenou,
I had the same problem with my gf about 2 years ago. Some friend of hers confessed to "being in love with her since the 9th grade", but of course, she still had me.
You're in a loving relationship, and I'm sure you don't want it to end. You need to tell the two brothers that there is nothing there, and that nothing will happen. Tell them that if they can't respect it, then you can't be mutual with them. I'd also tell your bf too, because if he did find out, and knew you were hiding it, well then, there's a whole new problem. Make sure you reassure your bf that you stood up for him and yourself.
